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By *rasshopper201 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

kendal

How long has it been I’m getting to nearly 8 years with not having sex with my wife she did have cancer and to be honest she wasn’t that interested in it well before it but when speaking to other people about it they all seem to be having regular sex well into there old age it’s one of the reasons that I’m on here

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By *alahadLadMan
10 weeks ago

Pembs

It's been about six months for me. But if we're talking actually good sex, it'll be a year and a half

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By *heonixrising500Man
10 weeks ago

Barnsley

I had 6 years but wanked a lot

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By *rasshopper201 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

kendal

Me to I wank nearly two times a day and have done for a very long time in fact I’m not sure I could make love to another woman now

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By *r shyguy.Man
10 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Since my mrs illnesses, its been over 15 years. Since sex with her or any female.

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By *dalisqueWoman
10 weeks ago

land of make believe

Sex or amazing sex?

I cant remember anyway,2 years maybe ?! 🍄

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

6 and 1/2 hours

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By *luboyoMan
10 weeks ago

North West / Birmingham

About 4 weeks actual fucking. Hand jobs from women 2 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Over 10 years now.

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By *urvey KWoman
10 weeks ago

aberdeen

About 3 years if you’re talking about decent sex otherwise 6 months. I’m really missing it.

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By *eri24Woman
10 weeks ago

Bridgend

15 years

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By *onforming_deviantWoman
10 weeks ago

Hull

2018 for me

And that wasn't good.

So now it's been seven years... And doesn't science say all our cells change every seven years... Does that mean my V card is reinstated?

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By *dmit-itMan
10 weeks ago

Bristol

Mines 2 weeks and I'm getting pissy.

Menopause ain't helping her mood. I love her though so hopefully I am supportive even if I am gagging for sex, any sex

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By *rafter69Man
10 weeks ago

upminster

10years with my wife hence why im on here

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

stockport

If you like tgirls then sex should be on the agenda

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By *eedsmale36Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds


"2018 for me

And that wasn't good.

So now it's been seven years... And doesn't science say all our cells change every seven years... Does that mean my V card is reinstated? "

That’s a shame

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By *ust me 9Man
10 weeks ago

morecambe

Just before Christmas abd nothing special in fact I wish I Haddent

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

So long there's a sign on my vagina saying "Closing down, all goods must go"

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By *rettCoolMan
10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Coming up for a yr with my wife and it was terrible and before that probably about 6 months .. sex life is over with her if am being realistic hence am on fab ..

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By *r shyguy.Man
10 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Just gine over the 15 years without female sex, but have given a couple of blowjobs does that count.

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By *luebare62Man
10 weeks ago

Newton abbot

2.5 years just hoping that I've not had my last fuck any ladies feel free to help out please 🙏

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By *ilverfox for youMan
10 weeks ago

Hull

20 yrs !! That’s why I’m on here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"It's been about six months for me. But if we're talking actually good sex, it'll be a year and a half "

Really? I would have thought women would be queueing up for a big cock...

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By *ivilised matureMan
10 weeks ago

East Sheen/ Barnes

Approximately 8yrs

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By *ay5043Man
10 weeks ago

London

10 minutes.

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By *inballs99Man
10 weeks ago

Blackheath

3 years ! I have been poorly!

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By *cribeMan
10 weeks ago

Bridgend

It’s been 3+ yrs now. Can’t imagine sex with another woman just yet. I’m a widower.

I’ve have tried wank and suck with a guy.

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By *esmdMan
10 weeks ago

Woodhall Spa

Over 5 years since I had sex with the wife

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By *yresMan
10 weeks ago

Midland town

And I thought a couple of years was bad!,

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By *ussexcuckMan
10 weeks ago

Crawley

Let’s find out

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By *amsubMan
10 weeks ago

hyde

Mines over 20 years

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By *pentoall555Man
10 weeks ago

benfleet

Between 25-30 years

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By *eedsmale36Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds

It’s been 7 hours and 15 days…….

