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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." I blame the sex. If there's no sex there's no STDs | |||
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"Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. " Bmth - by mouth ? | |||
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"Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. Bmth - by mouth ?" I thought bournemouth | |||
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"Yep. If its in the throat. " Would gargling with Toilet Duck help ? | |||
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"A case of gonorrhoea you say?? Thank goodness. Just lately it’s been nothing but Chardonnay Chardonnay Chardonnay " Is a bi sexual man delivering your case | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." We’re such bounders. I think we should be avoided by all straight people - we’re far too dangerous. Riddled, I tells ya. Riddled! | |||
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"Is it all over the news? What's going on?!" What would the local paper headline be,? | |||
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"Is it all over the news? What's going on?! What would the local paper headline be,? " Poole - home of Rick Stein and dick stains | |||
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"Is it all over the news? What's going on?! What would the local paper headline be,? " Judging by this thread it would be: Bmth bi men are riddled bounders and scoundrels | |||
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"Should Bi Men actually be banned ?" New headline Ban Bmth Bi Men ? | |||
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"BMTH have it?! Will I catch it listening to the new album?! "Obviously don't play the track Doomed. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ " Article only a year out of date referring to data from 2022. Perhaps before OP should come with more up-to-date information before accusing certain demographics of being responsible for spreading it, especially considering the article in question doesn't mention "bi-sexual men" at all.. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please" Tom agrees. He has just posted a lovely thread on Dine and Dash if anyone is interested | |||
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"Take care and keep fingers crossed please. X" And legs | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything "Statistics say they are dirty bastards | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything "Biphobia. Feckless fools. C | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." Is it you Don? | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything "Because we are Evil | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." No, people having unprotected sex are spreading it. And the decision to have bareback sex goes both ways. Let’s not aggressively shame a specific group of people, when the receiver is just as guilty for not protecting their own sexual health, and insisting on using protection. Also, why has a post been uploaded for this? STIs are a thing. It’s not a big deal. Yes, they can happen to you too! Get over it! If it does, be an adult about it, get yourself to the clinic and calmly tell the person who passed it onto you without childishly shaming them - maybe they didn’t know they had it, either! | |||
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"Is it all over the news? What's going on?! What would the local paper headline be,? " Bi men a gonorr-hoea in Bournemouth | |||
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"Is it all over the news? What's going on?! What would the local paper headline be,? Bi men a gonorr-hoea in Bournemouth " Bournemouth - Go No Here. | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." Sexusl intercourse is causing it to spread. It is not bisexual men at sll. It us anyone. Straight men and wonen can pass on STI's too you know. Don't be so ignorant and closed minded. Everyone can catch any STI's. | |||
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"Who the fuck goes to Bournemouth??" bi men apparently and the odd politician desperate for votes | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." If it’s “bisexual men” (as opposed to Gay men), then surely that means women are also spreading it? | |||
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"All I'm trying to do is give the heads up. Even a blow job is a risk with this going about." It would appear giving head is ill advised... | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything "They are very nice people and happy to take the blame as long as you don't tell their wife.  | |||
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"I am well informed. As I have had to get tested after he told me he's come up positive." No, you are very ill-informed. Your source is out of date and your theory about bixeual men is speculation and is offensive. However, as you have advised you had to get tested because you have been with someone who is positive then it suggests that it's YOU and people doing the same as you who are spreading it! Bisexual men usually have more regular checks than straight guys | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything "Because some people are ignorant and incapable of thinking before speaking | |||
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"Why is it always the Bi guys that get the blame for everything
Because some people are ignorant and incapable of thinking before speaking " | |||
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"There is gonorrhea going about. In Poole and Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. We gotta ask is it worth the risk ?.Especially if it turns out to be the resistant type." How do you know? Isn’t this stuff confidential? | |||
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"There is gonorrhea going about. In Poole and Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. We gotta ask is it worth the risk ?.Especially if it turns out to be the resistant type. How do you know? Isn’t this stuff confidential?" She doesn't know anything. She's a very ignorant person | |||
