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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive recently rejoined this site and wondering are all single men so mean on here. im a size 16 and happy to. I show men my face pic and they r happy bt wen they ask my size and tell them,i get blocked and had afew nasty messages. is it me or are some people just shallow lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recently rejoined this site and wondering are all single men so mean on here. im a size 16 and happy to. I show men my face pic and they r happy bt wen they ask my size and tell them,i get blocked and had afew nasty messages. is it me or are some people just shallow lol x"

You got the last part correct...SHALLOW!! My lady is a size 16/18 and I love her to death!! There's nothing better than to hold on to some flesh when we're doing our thing . Keep the faith. There are many men out there that just adore your body type (me included lol). Come to me if all else fails

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol thanx hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol thanx hun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big and proud. Do you really want to spend time with someone so small minded. Size 16 is not big anyway. You sound fan to me. Just ignore them, they are jerks. There are many people including us that love all sizes. Keep the faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big and proud. Do you really want to spend time with someone so small minded. Size 16 is not big anyway. You sound fan to me. Just ignore them, they are jerks. There are many people including us that love all sizes. Keep the faith "

We second the motion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big girls are horny so dont let anyone say diferent remember your the boss

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By *orthwalianMan
over a year ago

Bangor

It's the person whI counts not your size have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about small minded people there are plenty of singles and couples who prefer larger ladies , obviously there are loads of sexy slim ladies on here but if we had to choose 1 or the other then give us a lady with a few lumps and bumps anyway sooo much sexier xxx

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford

In my humble opinion, it is the personality that is of greatest importance. I have met some ladies who had gorgeous figures but I'd hate to get intimate with because I found them to have repulsive personalities. Alternatively, some larger ladies who are comfortable with their size have been very sexy and desirable because they have been confident. In general I've found most swingers of all sizes to have great personalities. Let your inner sexiness shine through and have lots of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry about them hun every woman is sexy in their own way and idiots like that is what brings the site down dont give them another thought they just aint worth it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the bigger ladys and have never realy been intrested in the twiggs i wouldnt ever block a bigger girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi babe im from pontypridd and a sie 18 38d,my partner loves it so do a few people i know on here so ignore the sad ones

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By *elshguy34Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Its all down to personal taste I guess as we all like different types of people But what I dont understand is why a guy would message a larger lady in the first place if her build is not what hes looking for. At end of day were all humans and have feelings no need to be rude to anyone at all.

I myself have no problem at all with ladies of all builds its not just the body that makes someone sexy but the mindset and also chemistry between people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 18 to 20 dependent on my mood lol & never have a problem with meeting nice guys & couples. If the profile says they only meet sticks its a block from me. I see it as their loss & not mine xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size isn't important to me as my verifications show. If I click with the person that's more important to me. Ignore the shallow wankers !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it matters how big or small you are, but i do a soft spot for the bigger ladies size 16 up.

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By *elshmailMan
over a year ago

neath

some idiots on here, i prefere curvy women xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some like them smal and some like them big simple as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simply about having fun with like minded people and to be honest about size is how it should be, are all men honest about the size of they're manhood before a meet! Lol

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath

I am a size8 in a dress, but i have a size hh tits so what on earth do we do about that lol.. ps they are natural

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath

PS I am off putting to some people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recently rejoined this site and wondering are all single men so mean on here. im a size 16 and happy to. I show men my face pic and they r happy bt wen they ask my size and tell them,i get blocked and had afew nasty messages. is it me or are some people just shallow lol x"

Different strokes for different folks or summat;-) no reason to send arsey messages tho..;-(

Be yourself & if your happy that's all that matters there are plenty that won't give abuse and take you for who you are .xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE AND FI ANYONE DOES NOT LIKE IT TUFF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, size 16 is very much average. I'm that size and I've never had any problems on here... the majority of men love a good arse and tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curvy ladies, and to be honest with you most real men do aswell, be happy with yourself and ignore shallow people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit that i have lost my confidence in meeting ppl now i am single as opposed to when i was part of a couple as i am a size 18/20 and this is part of the reason i not met anyone since my split from my ex 4 months ago .

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

You'll be ok Peaches, its like riding a bike lol! If you need someone to hold your hand, (although we'd prefer to grab something else lol!) we'd be there!

