FabSwingers.com forum: Prostate operation

By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Anyone had a prostate shave, due to have this done soon. No work for 2 to 3 weeks, no booze for six weeks, no sex for 6 months. Been told I will still be able to get erections but will have dry orgasms any sperm will go into my bladder. Im bi oral, never tried anal.

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By *uncouple153Couple
over a year ago

Abergavenny

I'm sure you've tried Tamsulosin and Finasteride. Was told I would need the op but meds worked or me

Occasional loss of libido and normal ejaculations. Been taking for a year now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a biopsy in January back in again in march or more , I had blood in my cum for weeks last time

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Tried tamulosin and finisteride neither worked for me .tamulosin made pain much worse .bloody nightmare !!!

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've been on Tamsulosin for many years. No problem with external ejaculations. Was advised against operation due to internal ejaculations into bladder with no 'sense of finishing'.

Good luck fella.

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By *uncouple153Couple
over a year ago

Abergavenny

I was never actually in pain. Just took forever to pee. One of the meds shrunk the prostrate the other made it spongy. Can't remember which does which.

Must be different symptoms.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley

"I was never actually in pain. Just took forever to pee. One of the meds shrunk the prostrate the other made it spongy. Can't remember which does which.

Must be different symptoms.

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I take Tamsulosin it’s supposed to relax the prostrate, I take it because it’s supposed to make it easier to pass my kidney stones, it makes it easier to pass urine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mt prostate removed cant make cum but still get erection

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

I’m about to arrange my treatment for removal next week… I had the biopsy about 3 weeks ago, worst thing I’ve ever experienced… but I guess long term it’s better than the alternative

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By *oblinMan
over a year ago

saxmundham

Msg me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine out the only problem is leaking control your bladder after you have been drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I went to the urologist at my hospital , they prescribed tadalafil to me as the other drugs which shink it make me go dizzy . The strongly advised from having an operation .

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By *anysicoMan
over a year ago

cork

Had Turp surgery 2019 , dry orgasm but had several bouts of retention which is cruel pain , recovery is ok just take it easy no heavy lifting , I can exchange phone numbers with you if you want to To talk about it , best of luck with everything

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By *raig07Man
over a year ago

East of Birmingham

Had biopsy (very uncomfortable) and now waiting on date for prostrate removal.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Thanks for a the messages, most appreciated not looking forward to it but the tablets aren't working so been advised only option available. At nearly 69 I've had a good sexual innings so no cum is not a problem though the wife will miss her occasional mouthful lol. Thanks again all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck don't worry I had mine out all ok you get used to it it is hard at first

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By *yCockMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Unfortunately I had to have a full prostate removed, it's a bastard I can tell you.

Can't get an a hard on anymore, tried the pump and now started injection which hurts like fuck.

Pump works a bit but only for a hand job.

Lifes a shit but I am still here to tell the story.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve had mine removed and tried the tablets which didn’t seem to do much ?

I have a pump which works short term but if it’s hard for half an hour every hour ? Could be a win lol

I’m on injections which do get you hard but not as hard as most would want to be ?

Any questions just get in touch ?

Remember to do the exercises it does help control leaking

All the best !!

Ps just remember the treatment is a small price for more life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you please let me know the exercises for help with the leeks

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Could you please let me know the exercises for help with the leeks "

Yes it’s just pelvic exercises if you YouTube the problem best out after prostate surgery it will demonstrate how and what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks 👍

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Had mine removed 6yr ago never been able to get erect after .I tried viagra and a pump still nothing. Needles worked at first but it got to sore .my last hope was to get a penile prosthesis fitted last June and it is the best thing I have ever done. Pump it up with a pump in your scrotum and let it down when the lady are guy as had enough any questions about the operation get in touch .

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

All on the national health.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Had mine removed 6yr ago never been able to get erect after .I tried viagra and a pump still nothing. Needles worked at first but it got to sore .my last hope was to get a penile prosthesis fitted last June and it is the best thing I have ever done. Pump it up with a pump in your scrotum and let it down when the lady are guy as had enough any questions about the operation get in touch ."

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

That’s one of the options I’m looking at any chance for a heads up on how what and how painful the op is lol

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
over a year ago

Near Birmingham.

"I had mt prostate removed cant make cum but still get erection "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to anyone going through this.

