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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

What names have you been called just because you said NO Thanks to a single man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you allowed to say no, surely not. Hahaha

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Cwtch time

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just last night I had a lovely gentleman who I blocked (wasn’t my type so I block and move on) pop a status up saying I was for to up myself, rude and hungry for attention!

Worst I’ve had was someone steal my pictures, put them on his profile saying we were now committed - this was after calling me a racist and telling me how no black man would ever want to go near my ginger cunt

Seriously the mind boggles at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What names have you been called just because you said NO Thanks to a single man?"

Maybe we've been lucky but in the years that we've been on here we could count on one hand the amount of abusive messages we've received..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know the lady who started this thread and she is a class lady. Lovely person and a delight to behold. She wont be spiteful unless really pushed

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We count our selfs lucky as well been on and off swinging for many years . And to my knowledge not Had more than a few only one that sticks out was from a man saying she to fat and would never find anyone els to swing with . My response was easy block and the problem was gone . But it did stuck in her head and we left swinging for a few years then because of it . We been members again this time for about a year and no problems at all .

We make good use of the block button as well it helps us keep track who we think we are suited to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I’ve not had any awful responses. The worst I’ve had is “your loss”.

I’ll take that!!

It’s only been a few weeks mind! There’s still time

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I've deleted posts

You can't use the forums to get round blocks

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

_uietlykinkyme can you please let me know what you mean by your message. I only posted the thread to find out what's the worst people have been called on here because there seem to be so many disrespectful males on here. Nothing happens when you report them and some have got the cheek to offer money for sex.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

[Removed by poster at 03/07/20 18:32:31]

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I got called a narcissistic prick by one for saying I wasn't interested followed by a mass of abuse. I was polite and returned a message to say I wasn't meeting at the moment but would be happy to chat in the future then had a lovely response! (a lady that was!)

Also got called a sad, fat old man followed by a lengthy few sentences about how all men are the same on this site etc. I only dropped a compliment on that one!

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

"

They sound like fantasists. Just block them. No need to even reply to people you are not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got berated by a couple for merely winking at them...the audacity of me eh? I sent a polite apology (for the wink) telling them I'd ensure it wouldn't happen again and they continued the tirade, presumably in a bid to get some sort of response from me so that they could complain about in here. I didn't respond, blocked them and moved on. They are regulars in the Wales forum too and yes they were advertising for men in addition to women and couples. So it isn't just single men that are guilty of being rude although I'll put money on the messages being the male half.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Oh I've had some corkers over the years! I find them amusing now not hurtful! I used to find the ones that go out their way to insult hurtful now I see them as entertainment and push to see how far they'll go before they block !

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

I once had the reply “how dare you message me with a face like that “ albeit on another popular dating site. I never been the best looking and I know and accept that, and when you already got a confidence issue it makes you worse. After a while I just thought fuck it, majority of people I meet seem to like me as a person and seem to enjoy my company. So I go with that, treat me like a friend and I’ll do the same, if you don’t then I’ll stay away from you. I just put it down to some people being really sad.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

It's really sad when people become abusive if you don't meet the other individual criteria. If they say no, move on and accept it. We all can't be every one eye candy.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Often get blocked for being polite on here so don't take it seriously on here these days but do try and treat people with respect

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Yes, a lot of new people have joined the site in the last few months thinking just because you are on this site, you've got to have sex with everyone.

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By *oolybullyMan
over a year ago

Close enough

I find a direct "No Thankyou" suffice. In those two words there are manners, a direct message and enough courtesy shown.

Nobody's time is wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've deleted posts

You can't use the forums to get round blocks "

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

I asked a simple question yesterday what's the worst you've been called on here and some mod put on there you can't use forums to get round blocks. I don't get this. I'm not trying to do that at all.

Don't get also why some people give to the mod.

On this site it seems acceptable to advertise pay for sex or drugs available if wanted but simple questions are criticised.

