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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m always stuck on how to approach on what to say when it comes to women when it comes to a first message which is preferred lovely sweetheart hun or love ?? Thoughts please

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Personally I don’t want to be called pet names by a stranger, and judging by other comments I’ve seen in the forums, most women don’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so would you prefer to

Be called your username then

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Okay so would you prefer to

Be called your username then "

I want people to read my profile and be polite in their message. Starting the message “hi” or “hi Dirty Pretty” makes no difference either way, it’s what follows it that’s important.

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west


"I’m always stuck on how to approach on what to say when it comes to women when it comes to a first message which is preferred lovely sweetheart hun or love ?? Thoughts please "

None..

They aint your sweetheart

A man should not use the word "hun" haha

Love is shit

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Okay so would you prefer to

Be called your username then

I want people to read my profile and be polite in their message. Starting the message “hi” or “hi Dirty Pretty” makes no difference either way, it’s what follows it that’s important."

Alreet baby, faf? not the best message but sadly not the worst

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I’m always stuck on how to approach on what to say when it comes to women when it comes to a first message which is preferred lovely sweetheart hun or love ?? Thoughts please

None..

They aint your sweetheart

A man should not use the word "hun" haha

Love is shit

"

As above, simply no to all. All messages with some form of shit pet name just get deleted unread.

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We always use their profile name or where available the name that shows just above their stats. Not fans either of pet names used to speak to or from strangers .

Reserve them for each other and close friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message anyone as I'm so insanely popular they contact me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just start with a hi is a good one lol oh and if possible something nice and not offensive will get u far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a first message once which said "Alright Shithead?" and he turned out to be one of the best people I have ever met.

Miss P will do, or most just refer to me as P

Love, babe, hun etc are a no no for me

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

Don’t like the pet names, or the hun babe sexy etc, just use the usernames until we actually get to know each other or we tell you our names.

Try to be honest and chatty without being smutty or smarmy with the chat.

After all we all know why we are, but we should still be able to be given some respect.

B & B xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a first message once which said "Alright Shithead?" and he turned out to be one of the best people I have ever met.

Miss P will do, or most just refer to me as P

Love, babe, hun etc are a no no for me "

Did I? Haha x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Had a first message once which said "Alright Shithead?" and he turned out to be one of the best people I have ever met.

Miss P will do, or most just refer to me as P

Love, babe, hun etc are a no no for me "

I get called hun all the time, thought it was a Welsh thing along with lovely.

I don't call strangers hun myself though but I'm not against others calling me hun or lovely as it's not exactly a bad thing now is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a first message once which said "Alright Shithead?" and he turned out to be one of the best people I have ever met.

Miss P will do, or most just refer to me as P

Love, babe, hun etc are a no no for me

Did I? Haha x"

Fuck, you probably called me far worse

Partial to the odd bit of verbal abuse see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our username would be best. We would know to who the message is intended firstly. Hun sweetheart love babe none of these will garner a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As ours is a couples account and the first message is a high hun type then it'll have zero chance of getting a reply.

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By *ilf and couples hunterMan
over a year ago

port talbot

I think women dont like being calked hun or love when i message someone i always say hi so and so and i always say how are you but i always read they re profiles but if they dont like a how are you just say hi so and so what you been upto ..

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By *ilf and couples hunterMan
over a year ago

port talbot

Didnt realize that miss p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merry Christmas to all and thanks to the Lord who kept us safe for this Christmas &

May have many more.

God Bless you all

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

1st message should always read "hi hun, wanna bonk?"

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