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi they make an appointment 6 weeks after your operation to show you how to use it .the pain at first for me was not as bad as I thought it was going to be.they send you home after a couple of nights in hospital with plenty of pain relief .I would advise any one in the same situation to have it done .

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Thanks for that have read about it but never actually been told from someone who has it fitted so a big thanks from all us guy’s who seem to have hit the brick wall of not getting erect enough

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By *yCockMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Yes a huge thank you from me, I will definitely be asking my doctor about having this operation.

Cheers

Phil

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By *illyfemmeTV/TS
over a year ago

mids

Same here.

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Heads up guys it don't make your cock any bigger what you have is what you end up with they size everybody different so much gos in your body and the rest you can see on the outside they add the two together giving you the prosthesis to fit . In fact you might even lose a bit in length due to not being erect for some time like mine but mine as got more girther.go on to utube and search penile prosthesis operation there are plenty of videos on about it .good luck guys .

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Hi everyone, I'm his other half. Thank you so much for your experiences, it's been a great help.

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi PDFRIENDLY Folk it will be a long road but you will both get there i am sure of that .I have had to sharpen my oral skills up but that was a labour of love because I love licking pussy and the looking on the bright side the dry orgasms have saved me a fortune on tissues and curtains. I had my prostate removed 6yr ago and had the prosthesis pump fitted last July.

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By *rumpyandsexyCouple
over a year ago

mansfield

I am on finasteride took over 6 months to shrink my prostate and I feel fine.

But it stops you thinking of sex all together.

Although erection is fine.

Backup doc prescribes viagra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening all, I’ve been in for a second round of prostate biopsies today, knock out this time so they could take 60 samples, sore as hell tonight but oddly not in paid, peeing like I’m it’s a Olympic sport, but the blood in my pee is clearing up, anyone that’s due to have this and is worried, feel free to ask me anything

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By *inkyjijoMan
over a year ago

Angus

I had 12 biopsiee done so fair play to ya. Waiting on surgery appt

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

I took tamsulosin for a period after initial diagnosis of a enlarged prostate.

Still got hard but had dry orgasms. Needed surgery to fix in the end. All good now although my erections are not what they once were.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've heard that tamsulosin can cause dry ejaculations but I've been on Tamsulosin for 10 years plus and never had dry ejaculations. I wonder what causes it - different people react differently?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try again

I've not long been on Tamulosin and noticed lack of desire for sex and also erectile issues

Interesting to read other people's comments

Thanks for the info

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By *ee geoMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I was diagnosed with prostate cancer after the pandemic and I chose to have radiotherapy rather than prostate removal.I tried Viagra and tadalafil which did nothing for me and now I am on invicorp injections which are sore as fuck but they do work.I am one of the lucky ones that can still perform and I know a lot of men that don't have a sex life at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that tamsulosin can cause dry ejaculations but I've been on Tamsulosin for 10 years plus and never had dry ejaculations. I wonder what causes it - different people react differently? "

Yes, I find Tamsulosin results in a pretty dry ejaculation, but also discovered that taking it every other day gives more or less the same peeing relief but an almost normal ejaculation. It always pays to make fine adjustments to any medication to find the optimum dose.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm glad I posted on here, seems to have got others to share their views and experiences something most of us would have kept to ourselves

I'm 3 weeks post op now still show a little blood when peeing but have had numerous semis, having a virtually dry orgasm on one occastion. Back to work on light duties next week, will try sex proabaly needing a bluey when I'm ready. Thanks all for the input, keep sharing, it's good to talk.

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By *raig07Man
over a year ago

East of Birmingham

I'm 1 1/2 weeks post op now, had catheter removed 3 days ago. Balls still swollen and no movement from my cock as yet ( nerve sparing one side). I’ve read taking a Viagra to help boost recovery. I was given a 4 week Fit note but will probably get it extended- I’m in no rush to get back to work.

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had it not nice but you will be ok make sure you can pee before you leave

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By *ldershyguyMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Diagnosed with PC 6 years ago now. 4 weeks of radiotherapy. Get erections but not brilliant have to take a pill to have proper fun. More or less a dry cum, sometimes a dribble but orgasm is quite intense.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

"Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance. "

In all honesty,yes it hurts but it's not unbearable! It's sore for a few hours and then uncomfortable for a day or so. Take pain killers every few hours for a couple of days and you'll be fine...if you can take a few days off work and just rest you'll get through it no bother! The worst part for me was the nurse having to shave my arse while my legs were in stirrups!! I told her if I'd known we were going to get this intimate I'd have brought her flowers!! Broke the ice and allowed me to relax a bit!! Best of luck and don't stress over it. Hopefully you get good results!!

