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Do gay women like sex with men?

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I know strange question and yes I know gay women love other women. But do any gay women like having sex with men?

Just wondered

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I know strange question and yes I know gay women love other women. But do any gay women like having sex with men?

Just wondered "

I would have presumed if they did then they would be bi sexual and not gay.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why on earth would they?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Do you enjoy having sex with men, OP?

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I don’t know that’s why I asked. I’m guessing if you’re truely Bi you fancy both sexes, physically and mentally. While being gay is it only the same sex. I don’t know. I’ve had some experiences with other men being there, threesums etc. But do I consider myself truely Bi.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I agree OP, its a strange question.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I agree OP, its a strange question. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gay woman who likes having sex with men... would probably be a bisexual.

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I thought a bi person was physically and mentally attracted to both sexes. Could a person enjoy the physical (act) but not be the attraction. I don’t I’m just putting it out there. I guess there’s got to be some level of physical attraction.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I thought a bi person was physically and mentally attracted to both sexes. Could a person enjoy the physical (act) but not be the attraction. I don’t I’m just putting it out there. I guess there’s got to be some level of physical attraction."

I don’t have sex with people I’m not attracted to, regardless of gender. I think most people would probably feel the same. A lesbian *might* enjoy the physical act and be willing to just keep her eyes closed, but it’s unlikely. And most lesbians don’t feel like men have anything to offer them sexually - if they want penetration, there are strap-ons, and most men can’t give oral as well as a lesbian can (some can, but they’re a rare breed). Also consider the fact that many lesbians don’t even like bi women, they see us as “tainted” by having sex with men. If they feel like that, they certainly wouldn’t allow a man anywhere near them.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I agree OP, its a strange question. "

Whoa on now, compared to some of the questions I’ve heard in my time, this is quite normal.

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

I didn’t realise that gay women didn’t get on with Bi. Good points and I agree on the attraction comment.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I thought a bi person was physically and mentally attracted to both sexes. Could a person enjoy the physical (act) but not be the attraction. I don’t I’m just putting it out there. I guess there’s got to be some level of physical attraction."

It comes down to the complete differences between men and women obv...so a guy woman is not going enjoy sex with a man unless bisexual...so they only are attracted to women..same with men..ask yourself this question..are you guy or straight? If your guy, then your tendecys would be to have sex with men only...unless your bi...its pretty self explanatory really OP

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I didn’t realise that gay women didn’t get on with Bi. Good points and I agree on the attraction comment."

Some don’t have a problem with us, but some do. Just like some people have a problem with bi men because they have sex with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a bi person was physically and mentally attracted to both sexes. Could a person enjoy the physical (act) but not be the attraction. I don’t I’m just putting it out there. I guess there’s got to be some level of physical attraction."

Nope you got that wrong. Mental attraction is for women.i am fully bisexual. Attracted sexually/physically to both sexes. But only mentally/emotionally attracted to women. Hence why i am in love with jenny. John

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I thought a bi person was physically and mentally attracted to both sexes. Could a person enjoy the physical (act) but not be the attraction. I don’t I’m just putting it out there. I guess there’s got to be some level of physical attraction.

Nope you got that wrong. Mental attraction is for women.i am fully bisexual. Attracted sexually/physically to both sexes. But only mentally/emotionally attracted to women. Hence why i am in love with jenny. John"

That’s your experience, but not everyone’s, so it’s best not to state it as a blanket fact for someone who may be confused about bisexuality. One way of looking at it is that you’re bisexual and heteroromantic, but there are plenty of bi people who are bisexual and biromantic and would have relationships with any gender.

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

So should I throw in the question. What does mean to be a pansexual?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should I throw in the question. What does mean to be a pansexual?"

The way it’s been explained to me is that for pansexual people, gender plays no part in attraction. In practice I’m not sure how that actually feels, because for me gender does play a part in that I’m attracted to different genders in different ways. And I don’t just mean that in the sense of different physical features, I mean my attraction to a man feels different to my attraction to a woman or a non-binary person.

Also, pansexual means attracted to all genders, while bisexual means attracted to two or more genders, but not necessarily all. Most of the time, from the outside, there’s no visible difference between bi and pan.

Some people try to say that one is transphobic and the other isn’t, but that’s either because they’ve been misinformed, or because they’re trying to cause trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*asked a friend *

Her reply.

So I'm lesbian. Why would I want sex with a man if I prefer girls?

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

So I guess that’s where a post op person falls into. Interesting wonder what the next classification will be. Imagine if they every discovered an alien race and they were friendly

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So I guess that’s where a post op person falls into. Interesting wonder what the next classification will be. Imagine if they every discovered an alien race and they were friendly "

I don’t know what you mean by this. If you mean a trans person who has had gender confirmation surgery, they “fall into” whatever their gender is. A trans woman is a woman, a trans man is a man. They’re not some extra sub-gender, and a person doesn’t have to be pansexual (or whatever) to be attracted to them. When I talk about “all genders” or “two or more genders”, I’m talking about non-binary people.

And just FYI - comparing trans people to aliens isn’t funny, please don’t do it.

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By *jedsuk OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

Wasn’t comparing trans to alien. Was just generating further debate (chat). The alien reference was to generate further thoughts about labels (categories) and would somebody actually take that step alien human interplanetary relations lol.

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