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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

We have had loads of guys on Couples profiles message us.

Blunt message back and instantly block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

"

Shameful and pitiful.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"We have had loads of guys on Couples profiles message us.

Blunt message back and instantly block them."

Oh, he'll be going onto the block list.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

Shameful and pitiful."

That's right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly. "

Maybe I should start doing that more often.

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By *illon-UKMan
over a year ago

Hull

Caerphilly is that anywhere near Pontypool?

Crap at geography lol

....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly. "

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

"

Charming, hope he doesn’t speak to his wife like that. In 8 years being on here and other sites I can honestly say I I’ve never spoken to anyone like that. Not that I can recollect anyway. I tend to let some of my real life personality spill over into the online world and I’d never even consider speaking to someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

Charming, hope he doesn’t speak to his wife like that. In 8 years being on here and other sites I can honestly say I I’ve never spoken to anyone like that. Not that I can recollect anyway. I tend to let some of my real life personality spill over into the online world and I’d never even consider speaking to someone like that. "

Totally agree, manners and respect cost nothing.

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By *ill2k82Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

"

'Toffy nosed bitch' thats a new one lol

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

Sucks to know this goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on OP

Don't let it bother you

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By *ocialguy79Man
over a year ago

blackwood


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

"

I'd wondered where you had gone you have blocked me lol

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Why pretend to be a couple if your just a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why pretend to be a couple if your just a guy "

They find it easier to get a meet with either a female or couple and then pretend their fem couldn’t make it for some spurious reason.

Quite pathetic.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It's never a good idea to message someone a 'no thanks'.

The replies can be barmy enough, but messaging someone also negates them from any message filters you might use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe the odd one out here. All the rejection messages I get are followed up with, thanks for actually replying and best of luck for the future. After all it is their choice.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It's never a good idea to message someone a 'no thanks'.

The replies can be barmy enough, but messaging someone also negates them from any message filters you might use.

"

It also, months or a year later, when they look at your profile and see “they emailed you X months ago”, makes them message you all chatty like you were really talking to them rather than just saying “no ta”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always a shame as always someone trying it on, we have been fortunate to not have this happen but when looking round have seen a few clearly using this tack tick

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By *ercman50Man
over a year ago

blackwood

I’ve Been called lots of names over the years.

but the old saying bricks and stones will break your bones names will never hurt me

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I maybe the odd one out here. All the rejection messages I get are followed up with, thanks for actually replying and best of luck for the future. After all it is their choice."

No your not, it’s just called being a grown up and having common courtesy. Respect and courtesy are in pretty short supply in a world of anonymity like the internet. Half the people on here who give abuse would get their teeth knocked out if they spoke to someone like that in real life.

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By *eviationMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

I personally prefer a "no thanks"

To the appearance of being ignored

Just lets you know and dont mind being blocked after lol

No grief given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this shit from guys too looool just part of the package I guess haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly. "

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block all accounts that don't respond to my messages after a day or two. Solves lots of issues. If I happen to bump in to them at a social or in a club and we get talking, then they are unblocked.

Unfortunately women on here get literally messages running out of their ears in a very short space of time.

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By *illon-UKMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Caerphilly is that anywhere near Pontypool?

Crap at geography lol

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Google maps lol found it... See you in Wales soon when the restrictions lift

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly. "

Nothing wrong with deleting. I find I know where I am then. I block them not because I’m pissed off but I know I’m not what they’re after so it saves any bother for both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pathetic this type of person is.. keep your head up tho we all aint this bad x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There we go again. Supposed to be a couple, hidden their profile, all you get is the male texting you. You say no thanks and you get this as a reply: 'Stick it up ya cunt then ya toffy nosed bitch! Lol'

"

An everyday occurrence just move on, Plenty of other offers from decent genuine people Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to get this all the time so just gave up on the polite "thanks but no thanks" messages. I feel so rude just deleting, but it is the lesser of two evils sadly.

Nothing wrong with deleting. I find I know where I am then. I block them not because I’m pissed off but I know I’m not what they’re after so it saves any bother for both parties "

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By *r3sureMan
over a year ago

Mold

I've been on here for a few years now and my free time is limited and I don't often message women/couples but when I do if I get a no thanks I just leave it be or say OK no worries, because I know the lovely single ladies on this site get bombarded with messages by idiots and it makes it harder for the genuine polite males messages to be read.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Lots of new profiles recently, lockdown? A lot very pushy and quite suspicious... shame really

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By *affman71Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

He sounds like a nice guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why winks are better than messaging.

If you want to interact you wink back

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"This is why winks are better than messaging.

If you want to interact you wink back"

Agree, unfortunately people just think it’s lazy instead of another way to strike up a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that even a “thanks but no thanks” receives a shitty reply these days.... usually from an unverified pic profile with limited info on it etc. These ones I usually ignore.

It’s the ones with multiple veris who get shitty that I don’t understand, they should know better

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Just had a shitty message from a guy because we deleted his message unread.

He wanted a dogging meet now!!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Just had a shitty message from a guy because we deleted his message unread.

He wanted a dogging meet now!! "

Well what are you waiting for!!!!???

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By *lare_thomas38TV/TS
over a year ago

my town

This really does my head in!

I had a couple message me a few months back. Set up a meet and they cancelled. Rearranged for 2 weeks later. When I asked if they had booked the room, I was blocked and they wouldn’t answer the phone. I was fuming!

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By *andRCouple
over a year ago

barry

Can't believe the lengths some single guys go to to try and pretend to be a couple. Why, they always get found out and then usually respond shitily like everyone should want to meet them . We had a similar experience on another site, block and move on. Xx G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t get this why do men A) think it’s acceptable to pretend to be a cpl and get shitty when there advance is rejected. And B) send abusive messages as single males when women and cpls aren’t dropping at there feet. It spoils it for us genuine guys who enjoy messaging and meeting.

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

Best black people who are not what your looking for. I do it all the time. My list then only shows potentials. Saves time all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don’t get this why do men A) think it’s acceptable to pretend to be a cpl and get shitty when there advance is rejected. And B) send abusive messages as single males when women and cpls aren’t dropping at there feet. It spoils it for us genuine guys who enjoy messaging and meeting. "

Because some guys are just born dicks. They spoil it for the good guys on here.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Best black people who are not what your looking for. I do it all the time. My list then only shows potentials. Saves time all round."

Bloody hell I had to read that twice

I'm slower than normal after overdosing on mince pies.

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Some people are just so rude, block and move on, no point wasting your time on people like that...annoys the shit out of me,manners cost nothing.x

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

What we find so bizarre is the expectation to just drop everything and meet.

95% of the time we are just catching up & chatting. Occasionally we might be up for meeting.

Just because we don't reply right now isn't actually an automatic rejection necessarily. Just take it for what it is.

We've had occasional chats and have ended up meeting 18 months later. Any time we get anything remotely rude it's a block.

And don't forget from a couples and presumably a single woman's perspective, even with the huge number of guys here chasing meets, a crazy number really aren't here to meet when it comes down to it (presumably attached / married).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don’t get this why do men A) think it’s acceptable to pretend to be a cpl and get shitty when there advance is rejected. And B) send abusive messages as single males when women and cpls aren’t dropping at there feet. It spoils it for us genuine guys who enjoy messaging and meeting.

Because some guys are just born dicks. They spoil it for the good guys on here. "

Such a shame really. It does spoils it for everyone really because there are some great people on here and just a handful of dicks spoiling it.

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