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

"I'm 1 1/2 weeks post op now, had catheter removed 3 days ago. Balls still swollen and no movement from my cock as yet ( nerve sparing one side). I’ve read taking a Viagra to help boost recovery. I was given a 4 week Fit note but will probably get it extended- I’m in no rush to get back to work."

I had full nerve sparing exactly a year ago and still very little movement with erections,even with Cialis, which I take every second day as prescribed. It can take up to 2 years to get close to normal but erections may never come back. Have a chat with your urologist about a pump. It's vital to keep the the blood going to the vessels that enlarge when you get erect! It's a common misconception but Viagra won't actually give you an erection...it only works if the brain is stimulated too. And with nerve sparing surgery it takes a long time for the nerve endings to recover. Don't give yourself a time limit or you may get upset if things don't work properly by then. Best of luck with your recovery!

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By *urbostar170Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Been on tamsolusin and finasteride for a few yrs now because of enlarged prostate

also had problems with emptying my bladder so have been using catheters too.

I lose erections I've tried Viagra which didn't make any difference, my doctor told me that any sperm goes into my bladder.

Would love to have sex and feel myself ejaculating.

I got the choice of catheter or operation but specialist said I was too young for operation at aged 50

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By *ick007Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Theres a new oporation now that allows you to still ejaculate and maintain your erections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the hoLep surgery 3 years ago as I couldn't pass urine at all,that was the most painful thing about it.

Was on a catheter for a while before they could get me in for the operation.

Woke up with the catheter still in until the next morning when it was removed.The first wee was so painful but it settled down after that.

Three years on, no leakage at all,but I seem to go a lot more than I used too.

No problems with erections and I get all the sensations of a climax,but there's no cum.

I've been told it's diverted into the bladder instead.

Been also told there's very little chance of the prostate growing back,so no cum,is a small price to pay to not have the pain from a swollen prostate.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

"I had the hoLep surgery 3 years ago as I couldn't pass urine at all,that was the most painful thing about it.

Was on a catheter for a while before they could get me in for the operation.

Woke up with the catheter still in until the next

morning when it was removed.The first wee was so painful but it settled down after that.

Three years on, no leakage at all,but I seem to go a lot more than I used too.

No problems with erections and I get all the sensations of a climax,but there's no cum.

I've been told it's diverted into the bladder instead.

Been also told there's very little chance of the prostate growing back,so no cum,is a small price to pay to not have the pain from a swollen prostate. "

Yeah told the same thing, I still have a little swelling internally so sitting on a rubber ring at present how lower pressure, Have had a couple of hand shandies which has produced a little cum which was unexpected but if I get the sensation. I also want to pee, never been into water sports so told the misses not ready yet. Hopefully given another couple of weeks (sick note light duties till 5th May) will then have a try

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By *lex PalmerMan
over a year ago

Derby

I hope all goes well, I am on active surveillance . My biopsy wasn’t great but don’t tell mates who are up for one as I think it’s best not to know.

Unfortunately I will have to have another before we decide to have the prostate removed. We are alive and this is very treatable.

Good luck to all with the same issues.

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By *_revMan
52 weeks ago

Birkenhead

I have had this done to me

Message me to chat

Trevor

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By *uncouple153Couple
52 weeks ago

Abergavenny

So does anyone here actually have a catheter fitted at the moment?

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
52 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

"Anyone had a prostate shave, due to have this done soon. No work for 2 to 3 weeks, no booze for six weeks, no sex for 6 months. Been told I will still be able to get erections but will have dry orgasms any sperm will go into my bladder. Im bi oral, never tried anal. "

I had my prostate removed nearly a year ago now. In terms of elections it's down to if they can spare the nerves, I was luck and they did for me. I can get an erection but do find it more difficult than in the past. As others have mentioned you won't ejaculate but will orgasm. I had issues with leaking but pelvic floor exercises help massively with this. This is the one thing I would advise for you, do them 3 times a day before and after your op. Hope some of this is of help and good luck.