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By *ercman50Man
over a year ago

blackwood

My Mrs calls me names everyday I’m arsehole a prick everyday

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By *ina JonesTV/TS
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I asked a simple question yesterday what's the worst you've been called on here and some mod put on there you can't use forums to get round blocks. I don't get this. I'm not trying to do that at all.

Don't get also why some people give to the mod.

On this site it seems acceptable to advertise pay for sex or drugs available if wanted but simple questions are criticised."

Is it possible the removed post was from someone you have blocked and the moderaters message wasn't aimed at you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if its just me but, I'm yet to understand where throwing a ton of abuse at someone after getting turned down would get anyone ..

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I asked a simple question yesterday what's the worst you've been called on here and some mod put on there you can't use forums to get round blocks. I don't get this. I'm not trying to do that at all.

Don't get also why some people give to the mod.

On this site it seems acceptable to advertise pay for sex or drugs available if wanted but simple questions are criticised."

This was in reply to the few posts from men mentioning you had blocked them, mods deleted their posts and the mods comment was aimed towards those and not you, the then to the mods from those who had seen the other comments before they were deleted x

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"I asked a simple question yesterday what's the worst you've been called on here and some mod put on there you can't use forums to get round blocks. I don't get this. I'm not trying to do that at all.

Don't get also why some people give to the mod.

On this site it seems acceptable to advertise pay for sex or drugs available if wanted but simple questions are criticised.

This was in reply to the few posts from men mentioning you had blocked them, mods deleted their posts and the mods comment was aimed towards those and not you, the then to the mods from those who had seen the other comments before they were deleted x"

Apologies my mistake I've missed those posts and not realised. Thanks for letting me know.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"I've deleted posts

You can't use the forums to get round blocks

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Apologies I never saw those posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

"

It’s not just men, some ladies and couples think that their entitled and any man would just go fu*k them

Seriously not the case in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

It’s not just men, some ladies and couples think that their entitled and any man would just go fu*k them

Seriously not the case in my experience "

Problem is most men on Fab will empty their balls in/on anything

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

It’s not just men, some ladies and couples think that their entitled and any man would just go fu*k them

Seriously not the case in my experience

Problem is most men on Fab will empty their balls in/on anything "

Fuck that, I went through that phase years ago when my relationship ended and my head was fucked. I’d rather chuck my muck into a sock now and wait.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

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By *edro popMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load" "

That is a horrible disgusting thing to say to anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeez what a douche bag. I hate that most single guys on this site make a bad name for the rest of us.

Seriously, what is the point.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load" "

Sounds like a "really lovely guy"... not!!

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Sounds like a "really lovely guy"... not!!

"

Wow, don’t understand it. He should be dripping in clunge with chat up lines like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load" "

Inbox me his name Snow xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx"

Will do xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Sounds like a "really lovely guy"... not!!

Wow, don’t understand it. He should be dripping in clunge with chat up lines like that. "

Can't understand it either he's a real catch

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load" "

Yes, I've been called all sorts. He wanted to come and fill me up with his load, I told him no safe sex only then he said I was too old anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, what’s wrong with some guys. Why is he messaging you if your too old. Obviously offended by rejection, sign of a completely insecure guy if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat, stuck up, 'so and so' said you were a bitch, heard you were a cnt, wouldn't look at you twice in in the pub anyway, bet you are minging, slag, slut...

Water off a ducks back. They know nothing about me whatsoever, other than the bare minimum, so aren't worthy of me listening or taking on board their opinion.

We don't have to speak or socialise with anyone we don't want to. Simple as that.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx"

Whoop, now he’s in for it

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Why do single males think females will have to do what they say and when they say it. I've been told you've got to come to mine and they expect you to travel miles to get there, and then they say I'll fill you up with cum and if you reply to them safe sex only, then they tell you NO I'll do what I want. And finally, if the answer is NO, they throw a tantrum.

