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"Well, it is asking for thoughts on the topic, annnnd now we have yours! Cheers big ears!" No worries sugar tits just trying to protect my men from egregious internet ideas. | |||
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"Do you think massage would feel good, or do you feel it would aggravate your issues? It would be good to be able to relieve pressure a bit, like a good hard heel massage when you have plantar fasciitus. You know the discomfort will come back, but not for a while." I suspect it would feel good and could help. No worse than sitting on a blooming tennis ball anyway! | |||
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"63 this year and I have an enlarged prostate. Last couoke of weeks I have had a hard.time of it constant needing to pee even when I know my bladder isn't full. Pain on ejaculation.or nkt being able to at all and even then.not fully. Feeling constantly embarrassed and discomforted. So the thought of someone pegging me for their own sadistic pleasure is a no from me This post really shows how little women understand the very real problems men face with this." Well said brother | |||
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" Feeling constantly embarrassed and discomforted. So the thought of someone pegging me for their own sadistic pleasure is a no from me This post really shows how little women understand the very real problems men face with this." A very, very interesting take on this subject. Do you generally believe all women only do things to men for sadistic purposes, or to cause them terrible pain and embarrassment? Sorry you're in pain pal, may you recover quickly. | |||
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"Not enlarged (well not beyond the normal aging process) PSA well within normal for my age. I have played about with anal toys in an attempt to understand/attain prostate pleasure/orgasm to absolutely no avail. So to me I'm doubtful of anything happening with me and a prostate massage "But the silver lining is that...you are perfectly healthy! Isn't that wonderful! I know this is off topic a bit, but have you ever listened to Mindgasm? I follow a few pegging forums (shocker, right?) on Reddit (I think Ruby Ryder and I were separated at birth) and Mindgasm is very highly praised...IF that sort of thing interested you? | |||
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" Feeling constantly embarrassed and discomforted. So the thought of someone pegging me for their own sadistic pleasure is a no from me This post really shows how little women understand the very real problems men face with this. A very, very interesting take on this subject. Do you generally believe all women only do things to men for sadistic purposes, or to cause them terrible pain and embarrassment? Sorry you're in pain pal, may you recover quickly." Not all women maybe but there are a lot of women out there that do. Looking at a few answers few men find prostate massages pleasurable and with the greatest respect your post seems to be about what you gain from doing this. Also I do get the feeling that you are generally uninformed about what problems and discomfort and embarrassment an enlarged prostate causes. Like I sat the idea of receiving a prostate massage after the week I have had with mine is horrendous. I wouldnt let a medical professional do this to me let alone a sadistic for their gratification. And by the way, I looked up if such a massage is used and have nor seen a single thing in favour of it. Men get castigated for their ignorance of women's problems constantly yet this op shows women are just as ignorant. | |||
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"63 this year and I have an enlarged prostate. Last couoke of weeks I have had a hard.time of it constant needing to pee even when I know my bladder isn't full. Pain on ejaculation.or nkt being able to at all and even then.not fully. Feeling constantly embarrassed and discomforted. So the thought of someone pegging me for their own sadistic pleasure is a no from me This post really shows how little women understand the very real problems men face with this. Well said brother " Not to mention that there is a very real risk of damage to blood vessels of someone whk has prostisis forcing infection into the bloodstream. | |||
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"I didn’t get even a hint of sadism from your post. Not sure where that came from." Mmm, he's in pain, so I'm taking his reply with a hefty pinch of salt. While we are here, how are YOU feeling? Have you done a self exam lately? | |||
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"I didn’t get even a hint of sadism from your post. Not sure where that came from. Mmm, he's in pain, so I'm taking his reply with a hefty pinch of salt. While we are here, how are YOU feeling? Have you done a self exam lately? " I’ve not had been “examined” for years. I have enjoyed prostate play. Came so much I could hardly walk for a few minutes. Never been pegged. It’s been getting dusty on my bucket list. One day.. | |||
