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By *punk n gush OP Couple
14 weeks ago

deal

One for the ladies of certain age since starting menopause have you found suddenly your ears get very hot and also finding I'm not able to gush as much as I was before

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By *hippy57Man
14 weeks ago

Chelmsford

My wife going through it now ,lots of hot flushes ,not so interested in sex ,not get moist naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

For any ladies going through the menopause.. I highly recommend the Marina Coil!! I don't feel menopausal at all. No brain fog, night sweats, hot flushes are very rare.. and still very much wanting sex (just don't get it lol) It's been a life changer

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
14 weeks ago

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"My wife going through it now ,lots of hot flushes ,not so interested in sex ,not get moist naturally "

Yer i get the hot flushes and usual symptom lucky I still enjoy sex still get wet just don't gush as much

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
14 weeks ago

deal

"For any ladies going through the menopause.. I highly recommend the Marina Coil!! I don't feel menopausal at all. No brain fog, night sweats, hot flushes are very rare.. and still very much wanting sex (just don't get it lol) It's been a life changer "

I have the mirena coil and have done for about 7/8 years night sweats are bad but I do have leukemia aswell as menopause I have hrt patches and pills

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Ryde

I had Ablation surgery about 18 months ago, and it's the best decision I've ever made.

My bleeds have stopped, the only trace of Menopausal symptoms is the occasional hot flush in the afternoon, but that's it.

Maybe I just got lucky on this one.

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
13 weeks ago

deal

"I had Ablation surgery about 18 months ago, and it's the best decision I've ever made.

My bleeds have stopped, the only trace of Menopausal symptoms is the occasional hot flush in the afternoon, but that's it.

Ah that's good my mum had that aswell she said it was good

Maybe I just got lucky on this one."

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By *issP69Woman
13 weeks ago

Neath

I've been in Perimenopause since my early 30s and vaginal dryness has been one of my worst symptoms. I can't fuck at all without lube and I'm not 40 yet

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"One for the ladies of certain age since starting menopause have you found suddenly your ears get very hot and also finding I'm not able to gush as much as I was before "

I find sometimes my ears get really hot too, sometimes just one ear!! No issues with anything else though!!

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment

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By *jh59Man
13 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

The wife’s going through a menopause now

It’s total lack of sex with me

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By *orraghCouple
13 weeks ago

Mullingar/Kildare

The Mirena coil will supply progesterone to your body but you will still need estrogen as well as small amounts of testosterone (this helps especially to boost libido and mitigates brain fog). Women who have undergone hysterectomies or who no longer have periods (post-menopausal) generally do not need progesterone (it works to avoid an over-thickening or build up of the uterine lining which can occur through estrogen).

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

"I've been in Perimenopause since my early 30s and vaginal dryness has been one of my worst symptoms. I can't fuck at all without lube and I'm not 40 yet

You need localised oestrogen. Creams are messy but you can use a small amount externally too. Are you on hrt?

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment "

Have you looked at hrt?

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By *ustylouWoman
13 weeks ago

Aylesbury

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment "

The itchy ears are the worst. And not a well known symptom.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment

Have you looked at hrt? "

I asked my doctor they won't give it to me as I don't have hot flushes.

Sin e them my symptoms have worsened brain fog is worse a few more mood swings and low libido, still getting periods not every month though.

It doesn't help that my doctors don't have a .menopause specialist but he did say he can put me in contact with one if I need it

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment

The itchy ears are the worst. And not a well known symptom. "

It's horrible the only thing that works is anti histamines for me anyway

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By *aizyWoman
13 weeks ago

west midlands

"I've been in Perimenopause since my early 30s and vaginal dryness has been one of my worst symptoms. I can't fuck at all without lube and I'm not 40 yet

I had breast cancer a few years ago so I can't have hrt at all, my gp told me to try Replens cream that you buy in the chemist, it has really worked well for me.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
13 weeks ago

Next Door

"I've been in Perimenopause since my early 30s and vaginal dryness has been one of my worst symptoms. I can't fuck at all without lube and I'm not 40 yet

I had breast cancer a few years ago so I can't have hrt at all, my gp told me to try Replens cream that you buy in the chemist, it has really worked well for me."