To be honest, its never been about what someone looks like for us, its all about the personality... yes, that old chestnut... but its true!

We have seen some stunning people on here and at the clubs, parties and socials and chatted to many of them, and we have seen some ordinary folk like us at these places too, and its always turned out to be their wit, charm and general demeanor rather than their looks that decides whether we will be friends or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

size is irrelevant, if you sexy, you sexy. End of.

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By *rifters22Couple
over a year ago

Manchester/malta

personality is more important then size.

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By *kip123Man
over a year ago

Barry

Size 16 is the average size for ladies . Some ladies will say they are a 12 or 14 but as they know, a size in one shop doesnt always mean a dress etc from another shop bearing the same size lable will fit. If you are happy with your size, be it 10....40 and your are happy then stuff any remarks you may get. More men prefer a woman to have a fuller figure than a smaller one. In the end though its the personality that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my women bigger find the attitude is alot better. Cant beat a +size woman totally sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive recently rejoined this site and wondering are all single men so mean on here. im a size 16 and happy to. I show men my face pic and they r happy bt wen they ask my size and tell them,i get blocked and had afew nasty messages. is it me or are some people just shallow lol x"
cant believe it ,i love bigger women babe so if ever you want a chat to cheer your self up message me babe.xxxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't think it is shallow to not fancy someone because of how they look. If size 16 doesn't turn someone on then it doesn't turn them on.

I have to fancy someone before we will meet them, if it makes me shallow then I am fine with that.

However....there is no need for anyone to be abusive when mailing so if you do get abusive messages then click on the REPORT button and Admin checks it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it is shallow to not fancy someone because of how they look. If size 16 doesn't turn someone on then it doesn't turn them on.

I have to fancy someone before we will meet them, if it makes me shallow then I am fine with that.

However....there is no need for anyone to be abusive when mailing so if you do get abusive messages then click on the REPORT button and Admin checks it out.

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Have to agree with this ! I am a size 18 somtimes 20 having gained some weight this last year due to some medication and it does kinda knock your confidence somewhat tho I do now find my body makes my 36h bust look more proportioned !

Guys who send abusive messages as advised just report message to admin then block them and move on. There are so many people on here of all shapes and sizes all finding the fun they want and you will too so chin up lovely lady and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunatley body size is ultra important to some . as if being skinny is somehow a guarentee of good sex.

but having been swinging 21 years and met (cough) a few!!! the best are always the ones who are easy going and not up themselves .

The so called sexy people don't even have manners most of the time.

non replys from them are almost guarenteed and tba the prance around like peacocks in partys and socials .i remember aproaching a so called sexy cpl in a social to say hi and was told fuck off mmm nice .

the best times i have had is with a group of nice people all shapes sizes and the fun was amazing.thats because they were nice people and not so far up thier arses they could'nt even manage a crap .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The so called sexy people don't even have manners most of the time.

non replys from them are almost guarenteed and tba the prance around like peacocks in partys and socials .i remember aproaching a so called sexy cpl in a social to say hi and was told fuck off mmm nice .

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I hope it wasn't me...lol, but totally agree to you there. we had a few couples on our other profile and once we met them, they changed their personality, when we got back online, we weren't friends anymore....lol

Think the word is 'shallow'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like being round FUN people, that is the only requirement... plus larger peeps are far mre of a turn on than skinny people. As for the Peacocks on this site. They should have there own chat room and stick to themselves. Best for everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different strokes for different folks.

Larger ladies can be incredibly sexy and should embrace their curves, and skinny women should not be put down with the line "real women have curves.".

All women can be sexy, never any need for comparisons, It's not Crufts!

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it is shallow to not fancy someone because of how they look. If size 16 doesn't turn someone on then it doesn't turn them on.

I have to fancy someone before we will meet them, if it makes me shallow then I am fine with that.

However....there is no need for anyone to be abusive when mailing so if you do get abusive messages then click on the REPORT button and Admin checks it out.

"
Fully agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let them block you hun its there loss and as for the slander just delete it and dont lower yourself to reply there are some desent people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let them block you hun its there loss and as for the slander just delete it and dont lower yourself to reply there are some descent people on here.

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

We both love playing with size 16 ladies - not a problem for us at all.

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