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By *lex PalmerMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"How long has it been I’m getting to nearly 8 years with not having sex with my wife she did have cancer and to be honest she wasn’t that interested in it well before it but when speaking to other people about it they all seem to be having regular sex well into there old age it’s one of the reasons that I’m on here "

25 years since I have had sex, it’s not just the physical feeling but the sense of being unattractive, unwanted. They say sex isn’t everything and that’s true but it doesn’t get any easier.

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By *uga40Man
10 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

Quite a few years but still hopping to find fun on here

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By *utdoorgirlCouple
10 weeks ago

new to area

Not to bothered about it but female half is missing it

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

That blooming long I can't rememcer. That's why I'm on fab now to make up for lost time.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
10 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

A whole 6days!!

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By *imale46ukMan
10 weeks ago

chesterfield derbyshire

Hello with me 12 yrs i was a cuckold only got to clean now x wifes spunked up fanny and arse

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By *ustincider888Man
10 weeks ago

Preston Ish

I went 10 years, then I found fab

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

A few months at a time.

Age has definitely taught me, quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

10 years and still nothing

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By *attering_ramMan
10 weeks ago

near you

It’s my second week ! … blowjobs and Tit jobs don’t count

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By *andy IanMan
10 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

I went 10 years with my ex wife started swinging to get what I wanted. Shame really because she was a good fuck

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By *azzler2Man
10 weeks ago

halifax

Too long

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By *i versMan
10 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Fucked a girl last night, plenty of females out there wanting fucked

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By *mandaxxx34Woman
10 weeks ago

london

A day since lockdown.

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By *llan1983Man
10 weeks ago

Hertford

About 6 to 7 years now

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By *perimentWoman
9 weeks ago

Wakefield

2 years!

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By *akedMMan
9 weeks ago

Witney

For me it’s about eight years. Really missing the kiss and cuddles

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By *andy IanMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

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By *attykinsWoman
9 weeks ago

Salford

A few months, quality over quantity for me

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By *olden RatioWoman
9 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Over five years. I'm basically a virgin again at this point 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Approx 2 years

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By *exytimeCoolMan
9 weeks ago

swadlincote

I dont remember i dont worry just think be great fun when enjoy again

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By *ivingLife2025Man
9 weeks ago

Mansfield

Must be the oddest post on a swingers forum I've ever seen, and I've seen some odd

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By *ommo83Man
9 weeks ago

Salford


"A few months, quality over quantity for me"

Same here but I'm missing making someone cum orally than sex at the moment

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By *pentoall555Man
9 weeks ago

benfleet

With the wife 25-30 years

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By *ohnmorning987Man
9 weeks ago

Nottingham

All my life sadly

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By *ogandher1962Couple
9 weeks ago

Reading


"All my life sadly "

Not according to your veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

6 months currently

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By *eo PublicMan
9 weeks ago

Lincoln

With my wife it's been over 10 years, although she has given me a couple of BJs recently. The menopause has a lot to answer for.

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By *lohamikeMan
9 weeks ago

manchester

6 months for me too - and now we’ve separated - lots of wanks though

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By *avrick180Man
9 weeks ago

Pontypool

[Removed by poster at 04/05/25 22:06:22]

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I went a good 3 years without any. I’d had cancer and needed time to recover and get my head straight. After that I was back in the game and loving it.

I do take breaks occasionally and then come back here for more

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By *p4funCouple
9 weeks ago

Plymouth

Hours .....

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By *avrick180Man
9 weeks ago

Pontypool

Way to long

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By *reddie DerbysMan
9 weeks ago

matlock

It’s been 7 yrs and counting with wife in total it’s twice since 2016 of any sexual contact and I don’t miss it one bit with her . We never talk about sex and never have. One reason I’m on here but being married means nobody chats so I’m used to just logging on to look at pics and dream if brutally honest

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By *68xMan
9 weeks ago

Blackpool

15 years,

Any ladies want to help a guy out

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By *avrick180Man
9 weeks ago

Pontypool

It don't matter if your married mate I'm single and can't get any women to chat to me

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By *ohnmorning987Man
9 weeks ago

Nottingham

They were all bj

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

Pandemic caused me the biggest drought. Months of hell

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By *onkey 2023Man
9 weeks ago

Cross Hands

Six years since the best sex of my life (with the girl I wanted to grow old with).

