FabSwingers.com forum: The dreaded PE.

By *oy-master OP Man
42 weeks ago

skeg

Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
42 weeks ago

London

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice? "

Sadly I have the opposite problem but have you tried stud delay spray?

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By *oy-master OP Man
42 weeks ago

skeg

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

Sadly I have the opposite problem but have you tried stud delay spray?"

Yup tried sprays and creams.

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By *hrimper36Couple
42 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

Try seeking professional advice and together get to the root of your problem.

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By *ustincider888Man
42 weeks ago

Preston Ish

My suggestion is a good empty half an hour before play.

It's worked for me in the past

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By *oxesMan
42 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice? "

I thought you were taking about physical education

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By *reenleavesCouple
42 weeks ago

North Wales

Maybe try and look at it from a different angle? The women you're with make you so aroused, you're easy to make cum? That can be a confidence booster for some women. If a woman came after a couple of thrusts, you'd feel like a sex king

What are you like for round 2?

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By *oy-master OP Man
42 weeks ago

skeg

"Maybe try and look at it from a different angle? The women you're with make you so aroused, you're easy to make cum? That can be a confidence booster for some women. If a woman came after a couple of thrusts, you'd feel like a sex king

What are you like for round 2? "

Give me an hour or 2 and you might see a round 2

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By *ackformore100Man
42 weeks ago

Tin town

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice? "

Has it always been that way? Or is it a change? I always used to think of changing the oil when I needed to slow things down... Now I need to go (or come) faster.

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By *OYFBWoman
42 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

I thought you were taking about physical education"

Lol I thought he was on about a pulmonary embolism!

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By *oxesMan
42 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

I thought you were taking about physical education

Lol I thought he was on about a pulmonary embolism!

Msybe penis anxiety and physical education would give some a pulmonary embolism

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By *oy-master OP Man
42 weeks ago

skeg

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

Has it always been that way? Or is it a change? I always used to think of changing the oil when I needed to slow things down... Now I need to go (or come) faster. "

Pretty much always been the same. There is the odd occasion maybe once a year where it’s not an issue. But pretty much always been the same.

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By *ivenchyMan
42 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice? "

Stop masturbating, excessive masturbation can lead to erectile dysfuntion, especially when it matters most.

Your body can get so used to the stimulus from your hand that when you're with another person it comes across as foreign.

Before taking pills, sprays or creams, please first consult with your GP.

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By *ackformore100Man
42 weeks ago

Tin town

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

Has it always been that way? Or is it a change? I always used to think of changing the oil when I needed to slow things down... Now I need to go (or come) faster.

Pretty much always been the same. There is the odd occasion maybe once a year where it’s not an issue. But pretty much alwayeen the same. "
as someone said. Probably a trip to the GP would be best... If you can get an appt

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
42 weeks ago

Hythe

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

Stop masturbating, excessive masturbation can lead to erectile dysfuntion, especially when it matters most.

Your body can get so used to the stimulus from your hand that when you're with another person it comes across as foreign.

Before taking pills, sprays or creams, please first consult with your GP."

That is absolutely untrue and proven scientifically to be untrue. Masturbation does not in anyway at all cause erectile dysfunction.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/324068#:~:text=No%2C%20masturbation%20cannot%20cause%20ED,to%2048.1%20percent%20of%20females.

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

Never knew this, probably explains why I sometimes have issues keeping it up when I’m fucking someone! Tried HIMS and they do work but not as good as I was hoping but still good, just put it down to me preferring to be fucked as opposed to fucking someone

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By *ools and the brainCouple
42 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

I thought you were taking about physical education

Lol I thought he was on about a pulmonary embolism!

Yes let's take the piss out of a guy with a genuine problem, oh ha ha ha my sides are splitting. Would you be so quick to take the piss out of a woman with issues?

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By *oy-master OP Man
42 weeks ago

skeg

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

I thought you were taking about physical education

Lol I thought he was on about a pulmonary embolism!

Yes let's take the piss out of a guy with a genuine problem, oh ha ha ha my sides are splitting. Would you be so quick to take the piss out of a woman with issues?"

I don’t take it to heart. Both me and the wife take the piss. Life’s too serious otherwise.

I want to go the GP but as other have said not as simple

hoping it’s just low testosterone that’s not helping. But I’m not exactly mr romantic

not something I’m good at. Same as sex I guess pretty bad at that part too

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Porn / Fab can lead to hyperstimulation... you are maybe in a constant state of sexual interest.

1. Reduce phone usage

2. Reduce porn / Fab usage

3. Get fit...esp core and glutes

4. Do yoga

5. Try kegel exercises

Try these along with other suggestions posted

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By *ee pandaWoman
42 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Hi I do hope you see your gp and/or some other professional body to discuss what's going on but in the meantime try doing longer foreplay and pleasuring your partner till your both satisfied and see what ypu both like then have sex to finish xx good luck with everything hun xx

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By *ayo81966Man
42 weeks ago

barnstaple

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice?

I thought you were taking about physical education"

I thought Prostate Examination

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
42 weeks ago

London

The more you worry about it the more it will happen as well. Try edging yourself daily, stop as you are about to orgasm. Wait a few minutes and start again. But don’t let yourself cum. But I still think you should try different creams and sprays too. Even if they work a little bit it will increase your confidence and lessen your anxiety about it. And remember real life sex is not like a porn film! Go back to basics

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By *heffielderCouple
42 weeks ago

sheffield

"Right so not really wanting to post this but need some advice.

I have an issue with PE. I can get it up without many issues but can’t seem to last longer than 30 seconds. And it’s not that I’m over excited or anything. As

When playing with my self I can last as long as I want but other than that 2/3 pumps and I’m out.

Any advice? "

Once you have come can you get it up again? If the answer is yes do you last longer the second time?

I finish fast but the second time I struggle to come and can just bang away do I learnt to just except it.

If the answer is no there is sever options delay spray, certain anti depresents or even alcohol if it doesn't effect your erections.

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By *ailor75Man
42 weeks ago

Brigg, near scunthorpe

"My suggestion is a good empty half an hour before play.

It's worked for me in the past "

Works for me too , never really been a super quick cummer but can last a lot longer after iv already had a wank

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

somerset

i find when i meet guys who have had a wank before meeting that the sex is below par infact i can almost tell if i guys done this there is a difference ...

op once youve cum can you go again ? i really dont care if i guy cums quick as long as hes ok to carry on playing ....

you need to see your drs as there could be several reasons for it

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By *amannaCouple
41 weeks ago

tring

Definitely hard and straight for a long time have to concentrate to cum

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By *ravellingMan100Man
41 weeks ago

Hearhrow

This man here knows what’s up!

Try to keep fit, core/pelvic exercises & walking, lots of walking.

Eat foods that are high in nutrients

Watch less TV/Phones ect

Try not to over think it, had the same issues last year, made some healthy lifestyle changes & it’s worked a treat. Honestly, the pills, GP & other methods are only going to be a short term solution. Unless of course you’re under stress, then a GP would be adequate.

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By *alcon43Woman
41 weeks ago

Paisley

Testosterone levels can be checked and it is a fairly simple solution if that is the issue.

Definitely speak to your GP.

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