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" and with the greatest respect your post seems to be about what you gain from doing this. **What do you think I gain from my post? I do not have the same equipment men do, so anything I do..its not for my benefit, outwith desire.** Also I do get the feeling that you are generally uninformed about what problems and discomfort and embarrassment an enlarged prostate causes. **...correct, ergo my post, asking your bretherin their thoughts on how women like me can help men like yo...others** Like I sat the idea of receiving a prostate massage after the week I have had with mine is horrendous. **Yes, I've gathered as much, you have said.** I wouldnt let a medical professional do this to me let alone a sadistic for their gratification. **whats happening here? Why are we back on the subject of sadism?** Men get castigated for their ignorance of women's problems constantly yet this op shows women are just as ignorant. **aaand, thank you for your TED talk on how to chastise women for being ignorant on a post asking for clarity on mens health, you have been wonderful, caller. Tune in next week for our discussion on testosterone rage, fact or fiction! Good night, Seattle " | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! Some of you may know, I am obsessed with pegging and teaching men how good it can make you feel, and all the ways you can orgasm with a bit of Pspot play, doing my bit to convince men to lose the shame about it. However! Those of you who are suffering with enlarged prostates or even have been diagnosed with prostate cancer or hyperplasia, do you feel that massage would help relieve symptoms? Would it still feel good? Would you be able to orgasm, or would massage be just enough, or maybe too much, you dont want ANYTHING near it. What could I be doing, holisticly, for men who are having problems? Even tell me instinctualy, if you read this far, what was your gut reaction to thinking about prostate massage? (Calm down, its not an offer!) Did you think...yeah that would feel amazing, or was it more, fuck no! The pain, the discomfort! And finally, has your doctor ever suggested massage to you? Tell me all about it! Cheers lads, I know its not a sexy topic, but neither is a vaginal smear test. Tell me everything! Mummy " I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. | |||
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"63 this year and I have an enlarged prostate. Last couoke of weeks I have had a hard.time of it constant needing to pee even when I know my bladder isn't full. Pain on ejaculation.or nkt being able to at all and even then.not fully. Feeling constantly embarrassed and discomforted. So the thought of someone pegging me for their own sadistic pleasure is a no from me This post really shows how little women understand the very real problems men face with this. Well said brother Not to mention that there is a very real risk of damage to blood vessels of someone whk has prostisis forcing infection into the bloodstream." I made this point earlier, it fell on what I will assume are naive ears. | |||
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" I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. " Just had the biopsy, waiting with some trepidation for the results. Dark indeed. Hopefully I'll get to keep my prostate and one day maybe enjoy a pegging. | |||
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"So pegging a man what are you getting from it? Other than domination and causing discomfort? " Well, maybe you should read through some of my verifications and you point out how many of them mention domination, humiliation and punishment or pain. Go on, go have a research and see if you can find a hint of any aspect of what you incorrectly assume all women are like. I've already said what I get out of it. If you cant stand my questions, you dont need to keep engaging with me you know. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. " Do you think you might be taking this to an extreme, Sir? I am not a grief counsellor. The question was, how to make someone with issues feel good. Your analogy is absurd, and you then became outraged over your OWN over the top made up story, that I never actually asked. I will give you this though, I DID actually ask about cancer, because AS YOU KNOW, prostate cancer survivability is actually pretty good. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? It means, that those men might actually still enjoy sex! I KNOW RIGHT? The fucking shutter might roll back up and some men...might be pretty happy living life again, hey? What do I know, I'm just some lady in Glasgow, asking how that man could be given pleasure, in a forum on a kink site. The audacity.  | |||
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" I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. Just had the biopsy, waiting with some trepidation for the results. Dark indeed. Hopefully I'll get to keep my prostate and one day maybe enjoy a pegging. " Rosie, I'm terribly sorry you are going through this, and I hope your biopsy comes back with an all clear. This will be an anxious wait for you. I cannot stress enough that my questions on my original post, were all about how we can make you feel pleasure, just not immediately while youre in crisis. That wasn't my statement, nor were they my words. I would never be so grossly vulgar to ask if you want pegged, and honestly, I dont know ANY person that devoid of humanity that they couldn't set aside lust until you were well enough to ask for your needs to be met. Please, please know I do only wish for your continued well-being and should the day come that you wish to explore your sexuality again, then I hope you meet someone like me, who only wants to make you feel joy. Should you ever wish to chat privately, I'm here to listen. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! Some of you may know, I am obsessed with pegging and teaching men how good it can make you feel, and all the ways you can orgasm with a bit of Pspot play, doing my bit to convince men to lose the shame about it. However! Those of you who are suffering with enlarged prostates or even have been diagnosed with prostate cancer or hyperplasia, do you feel that massage would help relieve symptoms? Would it still feel good? Would you be able to orgasm, or would massage be just enough, or maybe too much, you dont want ANYTHING near it. What could I be doing, holisticly, for men who are having problems? Even tell me instinctualy, if you read this far, what was your gut reaction to thinking about prostate massage? (Calm down, its not an offer!) Did you think...yeah that would feel amazing, or was it more, fuck no! The pain, the discomfort! And finally, has your doctor ever suggested massage to you? Tell me all about it! Cheers lads, I know its not a sexy topic, but neither is a vaginal smear test. Tell me everything! Mummy " I just want to say that I don't agree with some of the replies you have received. Obviously, as a woman, who I assume is from a non-medical background, it's unlikely that you've have detailed knowledge about male prostate issues. Even if you do enjoy pegging. I say this as a man who could be described as mostly gay. People learn new things every day. None of us are the fountain of all knowledge. