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By *implyjames OP   Man
over a year ago

little town called home

Just wondered why is it attached or married men get such a hard time on here and attached or married women don't lol..... im a fine believer in do not judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

following

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating.

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By *implyjames OP   Man
over a year ago

little town called home


"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating."

I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are popping up all over the place. Its human nature to judge unfortunately. If it’s not about marital status, it will be something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why is it attached or married men get such a hard time on here and attached or married women don't lol..... im a fine believer in do not judge "

That's feminism for you .

Before I get flamed for that... I am a firm believer in equal rights. But it seems in certain situations it isn't always equal, as the OP points out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating.

I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances "

By judge do you mean they don't want to meet you?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Just wondered why is it attached or married men get such a hard time on here and attached or married women don't lol..... im a fine believer in do not judge

That's feminism for you .

Before I get flamed for that... I am a firm believer in equal rights. But it seems in certain situations it isn't always equal, as the OP points out . "

I don’t know why you think it’s feminism. It’s not even a double standard - something is only a double standard if it’s the same person/people holding men and women to different standards. In this case, it isn’t the same people. It’s (most) men having a different view on it than (most) women, and because most of the men on here want women, women cheating seems more accepted. Women who won’t meet cheats won’t meet cheating women any more than they’ll meet cheating men, they’re not sitting there going “you cheating men are scum, but all the cheating women can fuck me”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally wouldn't knowingly meet either so no double standards here

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By *implyjames OP   Man
over a year ago

little town called home


"We do get a hard time actually. Mostly from women and couples but sometimes from men as well. But the fact is, most men really don’t care if a woman is cheating, as long as she’s willing to cheat with them. Women mostly do care if a man is cheating.

I just dont understand why people have to judge everyone has their own reasons and circumstances

By judge do you mean they don't want to meet you? "

No im good with people not meeting me everyone has the preferences

There just seems to be a lot of statuses or forum posts slating married or attached guys rather than girls

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By *irtywildsideMan
over a year ago

Barry

I’d wager there are more status about married men because there are probably more married/attached men on fab than married/attached women.

Everyone has their reasons for being on fab. It doesn’t bother me personally as I don’t have the right to judge another persons moral compass . It’s just one of those things that some people are ok with and others aren’t. If you are ok with meeting attached people that’s cool and if you aren’t then that is fine as well

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