I use a oil daily from Naydaya, helps more than any other things that I've tried.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
13 weeks ago

Kent

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment

Have you looked at hrt?

I asked my doctor they won't give it to me as I don't have hot flushes.

Sin e them my symptoms have worsened brain fog is worse a few more mood swings and low libido, still getting periods not every month though.

It doesn't help that my doctors don't have a .menopause specialist but he did say he can put me in contact with one if I need it"

This makes me so mad! You don't need hot flushes to get hrt. Download the Balance app, do a symptoms checker report and see a different GP. Nice guidelines are also useful too, have a Google.

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm peri menopausal, I find itchy skin and aching joints are the worse for me.

I also struggle even more with sleeping. I'm taking a natural supplement called peri menofriend by Dr vegan.

It definitely helps with the aches and pains and my skin isn't as dry, as they have soy isoflavones in, which mimic oestrogen.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"I'm peri menopausal, I find itchy skin and aching joints are the worse for me.

I also struggle even more with sleeping. I'm taking a natural supplement called peri menofriend by Dr vegan.

It definitely helps with the aches and pains and my skin isn't as dry, as they have soy isoflavones in, which mimic oestrogen. "

The itching was the worst for me also, my arms especially. The marina coil stopped all that. I take magnesium glycinate that helps tremendously with sleeping.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Yeah a bit mostly they itch though which is horrible. I'm dreading actual menopause I'm on the peri stage at the moment

Have you looked at hrt?

I asked my doctor they won't give it to me as I don't have hot flushes.

Sin e them my symptoms have worsened brain fog is worse a few more mood swings and low libido, still getting periods not every month though.

It doesn't help that my doctors don't have a .menopause specialist but he did say he can put me in contact with one if I need it

This makes me so mad! You don't need hot flushes to get hrt. Download the Balance app, do a symptoms checker report and see a different GP. Nice guidelines are also useful too, have a Google. "

Me too they only suggested anti depressants which I don't want have been on them before and felt like an emotionless zombie.

I took your advice though so thank you😊

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By *erry2020888Man
13 weeks ago

stockport

wife is going though hers still horny and wetter than ever, gets hot flushes often

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I'm peri menopausal, I find itchy skin and aching joints are the worse for me.

I also struggle even more with sleeping. I'm taking a natural supplement called peri menofriend by Dr vegan.

It definitely helps with the aches and pains and my skin isn't as dry, as they have soy isoflavones in, which mimic oestrogen.

The itching was the worst for me also, my arms especially. The marina coil stopped all that. I take magnesium glycinate that helps tremendously with sleeping. "

Oh it was my arms too! They've calmed down on these supplements and I think my sleeping is just down to tears of shifts.

Thanks for the information though 😊 and glad you've got some relief.

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By *anjabi princessWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester

I suffer from menopause, but I still have a sex drive

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By *anjabi princessWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester

I suffer from menopause, but I still have a sex drive

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
13 weeks ago

deal

"I suffer from menopause, but I still have a sex drive "

Same still love sex but just my ears burn and stop me

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
13 weeks ago

deal

I have hrt evorel 100mg patches and utrogestan 100mg tablets

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
13 weeks ago

somewhere

I "think" I'm peri, I'm not entirely sure if the things happening is just me getting old or this.

I've had trouble sleeping for years but just lately if been having terrible nightmares (I used to get night terrors quite a bit as an adult), rash across my boobs (but not sure if it's heat related) and some others.

I have the coil so hard to track x

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By *osh blokeMan
13 weeks ago

hereford

Go to.your GP and explain your symptoms. There is a lot that can be done to help with the symptoms but they don't always prescribe them as they are costly.

Be persistent with your GP and if nothing changes go and see another. Davina mccoll has done a lot on tv highlighting the plight so have a look online. There is private Dr online called Dr Zoe. Meg Matthews has tweeted about her and uses her a lot for advice.

Please feel free to.message me directly if you want to talk or some advice. I'm not a Dr (in medicine) but does its do have a fair bit of knowledge on this subject.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
13 weeks ago

Debauchery

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare

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By *ylvesterMan
13 weeks ago

Nottingham

Amazing tits x

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By *aizyWoman
13 weeks ago

west midlands

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare "

I'm the same it is a minefield, if I'm not sure I ring my gp and ask, they have been really good with advice.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
13 weeks ago

Debauchery

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare

I'm the same it is a minefield, if I'm not sure I ring my gp and ask, they have been really good with advice."