What’s been before and since doesn’t even come close, but I guess the emotional closeness took it to simply another level.

I’ll always miss you Jo-Jo…

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By *dalisqueWoman
9 weeks ago

land of make believe


"Six years since the best sex of my life (with the girl I wanted to grow old with).

What’s been before and since doesn’t even come close, but I guess the emotional closeness took it to simply another level.

I’ll always miss you Jo-Jo…"

You were lucky you found that even once. 🩵

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By *edbath 5Man
9 weeks ago

london

The Nun live with has put me through many droughts. Over a year now.

My problem is ED and her never wanting to talk about sex unless she very d*unk or we have been on a naturist beach so always to late to take Viagra.

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By *luboyoMan
9 weeks ago

North West / Birmingham

Update - Just 2 days now

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By *londebiguyMan
9 weeks ago

Southport

Been about fourteen hours now and it's hellish

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By *londebiguyMan
9 weeks ago

Southport


"The Nun live with has put me through many droughts. Over a year now.

My problem is ED and her never wanting to talk about sex unless she very d*unk or we have been on a naturist beach so always to late to take Viagra. "

Take half just in case?

Then pop the other half

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By *elaxing2Couple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

With Ste four days but with others 48 hours x

Lucy xx

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By *oundbum69Man
9 weeks ago

orpington

7 years this year with out sex with my gf, hence why I'm on the site!

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By *ull6911Man
9 weeks ago

town

3 yeah with the ex

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By *ull6911Man
9 weeks ago

town


"Six years since the best sex of my life (with the girl I wanted to grow old with).

What’s been before and since doesn’t even come close, but I guess the emotional closeness took it to simply another level.

I’ll always miss you Jo-Jo…

You are a lucky man to find someone special

You were lucky you found that even once. 🩵"

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By *ust want fun 888Man
9 weeks ago

nearby

Years, and the last girl I met from here was probably a couple of years ago and nothing since then either

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
9 weeks ago

newmarket

Plenty of regular sex with the missus ...but cock ...thats a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

If we are talking recently then think it’s been 5 weeks or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

3 an half hours ago 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"3 an half hours ago 😁"

Show off

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Less than a week but I go through phases. I think it's possibly easier for women to find someone than a man. I'm single too though.

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By *an.handymanMan
9 weeks ago

chester

Iv not fucked a lady in 5 years, done a lot of edging and cam play

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By *onstrousMan
9 weeks ago

Ashton Under- Lyne

I’m new on here been on before verified etc but in all honesty it’s been about 7months 🤣 that’s why I joined!. Don’t get out much!..

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By *r TriomanMan
9 weeks ago

Malmesbury

Over about 15 years where I've had periods of up to 2 years at a time of no sex at all; probably about 8 of those 15 have been sexless

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
9 weeks ago

West Suffolk

This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship

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By *onstrousMan
9 weeks ago

Ashton Under- Lyne

Before 7months ago it was 7 years.. haha I’m like a hermit

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By *effdelightMan
9 weeks ago

Grimsby

About a year ish. About 19 years ago

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By *hropshirestartwoCouple
9 weeks ago

Telford

About four weeks with GF, over a year with my wife .

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By *ardleedsMan
9 weeks ago

Leeds

2 weeks and I'm at bursting point.

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By *oung GunnerMan
9 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

7 yrs for me .

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By *underlandfellaMan
9 weeks ago

sunderland

😆

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By *illie_2024Man
9 weeks ago

Ivybridge

I'm about 6 mths with wife

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By *r shyguy.Man
9 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Its actually just over 16 years now.

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By *o againTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Swansea

I'm at around 18 months.. ish.

Jox

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By *reddie DerbysMan
9 weeks ago

matlock


"This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship "

I tried and she tried but we liked different things she was MEGA vanilla and selfish in the bedroom so gave up trying years ago and I have zero sexual feelings towards her and I’ve no wish to try and ‘fix’ it. We haven’t ever really talked about sex in details , just always been a quick shag and that’s it. I prefer to wank than havens for the sake of just getting my rocks off.

