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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know we have bewn in lockdown but why do people just not reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, no one is under any obligation to reply... I've had a couple that haven't replied, but just move on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I do..... Just be nice to have a reply lmao

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By *edexcitementCouple
over a year ago

Blackwood

If we had to reply to every message we wouldn’t have any time left in the day, I mean that respectfully. When we have males message us saying “meet now” or anything along those lines that’s a definite ignore and also anyone who messages us above or below our age range as it states quite obviously on our profile - also we get ignored too, if you don’t get a reply it just means they aren’t interested, it’s not a personal attack just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the sheer volume of messages means most will not even get looked at. People are not generally rude. But could you imagine keeping up with hundreds of messages a day?

Just don't take offense. Doubtful that any is meant.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Don't take it personally OP, it's best you just move on and not let it clog your mind space.

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Some of the ladies on here get hundreds of messages a day (I’ve seen their inboxes). It’s just simply not possible to read each message let alone reply to them. Especially when you factor in the filtering time required to separate the wheat from the chaff

An empty mail box is just one of the benefits of being a single man on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we had to reply to every message we wouldn’t have any time left in the day, I mean that respectfully. When we have males message us saying “meet now” or anything along those lines that’s a definite ignore and also anyone who messages us above or below our age range as it states quite obviously on our profile - also we get ignored too, if you don’t get a reply it just means they aren’t interested, it’s not a personal attack just move on "

I mean lt

This!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

OP if you look through the forum's you'll find countless posts on the exact same thing and you get the same responses!

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By *ittleLillyTV/TS
over a year ago

Pontypool

No one owes you anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I do..... Just be nice to have a reply lmao"

Read the FAQ's.

No reply means no thanks.

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By *ynonValleyBullMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

You need to chill out mate... just enjoy the scenery, chat in the forums and now and then you get a invite to play... if your after instant gratification at a time and place if your choosing there are some excellent professionals that provide that service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes thru your letterbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes thru your letterbox "

Excellent point.

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By *eviationMan
over a year ago

Brynamman

"Oh how could i possibly reply to the hundreds of messages i get"

Hide your profile once in a while would help

A reply is nice if someones taken the effort then BLOCK

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By *atXXXMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Use the wink button to test the waters and move on, no point in letting it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one owes you anything. "

I think this sums it up in a simple sentence

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By *wosWoman
over a year ago

east london

Because " have you been up to much ?" Is a very stupid question and it really makes me mad ..

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By *edexcitementCouple
over a year ago

Blackwood


""Oh how could i possibly reply to the hundreds of messages i get"

Hide your profile once in a while would help

A reply is nice if someones taken the effort then BLOCK"

Why would people hide their profile just to reply to people and say “no”? I don’t think people deserve the time of day if they don’t read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Oh how could i possibly reply to the hundreds of messages i get"

Hide your profile once in a while would help

A reply is nice if someones taken the effort then BLOCK"

We still get plenty of messages along the lines of do you want to meet now even though our profile is pretty clear that we don't so we simply don't reply, we have no intention of hiding our profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies.... Think i was having a bad day lmao

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By *ilverstriderMan
over a year ago

narberth


"I know we have bewn in lockdown but why do people just not reply"

Ladies and couples have got a lot of choice on here, us single guys have to work hard to get a reply, be polite, respectful and read thier profiles thier interacts, fantasies ect you will eventually find a lady that your both interests are similar and they'll respond

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By *espectfull but filthyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Possibly look at the content of your message - tailor it to the profile to make a connection. I tend to read profiles and only message people who firstly interest me and that there could be a mutual interest in return

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By *ustUS in CardiffCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We always reply to messages that have a content. But for those who think 'Hi there' or Hi guys' warrants any reply we just delete. Simples.

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By *ilko500Man
over a year ago

Swansea

As had been said already some women get literally hundreds of messages in their inbox so whilst it can be frustrating is best to take things with a pinch of salt and try not to be offended.

All you can do is try to stand out with your message, be original but genuine, and try to get a profile picture that is interesting but also accurate.

Good luck!

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