It’s not just men, some ladies and couples think that their entitled and any man would just go fu*k them

Seriously not the case in my experience

Problem is most men on Fab will empty their balls in/on anything "

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"We know the lady who started this thread and she is a class lady. Lovely person and a delight to behold. She wont be spiteful unless really pushed"

Thanks, guys. So kind of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it "

Haha as if I would do such a thing

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it

Haha as if I would do such a thing "

I've spent all day crying over his harsh message...... Have I fuck when guys like this send abuse it says far more about their sad little lives than mine! All I can say is his mother should have swallowed!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it

Haha as if I would do such a thing "

I inboxed you too xx

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it

Haha as if I would do such a thing "

Why do I get the sense this burk is about to find a new meaning to the term gangbang

I pity the fool

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Someone pass me the popcorn

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By *ercman50Man
over a year ago

blackwood

Georgeous babe next time you go walking pm

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I was once just browsing. Read a profile that I was clearly not what they were looking for so moved on. Few minutes later got a message calling me an ugly fat c**t and not to ever look at them again and lots of other nasties that I can't quite fully recall properly. Obviously I then continued to view several times a day for the next few days until they finally blocked me....

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Someone pass me the popcorn "

If I bring some beer can I share your popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone pass me the popcorn "

Fuck off fatty

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty "

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Someone pass me the popcorn

If I bring some beer can I share your popcorn? "

Deal

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry "

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn "

Spoken like a man who has never received a hand job in the cinema

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn

Spoken like a man who has never received a hand job in the cinema "

Habe you seen how much it costs these days! My concentration is firmly on the film in question

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn

Spoken like a man who has never received a hand job in the cinema

Habe you seen how much it costs these days! My concentration is firmly on the film in question "

Good point well made

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it

Haha as if I would do such a thing

I've spent all day crying over his harsh message...... Have I fuck when guys like this send abuse it says far more about their sad little lives than mine! All I can say is his mother should have swallowed! "

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Been called loads, some of the gutless twats before i can reply.... did piss me off at one time but now i just laugh at the small cocks.....i am here for me not them

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

*Block me*

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"*Block me*"

Bite me

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"*Block me*

Bite me "
Oi don't take the piss Tobs....

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"*Block me*

Bite me Oi don't take the piss Tobs.... "

Ok then blow me

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy....

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy.... "

Why do the call it a blow job when it’s clearly a sucking action that’s required?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a gent on here ive not seen the need to insult anyone who doesnt want to talk. Yes ive had knockbacks its all part and parcel.

All have been quite polite in all fairness.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy....

Why do the call it a blow job when it’s clearly a sucking action that’s required? "
Ermmmm you said Blow me.....read up...

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By *onkey40Man
over a year ago

Swansea

You guys are so lucky. I’m lucky to get a no thank you..it would be something if many people I say hello to even opened the message to read

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy....

Why do the call it a blow job when it’s clearly a sucking action that’s required? Ermmmm you said Blow me.....read up... "

I know, was just being philosophical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a bit of blinding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a local girl on here who thinks the sun shines out her.....you know what. She kept messaging me and couldnt take the hint i wasnt intersted. She was pretty sour about it. People need to get a grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well today I've been called a fat pig, and a fat cum bucket that needs to go catch cancer. Oh the joys!! All cause he assumed I was gonna "take his hot load"

Inbox me his name Snow xx

Whoop, now he’s in for it

Haha as if I would do such a thing

I've spent all day crying over his harsh message...... Have I fuck when guys like this send abuse it says far more about their sad little lives than mine! All I can say is his mother should have swallowed! "

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Manners cost zero.. I've been lucky and had polite ’NO’s’ and I've said thank you for the reply... The ladies are inundated by messages on here and unfortunately, some people can't take a ’NO’ so all I would say is be a n1ceguy ??

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house


"Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy....

