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"I was never actually in pain. Just took forever to pee. One of the meds shrunk the prostrate the other made it spongy. Can't remember which does which. Must be different symptoms. " I take Tamsulosin it’s supposed to relax the prostrate, I take it because it’s supposed to make it easier to pass my kidney stones, it makes it easier to pass urine | |||
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"Could you please let me know the exercises for help with the leeks " Yes it’s just pelvic exercises if you YouTube the problem best out after prostate surgery it will demonstrate how and what to do | |||
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"Had mine removed 6yr ago never been able to get erect after .I tried viagra and a pump still nothing. Needles worked at first but it got to sore .my last hope was to get a penile prosthesis fitted last June and it is the best thing I have ever done. Pump it up with a pump in your scrotum and let it down when the lady are guy as had enough any questions about the operation get in touch ." | |||
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"I had mt prostate removed cant make cum but still get erection " Same. | |||
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"I've heard that tamsulosin can cause dry ejaculations but I've been on Tamsulosin for 10 years plus and never had dry ejaculations. I wonder what causes it - different people react differently? " Yes, I find Tamsulosin results in a pretty dry ejaculation, but also discovered that taking it every other day gives more or less the same peeing relief but an almost normal ejaculation. It always pays to make fine adjustments to any medication to find the optimum dose. | |||
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"Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance. " In all honesty,yes it hurts but it's not unbearable! It's sore for a few hours and then uncomfortable for a day or so. Take pain killers every few hours for a couple of days and you'll be fine...if you can take a few days off work and just rest you'll get through it no bother! The worst part for me was the nurse having to shave my arse while my legs were in stirrups!! I told her if I'd known we were going to get this intimate I'd have brought her flowers!! Broke the ice and allowed me to relax a bit!! Best of luck and don't stress over it. Hopefully you get good results!! | |||
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"I'm 1 1/2 weeks post op now, had catheter removed 3 days ago. Balls still swollen and no movement from my cock as yet ( nerve sparing one side). I’ve read taking a Viagra to help boost recovery. I was given a 4 week Fit note but will probably get it extended- I’m in no rush to get back to work." I had full nerve sparing exactly a year ago and still very little movement with erections,even with Cialis, which I take every second day as prescribed. It can take up to 2 years to get close to normal but erections may never come back. Have a chat with your urologist about a pump. It's vital to keep the the blood going to the vessels that enlarge when you get erect! It's a common misconception but Viagra won't actually give you an erection...it only works if the brain is stimulated too. And with nerve sparing surgery it takes a long time for the nerve endings to recover. Don't give yourself a time limit or you may get upset if things don't work properly by then. Best of luck with your recovery! | |||
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"I had the hoLep surgery 3 years ago as I couldn't pass urine at all,that was the most painful thing about it. Was on a catheter for a while before they could get me in for the operation. Woke up with the catheter still in until the next morning when it was removed.The first wee was so painful but it settled down after that. Three years on, no leakage at all,but I seem to go a lot more than I used too. No problems with erections and I get all the sensations of a climax,but there's no cum. I've been told it's diverted into the bladder instead. Been also told there's very little chance of the prostate growing back,so no cum,is a small price to pay to not have the pain from a swollen prostate. " Yeah told the same thing, I still have a little swelling internally so sitting on a rubber ring at present how lower pressure, Have had a couple of hand shandies which has produced a little cum which was unexpected but if I get the sensation. I also want to pee, never been into water sports so told the misses not ready yet. Hopefully given another couple of weeks (sick note light duties till 5th May) will then have a try | |||
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"Anyone had a prostate shave, due to have this done soon. No work for 2 to 3 weeks, no booze for six weeks, no sex for 6 months. Been told I will still be able to get erections but will have dry orgasms any sperm will go into my bladder. Im bi oral, never tried anal. " I had my prostate removed nearly a year ago now. In terms of elections it's down to if they can spare the nerves, I was luck and they did for me. I can get an erection but do find it more difficult than in the past. As others have mentioned you won't ejaculate but will orgasm. I had issues with leaking but pelvic floor exercises help massively with this. This is the one thing I would advise for you, do them 3 times a day before and after your op. Hope some of this is of help and good luck. | |||
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"I’m about to arrange my treatment for removal next week… I had the biopsy about 3 weeks ago, worst thing I’ve ever experienced… but I guess long term it’s better than the alternative " It is indeed and you are lucky you have been the chance for an operation. My dad died aged 61 from prostate cancer and by the time of his diagnosis it had already spread to his bones. | |||
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"As far as I understand for 7/10 that have a prostate reduction, they have a dry orgasm. Cum just goes into the bladder and mixesin with your wee. You still have the senstation of an ejaculation but nothing comes out." ![]() | |||
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"I belive whilst waiting for the op you have a catheter in. Is sex of any kind still possible? " You don't have it in before the op. You do have one after the op for about 10-15 days. You can have sex but you won't feel like it. | |||
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"Folks,just to clarify something that's been said a few times earlier in the thread...your sperm DOES NOT go into your bladder after a prostatectomy. It gets reabsorbed back into the body! There are 2 other glands called seminal vesticles that are removed as well as the prostate so there is no way for the semen to leave the testicles and go anywhere! I'm a year post op and although orgasm's are dry at least I still get to experience them. And let's be honest,it's definitely better than having cancer!! ![]() A dry orgasm, also known as retrograde ejaculation, is a common side effect of Transurethral Resection of the Prostate (TURP). During a TURP, the internal part of the prostate is removed using an electrical knife, which can disrupt the natural sphincter muscle at the base of the bladder. This disruption allows semen to travel backwards into the bladder during orgasm instead of being ejaculated outwardly. While this doesn't cause any harm, it means that semen will be expelled in the urine instead of during sexual activity. | |||
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"Glad put this up as its good to know others out there are worried but comments here show it's not the end of the world, though in my case I find the no cum very off putting. " I actually grew to prefer it - less mess! 😂 | |||
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"I’m coming up to a year since my removal which has stopped the cancer and my checks are coming back really low as I’m 0.007 ? I do struggle with getting a full erection both with tablets and invicorp so at present I’m on viridual duo which has partially worked but I’ve hit the maximum of the injection I’ve been given so after getting higher doses watch this space lol " That’s good news regarding the cancer. I had my removal procedure, 5 weeks ago and am on Tadalafil every 4 days as part of the rehab process. I can confirm I’m starting to get erections. My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… until I test I suppose I’ll never know which I’m loathe to do until I get the all clear for full active exercise and sport activities in August. | |||
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" . My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… ." Dry orgasm same as before but without the mess, great for being sucked Also you stay harder for longer | |||
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" . My only concern is dry orgasms and how that will feel… . Dry orgasm same as before but without the mess, great for being sucked Also you stay harder for longer" Thanks, I’ll bear that in mind with fingers crossed | |||
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"Can anyone confirm if a biopsy hurts? I’ve been told it’s the worst pain but I’m not sure if I’ve been unlucky and spoke to two people who had a bad experience. I may have to have one and I’m worrying. Feel free to inbox me. Thanks in advance. " Can honestly say it’s the worst pain I’ve ever experienced in my life, wasn’t sure how many samples they planned on taking but after 7 samples I had to tell them to stop. Luckily I was ok but had blood in my pee and cum for a few days - all good now | |||
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