Only my point of view.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
9 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship

I tried and she tried but we liked different things she was MEGA vanilla and selfish in the bedroom so gave up trying years ago and I have zero sexual feelings towards her and I’ve no wish to try and ‘fix’ it. We haven’t ever really talked about sex in details , just always been a quick shag and that’s it. I prefer to wank than havens for the sake of just getting my rocks off.

Only my point of view. "

But why haven’t you talked about it? How are you still together if you don’t communicate about everything?

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Alcester

51 years. I've not had sex. Tried but I just can't.

That's why I love giving oral, fetish and kink stuff.

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By *artorialMan
9 weeks ago

weymouth

Recently a year and a bit, when I was married over 12yrs before I walked.

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By *reddie DerbysMan
9 weeks ago

matlock


"This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship

I tried and she tried but we liked different things she was MEGA vanilla and selfish in the bedroom so gave up trying years ago and I have zero sexual feelings towards her and I’ve no wish to try and ‘fix’ it. We haven’t ever really talked about sex in details , just always been a quick shag and that’s it. I prefer to wank than havens for the sake of just getting my rocks off.

Only my point of view.

But why haven’t you talked about it? How are you still together if you don’t communicate about everything?"

We chatted years ago about the fact we should have more sex as it’s none existent, but the sex was so boring we never did and when we did it was cringe as it felt like I was talking to my mum . She always had to have a towel next to us before sex to put between her legs to stop any dribbles. Just pointless as it wasn’t sexy or a turn on to have sex. So I stopped trying and she has and we live as mates but without talking about it. Suits me as it’s embarrassing . We didn’t have sex on wedding night and only once in two weeks away in honeymoon. Hence why I’m on here and wank daily.

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By *ominic 300Man
9 weeks ago

PO32

Long enough! Now seeing a very special lady in my life So Very Happy!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
9 weeks ago

West Suffolk


"This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship

I tried and she tried but we liked different things she was MEGA vanilla and selfish in the bedroom so gave up trying years ago and I have zero sexual feelings towards her and I’ve no wish to try and ‘fix’ it. We haven’t ever really talked about sex in details , just always been a quick shag and that’s it. I prefer to wank than havens for the sake of just getting my rocks off.

Only my point of view.

But why haven’t you talked about it? How are you still together if you don’t communicate about everything?

We chatted years ago about the fact we should have more sex as it’s none existent, but the sex was so boring we never did and when we did it was cringe as it felt like I was talking to my mum . She always had to have a towel next to us before sex to put between her legs to stop any dribbles. Just pointless as it wasn’t sexy or a turn on to have sex. So I stopped trying and she has and we live as mates but without talking about it. Suits me as it’s embarrassing . We didn’t have sex on wedding night and only once in two weeks away in honeymoon. Hence why I’m on here and wank daily. "

Please don’t take this the wrong way, but you clearly have communication issues and not sexuality compatible, so why marry? Why stay?

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By *urreyloverMan
9 weeks ago

Guildford

10 months ago, when I someone to give a long sensual access-all-areas massage and some passionate love making.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Its been 7 hours, and 16 days

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By *dinburgerMan
9 weeks ago

Perthshire

15 years. Lost my virginity the night before my 16th birthday.

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By *orthCorkGuyMan
9 weeks ago

North Cork

It's 6 months...hope it won't turn into 6 years. She's no interest in sex

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By *estiswestMan
9 weeks ago

glasgow

18 months

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By *ondonlad90Man
9 weeks ago

London

A year now

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By *reddie DerbysMan
9 weeks ago

matlock


"This is the Mrs….to the guys that have gone years without I have a question for you….

Can you honestly say you have put 100% into your relationship? Have you tried to be romantic etc? Are you putting too much effort into fab instead?

I can’t imagine not having regular sex with Mr with or without him putting the effort into our relationship

I tried and she tried but we liked different things she was MEGA vanilla and selfish in the bedroom so gave up trying years ago and I have zero sexual feelings towards her and I’ve no wish to try and ‘fix’ it. We haven’t ever really talked about sex in details , just always been a quick shag and that’s it. I prefer to wank than havens for the sake of just getting my rocks off.

Only my point of view.

