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By *ood-guy OP   Man
13 weeks ago

wild, wild west

On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice?

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By *ayKellyMan
13 weeks ago

Kinross


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice? "

May I ask what ED Meds you are on and how well they work

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By *ools and the brainCouple
13 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice? "

Are you possibly on anti depressants as well, they are well known for causing issues with climaxing.

Have you spoken to your GP about this?

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By *oelMan
13 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice? "

Relax, don't try to cum? I'm similar, or I was, I have relaxed more and it's far easier and better

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I know working nights with less sleep really takes a toll on spunk volume, sometimes last so long , a woman can only take so much of a pounding before pussy starts drying

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By *atMustardMan
12 weeks ago

magherafelt

Maybe consider getting your testosterone levels checked

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
12 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

My fella takes hours to cum and sometimes it means I just get too tired or my hand and mouth get too tired x

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By *iverredMan
12 weeks ago

Aberystwyth


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice?

Are you possibly on anti depressants as well, they are well known for causing issues with climaxing.

Have you spoken to your GP about this? "

I've been on anti depressant for the last few years, and I have trouble cumming when having sex. Never used tonhave trouble.

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By *ambamxxxMan
11 weeks ago

Daventry

An interesting thread, glad someone started it so thank you.

I’m also on ant-depressants and other meds following a heart attack. I also find it difficult to climax. With a female and or on my own, it really starts to show that majority of females don’t want you to have sex for ages… while Iv not had direct complaints, you do get asked to cum. So I take it she’s had enough…

But as a guy it gets frustrating, I don’t need to climax to have enjoyed the experience, but I think it leaves some feeling as though they weren’t good enough?

When it’s actually us.

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By *rafter69Man
11 weeks ago

upminster

I am not on any medication but have noticed over the last year it takes me ages to cum if at all. Last time I was pumping for a good 45 mins but then my wife complains it doesnt feel that good for that amount of time then it ruins the mood. Keen to see everyones views on this thread!

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By *Mids guyMan
11 weeks ago

Lichfield

Various meds have caused me this problem, sometimes things work as normal, other times I just can’t cum, my wife is very understanding but it does affect my frame of mind.

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By *orny PTMan
11 weeks ago

Peterborough


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice?

Are you possibly on anti depressants as well, they are well known for causing issues with climaxing.

Have you spoken to your GP about this? "

That is spot on advice. Read the patient information leaflets, as the symptoms and odds of getting them are documented.

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By *orny PTMan
11 weeks ago

Peterborough


"An interesting thread, glad someone started it so thank you.

I’m also on ant-depressants and other meds following a heart attack. I also find it difficult to climax. With a female and or on my own, it really starts to show that majority of females don’t want you to have sex for ages… while Iv not had direct complaints, you do get asked to cum. So I take it she’s had enough…

But as a guy it gets frustrating, I don’t need to climax to have enjoyed the experience, but I think it leaves some feeling as though they weren’t good enough?

When it’s actually us.

"

This is why communication is key. Let your partner know before you start: forbearance then foreplay.

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By *orny PTMan
11 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Maybe consider getting your testosterone levels checked "

Be aware than even if they do come back as normal, try not to get fobbed off. Describe the symptoms fully when at the doctors.

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By *peshul91Man
11 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

When i was on anti depressants I used to have the same struggle, its a common thing with ssri meds

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Sure, I’m on Cialis 5mg daily and yes, they work. Boner like a teen!

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Not on anti depressants and yes, spoken with GP in depth. It seems it’s mostly attributed to age, the only other option is to try more extreme forms of sex to see if they’re more of a turn on.

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By *xybillMan
11 weeks ago

South

You taking anything for your prostate?

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Thanks, it can be a vicious circle but I’ll try.

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

I have and they’re okay. Usually mid-teens.

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Kind of takes away the joy, doesn’t it?

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

They’re known to cause this issue. Maybe try a different med after speaking with your GP?

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west


"An interesting thread, glad someone started it so thank you.

I’m also on ant-depressants and other meds following a heart attack. I also find it difficult to climax. With a female and or on my own, it really starts to show that majority of females don’t want you to have sex for ages… while Iv not had direct complaints, you do get asked to cum. So I take it she’s had enough…

But as a guy it gets frustrating, I don’t need to climax to have enjoyed the experience, but I think it leaves some feeling as though they weren’t good enough?

When it’s actually us.

"

It’s good to share. 😊

Anti-depressants are widely known to stifle orgasm.

Having sex is great and enjoyable but failing to orgasm takes away some of the shine, if I’m being honest. I think it’s also quite hard not to feel an element of resentment of your partner who’s merrily having orgasm after orgasm while yours remains elusive.

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
11 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Just to clarify… I am NOT on antidepressants and I HAVE spoken very candidly to my GP. She is aware of everything. We have monitored my testosterone for almost two years and it’s been in the mid-teens for the last year +. I can’t be the only one not on meds with this issue!?!? 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Just to add; I was late diagnosed ADHD and started on some meds (atomoxetine)and one side effect can be described as a pre climax climax, which is not quite when you are ready to but neither what premature ejaculation is described as.

It's more like a heavy precum and you can go again so in some ways it can be good but annoying in others.

hope this helps someone.

