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"Best thing to do is be onest with her and talk to her about swinging and find out her feelings about it all ,that's the first thing I would of done not make a single profile on here,thenif she's happy and want to try then make a couple profile " Scared of what she may say or think. Ideally want a guy to message and meet up with her to see if she’s open to fucking other guys so I can go from there | |||
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"Best thing to do is be onest with her and talk to her about swinging and find out her feelings about it all ,that's the first thing I would of done not make a single profile on here,thenif she's happy and want to try then make a couple profile Scared of what she may say or think. Ideally want a guy to message and meet up with her to see if she’s open to fucking other guys so I can go from there " That’s the worst way to go about it. | |||
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"Best thing to do is be onest with her and talk to her about swinging and find out her feelings about it all ,that's the first thing I would of done not make a single profile on here,thenif she's happy and want to try then make a couple profile Scared of what she may say or think. Ideally want a guy to message and meet up with her to see if she’s open to fucking other guys so I can go from there " Really really not a good idea in my opinion. My husband spent 2 years talking to me about it. I could weigh up the pros and cons and get mentally ready for it to happen Please don't just spring it on her.. you need to make sure that she will be comfortable in that situation. | |||
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"Hi there, newish member but I’m looking for some advice on how to bring up swinging with my gf. We saw a film recently that was kinda this theme and she was glued to it but we didn’t discuss it tbh. Looking to get onto the scene with her so any advice is needed as we need to liven things up." There are a few podcasts out there we would recommend listening to Casual Swinger you can find it on there site, there is some good advice there on how to approach the subject. Be honest and approach carefully and test the waters, communication is the key to all of this. Nobody knows your girlfriend better than you, take your time and start your journey when you are both ready and not before. It took us a few years to finally take the plunge but communication and honesty have brought on an incredible journey that has enhanced our relationship and we have made some great friends along the way. | |||
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" Scared of what she may say or think. Ideally want a guy to message and meet up with her to see if she’s open to fucking other guys so I can go from there " I volunteer myself as tribute. | |||
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"Porn together, try to see how she is with different kinds of porn, add in toys also. Little by little drop in questions during play. " that is what we done | |||
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"Don't think having a singles profile on here is a good way to get her into the scene. More likely to end in a brake up than a swinging profile. I agree completely with dropping in questions from time to time. Maybe discuss your bi side with her might be a good way in. Even if she does fantasise about swinging. Fantasy and reality are two very different things. " Tend to agree with this, she'll soon find out you were here alone, it's a very small scene & nothings secret. If you really want this then do it the right way, go away & talk n plan with her together X | |||
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"Tell her you would love to watch her getting fucked by someone else and see what her response is." Pretty much what I said lol | |||
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