But why haven’t you talked about it? How are you still together if you don’t communicate about everything?

We chatted years ago about the fact we should have more sex as it’s none existent, but the sex was so boring we never did and when we did it was cringe as it felt like I was talking to my mum . She always had to have a towel next to us before sex to put between her legs to stop any dribbles. Just pointless as it wasn’t sexy or a turn on to have sex. So I stopped trying and she has and we live as mates but without talking about it. Suits me as it’s embarrassing . We didn’t have sex on wedding night and only once in two weeks away in honeymoon. Hence why I’m on here and wank daily.

Please don’t take this the wrong way, but you clearly have communication issues and not sexuality compatible, so why marry? Why stay?"

Stayed due to her health issues at the time plus our kid via (ivf).

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
9 weeks ago

Ilford


"Less than a week but I go through phases. I think it's possibly easier for women to find someone than a man. I'm single too though. "
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There is an old saying: "Men get fucked when they can, Women get fucked when they want to". I wouldn't say that is set in stone but, in my mind it is fairly accurate.

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
9 weeks ago

Southport

Well over 7 years

Think my cherry has grown back

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By *tanlee1512Man
9 weeks ago

Epsom

Too long

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

10 years plus

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By *onstrousMan
9 weeks ago

Ashton Under- Lyne

Does anyone remember how to have sex??

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By *onstrousMan
9 weeks ago

Ashton Under- Lyne


"Does anyone remember how to have sex??"

It’s been a while since I’ve had sex now you know!?.. I don’t think I can remember how!.. do the clothes stay on or just the socks? x

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
9 weeks ago

Ilford

I need to go jogging in flip-flops just to remember what it sounds like.

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

About a 2 month's ago

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By *ason23Man
9 weeks ago

Merseyside/ /Spain

the entire of covid without sex

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By *andyandmickCouple
9 weeks ago

chilwell

Why ffs then block

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By *andyandmickCouple
9 weeks ago

chilwell


"That blooming long I can't rememcer. That's why I'm on fab now to make up for lost time."
why ffs then block

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Does anyone remember how to have sex??"

Apparently it's like riding a bike but lord knows where the pedals are. 😆

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By *dnxyzMan
9 weeks ago

LondonX

Does a wank count as sex in this context?

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By *ust want fun 888Man
9 weeks ago

nearby

It’s been quite awhile for me, I joined the site with the hope that I may get a bit more but just. Disappointed though

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By *orty and niceMan
9 weeks ago

Rochdale / York

10 years due to former partner illnesses. Looking for chat n fun times

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By *armandwet50Couple
9 weeks ago

Out of UK

Way too long

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By *eb51Man
9 weeks ago

kings lynn

3 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Bout 6 yrs now before pandemic, very careful as family can't have vaccine so not wanting to risk there lives

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"I need to go jogging in flip-flops just to remember what it sounds like."
I like that one

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By *jk69Man
9 weeks ago

Currently in Murcia.

Wife went on holiday Wednesday morning!

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By *urningGingeMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

Longest period was around 5 or 6 years!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Bristol

It's been well over a year since the last time I had sex with a woman.

But only five months with a man

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By *rtwisted98Man
9 weeks ago

Market harborough

Currently on a 3 year try spell.

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By *ark5058Man
9 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Two years including today

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

About 18 years, (but just after my 18th birthday had a great first fuck!)

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

too bloody long

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By *elboy1978Man
9 weeks ago

Jarrow

About 2 years since I had sex

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By *uilder1979Man
8 weeks ago

birmingham

Bout 3weeks with the wife. Few handjobs but not many from her

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By *orksBBW36Woman
8 weeks ago

Mansfield

If I go a week I start getting angry….

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By *yrman57Man
8 weeks ago

Ayr

11 years with the Mrs, about 5 years with any female and yet to experience with guys.

Always open to offers !!!

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By *ucianpoundCouple
8 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

So sad that so people don’t enjoy this part of their relationship.

Probably would have been the same for us if we hadn’t started swinging shortly after we met 40+ years ago.

Despite being in our heydays in this lifestyle I still had penetration with 23 women last year, 7 so far this, but the missus more.

