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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering why is there a stigma around swingers and why more swingers aren't open about being a swinger? Thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their work bosses might take a dim view, family might not like it if they found out. Kids might get shit off their friends if they found out. Loads of reasons. Also its our business what we do sexually and no one elses.

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By *r LovecraftMan
over a year ago

RCT/Swansea/Cwmbran


"Their work bosses might take a dim view, family might not like it if they found out. Kids might get shit off their friends if they found out. Loads of reasons. Also its our business what we do sexually and no one elses. "

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By *ia RooCouple
over a year ago

Margam Port Talbot

its a personal thing, we know a few swingers in our street but dont talk about it openly. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to the fact I am, work knows and so do family x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their work bosses might take a dim view, family might not like it if they found out. Kids might get shit off their friends if they found out. Loads of reasons. Also its our business what we do sexually and no one elses. "

^^^^ that is why

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele


"Just wondering why is there a stigma around swingers and why more swingers aren't open about being a swinger? Thoughts "

Any reason you have no pictures?

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By *tressfreezoneMan
over a year ago

cardiff

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By *igger17Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

What annoys me is that it is frowned upon, yet an affiar seems to be more acceptable? At least with swining its all consensual, no secrets. I saw a programme where a lady was sacked for being a swinger, yet another man was caught having an affair and wasnt sacked. Really pisses me off

R x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah my reason is my high profile job and if I was exposed id probably get dismissed sadly

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

The company I work for changed their policy about sexuality and what you do. As long as you don't break the law then as far as they're concern it your business. My boss knows what I do and perfectly fine with it. It's so nice not having to lie anymore in my workplace.

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By *nsatiables21Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"The company I work for changed their policy about sexuality and what you do. As long as you don't break the law then as far as they're concern it your business. My boss knows what I do and perfectly fine with it. It's so nice not having to lie anymore in my workplace. "

As it should be in 2021 and with the times moving forward but unfortunately not all employers seem keen on moving forward with the times

Mrs

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"The company I work for changed their policy about sexuality and what you do. As long as you don't break the law then as far as they're concern it your business. My boss knows what I do and perfectly fine with it. It's so nice not having to lie anymore in my workplace.

As it should be in 2021 and with the times moving forward but unfortunately not all employers seem keen on moving forward with the times

Mrs"

No Mrs they don't always want to evolve and realise were not monsters!

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele


"Yeah my reason is my high profile job and if I was exposed id probably get dismissed sadly"

There's a reason.

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

My reason for no face photos etc is. The woman hitting on me in the streets when they recognise me as a swinger. Only so many I can do a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sensitive job that is public facing and therefore any images / information could potentially put me in breach of my contractual agreement or potentially used against me by disgruntled members of the public

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Just wondering why is there a stigma around swingers and why more swingers aren't open about being a swinger? Thoughts "

Because the British are mostly very prudish sadly.

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

I have to agree the UK is prudish. When buying villas in Spain and France, I just said "we need it private as we are swingers". None of the estate agents missed a beat, and several told us where the nearest clubs were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah my reason is my high profile job and if I was exposed id probably get dismissed sadly"

Hard being in journalism

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Just wondering why is there a stigma around swingers and why more swingers aren't open about being a swinger? Thoughts "

trying not to let our kids find out

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

All of our kids know that we have a swinger lifestyle. It's no big deal and it opens up their eyes to wider possibilities in relationships.

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea


"I have to agree the UK is prudish. When buying villas in Spain and France, I just said "we need it private as we are swingers". None of the estate agents missed a beat, and several told us where the nearest clubs were. "

Wow wouldn’t that be great here

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