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By *luebell888Woman
52 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"I’m about to arrange my treatment for removal next week… I had the biopsy about 3 weeks ago, worst thing I’ve ever experienced… but I guess long term it’s better than the alternative "

It is indeed and you are lucky you have been the chance for an operation. My dad died aged 61 from prostate cancer and by the time of his diagnosis it had already spread to his bones.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Sorry if this sounds out of tune but i saw earlier on this thread that your sperm/seaman goes to the bladder. Don’t then pee it out ?

Again sorry if this don’t sound right but i was just curious.

Good luck to everyone seeing specialist about this problem.

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By *uncouple153Couple
52 weeks ago

Abergavenny

As far as I understand for 7/10 that have a prostate reduction, they have a dry orgasm. Cum just goes into the bladder and mixesin with your wee.

You still have the senstation of an ejaculation but nothing comes out.

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By *uncouple153Couple
52 weeks ago

Abergavenny

I belive whilst waiting for the op you have a catheter in. Is sex of any kind still possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"As far as I understand for 7/10 that have a prostate reduction, they have a dry orgasm. Cum just goes into the bladder and mixesin with your wee.

You still have the senstation of an ejaculation but nothing comes out."

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
52 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

"I belive whilst waiting for the op you have a catheter in. Is sex of any kind still possible? "

You don't have it in before the op. You do have one after the op for about 10-15 days. You can have sex but you won't feel like it.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
52 weeks ago

Northside

Folks,just to clarify something that's been said a few times earlier in the thread...your sperm DOES NOT go into your bladder after a prostatectomy. It gets reabsorbed back into the body! There are 2 other glands called seminal vesticles that are removed as well as the prostate so there is no way for the semen to leave the testicles and go anywhere! I'm a year post op and although orgasm's are dry at least I still get to experience them. And let's be honest,it's definitely better than having cancer!!

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By *mooth shaftMan
52 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Semen doesn't come from testicles - comes from the prostate.

My GP told me to avoid prostate shave as there may be a RISK that you ejaculate into your bladder. Different for different men I guess.

I've had the snip so no sperm but still ejaculate semen outwardly. On Tamsulosin but no op.

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By *uncouple153Couple
52 weeks ago

Abergavenny

"Folks,just to clarify something that's been said a few times earlier in the thread...your sperm DOES NOT go into your bladder after a prostatectomy. It gets reabsorbed back into the body! There are 2 other glands called seminal vesticles that are removed as well as the prostate so there is no way for the semen to leave the testicles and go anywhere! I'm a year post op and although orgasm's are dry at least I still get to experience them. And let's be honest,it's definitely better than having cancer!!

A dry orgasm, also known as retrograde ejaculation, is a common side effect of Transurethral Resection of the Prostate (TURP). During a TURP, the internal part of the prostate is removed using an electrical knife, which can disrupt the natural sphincter muscle at the base of the bladder. This disruption allows semen to travel backwards into the bladder during orgasm instead of being ejaculated outwardly. While this doesn't cause any harm, it means that semen will be expelled in the urine instead of during sexual activity.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
52 weeks ago

Redditch

I've had a x prostate shave (TURP) not a removal, enlarged but thankfully not Cancerous. As a result I have a dry irasm with my sperm going into my bladder a leaves the body when I pee.

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By *lex PalmerMan
51 weeks ago

Derby

Thank you everyone for the candid and informative information, I have prostate cancer and at the active surveillance stage with PSA tests ever twelve weeks.

My father died of prostate cancer and my mum had breast cancer, something you should tell your constituent as it increases your risk also.

Thank you everyone for your helpful advice, good luck to you all.

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By *aster ATV/TS
47 weeks ago

Cheshire and surrounding areas

I'm going to the Docs soon

It pays to be prostate aware !

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I have been in twice for prostate biopsies, in total 72 have been taken, come back negative but my PSA has gone up, five months later I sometimes struggle to get a hard on and cum very little now, talk to your consultant ask questions about any side effects, I didn’t and wasn’t given much information

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By *harlottes ChurchTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Toy me town

I am about to go to the Dr about mine as well.

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By *tephanie 9090TV/TS
46 weeks ago

BISHOP

PSA blood test this Tuesday. Hate needles...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
46 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

My ex had this done when he was in his 40's although they took about half his prostate. He had zero issue getting hard or having sex and in fact despite dry orgasms, he actually became quite multi orgasmic and could repeat a lot!

This was many years ago now and to my knowledge he's still 'shagging owt that moves' as he'll never change 🤣

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By *EELGOOD69Man
46 weeks ago

OX11

I had a PSA test earlier this year, was surprised that it was high score. Next was a biopsy about 10 samples taken.