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! Some of you may know, I am obsessed with pegging and teaching men how good it can make you feel, and all the ways you can orgasm with a bit of Pspot play, doing my bit to convince men to lose the shame about it. However! Those of you who are suffering with enlarged prostates or even have been diagnosed with prostate cancer or hyperplasia, do you feel that massage would help relieve symptoms? Would it still feel good? Would you be able to orgasm, or would massage be just enough, or maybe too much, you dont want ANYTHING near it. What could I be doing, holisticly, for men who are having problems? Even tell me instinctualy, if you read this far, what was your gut reaction to thinking about prostate massage? (Calm down, its not an offer!) Did you think...yeah that would feel amazing, or was it more, fuck no! The pain, the discomfort! And finally, has your doctor ever suggested massage to you? Tell me all about it! Cheers lads, I know its not a sexy topic, but neither is a vaginal smear test. Tell me everything! Mummy I just want to say that I don't agree with some of the replies you have received. Obviously, as a woman, who I assume is from a non-medical background, it's unlikely that you've have detailed knowledge about male prostate issues. Even if you do enjoy pegging. I say this as a man who could be described as mostly gay. People learn new things every day. None of us are the fountain of all knowledge. " I'll admit to knowing a thing or two about the prostate 😂 | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. Do you think you might be taking this to an extreme, Sir? I am not a grief counsellor. The question was, how to make someone with issues feel good. Your analogy is absurd, and you then became outraged over your OWN over the top made up story, that I never actually asked. I will give you this though, I DID actually ask about cancer, because AS YOU KNOW, prostate cancer survivability is actually pretty good. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? It means, that those men might actually still enjoy sex! I KNOW RIGHT? The fucking shutter might roll back up and some men...might be pretty happy living life again, hey? What do I know, I'm just some lady in Glasgow, asking how that man could be given pleasure, in a forum on a kink site. The audacity. "I'm not Sir, I'm a woman. Taking to the extreme you say. I don't think having a cancer diagnosis can be much more than extreme. Yes, many prostate cancers caught early can be curable but the side effects from treatments either, gland removal, radiotherapy and ADT can be quite catastrophic and life changing, from incontinence to total sexual disfunction. I can't see any analogy you refer too but it is obvious you have no idea the complexities of cancer, its treatment, its ongoing side effects whereas, I do. I'm happy you may be of service to some men with healthy prostates but I would stay clear of those who have recently been diagnosed or within active treatment as they are in quite a vulnerable state and could reach out for support and/or advice from someone who is obviously ignorant of the position and journey they are experiencing. Probably best just concentrate on the guys who haven't been diagnosed and have healthy prostate glands that you can milk all day long. Thanks for your response. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. Do you think you might be taking this to an extreme, Sir? I am not a grief counsellor. The question was, how to make someone with issues feel good. Your analogy is absurd, and you then became outraged over your OWN over the top made up story, that I never actually asked. I will give you this though, I DID actually ask about cancer, because AS YOU KNOW, prostate cancer survivability is actually pretty good. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? It means, that those men might actually still enjoy sex! I KNOW RIGHT? The fucking shutter might roll back up and some men...might be pretty happy living life again, hey? What do I know, I'm just some lady in Glasgow, asking how that man could be given pleasure, in a forum on a kink site. The audacity.
I'm not Sir, I'm a woman.
Taking to the extreme you say.
I don't think having a cancer diagnosis can be much more than extreme.
Yes, many prostate cancers caught early can be curable but the side effects from treatments either, gland removal, radiotherapy and ADT can be quite catastrophic and life changing, from incontinence to total sexual disfunction.
I can't see any analogy you refer too but it is obvious you have no idea the complexities of cancer, its treatment, its ongoing side effects whereas, I do.
I'm happy you may be of service to some men with healthy prostates but I would stay clear of those who have recently been diagnosed or within active treatment as they are in quite a vulnerable state and could reach out for support and/or advice from someone who is obviously ignorant of the position and journey they are experiencing.
Probably best just concentrate on the guys who haven't been diagnosed and have healthy prostate glands that you can milk all day long.
Thanks for your response.