Why do the call it a blow job when it’s clearly a sucking action that’s required? Ermmmm you said Blow me.....read up...

I know, was just being philosophical "
Twat !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get it everyday from the other half

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn

Spoken like a man who has never received a hand job in the cinema

Habe you seen how much it costs these days! My concentration is firmly on the film in question "

You've clearly never been to see a Kevin Costner film

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Someone pass me the popcorn

Fuck off fatty

Extra protein on yours, don't worry

Your suppose to give protein injections to the eye not the popcorn

Spoken like a man who has never received a hand job in the cinema

Habe you seen how much it costs these days! My concentration is firmly on the film in question

You've clearly never been to see a Kevin Costner film "

Depends on the film. Bull Durham id quite happily spend some time buttering the corn whilst watching Susan Sarandon.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was called a wrinkled old tart after saying " no thank you". .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just last night I had a lovely gentleman who I blocked (wasn’t my type so I block and move on) pop a status up saying I was for to up myself, rude and hungry for attention!

Worst I’ve had was someone steal my pictures, put them on his profile saying we were now committed - this was after calling me a racist and telling me how no black man would ever want to go near my ginger cunt

Seriously the mind boggles at times."

Sounds like a real nice guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite no thank you is best as being rude should get a rude response. And i agree with that.

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By *atXXXMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I was called a wrinkled old tart after saying " no thank you". .x"

You should laugh at them and say you was a wrinkled old tart (or whatever insult they spit at you) when they wanted a piece of you then block them.

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over a year ago


"A polite no thank you is best as being rude should get a rude response. And i agree with that."

Fully agree, a kind no thanks goes along way. Completly ignoring is really rude, and poor manners. Shows they have very little respect.

Postive vibes, be kind to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i don't understand is what they get out of a abusive message x

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"What i don't understand is what they get out of a abusive message x"

A bit of their ego back maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cunt

Slag

Ugly bitch

Stuck up

Fat cow (my Rey was "then moooo've on)

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully I haven't had any abusive replies, I respond politely and pass on my gratitude for compliments.

I dare say my lucky run will end soon enough, but any abuse I receive will not matter to me, nor hurt me. I will simply block them and move on.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cunt

Slag

Ugly bitch

Stuck up

Fat cow (my Rey was "then moooo've on) "

Looks like we have a full house!

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Cunt

Slag

Ugly bitch

Stuck up

Fat cow (my Rey was "then moooo've on) "

Yeah sorry about that. To be fair I thought I did well to get all that into one message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blow or suck ????....slowlyyyyyy....

Why do the call it a blow job when it’s clearly a sucking action that’s required? "

The act of a BJ dates back to Victorian times and was very very rare. The only way you would get one is via very exclusive prostitutes who were called blowers. Hence Blow Job.

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or appropriate response, regardless of the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation "

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing "

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem. "

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are "

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day "

Oh dear someones been triggered. Flower were all allowed to have our opinions and this is why its a public forum. To openly discuss these things. Now i dont have the time, or interest to read the rulebook like you, but im allowed to hold myself to any standard i so wish

Now please dont get your knickers in a twist and spend your valuable time reading the fabswingers rules book, and indeed replying to me.

You do whatever it is you feel is right flower, but remember were all allowed our own standards and views. Some just hold them a little higher which creates such good debates.

Happy monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flower!? Holy Shit, you're brave.....sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day I'd need a PA just for my fab inbox.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day I'd need a PA just for my fab inbox. "

Damn right, if I gotta write out FAF (I only do the letters as it saves time) 400 times a day then so should you. It shows commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day I'd need a PA just for my fab inbox.

Damn right, if I gotta write out FAF (I only do the letters as it saves time) 400 times a day then so should you. It shows commitment "

Hahah! But those in persuit of treasure always have more willing and enthusiasm than the gate keeper. Just stood there on stag all day haha

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day I'd need a PA just for my fab inbox.