My Drs can be amazing but when it comes to this not so much

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By *ythenMan
13 weeks ago

My wife’s menopause (early M you could say) given her age started last year … thank god we are and have been always very strong as a Cpl because it’s bloody tough going , obviously more so for the female , but to a large degree also for the other half of the menopausal lady..

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
13 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare "

That coil does contain hormones the copper one doesn't but that one wouldn't help you I'm sorry to say.

A lady on here told me to download the balance app which I did and there are many herbal things you can take to help with symptoms you should take a look it might help you out x

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By *iss KinkWoman
13 weeks ago

Up North

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare

That coil does contain hormones the copper one doesn't but that one wouldn't help you I'm sorry to say.

A lady on here told me to download the balance app which I did and there are many herbal things you can take to help with symptoms you should take a look it might help you out x"

Balance app is great

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By *illowandthewizardCouple
13 weeks ago

Reading

Methylene blue is known to help and is safe and effective unlike some recent mandated medicine

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
13 weeks ago

Norwich

Get yourself some vaginal oestrogen from your doctor it will solve the dryness issue.

I'm perimenopausal but the worst symptoms for me are the anxiety and heart palpitations.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
13 weeks ago

Debauchery

I’m probably at the perimenopause stage. Is the coil hormone based because I can’t have anything that contains hormones which could be a nightmare

That coil does contain hormones the copper one doesn't but that one wouldn't help you I'm sorry to say.

A lady on here told me to download the balance app which I did and there are many herbal things you can take to help with symptoms you should take a look it might help you out x"

Thank you very much

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
12 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Get yourself some vaginal oestrogen from your doctor it will solve the dryness issue.

I can vouch for this & have only been on it a matter of days & the difference already it’s made. it’s nice to feel normal again 👌🏻

I'm perimenopausal but the worst symptoms for me are the anxiety and heart palpitations. "

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

From what I've heard itchy ears are a common thing when going through it

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By *ollybirdWoman
12 weeks ago

east Cork

I referred to brain fog today as brain frogs.

Enough said 🤣

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
12 weeks ago

Manchester & Stoke

My friend is going through early menopause. She 35, no kids. Devastated now plus don't help that her fella 👻 her when he found out.

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By *ou75Woman
12 weeks ago

redcar

I wouldn't wish a bad menopause on any one, my dryness has been so bad the pain it caused lead me to having to give up work. I couldn't do house work or shopping or anything really. I have just gone on to new estrogen tablets and need to start off once a day for a month ... Fingers crossed once they kick in I can get back to having regular sex ... If your in any doubt at all please keep badgering your GP id hate for anyone else to have to go through this.

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By *k8888GLWWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm so glad I came across this thread!

The burning ear thing? I thought I was going crazy. Its been so bad I've woken up with them. I bought a cool pad for my pillow which does help a bit.

The brain fog is horrendous. I still get a period for a couple of days, but they are so heavy. Like when they first started!

I was watching a Dr on TV who described menopause like a 2nd puberty.

Thank you all for sharing ✨️

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
11 weeks ago

deal

Just nice to share experiences and support each other lovely bunch of people

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan
7 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Mmmm

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By *limlady76Woman
6 weeks ago

Horsham

It is so frustrating reading some of your posts ladies… it is always possible to have her - even after cancer - if it is managed properly. It is about mitigating risks and doing what is best big picture….

For me I suffered for 10 years without realising there was help and I hate seeing other so the same…

But the crux of it for me is that oestrogen helps to mitigate the risks of heart disease (no 1 killer of women) and osteoporosis (just plain horrible)…

Managing menopause symptoms is a juggling act and managing your doctor can be even worse, but do your research and stand your ground…!

Dr Louise Newman has an amazing podcast, I listened for hrs doing research, she is the worlds leading expert in all things menopausal and if all else fails runs a private clinic who will make recommendations to your go.

But I have found that the biggest hurdle for most women is denial - admitting you have got to ‘that age’ and overcoming the stigma of even the word menopause - after that embracing something that can help with all the horrible symptoms it can cause is the easy part 😂

As many people say, if it affected men there would be automatic treatment given to everyone - look at what has happened with viagra ffs…! Yes we are supposed to suck it up as part of getting older?!

