FabSwingers.com forum: Weak erection

By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
32 weeks ago

colchester

Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe

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By *ustincider888Man
32 weeks ago

Preston Ish

See your GP, they'll recommend the right help

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By *inkyRebelMan
32 weeks ago

Swindon

GP and probably a blue pill, but should bring back your confidence.

Don't be concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I think you already know the problem. Stressed, tired, depressed. Then the added anxiety of knowing you're struggling with erections will make it more difficult then it becomes a vicious circle. Cut down on the booze, eat healthy, exercise, stop smoking (if you do smoke that is), drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep if possible. None of that's a magic cure, but will go a long way to helping.

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By *izandpaulCouple
32 weeks ago

merseyside

Go to GP.

Stay off FAB and all social media for medical advice.

Good luck.

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
32 weeks ago

Wirral

The penis is like a barometer for male health, if you've noticed it's not the same deffo worth going to the GP to put your mind at ease

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
32 weeks ago

colchester

Yer think I knew was the answer just embarrassed about it, started to exercise this week in hope that it's sorts my head out a bit. Struggling with life for sum reason at moment and all getting ontop of me. Thanks for advice everybody.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
32 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

"just embarrassed about it, "

No need to be embarrassed, seek the help you need. Stay strong, King

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
32 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No need to be embarrassed about it. Dr's deal with this sort of stuff on a daily basis. After being treated for prostatecancer and its ongoing consequences, I feel like I've had to get my man bits out to everyone in the NHS! There could be another underlying cause for your weak erection, though it may be stress etc,. There are a whole variety of treatments available, which your GP will happily discuss with you. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

You don't have to go to the doctors to get the blue pill online docs can like Lloyd's pharmacy will send them by post

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
32 weeks ago

colchester

Thought about that but did have a problem with heart years ago that didn't ever really get to the bottom of so bit worried about just taking it. Thanks for kind words people does mean alot

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By *alcon43Woman
32 weeks ago

Paisley

It’s nice to see supportive answers. Definitely see your GP and maybe see if you can change some things in your life that’s causing the stress and depression.

Good luck.

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By *lack Orchid 0204Man
32 weeks ago

Leeds

GP.. they can figure out if it is something or nothing

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
32 weeks ago

Reading

Warn future partners most are understanding if pre warned then they won't thinks its them

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By *en_Dover79Man
32 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe "

Comes with swinging I find.. Takes a lot to excite me nowadays.. Especially 1on1 sex I find so boring

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By *rikey25Man
32 weeks ago

mids

Cancer and Chemo 3x has made things way less reliable, blue pills are great, but sounds like you need to sort your mind out before you try that. Anxiety builds and becomes the cause of the problem. I’d suggest sorting out your issues before trying the blue pill, if you heads not in it, the little pill won’t work and you’ll be even more anxious.

Sending a woman wild with great oral pleasuring tends to boost my confidence, which relaxes me, banishes the anxiety and makes me rock hard! … and everybody’s happy!

That might work for you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"Cancer and Chemo 3x has made things way less reliable, blue pills are great, but sounds like you need to sort your mind out before you try that. Anxiety builds and becomes the cause of the problem. I’d suggest sorting out your issues before trying the blue pill, if you heads not in it, the little pill won’t work and you’ll be even more anxious.

Sending a woman wild with great oral pleasuring tends to boost my confidence, which relaxes me, banishes the anxiety and makes me rock hard! … and everybody’s happy!

That might work for you too. "

Had the same after chemo and RT, a lot was in the head too. Eventually things came back to normal

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By *ony MannMan
32 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

Comes with swinging I find.. Takes a lot to excite me nowadays.. Especially 1on1 sex I find so boring"

I kind of disagree. It's true a naked body does nothing for me like it did when I was younger but when demands are made I get hard.

I agree some sex is more exciting, but mostly that is about the person I am with.

I suggest you relax, find someone that really turns you on and go back to boring bed hoping later.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
32 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

An underlying health condition may be the cause,as said definitely go to GP definitely don't be tempted to try Viagra first.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"I think you already know the problem. Stressed, tired, depressed. Then the added anxiety of knowing you're struggling with erections will make it more difficult then it becomes a vicious circle. Cut down on the booze, eat healthy, exercise, stop smoking (if you do smoke that is), drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep if possible. None of that's a magic cure, but will go a long way to helping. "

I was coming to say the same

Start with the basics and take it from there

Most men have has times like this, I know I have particularly when stressed.