Was a bit sore and took about ,2 wks for blood to clear.

Result showed cells just in Prostrate and not spread.

Relief!

Now on tablets and injections to shrink it next bit is radiotherapy.

Side effects, loss of labido lack of hard on although I had a good active sex life.

I hope when this is over I can resume sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I had mine removed fine now

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I had mine removed fine now apart you have no cum

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
46 weeks ago

Redditch

Glad put this up as its good to know others out there are worried but comments here show it's not the end of the world, though in my case I find the no cum very off putting.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
46 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Glad put this up as its good to know others out there are worried but comments here show it's not the end of the world, though in my case I find the no cum very off putting. "

I actually grew to prefer it - less mess! 😂

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By *otfoot377Man
46 weeks ago

Chingford

This is a subject that is so relevant to me, thank you so much for sharing, my concerns have hit an all time high unfortunately, part of the ageing process, need to get my head around this .

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By *onlywishiMan
46 weeks ago

Newcastle

I’m coming up to a year since my removal which has stopped the cancer and my checks are coming back really low as I’m 0.007 ?

I do struggle with getting a full erection both with tablets and invicorp so at present I’m on viridual duo which has partially worked but I’ve hit the maximum of the injection I’ve been given so after getting higher doses watch this space lol

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By *eliusMan
46 weeks ago

Henlow

"I’m coming up to a year since my removal which has stopped the cancer and my checks are coming back really low as I’m 0.007 ?

That’s good news regarding the cancer. I had my removal procedure, 5 weeks ago and am on Tadalafil every 4 days as part of the rehab process. I can confirm I’m starting to get erections. My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… until I test I suppose I’ll never know which I’m loathe to do until I get the all clear for full active exercise and sport activities in August.

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By *_revMan
46 weeks ago

Birkenhead

" . My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… ."

Dry orgasm same as before but without the mess, great for being sucked

Also you stay harder for longer

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By *eliusMan
46 weeks ago

Henlow

" . My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… .

Dry orgasm same as before but without the mess, great for being sucked

Also you stay harder for longer"

Thanks, I’ll bear that in mind with fingers crossed

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By *eyland-guyMan
46 weeks ago

Leyland

Can honestly say it’s the worst pain I’ve ever experienced in my life, wasn’t sure how many samples they planned on taking but after 7 samples I had to tell them to stop. Luckily I was ok but had blood in my pee and cum for a few days - all good now

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By *_revMan
46 weeks ago

Birkenhead

It is only painful with the first injection, if you start feeling discomfort during the biopsy just ask for a top up injection

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
41 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

"I’m coming up to a year since my removal which has stopped the cancer and my checks are coming back really low as I’m 0.007 ?

I now have dry orgasms and at first its a little weird but as time goes on if I'm honest I'd say it feels better when you orgasm. It could be in my head of course lol.

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By *4bimMan
41 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

hope everything works out for you all.

this has been interesting reading for me and ive learnt something here today

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
35 weeks ago

Redditch

Hi folks. Again thanks for all the input both on here and private message. Now past 6 months since Prostate shave. Seems weird feeling horny but having no cum on orgasm. A few problems keeping erections but at 69 not unusual. Tried blueys with little to know joy. Thankfully wife loves oral lol. Take care all and don't forget to get checked regular.

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
35 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

"Hi folks. Again thanks for all the input both on here and private message. Now past 6 months since Prostate shave. Seems weird feeling horny but having no cum on orgasm. A few problems keeping erections but at 69 not unusual. Tried blueys with little to know joy. Thankfully wife loves oral lol. Take care all and don't forget to get checked regular. "

Im glad it has gone well for you. The dry orgasms are strange but look at the bright side, no cleaning up after. Maintaining an election can sometimes be hard but it generally works and I guess a small price to pay compared to the alternative.

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By *ungandMan
34 weeks ago

daveyhulme

Been under urology for years taken tamsulion and various other medications.

Still getting up to pee during the night several times lol, my biopsy came back positive and observation.

PSA climbing and looking at another scan and possibility of another biopsy

Keeping smiling and positive

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By *oding2Man
34 weeks ago

marlow

It's been 5 years since my TURP operation, very good urine flow and bladder control.

Don't cum much volume and orgasm feels "normal"

So very happy with results.