Damn right, if I gotta write out FAF (I only do the letters as it saves time) 400 times a day then so should you. It shows commitment

Hahah! But those in persuit of treasure always have more willing and enthusiasm than the gate keeper. Just stood there on stag all day haha "

I’d rather be the key master than the gate keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day

Oh dear someones been triggered. Flower were all allowed to have our opinions and this is why its a public forum. To openly discuss these things. Now i dont have the time, or interest to read the rulebook like you, but im allowed to hold myself to any standard i so wish

Now please dont get your knickers in a twist and spend your valuable time reading the fabswingers rules book, and indeed replying to me.

You do whatever it is you feel is right flower, but remember were all allowed our own standards and views. Some just hold them a little higher which creates such good debates.

Happy monday

"

Ah accusing a woman of being "triggered"

The typical male social media response when a woman disagrees with what their opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day "

Yes

Apparently a lot of men expect you to do just that you rude woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flower!? Holy Shit, you're brave.....sunshine "

Got me all wrong

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day

Oh dear someones been triggered. Flower were all allowed to have our opinions and this is why its a public forum. To openly discuss these things. Now i dont have the time, or interest to read the rulebook like you, but im allowed to hold myself to any standard i so wish

Now please dont get your knickers in a twist and spend your valuable time reading the fabswingers rules book, and indeed replying to me.

You do whatever it is you feel is right flower, but remember were all allowed our own standards and views. Some just hold them a little higher which creates such good debates.

Happy monday

Ah accusing a woman of being "triggered"

The typical male social media response when a woman disagrees with what their opinion "

Triggered? Thought neath girls carried flick knives not guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What names have you been called just because you said NO Thanks to a single man?"

Blackmans whore.

Blackmans trash

Blackmans left overs

I should be ashamed of myself.

I've probably got diseases.

I dnt need to worry about COVID I've probably got aids.

The list is endless. Oh did I say they came from white guys. Single white guys. Lol

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Can't beat threads like this for pointing out who you'd have a drink with and those who are complete shit stains.

Long may it continue

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Can't beat threads like this for pointing out who you'd have a drink with and those who are complete shit stains.

Long may it continue "

What list am I on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These are all just personal views, perspectives built from experiences and of course the fab swing rule book for some.......

Everyone is allowed to have a personal view point, and everyone has their on standards. Simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day

Oh dear someones been triggered. Flower were all allowed to have our opinions and this is why its a public forum. To openly discuss these things. Now i dont have the time, or interest to read the rulebook like you, but im allowed to hold myself to any standard i so wish

Now please dont get your knickers in a twist and spend your valuable time reading the fabswingers rules book, and indeed replying to me.

You do whatever it is you feel is right flower, but remember were all allowed our own standards and views. Some just hold them a little higher which creates such good debates.

Happy monday

Ah accusing a woman of being "triggered"

The typical male social media response when a woman disagrees with what their opinion

Triggered? Thought neath girls carried flick knives not guns "

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge


"Can't beat threads like this for pointing out who you'd have a drink with and those who are complete shit stains.

Long may it continue

What list am I on "

Massive skid mark!

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Can't beat threads like this for pointing out who you'd have a drink with and those who are complete shit stains.

Long may it continue

What list am I on

Massive skid mark! "

Why do I feel a sense of achievement in life

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m sure as much as the ladies on here would love to reply to every message they receive, there are just not enough hours in the day. Especially as most (if not all) have a life outside of Fab (families, work, etc). It’s just not physically possible

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"I’m sure as much as the ladies on here would love to reply to every message they receive, there are just not enough hours in the day. Especially as most (if not all) have a life outside of Fab (families, work, etc). It’s just not physically possible "

I can sympathise, takes me all day to write out my FAF messages. Bloody kids moaning they want food or something. Don’t people realise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kind ‘no thanks’ does go a long way, but some of the ladies on here consistently receive hundreds of messages a day - they simply don’t have time to read them, let alone reply

If they haven’t read mine after a few days, or have read and deleted, then I consider that to be a kind ‘no thanks’ and move on.

