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By *unky harry OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Is it me but' there are arragunt people that don't reply. They just read delete or block you it costs nothing to reply how rude and bad manners..I think we have been through enough..They made the effort to read your profile so please just put a smile on their faces.....

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

From the faqs

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me but' there are arragunt people that don't reply. They just read delete or block you it costs nothing to reply how rude and bad manners..I think we have been through enough..They made the effort to read your profile so please just put a smile on their faces....."

You sound very entitled

It really won't do you any favours

If someone doesn't reply, or deletes your message and/or blocks you, just take it to mean they aren't interested and move on. Nobody has to reply to you, and it is not rude not to reply

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’m not even going to reply to the rest of the entitled whinge, the forums have at least two similar threads a day and it’s boring. The part that really bothers me though is this bit:


"I think we have been through enough."

I assume by “been through enough” you mean covid, lockdown etc. Do you really think you not getting a reply is on a par with people losing loved ones? And are you really trying to guilt-trip people into replying to you because you’ve “been through enough”? Do you ever stop and think that maybe the person you’re messaging has “been through enough” and doesn’t need some entitled bloke (who probably hasn’t read their profile whatever you claim) pestering them for a reply? I’m sorry but your attitude is really out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*grabs popcorn

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m not even going to reply to the rest of the entitled whinge, the forums have at least two similar threads a day and it’s boring. The part that really bothers me though is this bit:

I think we have been through enough.

I assume by “been through enough” you mean covid, lockdown etc. Do you really think you not getting a reply is on a par with people losing loved ones? And are you really trying to guilt-trip people into replying to you because you’ve “been through enough”? Do you ever stop and think that maybe the person you’re messaging has “been through enough” and doesn’t need some entitled bloke (who probably hasn’t read their profile whatever you claim) pestering them for a reply? I’m sorry but your attitude is really out of order."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, no one owes anyone anything on this site. I do t take offence to a no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not even going to reply to the rest of the entitled whinge, the forums have at least two similar threads a day and it’s boring. The part that really bothers me though is this bit:

I think we have been through enough.

I assume by “been through enough” you mean covid, lockdown etc. Do you really think you not getting a reply is on a par with people losing loved ones? And are you really trying to guilt-trip people into replying to you because you’ve “been through enough”? Do you ever stop and think that maybe the person you’re messaging has “been through enough” and doesn’t need some entitled bloke (who probably hasn’t read their profile whatever you claim) pestering them for a reply? I’m sorry but your attitude is really out of order."

This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do t mind no reply but if they are not interested please delete then we know we are not what they are looking for

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No reply = no interest. Dear with it. The FAQs make this very clear

If you can't handle it, it's not the site for you. Wait until clubs reopen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with? "

Don't know, they never replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with? "

Blast from tne past jason and the argonauts

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Blast from tne past jason and the argonauts "

Was either them or a giant spider in Harry Potter. Scared the shit out of me that did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do t mind no reply but if they are not interested please delete then we know we are not what they are looking for"

Delete your sent messages

It saves you the worry of keeping on checking

If you get a reply, great

If not, assume no interest

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By *Psaucy67Man
over a year ago

Swansea

When I first joined fab (over 10 years ago) the first few weeks I thought the same! How rude people are lol

Then I realised I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, it’s a swinging site not just a sex site.

The way I think is If people don’t reply don’t worry it’s their loss. (they’ve missed out on this 53 year old average body stud lol)

I’ve had some amazing experiences with couples and single women.

Made some great friends on the way who I still keep in contact with. if you know what I mean

I have also had the privilege of meeting some lovely people at the Swansea, Neath Cardiff and Newport socials as a single male and as part of a couple.

Roll on when the socials start again. Xx

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Always delete sent messages after they are sent is just a habbit now

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By *iminey_cricketsMan
over a year ago

barbican


"Is it me but' there are arragunt people that don't reply. They just read delete or block you it costs nothing to reply how rude and bad manners..I think we have been through enough..They made the effort to read your profile so please just put a smile on their faces....."