Beetroot may help as well as Zinc - but this is a “may” and not quite proven. Personally found it beneficial, could be a placebo but eating beetroot is unlikely to cause harm

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By *oe n JayCouple
32 weeks ago

Surrey

Definitely go and see the GP

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By *oxy jWoman
32 weeks ago

somerset

do not just take a blue pill find out whats causing it first via drs it could be something very simple or it could be something comples ...

viagra and others are not 100% safe ..yes sure for most they are and work well but sometimes even the drs get it wrong my hubs was put on it by his dr back then it was a low dose first 25mg thats one quater of a pill and it had my husband blue lighted to hospital and a 7 week stay ... this pill is not a one pill suits all ...

as with everything there are risk and those who pop them like candy just really dont know deep down what harm will become especially those who dont need them ...

so tho its sage for many its not for all

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By *rumguy1982Man
32 weeks ago

Birmingham

Im sure your GP will give you the best advice, try not to worry about it

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By *izandpaulCouple
32 weeks ago

merseyside

"You don't have to go to the doctors to get the blue pill online docs can like Lloyd's pharmacy will send them by post "

No, No, No.

Don't be tempted to take a blue pill or self medicate before professional advice.

This is what I mentioned previously regarding advice from FAB and social media in general, don't go there.

I'm sure its nothing to worry about but you allude to heart condition on your previous posts so please, please pop along to your GP.

Nothing to be embarrassed about, they have seen and heard it all before a thousand times.

Good luck.

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By *rogressivepairCouple
32 weeks ago

Derby

Right, the rules prevent me from using a certain word - but, Hy*nosis or H*pnosis if you see what I mean. I am qualified in this field.

So, this can happen to anyone at any time, for a variety of reasons. It could be stress at work, or general fatigue. There is no reason why it would happen again, but, because it can be embarrassing, it is easy for the anxiety and fear of it happening again to actually cause it to happen again. Using Hypn*sis will help. If you look up “Hy*nosis Downloads” on the internet, They have a good script to resolve this without the need for blue pills.

Also, this can be a signal of something physical, an early warning. So it is also worth getting a check up - always be safe and get checked.

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By *urfdudeMan
32 weeks ago

WEXFORD

Could be diet, sleep, stress, working too much + life in general, prob temporary.

You will have the wind back in your sails again dont worry

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By *wefman60Man
32 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

Had that problem when I got myself a bit down. Found a cock ring helped

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By *ewkesbury cowboyMan
31 weeks ago

Tewkesbury

Go to your GP or get a pump

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By *oulittlesecretTV/TS
31 weeks ago

liverpool

Going on optimale get you bloods done check testosterone levels and get injections to increased ur levels very common now and done through gp so save

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Get a check-up at the doctors - don't self medicate, could be underlying reasons that a doctor can rectify.

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By *nforagoodtimeCouple
31 weeks ago

Weymouth

Definitely get your testosterone levels tested before you try the blue pills. If it's low , then that might be why your feeling depressed and struggling with getting a hard on and keeping it hard.

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
31 weeks ago

colchester

Thanks everyone, all good advice. Trying to improve my mental health by eat prop and at the correct times and a bit of exercise. I'm so stressed out and tired as always awake early even though I'm shattered. Letting life get to me and this issue makes me feel ?? will definitely get myself to docs or try this week.

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By *reenleavesCouple
31 weeks ago

North Wales

Absolutely this! I had the same situation a few years ago. Took a proper effort to look after myself and get back to feeling more energised. My performance got back to where it used to be too.

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By *ickie734Man
31 weeks ago

Brooke

Definitely see GP, I had this problem, they sent me for blood tests and checked out my prostate, I can now have 1 blue pill a week on the NHS

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Happens in about 1 in 4 men over 40. Many cause stress, lacy lack of sleep overweight, drugs or alcohol. Worry, anxiety. But very treatable. I saw a specialist at 63 and it was very worthwhile. I'm diabetic.

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By *parky-1992Man
31 weeks ago

dublin

100% go to the GP mate. Have you checked your BP also? It can effect erection.