Well no thank you…!!

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By *limlady76Woman
6 weeks ago

Horsham

To have HELP not her 🙄

"It is so frustrating reading some of your posts ladies… it is always possible to have her - even after cancer - if it is managed properly. It is about mitigating risks and doing what is best big picture….

For me I suffered for 10 years without realising there was help and I hate seeing other so the same…

But the crux of it for me is that oestrogen helps to mitigate the risks of heart disease (no 1 killer of women) and osteoporosis (just plain horrible)…

Managing menopause symptoms is a juggling act and managing your doctor can be even worse, but do your research and stand your ground…!

Well no thank you…!!"

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By *izandpaulCouple
6 weeks ago

merseyside

Never had any symptoms maybe coil helped.

Hot ears, only when someone speaks ill of me.

I do tend to get a soggy bottom when baking.

Never gushed but I do have excellent bladder control and function.

Miostness just takes a little longer to achieve, small amount of lube or a more experienced partner, keep away from people who think foreplay is rubbing my lady bits like they are trying to light a fire.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
5 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Do anyone still get the munchies like when I was due a period I would crave for chocolate & other sweet things because that’s what I’m finding so was just wondering if anyone else is experiencing this?

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By *punk n gush OP Couple
5 weeks ago

deal

"Do anyone still get the munchies like when I was due a period I would crave for chocolate & other sweet things because that’s what I’m finding so was just wondering if anyone else is experiencing this? "

I never ever used to eat chocolate but got menopause and craved chocolate

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By *orny PTMan
5 weeks ago

Peterborough

This sounds like a step in the right direction.

Womb removal is an extreme procedure, that needs its name changing.

https://www.msn.com/en-au/health/other/inaccurate-and-misogynistic-why-we-need-to-make-the-term-hysterectomy-history/ar-AA1HhOFR?ocid=BingNewsSerp

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I’m perimenopausal and I was getting certain symptoms extreme mood swifts to the detriment of my dear family hot flushes dry vagina and no libido.

My GP has put me on HRT patches and they’re a godsend all my symptoms have disappeared. I’ve never been this calm in all my life, libido isn’t great still but then again I have no partner to ravish just yet haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I’m perimenopausal and I was getting certain symptoms extreme mood swings to the detriment of my dear family hot flushes dry vagina and no libido.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
5 weeks ago

Derby

"I had Ablation surgery about 18 months ago, and it's the best decision I've ever made.

My bleeds have stopped, the only trace of Menopausal symptoms is the occasional hot flush in the afternoon, but that's it.

Maybe I just got lucky on this one."

An ablation would have no factor on menopuse. I've had one. I've had bloods done to check what stage I'm at for menopause. Results came back, as I'm no where near starting. So up next for the hystorectomy. Keeping my overies, so I don't go straight to menapouse.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
5 weeks ago

Derby

Forgot to say, I'm almost 53, with no symtons. My sex drive remains very high too.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication "

I didn't stop having periods until I was 56, I have found dryness to be a big problem in the last couple of years. I have found Dr Wolf's V san cream to be very helpful.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication

I didn't stop having periods until I was 56, I have found dryness to be a big problem in the last couple of years. I have found Dr Wolf's V san cream to be very helpful. "

Ahh thank you. I am still getting periods however they are irregular now and sometimes light sometimes heavy.

I will give that cream a Tey

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication

I didn't stop having periods until I was 56, I have found dryness to be a big problem in the last couple of years. I have found Dr Wolf's V san cream to be very helpful.

Ahh thank you. I am still getting periods however they are irregular now and sometimes light sometimes heavy.

I will give that cream a Tey "

No worries, you're welcome. It comes in 2 different types and one acts as a lubricant too..

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By *isshorny247Couple
4 weeks ago

wallsend

Am going though it but hrt if they is stokers in the family my dr told me it was no good for me because of stokers in my family so I won check it out before take hrt x

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
4 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication "
I’m finding ‘Gina’ is good to you can buy it from boots the chemist it’s the same vagifem that you can get off the doctor just thought I’d add this if it will help anyone else

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Thank you I haven't had a chance to speak to my doctors yet I'm a bit apprehensive about it as they didn't want to entertain me when I told them my symptoms a while back.