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"I am well informed. As I have had to get tested after he told me he's come up positive." Did u know he was bisexual before any sexual activity? Or did he tell u while delivering the unfortunate news about his positive test? | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it. Sexusl intercourse is causing it to spread. It is not bisexual men at sll. It us anyone. Straight men and wonen can pass on STI's too you know. Don't be so ignorant and closed minded. Everyone can catch any STI's. " Suggesting a condom for a bj puts the brakes on for any swinger meet. Yet a professional sex worker will do so without asking. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please" Hey Moderate Moderator. How come you’re standing up for the random and out of date, anti bi men hate speech? And not doing some moderating of this? Yours interestedly Ana. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please Hey Moderate Moderator. How come you’re standing up for the random and out of date, anti bi men hate speech? And not doing some moderating of this? Yours interestedly Ana. " In fairness Bi Sexual men are statistically the worst offenders - caveating this - Bisexual men who keep their sexuality secret from their wives… they are more likely to have risky unprotected anal sex with complete strangers (not in committed MM relationships) less likely to use Prep, less likely to get tested, less likely to seek prompt treatment…. all due to fear of discovery by their spouses. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please Hey Moderate Moderator. How come you’re standing up for the random and out of date, anti bi men hate speech? And not doing some moderating of this? Yours interestedly Ana. In fairness Bi Sexual men are statistically the worst offenders - caveating this - Bisexual men who keep their sexuality secret from their wives… they are more likely to have risky unprotected anal sex with complete strangers (not in committed MM relationships) less likely to use Prep, less likely to get tested, less likely to seek prompt treatment…. all due to fear of discovery by their spouses. " I’d be very interested to understand the source which underpins your comments Mr Fox ? As for bisexual men being the font of all evil and lack of moderation on the subject; neither is anything new! We’re simply an easy target! | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please Hey Moderate Moderator. How come you’re standing up for the random and out of date, anti bi men hate speech? And not doing some moderating of this? Yours interestedly Ana. In fairness Bi Sexual men are statistically the worst offenders - caveating this - Bisexual men who keep their sexuality secret from their wives… they are more likely to have risky unprotected anal sex with complete strangers (not in committed MM relationships) less likely to use Prep, less likely to get tested, less likely to seek prompt treatment…. all due to fear of discovery by their spouses. " How could you know that? | |||
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"I found some more interesting stats. Only 8% of people sporadically use condoms during oral sex. Someone isn’t telling the truth about their safe sex practices." Your conclusion doesn't follow from that statistic... | |||
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"There was a recent study that found that men who identified as bisexual were more likely to have genes that previous studies had shown were associated with risk taking. Which is why taking statistics at face value is so dangerous! Two questions you have to ask when any statistic shows "higher risk" are 1) by how much, and 2) in comparison to who? 1) They were actually looking for an explanation for why bisexual men have slightly more children on average than straight men. This was a study on a huge database, so even a small variation in risk was significant, and useful for them. The reports I saw didn't say how big it was, so we just can't say whether it's significant in a totally different area. If the risk goes from 10% to 10.0001%, it wouldn't be worth worrying about. 2) It was comparing against straight men as a whole. I really don't think straight men who are swingers are representative of straight men as a whole. I have no evidence, but it doesn't seem unlikely to me that swinging men are more likely to be risk takers on average than non-swinging men. So it could be that straight swingers are even more into risk taking than bi swingers - we just don't know. In reality none of these studies focus on the group of slightly unusual people in the swinging world. So we really have no idea how applicable they are to us, and whether any difference in risk is worth worrying about. Oh, interesting snippet for anyone reading this far: Gay men are no more likely to be risk takers than straight men. It's just those bi guys... " What nonsense research. How can they possible gather stats like that when everybody lies. Look at the number of straight men on here who love cock. | |||
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"What nonsense research. How can they possible gather stats like that when everybody lies. Look at the number of straight men on here who love cock. " Which pretty much proves my point. What they actually said was "men who self identify as bi". They never said that it extended to bi men that identified as straight. Interpretting stats is really, really difficult, so in general, we're all pretty rubbish at interpreting research like this. Quoting statistics like this is actually pretty useless to any discussion. Admittedly expert interpretation of stats is far from perfect, but it's much better than what you see in internet forums. In general, you're much, much more likely to be right if you follow the advice of people who actually know what they're talking about. | |||
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"https://www.bournemouthecho.co.uk/news/23589057.gonorrhoea-syphilis-cases-bcp-soared-last-year/ For the people who wanted an article, google always helps It is a serious subject so it would help if the people who want to take the piss to go find a different thread that might be more suitable please Hey Moderate Moderator. How come you’re standing up for the random and out of date, anti bi men hate speech? And not doing some moderating of this? Yours interestedly Ana. In fairness Bi Sexual men are statistically the worst offenders - caveating this - Bisexual men who keep their sexuality secret from their wives… they are more likely to have risky unprotected anal sex with complete strangers (not in committed MM relationships) less likely to use Prep, less likely to get tested, less likely to seek prompt treatment…. all due to fear of discovery by their spouses. I’d be very interested to understand the source which underpins your comments Mr Fox ? As for bisexual men being the font of all evil and lack of moderation on the subject; neither is anything new! We’re simply an easy target!" Just one snippet off the web… I’m not Bi bashing, it’s just a statistical fact… Men who have sex with men and women (MSMW) have a much higher rate of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) when compared with gay or straight men, ScienceDaily Reports. Publishing their findings in American Journal of Preventive Medicine, researchers at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) conducted a review of studies pertaining to MSMW published between 2008 and 2013. MSMW make up an estimated 2 percent of the sexually active males in the United States. The researchers found that while the prevalence of HIV is lower among MSMW when compared with gay men, MSMW are more likely than straight men to be living with the virus. MSMW are also less likely to undergo HIV testing than either gay or straight men. Twenty-one percent of MSMW reported receiving treatment for STIs in the past year, compared with 12 percent of gay men and 2.3 percent of heterosexual men. The investigators theorized that behavioral