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By *ifelover999Man
11 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Im on meds one of meds side effects is it accelerates sex drive but i still take a while to cum...i found going over scenarios in my mind and watching porn helps ...kinda sets me up.for the night

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By *cottish guy 555Man
11 weeks ago

London

Tamsulosin caused me to be unable to ejaculate when I was on it.

Oddly I still felt an orgasm but just no cum.

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By *ldschoolfunCouple
11 weeks ago

Knebworth

I was on SSI's 5 years ago, with that and a circumcision which lowered sensitivity I find it really hard to come. If I am with a new partner it is usually ok, but I have to be in a certain position or nothing happens and I get too hot. As others have said I can go for ages, cialis and viagra work fine.

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By *harlottes ChurchTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Toy me town

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By *ilva69Man
11 weeks ago

stockport

Yes, this happens with an enlarged prostate, I find if I stop my medication for a while the ejaculation is normal which is heavy for me, like you alluded to the plus side, you can have sex for hours fully erect , not every woman’s ideal partner but does give you options in the bedroom

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
11 weeks ago

ross on wye


"On ED meds and have a mildly enlarged prostate. Over the last few years I have found reaching orgasm a somewhat unattainable goal. I’d say I have a 25% orgasm rate at best. Can fuck forever which has its pluses but I’d really like to improve my cum to not cumming ratio! Any one have anything similar or advice? "

I am in exactly same situation, had a biopsy for PC but negative, not sure what’s causing it..

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
11 weeks ago

Norwich


"Tamsulosin caused me to be unable to ejaculate when I was on it.

Oddly I still felt an orgasm but just no cum.

"

Im the same, only just a dribble

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By *ootyfruityCouple
11 weeks ago

andover

I mostly have a small window in which I need to come, if I push back the feeling to keep going longer, I don’t tend to ejaculate in that session

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
11 weeks ago

Norwich


"Tamsulosin caused me to be unable to ejaculate when I was on it.

Oddly I still felt an orgasm but just no cum.

"

Similar here, wonder if I should stop taking it for short time and if there's any improvement

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
9 weeks ago

wild, wild west

Changed diet, lost weight, less wanking, some improvement. 🙂

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By *rafter69Man
9 weeks ago

upminster


"I mostly have a small window in which I need to come, if I push back the feeling to keep going longer, I don’t tend to ejaculate in that session"

I think thats where I fall at.

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
9 weeks ago

cirencester

Do your fwbs mind that you can't cum?

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By *herrybakewellCouple
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

For me its more anxiety based when its with new people.

Never have an issue with the wife at all.

Clear communication that i may not cum initially with new people works for me. The right people will understand, if they dont...we weren't the correct match anyway.

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By *artorialMan
9 weeks ago

weymouth

For me I suspect it's the insulation effect of a condom robbing sensation, doesn't mean to say I don't enjoy the ride though. Bareback is an option but I need to have a lot of trust and for my partner to want that

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By *oelMan
9 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"For me I suspect it's the insulation effect of a condom robbing sensation, doesn't mean to say I don't enjoy the ride though. Bareback is an option but I need to have a lot of trust and for my partner to want that "

I think bareback for me is more mentally, the idea of flooding a woman with cum instead of filling a condom is more of a turn on. That also effects me

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By *rasshopper201Man
9 weeks ago

kendal


"For me I suspect it's the insulation effect of a condom robbing sensation, doesn't mean to say I don't enjoy the ride though. Bareback is an option but I need to have a lot of trust and for my partner to want that

I think bareback for me is more mentally, the idea of flooding a woman with cum instead of filling a condom is more of a turn on. That also effects me"
so which do you prefer I my self can’t feel I thing with a condom on got to be bearback with a creampie at the end you also get to eat it instead of drinking it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I don't generally have any problems, until the cage goes on and then it's game over lol

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By *peedie11Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds


"Tamsulosin caused me to be unable to ejaculate when I was on it.

Oddly I still felt an orgasm but just no cum.

"

Tamsulosin and finasteride here for enlarged prostate and no or very little cum now. Still get the sensation of cummin but no actual ejaculation

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By *uskysoundsCouple
8 weeks ago

Mazarrón, Spain


"Tamsulosin caused me to be unable to ejaculate when I was on it.

Oddly I still felt an orgasm but just no cum.

"

Exactly the same

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By *ood-guy OP   Man
8 weeks ago

wild, wild west


"Do your fwbs mind that you can't cum?"

Mine? No, I do cum, it’s just not guaranteed. TBH they have issues too!

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By *randmrs86Couple
8 weeks ago

Merseyside

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By *randmrs86Couple
8 weeks ago

Merseyside


"An interesting thread, glad someone started it so thank you.

I’m also on ant-depressants and other meds following a heart attack. I also find it difficult to climax. With a female and or on my own, it really starts to show that majority of females don’t want you to have sex for ages… while Iv not had direct complaints, you do get asked to cum. So I take it she’s had enough…

But as a guy it gets frustrating, I don’t need to climax to have enjoyed the experience, but I think it leaves some feeling as though they weren’t good enough?

When it’s actually us.

"

Interesting take on it, x

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
8 weeks ago

salford

Can I suggest a vibratory? I'm talking mains powered full on industrial power wand?

Even on estrogen injections and nuked testosterone, I can go from zero to sticky orgasm in 30 seconds or less!

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