Yes, you. You’re the arrogant* one. No one owes you anything. And yes it does cost something to reply; time. I doubt you have any idea how many messages couples and women get on this site.

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By *elshman1967 99Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I had a flyer through the door this morning from my local pizza house offering 2 for 1 on any 12 inch pizza , do you think i should ring them to say no thanks ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I had a flyer through the door this morning from my local pizza house offering 2 for 1 on any 12 inch pizza , do you think i should ring them to say no thanks ? "

Yes, and then go through your junk folder in your emails and and do the same thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women/couples on fab would need to employ a PA to reply to everyone, I friend of mine on here had 190 unopened mails, unfortunately it’s the way it is, just need to find a way of dealing with It I suppose, happy fabbing

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not seen the op pop up and defend himself, probably too busy not replying to all the mail he's got from this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me but' there are arragunt people that don't reply. They just read delete or block you it costs nothing to reply how rude and bad manners..I think we have been through enough..They made the effort to read your profile so please just put a smile on their faces.....

Yes, you. You’re the arrogant* one. No one owes you anything. And yes it does cost something to reply; time. I doubt you have any idea how many messages couples and women get on this site. "

This!!!! So many who are out my age brackets and ask for Snapchat etc when my profile clearly states I don’t , or they’re unverified etc.... if I see they haven’t read profile then why would I waste time replying to them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not seen the op pop up and defend himself, probably too busy not replying to all the mail he's got from this thread. "

Not the Mail he wanted either I bet lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with? "

Fleas - its the Golden Fleas

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Fleas - its the Golden Fleas "

Well the fleece may have had fleas, I’m not to sure, if it did have fleas though I doubt they’d be gold though

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Blast from tne past jason and the argonauts "

Was a good good movie that, I wasn’t to fussed on that woman who would turn you to stone just by looking at you though. Reminds me of the ex wife (shudders)

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not even going to reply to the rest of the entitled whinge, the forums have at least two similar threads a day and it’s boring. The part that really bothers me though is this bit:

I think we have been through enough.

I assume by “been through enough” you mean covid, lockdown etc. Do you really think you not getting a reply is on a par with people losing loved ones? And are you really trying to guilt-trip people into replying to you because you’ve “been through enough”? Do you ever stop and think that maybe the person you’re messaging has “been through enough” and doesn’t need some entitled bloke (who probably hasn’t read their profile whatever you claim) pestering them for a reply? I’m sorry but your attitude is really out of order."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Fleas - its the Golden Fleas

Well the fleece may have had fleas, I’m not to sure, if it did have fleas though I doubt they’d be gold though "

Porridge!!

Have you not seen the episode with Bunny (Warren) quoting the ‘fleas’?!

Or is it just my age showing.......

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By *ack girlWoman
over a year ago

bridgend


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Don't know, they never replied. "

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Fleas - its the Golden Fleas

Well the fleece may have had fleas, I’m not to sure, if it did have fleas though I doubt they’d be gold though

Porridge!!

Have you not seen the episode with Bunny (Warren) quoting the ‘fleas’?!

Or is it just my age showing....... "

God I haven’t seen that one in years, it’s ringing a bell now actually lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arragunt ? Arnt these the guys Jason set sail to find the Golden Fleece with?

Fleas - its the Golden Fleas

Well the fleece may have had fleas, I’m not to sure, if it did have fleas though I doubt they’d be gold though

Porridge!!

Have you not seen the episode with Bunny (Warren) quoting the ‘fleas’?!

Or is it just my age showing.......

God I haven’t seen that one in years, it’s ringing a bell now actually lol "

It still makes me laugh now

Altho, tbh all the Porridge episodes are good

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Yeah they are, anything Ronnie barker is in, but porridge is one of the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They too busy mailing me plus I think if nobody gets back to you is up to them and is just no.. simple maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah they are, anything Ronnie barker is in, but porridge is one of the best "

Sorry to continue this, but Ronnie Barker is a comedy timing genius

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By *ardiffGeekMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The lack of reply speaks volumes. While it's nice to have a "sorry you sent my type reply" if someone reads it and doesn't reply or deletes it take it as a no.

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