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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who else finds it quite rude and annoying getting friend invites without as much as a "hello, how are you?". XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get it all the time but just ignore as most polite people will chat first then invite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same here, they tend to be single guys just pic collecting I think xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my pet hate.

Couples and women are the worst culprits and get extremely huffy when I message them to tell them to sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems like in this forum people just want to constantly slag off single guys do you think it be better if it was a couples only site as we have had some couples who are timewaster and are just as bad i think you should start giving them a break as theres good and bad in all profiles

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We used to block single guys that couldn't be bothered to at least say "hello" before sending a friends invite. These days we just delete the request be it from a single or a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks. we aint all bad. Even I get random friends requests

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By *oobsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I can fully understand why some people feel a little shy and move straight to a wink or friends request.

However we take not messaging first as showing very little creativity.

We ignore most winks and all unsolicited friends requests. In fact we only friend people we've met or would very much like to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask in our profile text that people should not send us friend invites without messaging first, but we still get them! We also say in our profile what a wink means to us.

If they don't correctly or fully read your profile, are they worth bothering wih????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fully agree with you, they probably aren't worth the bother. And also fully appreciate it is not only single guys that do this as their was no mention of a particular gender on our original post. Was just a little bug bear of ours wondered if other people felt the same.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn rude tbh and the fact that we have put it on our status and we still get them just shows the twats don't even have a read b4hand nw that pisses us right off ,propper insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love winks n friend requests . Add me ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples seem to be the worst for us, its just not polite xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peaches lower ur age limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was under the impression that winks are for breaking the ice etc. Just an easy way to say hello we like the look of you.

Random friends invites are a pain in the ass, and I Think its only to gain access to your private gallery lol

but on the whole a wink, then a message is the correct way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be a tendency by some individuals to send blanket friend invites, I wonder how successful that method is?

Does seem rather random too as get invites from so called straight males! Hey ho

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Yep..

We have never had any from single guys..(apart form the ones pretending to be fems or couples) I dont think they can see our profile anyway for some reason only trannies, females and couples are on our 'people who viewed you' list..

On our profile we just ask for people to send a few lines why they sent one..if we think WE are what THEY are looking for we reply..

If we do get a friends invite from someone we have never spoken to we just bin it, and block them..its that easy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peaches lower ur age limit "

For u?

That'll be a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was under the impression that winks are for breaking the ice etc. Just an easy way to say hello we like the look of you.

Random friends invites are a pain in the ass, and I Think its only to gain access to your private gallery lol

but on the whole a wink, then a message is the correct way to go."

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