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By *rewanMan
18 weeks ago

Guildford

hope you've had the op by now and on the road to recovery.

I had mine only 4 weeks ago, did try to message you via profile but it wouldn't allow me

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
18 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

Hope everyone is doing well while dealing with this disease. I had my op in July 2024 so there is light at the end of the tunnel.

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By *rumpyandsexyCouple
18 weeks ago

mansfield

I'm fine just with medication don't think of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Good luck with the surgery and hope it's a speedy recovery for you

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
18 weeks ago

Bristol.

10 plus years now since I had my prosectamomy..

Really difficult decision to make but with an increase in the psa ( blood test) many biopsies and a diagnose of Prostate cancer.

I opted for the removal..

This left me with incontinence problems and impotent issues.

The journey was difficult and post operation the journey is still problematic but interesting and I am here!

The surgeon managed to save a few nerve ends thank goodness.

The incontinence problems continue but now manageable..pelvic floor exercises and towels to prevent leakage..Only when I have a really bad cough ( I piss myself) is it problematic..

The impotency has been really hard,after trying various pills such as Viagra, seemed to work briefly and still occasionally take a 50mg dose.

About six years ago,the urology dept suggested Caverjet, which is injected into the penis, takes a while in getting used too, but often works and has been a godsend.

I still orgasm, probably more than before and I often squirt, which feels exactly like cumming spunk, but in fact it's piss.

Today I went to a Sauna and fucked like a rattlesnake( i am predominantly top) 6 different guys and it really makes you feel good getting a solid hard on, doesn't work every time but I am delighted with where I am in my sexual journey.

Please dm me if you want to chat about options..

The really good news is ( if you want it) there really is light at the end of the tunnel.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I had my bloods done about 6 weeks ago and my psa was 17.4 I used to drink a lot of monster I stopped and within a week it had dropped to 8.7 had a scan a few days before Christmas just waiting on results

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
18 weeks ago

Redditch

"I had my bloods done about 6 weeks ago and my psa was 17.4 I used to drink a lot of monster I stopped and within a week it had dropped to 8.7 had a scan a few days before Christmas just waiting on results"

Wishing you all the best. Had my 6 month post op check a few weeks ago, alls OK just issues staying hard at moment and not had much luck with the old blue pill but looking to play again as wife horny lol. Happy New year and good luck.

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By *hree_into_oneCouple
18 weeks ago

warrington

Agree on prostrate biopsy awful experience…

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
18 weeks ago

Bristol.

Many thanks to all the guys who have privately messaged..

I realise how difficult this can be to talk about especially when it involves our Maleness and sexuality at the core..

All is not lost, it just becomes different..

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By *onlywishiMan
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just be thankfthat you can get hard ?

I’ve been on all the pills highest dose and nothing?

Tried injecting and now on cream but just can’t get any further forward ?

Worst case might be an operation to give me the ability to be hard ?

Hope the new year brings better things for all suffers

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By *ayKellyMan
18 weeks ago

Kinross

You think RedBull could be an issue too

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By *ee And MikeCouple
18 weeks ago

Cannock

I went to the doctors for a relatively small ailment and they decided that I hadn’t had my bloods checked for a while, so took them and two days later I’m getting a call from the doctor telling me that my PSA was high and could I come in for a urine test to check I had not got an infection. That was negative so literally a week later I’m in urology at the hospital having initial tests.

My head was spinning at this time and we were about to go on holiday, as soon as I came back I had my first MRI scan, the one with the dye pumped around your body and they then called me for another MRI scan before they decided my tumour is probably small enough to just monitor initially.

All this happened inside three months, so credit to the NHS, but still scary that I have this thing inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

You think RedBull could be an issue too"

Possibly

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By *ermite12ukMan
18 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

Waiting on bloods from xmas eve currently. (Was nagged by my gdaughter to get a test. Otherwise I wouldn't have.) Honestly don't think I have an issue, but as she that must be obeyed said: Better safe than sorry.

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By *ungandMan
18 weeks ago

daveyhulme

It is better safe than sorry I’ve been under active surveillance for almost ten years now and my psa has been steady in the last six months it’s risen and now thing are about to escalate.

I’ve had so many appointments over the last two months with the outcome either an operation or radiotherapy.