Always being open with each other about our sexual needs has made a huge difference to our married life.

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By *ohn576599Man
8 weeks ago

falkirk

It's been 12 years for me hence why I'm here, she just isn't interested anymore

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By *aybiMan
8 weeks ago

By the Sea

About 20 years without sex with the strict wife, or any woman in fact. Had one or two cock squirting encounters on my dog walks with other men. Be nice to walk with a teasing woman one day but, I can't see it happening.

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By *imale46ukMan
8 weeks ago

chesterfield derbyshire

Hello i used to be a cuckold for 12 yrs

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By *imale46ukMan
8 weeks ago

chesterfield derbyshire

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By *obinisthrobbinMan
8 weeks ago

rainham

Wife has elbowed me off everytime for the last 2 years. That’s why I’m here

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By *arriedLookingMan
8 weeks ago

Dumfries

Forgotten what sex is.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I've managed a few years of exile..

But any vow of celibacy has been thwarted at some point by another person, not me.

Those heathens.

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By *dna_62Man
8 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Best part of 20 years with wife till she went on hrt then got he libido

we hadnt for 10 yrs thats when i had my first cock fun but didnt do anything after that for 5 yrs.

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By *88rpbMan
8 weeks ago

kidderminster

A good 12 years

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By *agnar1980Man
8 weeks ago

Poole

3 years

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By *edfordjohnMan
8 weeks ago

bedfordshire

Hitting about 4 years now, may have forgotten what to do 🤣

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By *rettCoolMan
8 weeks ago

Dunfermline

With my wife about a yr and it was a yr before that as well we last had sex .. hence am on hear ..

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By *smith87Man
8 weeks ago

totton

Been a couple of years

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By *ldbutnice2Man
8 weeks ago

durham

About five year ago with wife and only one quick one in a club about a year ago

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By *udamet666Woman
8 weeks ago

Kilbirnie


"How long has it been I’m getting to nearly 8 years with not having sex with my wife she did have cancer and to be honest she wasn’t that interested in it well before it but when speaking to other people about it they all seem to be having regular sex well into there old age it’s one of the reasons that I’m on here "

16 years

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By *usionreactorMan
8 weeks ago

limerick

I went to the doctor with a rash, and he had a look and said when did you last have sex?

I said it’s been ages!

He said that’s not a rash, ITS RUST!

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By *river116Man
8 weeks ago

Lanark

Fantastic


"6 and 1/2 hours "

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By *ominic 300Man
8 weeks ago

PO32

Lol hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ades1Man
8 weeks ago

London

Been 3 weeks but feels like a lot longer FFS....n I'm horny as fk....😭

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By *inkystar1Woman
8 weeks ago

Heathfield

About 7 months

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By *ral4fun69Man
8 weeks ago

Near Warrington

It's been nearly 2 years since I last had sex with my Mrs

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By *jekimMan
8 weeks ago

Wigan

Since December 15

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By *harlottes ChurchTV/TS
8 weeks ago

Toy me town

Too long ago with a female

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By *ver 55 Girthy cockMan
8 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

3 months with mrs so need some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Too long…

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By *layfulGent40sMan
8 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Virgin till the age 23!

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
8 weeks ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

A year previously.

Too long

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By *spenfallsMan
8 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

Around 20 years to this point.

Rejection by women I cared about.

Confidence issues, health issues, apathy... Lots of contributory reasons.

Feels like I'm past the point of no return now (and not in a good way!🤣)

But I'm pretty philosophical about it. I often think it can't have been that important to me, compared other things in life, or surely I would have made more effort?

Accustomed to just chatting, banter and wanking on sites like this these days.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
8 weeks ago

Durham

I've been active since legal age. The longest I've ever gone without sex in all those years is 6 weeks, and that was just due to childbirth.

I struggle to comprehend life without sex. It's important to me and so god damn enjoyable, that I would hate to live without sex.

Perhaps I might change when I hit old age/bad health but I hope not.

Ruby

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By *dalisqueWoman
8 weeks ago

land of make believe

A few days ago,with my gardener .

It was a 'get someone out of my head ' fuck.

It didn't work 😅

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