FabSwingers.com forum: Threesome stay over

By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

Part of the idea is them staying over and continuing in the fun the following day. (Not quite polyamourous if that makes sense). Just wondering if any of you have had any success with this or if anyone has any thoughts on it. Thanks in advance.

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It's something we've discussed doing with a lady. Will follow this thread with interest.

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx"

So it wasn't your first meet with them? You knew them before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

Definitley a situation I'd love to be involved in, have had a few meets with couples which has gone very well, can imagine extending that beyond the next day would be alot of fun too! Drop me a message if you wanna chat

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By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx"

Did you continue to meet fairly regularly? Any issues?

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx

It was a slow burner drinks out, coffee’s with the lady and shopping. No issues the lady and I were very close xxx

So it wasn't your first meet with them? You knew them before?"

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By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx

It was a slow burner drinks out, coffee’s with the lady and shopping. No issues the lady and I were very close xxx

So it wasn't your first meet with them? You knew them before?"

Thank you. Sounds great!

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx

Did you continue to meet fairly regularly? Any issues?"

Yes we did once/twice a month I never met ‘male’ alone it worked for us x

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx

It was a slow burner drinks out, coffee’s with the lady and shopping. No issues the lady and I were very close xxx

So it wasn't your first meet with them? You knew them before?

Thank you. Sounds great!"

My pleasure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done this with a few females weve played with.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We’ve had “Weekender” meets, it all works well if you enjoy doing the normal day to day stuff with them too like shopping, cooking, tv etc.

Even works around our kids as we have a few sofa beds dotted about & a spare room next to ours.

Still in touch with one lady though not seen them in over a year because we & her have kids that need shielding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to stay over after a night of shenanigans with a couple I used to regularly play with (spare room). Early hours of the morning, fem would come into my room, and enjoy some one to one fun. Initially I thought breakfast would be a little awkward but no issues, great fun and turned out to be great friends. Sadly they moved to the other end of the country and I haven't heard from them. The chemistry has to be there and of course as with any form of swinging, a level of trust

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I used to accommodate quite regularly overnight especially when a couple had travelled a fair distance. The most surreal one of the lot though was on a Saturday night with a couple who were church elders. After a nights orgy, while I cooked the bacon and eggs at 7am they got their best clothes on, and back on the road then in time to be in church, as he was the man who went around with the collection plate gathering up the cash offerings.

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

This has been a topic between us but the differences is that we all go away somewhere where there's a hot tub and room for 3..

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We’ve had sleep overs and long weekends away with our regular girlfriend, even trips abroad

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By *art23Man
over a year ago

Barry

Hi before COVID an x workmate and his wife and I meet for a few drinks after a works night out I was invited to there house to have a few more drinks and was offered to stay over in the spare bedroom. We started playing spin the bottle if you no the game and we were all naked by the end lol and then we run out of clothes to remove so Tim said we will play dares which invoked me kissing his wife and the rest was just wow. I did get regular invites but they have now split up and Tim moved to London. Great times would love a regular mature couple to meet and have a mutual understanding if that’s the word lol. X

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

We had a lady we were comfortable enough to do this with for a few months before the covid situation began, but as time passed and her visits became more often we began to understand her interests were in different directions to our own so we had to part company. Fun while it lasted though and I do miss those times so I hope when it's wize to resume meets we will find a new lady to come be with us and have more mutual fun.

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

I was seeing a couple regularly before the lockdown and we all become good friends.

I had meets for one offs with couples but the best fun has come from when you get to them better first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone into 3 way sharing drop me a message got a female up 4 it but not till covid restrictions lifted

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

‘3 way sharing’ is a little different lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this,and Dee has had regular weekend stayovers in the past x

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hi all. C and I have been discussing a fantasy of ours where we become comfortable enough with a single female or male that we can all hang out and have regular fun.

I have done this before with a regular couple I met I enjoyed as did they xx"
wed love to have a lady who we meet regularly. Just finding one is the problem.

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

Finding the right couple is also very difficult x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding the right couple is also very difficult x"

Even finding geuine full swap cpls is hard enough let alone finding a geuine single lady to play with.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Finding the right couple is also very difficult x"
helloooo!!!!

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By *lease300Woman
over a year ago

merthyr

"Finding the right couple is also very difficult xhelloooo!!!!"