elements may account for the disproportionate rates of HIV and STIs among MSMW. When compared with gay or straight men, MSMW may use condoms less frequently, start having sex earlier, be more likely to experience r4pe, have more sexual partners, be more inclined toward substance abuse, be more likely to have sex for money or goods, and may be more likely to have sex with male or female partners who themselves have higher risk factors for HIV or STIs. In addition, social stigma toward bisexuals may play a role in the higher HIV and STI rates among MSMW, as may economic concerns and pressures to conform to a masculine ideal. “MSMW’s attitudes toward pregnancy influence their sexual health. Qualitative data from black men suggest that desires to prevent pregnancy may prompt some MSMW to consistently use condoms with women,” William L. Jeffries IV, PhD, MPH, writes in the paper. “Yet, MSMW may avoid condom use when their female partners use other contraceptives or when female partners perceive condom use as a sign of relationship infidelity. Further, MSMW’s desires to produce offspring biologically may prompt sex without a condom with female partners. In this regard, desires for fatherhood may indirectly increase these men’s vulnerability to HIV/STIs and transmission of these infections within their sexual networks.” | |||
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"Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. Bmth - by mouth ? I thought bournemouth" Lol same | |||
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"So many guys that are relying PREP . It may stop you getting HIV . The thing is there is so many other things to catch and pass on. Rubber up. " People play how they like as adults ,, risk is a personal choice ... its still very low catching things in relation to the population count , and currenlty every core STI can be treated even the more rare resistant developing strains that ocassionly catch one or two people in the news . | |||
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"So many guys that are relying PREP . It may stop you getting HIV . The thing is there is so many other things to catch and pass on. Rubber up. People play how they like as adults ,, risk is a personal choice ... its still very low catching things in relation to the population count , and currenlty every core STI can be treated even the more rare resistant developing strains that ocassionly catch one or two people in the news . " | |||
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"So many guys that are relying PREP . It may stop you getting HIV . The thing is there is so many other things to catch and pass on. Rubber up. " Do you rubber up for oral or kissing? The rate of STI is still high there too. | |||
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"That's why you should always wear protection for oral or forgo it completely." Or just meet people that have sex the same way you enjoy | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." Or maybe loads of horny young d*unk tourists visiting? | |||
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"Who the fuck goes to Bournemouth??" Er, I think the question is "who goes to Bournemouth AND fucks". Right words, Wrong order. Xxx | |||
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"Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. Bmth - by mouth ?" Barmouth? | |||
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"Bmth. Spread by bare back and blow jobs. Bmth - by mouth ?" Bi mouth I think you’ll find… | |||
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"So many guys that are relying PREP . It may stop you getting HIV . The thing is there is so many other things to catch and pass on. Rubber up. " Well op. You tried. Sexual health on a sex site would seem to be a worthwhile discussion to have, rather than endless unfunny piss takes. You can lead a horse to water. | |||
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"It's also not something people will voluntarily tell you over a bacon butty in the cafe or waiting in the queue at ASDA." I take issue with this. Have you been to Asda recently? | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it." why would you think or say that? You’re like the people who blamed aids on gays in the 80s. Anyone can get or spread it. You’re being homophobic | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it.why would you think or say that? You’re like the people who blamed aids on gays in the 80s. Anyone can get or spread it. You’re being homophobic " I thought it was well known that age group 15 to 24 and MSM are more likely to catch an sti. Is that no longer true? | |||
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"Yep. If its in the throat. Would gargling with Toilet Duck help ?" I think I love you, you’re hilarious xx | |||
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"Yep. If its in the throat. Would gargling with Toilet Duck help ? I think I love you, you’re hilarious xx" Don’t encourage him,he’s quackers | |||
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"Bi sexual men are spreading it.why would you think or say that? You’re like the people who blamed aids on gays in the 80s. Anyone can get or spread it. You’re being homophobic I thought it was well known that age group 15 to 24 and MSM are more likely to catch an sti. Is that no longer true? " My imaginary made up thoughts would think the most rising stats is straight couples 40-60 who think they're safe cos they only bareback with other married couples 
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"An article in the news, some months ago was saying that, one of those gated communities in Florida, for over the 50's, was rife with std's. Just saying. My takeaway from that is simple, the more people you have sex with, the more chance you'll catch something. No mention of any breakdown of any stats re bi, straight, gay." A search of F reliable sources on the Internet can easily provide that breakdown. Terrence Higgins trust has a lot of information. | |||
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"An article in the news, some months ago was saying that, one of those gated communities in Florida, for over the 50's, was rife with std's. Just saying. My takeaway from that is simple, the more people you have sex with, the more chance you'll catch something. No mention of any breakdown of any stats re bi, straight, gay. A search of F reliable sources on the Internet can easily provide that breakdown. Terrence Higgins trust has a lot of information. " The lack of actual information in this thread is disturbing. | |||
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"A case of gonorrhoea you say?? Thank goodness. Just lately it’s been nothing but Chardonnay Chardonnay Chardonnay " I’ve heard she’s a great girl Chardonnay.. | |||
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"All I'm trying to do is give the heads up. Even a blow job is a risk with this going about. It would appear giving head is ill advised... "Unless you make a stop at Tesco first - Bag for Life baby!! 
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