Sending abuse is never an acceptable or

appropriate response, regardless of the situation

I dont agree, if you someone has taken the time to read a profile, taken note of a specific area, and the time to write a nice message, a kind no thankyou doesnt take much, and shows youre a respectful person. You can always add filters to limits messages recieved and from who. This can help.

Manners, cost nothing

Maybe an automated "delete and no thanks" response button would be a good idea. Just as convienient for the ladies as the delete button but may make the men feel a little less hard done by . Sorry men but if you are upset by the lack of replies then Fab may not be a healthy environment for your self esteem.

I guess what is clear is we shoudnt judge others by our own higher standards.

There are many out there who like their ego fluffed and hide the identity while acting in such a way which supports their own self esteem across the keyboards.

Ladies and gents, no one is any better than anyone else, just avoid those who clearly think they are

Do you really think that thinking you're entitled to a reply is a polite approach and indicative of high standards?

Rather than trying to put people who choose not to reply down on the forum or indeed those who have a different opinion, have a read of the sites FAQs

They tell you that it is not rude not to reply. Argue with the site owners if you disagree

Have a nice day

Oh dear someones been triggered. Flower were all allowed to have our opinions and this is why its a public forum. To openly discuss these things. Now i dont have the time, or interest to read the rulebook like you, but im allowed to hold myself to any standard i so wish

Now please dont get your knickers in a twist and spend your valuable time reading the fabswingers rules book, and indeed replying to me.

You do whatever it is you feel is right flower, but remember were all allowed our own standards and views. Some just hold them a little higher which creates such good debates.

Happy monday

Ah accusing a woman of being "triggered"

The typical male social media response when a woman disagrees with what their opinion

Triggered? Thought neath girls carried flick knives not guns

"

Sorry Gentdom, but were you not putting very abusive status updates about a girl blocking you recently? I think you might be a bit entitled mate!

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think the overriding issue is, having seen the nature of the messages my girlfriend gets is that the vast majority of men don’t read her profile. Yes the profile text is lengthy however it’s like that because she is looking for what she wants. Now if the profile text says (something along the lines of) please no text speak and if you cannot string a sentence together please don’t waste your time messaging. So what does she get......

How’s U doin = read and deleted

I am near you can I come round = read deleted

Can I fuck you in front of your b/f = read delete

Profile saying ‘cannot accommodate and very discreet..... ‘can I ask are you in a relationship’ reply.... yes is that a problem = read and delete

However if someone reads her profile, picks out some areas where he thinks he fits the bill/Bull says he loved her picture, she will reply either with a thank you for a nice message and chat or say thanks but no thanks!

So in summary it’s a lack of reading her profile and crap first messages that are the reason she won’t reply!

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Lol just had another good one.

A man from Norwich texted I said no thanks you're too far away from me. Next thing I know you are a stuck up cow. PMSL

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Lol just had another good one.

A man from Norwich texted I said no thanks you're too far away from me. Next thing I know you are a stuck up cow. PMSL"

Just reply back saying yeah but Norwich gotta shit football team.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"Lol just had another good one.

A man from Norwich texted I said no thanks you're too far away from me. Next thing I know you are a stuck up cow. PMSL

Just reply back saying yeah but Norwich gotta shit football team. "

Lol good one ??

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Another good one today.

First message what are you looking for. Oh, god read profile I said.

Replied back swearing at me. A few messages exchanged and I was called a minger and 'what guys would want to fuck your face'

Some men are compete and utter arseholes on this site. My block list is going to get much bigger from now on.

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Another good one today.

First message what are you looking for. Oh, god read profile I said.

Replied back swearing at me. A few messages exchanged and I was called a minger and 'what guys would want to fuck your face'

Some men are compete and utter arseholes on this site. My block list is going to get much bigger from now on."