So please check yourself regularly

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By *anysicoMan
18 weeks ago

cork

Had this operation but can’t message you

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By *izzybicplCouple
18 weeks ago

wisbech

I had a TURP operation October 2024 but was on Tamsalozin. The op went well, (Basically a rebore) shaving the inside of my prostate but i was told at the start i may never regain a hard on again, 9 weeks later it is as strong as it was when i was a teenager however the cum dribble sout instead of shoot out but occasionally get a dry cum. but it still works ad i get the same sensations so not too bad..... but if that what it takes for good health then so be it. At least she doesn't get a shock with a mouthful of cum

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
18 weeks ago

Redditch

"I had a TURP operation October 2024 but was on Tamsalozin. The op went well, (Basically a rebore) shaving the inside of my prostate but i was told at the start i may never regain a hard on again, 9 weeks later it is as strong as it was when i was a teenager however the cum dribble sout instead of shoot out but occasionally get a dry cum. but it still works ad i get the same sensations so not too bad..... but if that what it takes for good health then so be it. At least she doesn't get a shock with a mouthful of cum"

Great news, sadly I get little dribble and cicks a bit up and down but at nearly 70 that's probably a age thing. Happy New year.

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By *izzybicplCouple
18 weeks ago

wisbech

at least we are still getting it up lol.

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By *4bimMan
18 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"at least we are still getting it up lol.

well done. im glad things are getting better.

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
18 weeks ago

ross on wye

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By *4bimMan
18 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

anyone going through this you are in my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

My Dad died with his prostate cancer, and my father in law. At nudging 60 my erections are starting to suffer, I pee twice a night and plan to get myself booked in for a PSA test in February.

Good thread in a sad way that anyone has to have these illnesses, my thoughts with anyone in the mill with this at the minute.

The human side of fab

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18 weeks ago

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By *anielpiercedMan
18 weeks ago

"Prostate Cancer is absolutely soul destroying, I was diagnosed with it in May 2023 but luckily it was diagnosed early. Thankfully after intensive therapy I was given the all clear. In this lifestyle it can really be quite a hard thing to deal with as at first I had a real loss of libido and performance. Then came the anxiety and depression that nearly made me give up Fab life. I'm on Tamisolosin to ease urinary problems and luckily thanks to great friends my libido has returned but I still don't feel the same as I used to.

I wish anyone going through the anguish of Cancer all my kindest thoughts and hope they can get through it too with as less stress as possible."

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
16 weeks ago

ross on wye

Have my biopsy today

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
16 weeks ago

Near Birmingham.

"Have my biopsy today

Good luck.

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By *ohnnyjo82Man
16 weeks ago

gorleston

"Have my biopsy today

Had mine sunday good luck it will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I take tamusulin ..my orgasms are now rubbish a few little dribbles

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By *divingukMan
16 weeks ago

Northwich

Diagnosed with early dtsge contained prostate cancer had radiotherapy and hormone treatment plans now 0.5 so effectively clear unfortunately no erection now and only dry rjsculstion just asked doc if we can sort these issues out

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
16 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Not had this issue, thank god, as far as I am aware, so far anyway. There is growing medical evidence that men who ejaculate regularly have a very low incidence of prostate cancer problems. Studies suggest a strong link between higher ejaculation frequency (around 21+ times/month) and a significantly lower risk of prostate cancer, potentially by flushing out harmful substances, though it doesn't fully prevent aggressive forms, and other lifestyle factors also matter.

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
16 weeks ago

ross on wye

"Have my biopsy today

It had to be cancelled due to a urine infection

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Redditch

"Diagnosed with early dtsge contained prostate cancer had radiotherapy and hormone treatment plans now 0.5 so effectively clear unfortunately no erection now and only dry rjsculstion just asked doc if we can sort these issues out"

Fingers crossed for you.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Redditch

"Not had this issue, thank god, as far as I am aware, so far anyway. There is growing medical evidence that men who ejaculate regularly have a very low incidence of prostate cancer problems. Studies suggest a strong link between higher ejaculation frequency (around 21+ times/month) and a significantly lower risk of prostate cancer, potentially by flushing out harmful substances, though it doesn't fully prevent aggressive forms, and other lifestyle factors also matter. "

Mine was non cancerous just enlarge. Prostate shave has left me with dry orgasms but my erection is getting better each passing month. LAlways loved a good wank but with no cum the fun tends to have been lost.

