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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not nameing people ok forum police.

dont you just love when people add you as friends chat for months then all of a sudden block you,what the fuck is all that about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've had a few like that lol add u as a friend then delete you lol cant like our pics lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

confused people on here who dont know what they want we think lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon that for every 100 people on here, 80 dont know why, who or what this is about. They love the thought of singing coz they talk about it to get there rocks off in bed. They join to make it more real BUT..... when it gets close to the real thing they realise they dont have the nerve so they run away. Quite sad really. We jsut need to find the 20% and forget the rest, they are tourists LOL xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been blocked by one woman cant understand why as she was the one who wanted a meet after instigating the whole thing,but hey thats the way it goes i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only got blocked by a fem when I complimented her on her moustach

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"not nameing people ok forum police.

dont you just love when people add you as friends chat for months then all of a sudden block you,what the fuck is all that about lol "

In our experience its usually a single male with a fake fem or cpls profile, used to catch us out all the time when we first started, but now we are pretty good at spotting them lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you all, lot of fantasists around ...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster? "

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL "

Ok, we'll meet you...... only I doubt it will happen, even thought you say you "...must meet everyone you speak to...".

Why wo'nt we meet?

Your profile says no chubbies, and both Jayne and I carry a few extra pounds.

So, by your own definition, if we contacted you with a view to a meet, you would turn us down, and we could label you timewasters?

People have choices, for some, it is physical appearence thats important, for others, its more to do with attitude and personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We contact couples,get chatting, get facepics and realise that there is no attraction, that's a difficult moment for us. You want to be friendly but you know your not going to meet.

So what do you say?

It's strange because if it was a single bloke we would have no problem saying "no thanks" but when it comes to couples it's difficult.

If we send some face pics and don't get a reply then we take that on the chin and just think to ourselves that we cant be everyone's cup of tea.

But we know others aren't as layed back about it as us and we just hope that we don't offend people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL "

Wow, so sweary shouty

So a question...how do you get to know the people who you may want to play with? do you chat? If so, how long for?

The reason I ask is , we are all different in how we do things, some people chat for ages before a meet, some people are like us and don't do ping pong mails for months as we like things to happen more quickly.

If we find someone who wants to chat for a long time then we pass them by early on....hence we don't get out time wasted....BUT for that person who likes to chat for a while before meeting, we don't think that is timewasting, we think they are doing things their way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your getting it all wrong guys as usual we are on about people we have spoke to for months and said we are going to meet then for no reason they block you.

We are not on about people who message out of the blue who don't meet what we want please read the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you say something to offend them. Maybe they just change their mind. Maybe they decide that you're not for them afterall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL "

Well if the people in question have now seen your reaction to them blocking you im sure they will be thinking they did the right thing.!

Its all about choices they made theres you make yours.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Your getting it all wrong guys as usual we are on about people we have spoke to for months and said we are going to meet then for no reason they block you.

We are not on about people who message out of the blue who don't meet what we want please read the thread "

I thought I had read it but now I really am confused.

First you say that you think people who speak for months and block you are timewasters, then you say this isn't facebook and you want to meet and socialise not chat forever and yet now you are saying you have chatted forever with someone and they have blocked you.

It sort of contradicts what you are saying....but....as to your OP....maybe the people were put off with something you said or they read and decided you were not for them after all, so blocked you.....changing your mind about someone doesn't make you fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL

Well if the people in question have now seen your reaction to them blocking you im sure they will be thinking they did the right thing.!

Its all about choices they made theres you make yours."

Either you like the look of someone from the beginning or you don't its quite simple well for us it is we don't dilly dally it don't take us months to decide if we wa to meet someone after all attraction is normally a instant thing not sonething that grows on you,if your not sure from the beginning then don't bother quite simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is all bollocks, a timewaster to us is someone who arranges a meet and doesnt pitch,people should be polite and respect each others views,move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for fear of being labelled a "timewaster" we often meet socially but due to no attraction, and this has to be between all 4 of us, we dont play. We dont actually label people and have loads of frreinds we dont play with but meet socially, but then we also have those we lie to play with or go clubbing with. Personal choices are sometimes hard to understand but as has already been said we are all different and looking for different things. Personnally we find you all sexy and wont waste anyones time so if you wanna meet us read our profile message us chat in the chatroom, do what ever works for you and we will get back to you as soon aswe can xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choice?

Does this mean you have to meet everyone you speak to or you are labeled a timewaster?

Yes if we wanted to chat for ever we would use fucking face book we are swingers who want to socialize and fuck and have fun,a concept lost by some people after all what's the name of this site.

fAB SWINGERS NOT FACE BOOK LOL

Well if the people in question have now seen your reaction to them blocking you im sure they will be thinking they did the right thing.!

Its all about choices they made theres you make yours.

Either you like the look of someone from the beginning or you don't its quite simple well for us it is we don't dilly dally it don't take us months to decide if we wa to meet someone after all attraction is normally a instant thing not sonething that grows on you,if your not sure from the beginning then don't bother quite simple.

We dissagree, Attraction is not always an instant thing, there are many great looking sexy hot couples on this site who turn out to be 'not nice people', on the other hand there are even more 'normal looking people who turn out to be lovely.

You really do need to move on now.

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