FabSwingers.com forum: Directness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have been on Fab about a month, chat in chat rooms, wonder should i be more direct, i find it difficult to say certain things in the room, and feel a pvt message maybe too forward, any advice welcome.

Mike

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would day rule no 1 would be that if a couple or fem has not looking for guys then don't pm asking " I know u don't meet guys but just thought I'd try my luck " , why would they change their minds just cos it's u lol , just try saying hello to a few people but remember just because they reply with a " hi " it doesnt necessarily mean they want to get into a conversation with u they're just being polite , we hate it when a guy says hello and just because we reply the next message is " can I pm u " . As for

being direct You'll just have to try and gauge whether or not they seem interested before u dive in head first , if they're just responding to questions and not trying to find out anything about u then chances are they're not interested

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat rooms are mearly that, chat rooms. Just be yourself. Not pushy. People will chat to you if you persevere.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi the only way to realy get on is meet people then they can see who you are get to a social theres one near you wherever you are a social is the same as a chat room exept face to face then see how it goes

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can he meet people if he can't even get people to chat to him lol

BTW Hi Squish

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback, must admit i am better in person, and i will be attending a social soon, i will carryon being myself in the rooms,

btw, hi back cariad