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Redditch

"Have my biopsy today

It had to be cancelled due to a urine infection"

Sorry to hear, hope they rebook soon

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
16 weeks ago

Redditch

Thank you all who have posted on here. I think reading about others with the same problem does help people. Best wishes PDF.

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By *ohnnyjo82Man
16 weeks ago

gorleston

"Thank you all who have posted on here. I think reading about others with the same problem does help people. Best wishes PDF. "

I agree especially when your going thou it at any stage of diagnosis

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By *r_firmwareMan
16 weeks ago

Luton

I had mine removed and now have to take injections to get hard, which lasts for around an hour or more!

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By *amino GuyMan
16 weeks ago

West Cork / Cork City /Killarney/ Dublin

Thanks to everyone for sharing. I'm on the tamsulosin to help with weak peeing. It's made no difference but it has reduced the cum and impacted desire a little. Waiting on the camera job so at least I'm prepared thanks to everyone here.

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By *ilvelicker60Man
16 weeks ago

Thrapston

I had my prostate removed. I still get erect and dry cum. No ejeculation og sperm.

I’m thankful.

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By *ornucopiaMan
16 weeks ago

Bexley

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By *ornucopiaMan
16 weeks ago

Bexley

"I had my prostate removed. I still get erect and dry cum. No ejeculation og sperm.

I’m thankful. "

When the prostate is removed, what controls urine flow particularly during sex?

Watersports are fun out of doors or in the shower but not so much in a bed, especially someone else's bed!

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By *oding2Man
16 weeks ago

marlow

Had my enlarged prostate fixed with a TURP operation 4 years ago.

I can still cum but a much smaller amount. Can also manage to piss with a hard on if I desire.

Has totally fixed my low flow and frequency problems

Overall a good result.

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By *ornucopiaMan
16 weeks ago

Bexley

"Had my enlarged prostate fixed with a TURP operation 4 years ago.

I can still cum but a much smaller amount. Can also manage to piss with a hard on if I desire.

Has totally fixed my low flow and frequency problems

Overall a good result. "

I particularly don't want to piss while I've got a hard on!

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By *un69-18Man
15 weeks ago

preston

I’ve had a biopsy and it was quite an ordeal ! Yes blood in my urine for a few days and plenty bruising of my perinium

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By *un69-18Man
15 weeks ago

preston

I lost my father to prostate cancer so I’m glad your here to tell the tale

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By *arrapsMan
11 weeks ago

port talbot

I’m on tamsulosin, no ejaculation at all , it has helped slightly with urine flow through

Next option is TURP but honestly it frightens the crap out of me

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By *DFriendly Folk OP Couple
11 weeks ago

Redditch

Don't worry, your out for the count when the do the procedure. Feels weird having a tube in your bellend initially but you get used to it. Having to have a few pees to order once tube removed is a bit stressful but once done your free to go. Just follow instructions and you will be fine.

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By *ophia AlexxxaTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Hastings

I had a biopsy a couple of months ago and it was a horrible experience. Fortunately the NHS staff were lovely

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By *r_firmwareMan
10 weeks ago

Luton

I take Invicorp injections. You can also take Caverject injections. Speak with GP first..

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By *ilvinerefMan
10 weeks ago

Near Colchester

Reply to forum post "Prostate operation" I had a HOLEP 10 years ago - laser surgery but a lot better than a TURP which is a scalpel job. Rétrograde ejaculation is tolerable but hugely disappointing not spurting cum any more. There is a newer non invasive procedure called aqua ablation that causes minimal collateral damage. Unless you are really suffering from an enlarged prostate and various medications which can work have failed then DONT DO IT. Keep investigating options. No sex for 6 months is bullshit and makes me think your consultant is ‘old school’ and is not up to date on alternative approaches which improve each year PM me if you want to discuss further

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By *xybillMan
10 weeks ago

South

Anyone willing to talk privately about their experiences? Not had much info from dr

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
10 weeks ago

ross on wye

I was thought to have prostate cancer, the biopsy came back negative. Sorry I do sympathies

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By *r_firmwareMan
10 weeks ago

Luton

Feel free to msg me

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By *aynkay4funCouple
10 weeks ago

south/yorks north/derbys

I had a procedure called, Steam Ablation. Happy to chat if anyone has a question.

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By *ateralspaceMan
8 weeks ago

Enfield

"Had biopsy (very uncomfortable) and now waiting on date for prostrate removal."

It is extremely uncomfortable. You can have it done under general anaesthetic.

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