Lol x

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

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By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

Totally agree. I suppose when we've discussed ot its been a single male. It may be something that's better as a fantasy and not something meant to be made reality. Thanks everyone. Much appreciated.

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By * and C OP Couple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

"Totally agree. I suppose when we've discussed ot its been a single male. It may be something that's better as a fantasy and not something meant to be made reality. Thanks everyone. Much appreciated."

Plus its one of many things we've discussed so we have plenty of endeavours to keep is entertained

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Finding the right couple is also very difficult xhelloooo!!!!

Lol x"
shall we say hi then?

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By *umpybumpyMan
over a year ago

Newport

I’ve done this with a couple a while ago, but didn’t stay over the first time. A few socials and a few meets in “neutral ground” was how we started. Then went over for dinner one evening (they lived in the middle of nowhere) as I was passing by them on the way home.

A lovely dinner and one too many wines and the offer to stay over was take up.

Not much sleeping had, and woken up by a rather sexy alarm clock too!

Did that a few times after but then, sadly, they emigrated. I hope not anything to do with me?!

So definitely fun but needs to be worked towards!

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By *ab Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I did this a few times with a couple I initially met up with in a group situation. We got on so well I was invited to their home and had many meets, some of which involved overnight stays, some just overnight fun hehe.

Then they moved to London and while we initially kept in touch it eventually ended.

The secret is finding someone your both comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i agree. Danger is if the single male catches feelings for the fem as to many meets with the same guy i think is playing with fire and you can get burned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a regular friend with ex gf, started as gf meeting her in a club and she came home and we had a ffm.

Resulted in many many ffm’s and staying over , also resulted in quite a few nights of the 2 ladies having a girls night in / sleepover etc. And still friends with her now, we moved to to the opposite end of the country and later split so the fun ended, quite the pity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’ve met regularly with a couple before, numerous meetings at their place and mine never any issues and very good fun. I think if a male develops feelings for the female in the couple then he’s not on here for the right reasons so you have to be selective and obviously it goes without saying the couple have to be completely secure in their relationship

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

There is also the danger of the female of the couple developing feelings for the single guys that they are meeting, especially if there's already chinks in the armour of their established relationship, and the guy they are meeting has a better standard of living than she is accustomed to. It's happened to me on a few occasions, most notably when after I've met them as a couple, and then she stays over, after trust has been established. All that's supposed to happen is she then relates to him what we got up to the night before with photos, and vids. Then it emerges after a couple of meets that he knew nothing about these encounters, and the shit hits the fan. After the last fiasco I did sware that I would only have single women staying over, and only couples for an overnight party with others. No doubt though if temptation is put in my way, I doubt that I will be able to resist.

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By *en_hornyguyMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

When i lived up north i used to meet a couple once a month and stay over theirs for weekend. Was great fun.

Its all about building up that trust and respect first over first few meets. Getting to know ewch other fully. We were like proper friends then but from a 3way sex perspective. I missed that. Hard enough on here for single guys lol

I would be open to that again. So if any couples interested love to chat. I can accom or travel for sleep overs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done this in the past it has and hasn’t worked think it very much depends on the dynamics of it. When I have accommodated at mine it has generally gone really well all happy and relaxed no pressure come and go as you please. I did meet one couple at there’s who wanted me to stay for the weekend after lengthy chats about how it would work and some limits discussed we all agreed that it would work. First night went really well food, a few drinks had some great hot play and off to bed in the spare room next morning all ok. It felt a bit strange at first during the day but to be honest now when I see them it’s like we have known each other for 10 years. My only thing would be discuss what you want first set your limits and stick to them if you want to change anything talk about it with everyone. It will make it so much easier in the long run.

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By *wifterMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Hi. If you wanted to try it out then I would be happy to your overnight guest. I am good company and enjoy a chat as well as sex. I am sociable, respectful and not demanding or unreasonable. You will find me a very sociable and easy going house guest. Simon. Xx

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By *ooleysCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

That actually sounds fun, of anything gives you more time to relax. I find meets are very forced, sometimes feels rushed or a little awkward starting off first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That actually sounds fun, of anything gives you more time to relax. I find meets are very forced, sometimes feels rushed or a little awkward starting off first time

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That is the gear thing about weekend/ overnight meets there is no rush no time limits and A lot more relaxed.

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