"I tried to point this out at the beginning of the post but OP tried to proclaim her innocence to it and then went on to further dig in on her ideas and show what I am hoping is naivety and not malice. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. Do you think you might be taking this to an extreme, Sir? I am not a grief counsellor. The question was, how to make someone with issues feel good. Your analogy is absurd, and you then became outraged over your OWN over the top made up story, that I never actually asked. I will give you this though, I DID actually ask about cancer, because AS YOU KNOW, prostate cancer survivability is actually pretty good. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? It means, that those men might actually still enjoy sex! I KNOW RIGHT? The fucking shutter might roll back up and some men...might be pretty happy living life again, hey? What do I know, I'm just some lady in Glasgow, asking how that man could be given pleasure, in a forum on a kink site. The audacity.
I'm not Sir, I'm a woman.
Taking to the extreme you say.
I don't think having a cancer diagnosis can be much more than extreme.
Yes, many prostate cancers caught early can be curable but the side effects from treatments either, gland removal, radiotherapy and ADT can be quite catastrophic and life changing, from incontinence to total sexual disfunction.
I can't see any analogy you refer too but it is obvious you have no idea the complexities of cancer, its treatment, its ongoing side effects whereas, I do.
I'm happy you may be of service to some men with healthy prostates but I would stay clear of those who have recently been diagnosed or within active treatment as they are in quite a vulnerable state and could reach out for support and/or advice from someone who is obviously ignorant of the position and journey they are experiencing.
Probably best just concentrate on the guys who haven't been diagnosed and have healthy prostate glands that you can milk all day long.
Thanks for your response.
I tried to point this out at the beginning of the post but OP tried to proclaim her innocence to it and then went on to further dig in on her ideas and show what I am hoping is naivety and not malice."I could be wrong, but from reading what she wrote, I'd argue it's the former. I also don't think I have a lot of skin in the game here to have much bias. | |||
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"Lets talk prostate health! I'd think that men who have just been told they have prostate cancer wouldn't turn to a lady in Glasgow to explain the joys of pegging, as the biopsy they are more than likely about to go through will make pegging childs play. But I may be wrong. Once the word cancer is discussed the roller shutter comes down and it can be a dark time for some men. Do you think you might be taking this to an extreme, Sir? I am not a grief counsellor. The question was, how to make someone with issues feel good. Your analogy is absurd, and you then became outraged over your OWN over the top made up story, that I never actually asked. I will give you this though, I DID actually ask about cancer, because AS YOU KNOW, prostate cancer survivability is actually pretty good. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?? It means, that those men might actually still enjoy sex! I KNOW RIGHT? The fucking shutter might roll back up and some men...might be pretty happy living life again, hey? What do I know, I'm just some lady in Glasgow, asking how that man could be given pleasure, in a forum on a kink site. The audacity.
I'm not Sir, I'm a woman.
Taking to the extreme you say.
I don't think having a cancer diagnosis can be much more than extreme.
Yes, many prostate cancers caught early can be curable but the side effects from treatments either, gland removal, radiotherapy and ADT can be quite catastrophic and life changing, from incontinence to total sexual disfunction.
I can't see any analogy you refer too but it is obvious you have no idea the complexities of cancer, its treatment, its ongoing side effects whereas, I do.
I'm happy you may be of service to some men with healthy prostates but I would stay clear of those who have recently been diagnosed or within active treatment as they are in quite a vulnerable state and could reach out for support and/or advice from someone who is obviously ignorant of the position and journey they are experiencing.
Probably best just concentrate on the guys who haven't been diagnosed and have healthy prostate glands that you can milk all day long.
Thanks for your response.
I tried to point this out at the beginning of the post but OP tried to proclaim her innocence to it and then went on to further dig in on her ideas and show what I am hoping is naivety and not malice.
I could be wrong, but from reading what she wrote, I'd argue it's the former.
I also don't think I have a lot of skin in the game here to have much bias. "Most women have very little knowledge regarding prostates in general, hence the naivety. | |||
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"Since day one of having vasectomy I have had prostate issues . Over 30 yrs now I have had to live in constant pain . Many many trips to see consultants over the years , and many many different tablets ! Only to be told I have to learn to live with the pain !! My prostate is twice the size of an average man !!! But no consultant is interested anymore ! Just saying it’s a complication from the vasectomy ! Bloody nightmare guys ! Don’t have the vasectomy if you can avoid it do so" Sorry to hear that, mate. I never had to worry about that all, until quite recently. I'll still avoid a vasectomy, regardless of circumstances. | |||
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"Over the last 20 months, I’ve been in twice for prostate biopsies, 12 taken the first time, 62 the second time, all came back negative, so that’s good and I can still get a hard on so that’s good, I’m now on 6 monthly PSA blood tests, had one two days ago , " And what did your last results come back as..?? Recently had mine done and it came back as 5.0, the Dr at the private clinic said the higher reading could be down to a number of issues but he advised me to see my GP to get an examination done nonetheless. | |||
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