FabSwingers.com forum: What are we doing wrong ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello you naughty lot , just wondering why it’s like pulling teeth trying to find all the single ladies on here ? Is our profile that bad ? Lol .

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By *inky B and kinky DCouple
over a year ago

pwllheli

Nothing wrong with the profile I think most of us are struggling to find a single female on here

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By *0FLHMan
over a year ago

Devon

Your profile looks good to me.

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By *emptress and GentCouple
over a year ago

Leeds / London

And that's why it's called a unicorn! They are mythical creatures.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

What sort of threesome are you looking for? Is the woman joining you just to play with the man? If not, is she expected to play with a straight woman? You should make it a bit clearer.

Also, you’ve been here for 7 months in a pandemic. A lot of people aren’t even bothering to chat at the moment. Not that it’s ever easy to find someone compatible, but you’ll find it harder than usual right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you are both straight will put a lot off. You sound like you are after a female to help you play with your mr or her play with him whilst you watch. Much harder to find.

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By *ecretsub666Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Personally the only thing that I find would turn me away is using slut and perverts in your profile text.

I agree with above, adding in more information on your ideal threesome would be a benefit.

Good luck!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Personally the only thing that I find would turn me away is using slut and perverts in your profile text."

I wasn’t going to mention that, I prefer people to leave things like that in their profiles so I can use it as a filter.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

those pics of you pissing put me right off from meeting you

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By *oxy babeWoman
over a year ago

gower

For me personally, I would steer clear of a couple where the female is straight and appears that the extra female is there just for the males gratification, some of your photos are off putting too particularly the ones of you pissing.

That said, I hope you find someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for sending reply guys..

We have had a review of our profile and made it clearer (hopefully) what we are looking for. We know watersports isn't for everyone but it's something we really enjoy so feel have to be honest about what we like and want..

Thanks for your advice, good luck to you all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

As others have said, the pandemic has put a lot of people off from even chatting let alone meeting. Personally, I class myself as bi-playful. This would depend on the situation and vibe, that's why I wouldn't arrange to meet a couple.

It's up to you how you run your profile and what you post but I'm not a lover of overly graphic pics.

All the best though and I hope you find what you're looking for

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your open vagina shots are too graphic for me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hello you naughty lot , just wondering why it’s like pulling teeth trying to find all the single ladies on here ? Is our profile that bad ? Lol . "

You acknowledge it is hard finding a single woman but your profile puts extra obstacles in their way - they must send you a face pic first, they must make a phone call and must put "marigold" in subject box.

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"Hello you naughty lot , just wondering why it’s like pulling teeth trying to find all the single ladies on here ? Is our profile that bad ? Lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello you naughty lot , just wondering why it’s like pulling teeth trying to find all the single ladies on here ? Is our profile that bad ? Lol .

Ahh so single ladies don't have to make an effort like single blokes do then ?

I think you will find most profiles insist in a picture or some way of insuring your genuine. So why is it an obstacle for a female rather than a couple or male ?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hello you naughty lot , just wondering why it’s like pulling teeth trying to find all the single ladies on here ? Is our profile that bad ? Lol .

Ahh so single ladies don't have to make an effort like single blokes do then ?

I think you will find most profiles insist in a picture or some way of insuring your genuine. So why is it an obstacle for a female rather than a couple or male ?"

Single women don’t often message first anyway, I know I don’t. And if I was thinking of doing so, I probably wouldn’t bother if there was a code word.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I would add that your pictures to me personally as a bi female, are aimed for the male gaze not the female one.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Your open vagina shots are too graphic for me. "
and it's the first one you see. Leaves nothing to our imagination, which is a great tool if used correctly.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

There are 3 sure-fire ways to massively improving your chances of meeting single ladies on here, and they are...

1. Go to socials

2. Go to socials

3. Go...seriously, havent you got it yet?

Whilst meeting up for sex with someone you barely know, and have just swapped a few messages with, is fun, (we have done it), attending social, meeting people and making friends, is by far the most enjoyable way of "swinging" for us. Letting them see you interacting with others, and socialising, helps people get to know you, and the more they do, the more likely it is that, when you chat, they will be more receptive.

Chasing labels ("unicorn"...such a myth!) like its something to be ticked off a "must do" list, or treating them like a trophy conquest, will not endear you to single ladies.

We have never played with a "unicorn"...but we have played with quite a few of our friends, who are, as it happens, single, bi, and female.

Yes, we are aware that socials arent happening at the moment, but whilst we wait for them, try to make friends.

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