Brilliant lol I hear the gentleman in question is a contender for the Nobel Prize for literature this year

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"Another good one today.

First message what are you looking for. Oh, god read profile I said.

Replied back swearing at me. A few messages exchanged and I was called a minger and 'what guys would want to fuck your face'

Some men are compete and utter arseholes on this site. My block list is going to get much bigger from now on.

Brilliant lol I hear the gentleman in question is a contender for the Nobel Prize for literature this year "

Lol he's one of many lately

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By *oliteguyMan
over a year ago

Melksham

My jaw is firmly on the floor. I cannot believe some of the things I’m reading here. Do people (men mainly) really actually say things like that, and dish out abuse due to rejection?

I’m utterly bewildered. There’s plenty of people I see on here who I’d like to message, but I always read their profile in full first. No point me wasting both their and my own time if it’s obvious they wouldn’t be interested in me.

When I do get a reply I’m pleasantly surprised, even if that reply is a no thanks. If they just delete me message then it’s clearly a sign they aren’t interested and I move on. What is the point of sending abuse!

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

I've been called alsorts, some of it quite inventive.

My favourites are the ones that start off all complimentary (you are gorgeous etc), and then, when you politely turn them down, you suddenly become a "minger" or "fat slut" who they wouldnt touch with a bargepole. Talk about wounded pride, some of these guys flip faster than... well, a really fast flippy thing lol.

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By *livempusMan
over a year ago

holyhead

Dickhead

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"I've been called alsorts, some of it quite inventive.

My favourites are the ones that start off all complimentary (you are gorgeous etc), and then, when you politely turn them down, you suddenly become a "minger" or "fat slut" who they wouldnt touch with a bargepole. Talk about wounded pride, some of these guys flip faster than... well, a really fast flippy thing lol. "

Totally agree. They simply don't know how to take no as an answer. People don't read profiles either. If men took the time to read, they'll what you are looking for.

I had a good one the other day: nasty little minge or do guys want to fuck your face. I told him I cannot be dealing with arseholes like you and he's got the cheek to ask for a face pic.

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Do people expect me to write "no thank you" out 300/400 times a day I'd need a PA just for my fab inbox. "

Copy and paste lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not abuse as such but the last few days Ive blocked guys who have made some not nice comments about my profile but thats only after they have read my replies.

Yes I write some shit on my profile but its my profile and Ill put on it what I want thanks. You dont have to read my profile and if you dont like it block me....... simple

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"Its not abuse as such but the last few days Ive blocked guys who have made some not nice comments about my profile but thats only after they have read my replies.

Yes I write some shit on my profile but its my profile and Ill put on it what I want thanks. You dont have to read my profile and if you dont like it block me....... simple "

Oh, yeah the choice is yours. It's your profile.

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Its not abuse as such but the last few days Ive blocked guys who have made some not nice comments about my profile but thats only after they have read my replies.

Yes I write some shit on my profile but its my profile and Ill put on it what I want thanks. You dont have to read my profile and if you dont like it block me....... simple "

Well I personally love looking at your profile

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By *onkey40Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I’m a single guy and I’ve never given anyone any sort off backlash and 99 percent off the time people don’t even read my messages. So In my experience if you give a reply even to say no thank you good on you I say

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By *uppyandtabbyCouple
over a year ago

Prestatyn

We had a status put up saying something along the lines of we were fake and just a guy or something and to be warned , Keep in mind we'd never messaged this person ever and have single males turned off. We then politely messaged him correcting him that we were in fact real and didn't have a clue what he was getting at. A really strange way of trying to get our attention we blocked him very quickly afterwards.

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By *ELSH-FARMERMan
over a year ago

south Wales

I like to think im a decent gent I've had loads of abuse over the last few years ive been here but there's an easy way to sort that BLOCK, delete move on

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