FabSwingers.com forum: Ear surgery

By *ynx 12 OP Man
2 days ago

reading ( burghfield )

I’ve recently had surgery to remove half of my ear lobe dew to cancer it’s knocked my confidence I don’t like to socialise or go out apart from work . Has anyone else had something similar and did you get your confidence back

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By *sexman1Man
2 days ago

north oxfordshire

Sorry about the cancer

But look at it this way you cracked it and still here so go out and live life none of us do not know how long we got

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

Not personally but after my mum had serious health issues she lost confidence and didn't want to go out. Eventually a situation occured where she needed some cash and I refused to get it for her but offered to accompany her to the cash point. She eventually agreed to come with me and after that gradually regained confidence

I have had a couple of surgeries on one of my eyes and have completely lost confidence in my ability to see accurately and judge distances which has made me reluctant to drive.

I'm sorry you're experiencing this, do you have a friend who will accompany you on a few short outings?

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By *ynx 12 OP Man
2 days ago

reading ( burghfield )

Thank you

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull

I guess we all react differently to circumstances.

A friend of mine had a big scar after an operation but he dealt with it by making various different stories up around it.

Think fighting off a shark etc etc

Not saying it would work for you though

The way I look at it is if you’ve beat cancer but then don’t go out etc the dam cancer has won a small battle

Get out and whip cancers ass again 🤜

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By *ynx 12 OP Man
2 days ago

reading ( burghfield )

Thanks that made me smile maybe I will say I had a fight with a shark

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull

"Thanks that made me smile maybe I will say I had a fight with a shark "

It breaks the ice and if it makes you laugh you’re half way to getting through the initial fright

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By *axtanMan
2 days ago

Wimborne

Count your blessings it was just your earlobe. And forget it. Consider it a duelling scar and wear it with pride.

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By *ice136Man
2 days ago

HULL

Yolo

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
2 days ago

Hastings

"Not personally but after my mum had serious health issues she lost confidence and didn't want to go out. Eventually a situation occured where she needed some cash and I refused to get it for her but offered to accompany her to the cash point. She eventually agreed to come with me and after that gradually regained confidence

I have had a couple of surgeries on one of my eyes and have completely lost confidence in my ability to see accurately and judge distances which has made me reluctant to drive.

I'm sorry you're experiencing this, do you have a friend who will accompany you on a few short outings?"

To to hear about you sight, have you looked in to lens replacement, the wife had hers done in Prague.

I will be looking to go when I'm 60

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