Thankfully no hot flushes as yet but struggling with low libido

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By *ady OliveWoman
20 hours ago

Stafford

I've dryness and my sex drive goings from wanting to have sex and none stop wanting to play with pusay to now iam hardly ever horny.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
18 hours ago

Galway, Clare

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication "

Your GP doesn't know what he's talking about.. not every woman will have hot flushes, but there are dozens of other symptoms.

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By *uicyfruit4000Couple
18 hours ago

Plymouth

"Has any lady's experienced dryness? I am starting to get it and during sex drying out which has never happened.

Not sure what to say to my doctors as he's already told me I can't have hrt cause I don't get flushes I don't really want to go on hrt but might need some help with lubrication "

You need topical oestrogen like Vagifem or vagariux plus the cream. It is not like normal HRT as it doesnt enter the bloodstream, just works where you need it! Talk to your Dr and if they don’t know about it try the next one until you get one who is educated on it, took me 3 years and lots of UTI before I got told about it by chance. Don’t be fobbed off by you’re not old enough or you don’t need it. Look up Davina McCall and all those other celebs talking about it they have lead the way in this and the Docs are following

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
17 hours ago

Waterford city

Im on oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone. It hasn't been an easy ride, there's no way l could of gotten through peri and the menopause without Hrt. I go for Reiki weekly and that is just wonderful

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
17 hours ago

Debauchery

I’m going though a hot flushes and vivid dream stage, I find it comes and goes but honestly I feel like I have internal thermostat turned up to the highest. The weight gain is ridiculous, the periods are either not there or horrendously heavy, I can’t have hrt I’m literally really tired of this but my libido is as high as it has ever been if not higher 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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By *orny salesmanMan
12 hours ago

Preston

"The wife’s going through a menopause now

It’s total lack of sex with me"
same here mare it's awful l miss it that's why I'm here

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
8 hours ago

Staffordshire

Mrs N has been fairly lucky in that she had none of the obvious symptoms. However loss of Libido very much so and she has underactive thyroid so struggled without medication to keep her weight down.

Now more her old self but still very hard to get aroused. She does accept that though and tries very hard to enjoy a resaonbly normal naughty sex life for a 62 year old.

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
8 hours ago

Debauchery

"Mrs N has been fairly lucky in that she had none of the obvious symptoms. However loss of Libido very much so and she has underactive thyroid so struggled without medication to keep her weight down.

Now more her old self but still very hard to get aroused. She does accept that though and tries very hard to enjoy a resaonbly normal naughty sex life for a 62 year old."

I have hypothyroidism also and never had a problem with the weight until now

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
7 hours ago

Staffordshire

"Mrs N has been fairly lucky in that she had none of the obvious symptoms. However loss of Libido very much so and she has underactive thyroid so struggled without medication to keep her weight down.

Now more her old self but still very hard to get aroused. She does accept that though and tries very hard to enjoy a resaonbly normal naughty sex life for a 62 year old.

I have hypothyroidism also and never had a problem with the weight until now "

She has been to slimming world. Amazing transformation. So proud of her. She is absolutely gorgeous.

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By *dible_KinkCouple
5 hours ago

ABERDEEN

My journey on the menopause has been hell. My relationship is wrecked because of my mood swings, my insecurities and anxiety are at an all time high and I feel so emotionally drained. Right now I have no support and I feel like that black hole has just got even darker and smaller. It's been 5 years and still no let up.

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By *pl 4 3rdCouple
4 hours ago

warrington

My wife’s is going through it now, we’ve gone from having sex 4/5 times a week to nothing at all since November

she does have mad mood swings and real bad dreams and anxiety but I get that she’s going through this so have to take it and support her best I can really l, altho is really hard sometimes

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
3 hours ago

Staffordshire

"I've dryness and my sex drive goings from wanting to have sex and none stop wanting to play with pusay to now iam hardly ever horny."

Strange really as now that the risk of unwanted pregnancy is gone you'd think recreational sex would appeal more and the thought of good orgasms would appeal more However............. Apparently desire can return. You just have to avoid total abstinence as that can switch it off and be far far harder to rekindle the fire in your pussy.

Menapause is cruel in the way it gives with one hand but takes away with the other.

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