Hope whatever has you down subsides too. Exercise, some daily walks and seeing friends & family will help massively with this also.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
31 weeks ago

Hastings

Lots saying see a GP but that is harder (no pun intended) then said I have tried but it's just not going to happen any time soon.

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By *rispyDuckMan
31 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If I’m not aroused enough, cold or got things on my mind sometimes is more a semi than rock hard. Many possible factors that mind be causing this

hopefully you can figure it out soon

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By *ovetoedgeMan
31 weeks ago

Dunstable

"The penis is like a barometer for male health, if you've noticed it's not the same deffo worth going to the GP to put your mind at ease

This exactly. When I'm ill or just not 100%, I barely get an erection, not even in the morning.

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By *j74Man
31 weeks ago

near

Go to any back street gym. Blue pills. Unreal

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By *j74Man
31 weeks ago

near

After reading the thread, ignore me pal

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Thought about that but did have a problem with heart years ago that didn't ever really get to the bottom of so bit worried about just taking it. Thanks for kind words people does mean alot"

If you've had heart problems defo see a Dr before taking the blue pill off any online vendor.

Viagra was originally developed for heart problems, helping with erections was a side effect. But it does elevate your blood pressure and does advise not to take if have heart problems or at risk from a stroke.

Talk to a Dr.

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By *enrydarrenMan
30 weeks ago

Harrow Weald

Recently got type 2 diabetes don’t have problems getting erect but lasting long as previous is what I miss. Maybe stress or new pills

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By *ranHMan
29 weeks ago

Moseley

There are many opinions and advice on this chat. Be logical and don’t become a Google diagnoses and treater. GP’s will view you holistically and as such ask questions about work, family/social life and with that they glean the necessary details. Only when certain about a diagnosis will you get treatment.

Stress and depression are signs of Mental Heath of which there is commonly a cause. Does effect erectile disfunction but advised changes may help. So, make an in-person appointment with your GP. Then your mind will not be so overwhelmed.

Life is precious, live every moment well.

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By *rmainman10Man
29 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Drink plenty plenty fluids

Loads of waist and thigh exercises

Alot of fruits and veg

And loads of leg and groin stretches

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By *unner6969Man
29 weeks ago

Bucks/London/Oxford

High blood pressure? Get yourself fitter, and mentally in a better place before going down the route of medication. But of course, see a doctor if worried.

And don’t put any pressure on yourself to perform or worry about whether you’ll rise to the occasion - that is guaranteed to leave things hanging.

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By *allguynowMan
29 weeks ago

durham

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By *allguynowMan
29 weeks ago

durham

Get in the gym and do lots of leg squats. It works.

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By *omsoftbumMan
29 weeks ago

cheshire

the right person for you will have it back x

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By *amieLDN22Man
29 weeks ago

London

"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be."

So you are getting an erection!

That's a win in my book.

Now keeping it going is a matter of mind over matter. Stress, lack of sleep and anxiety are all erection killers so address those. Diet, exercise and lifestyle changes will all help. Stop drinking alcohol.

Remember we can't stay rock-hard like a teenager and sometimes men put unfair expectations on themselves and get depressed when they can't measure up to those silly standards.

Relax and try to get your nerves under control and get the cortisol levels down by eating healthy.

Also, remember your mind has to be turned on before anything rises. I'm fully at my best when I fancy the person physically, mentally and spiritually.

And as many pointed out: seek professional help. Men should be seeing our GP at least once a year for a check up. Blue pills will only mask the problem and not solve them. You need blood work done and a holistic check up.

You've mentioned previous heart issues....whatever you do do not take pills without seeing your doctor first.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"The penis is like a barometer for male health, if you've noticed it's not the same deffo worth going to the GP to put your mind at ease

^^ this is true. It is very often an indicator of an underlying problem so best get it checked asap.

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By *ames250122Man
28 weeks ago

Worcester

First I’d get a checkup with your GP. While weaker erections are normal as you get older it just helps rule out it’s not due to underlying health issues. Exercise will help if you don’t already. Once you’ve checked off the above, then cock rings can be a great help before looking at ED pills

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By *eadmasterphilMan
28 weeks ago

nottingham

ive got the same problem although im 73 havent been able to get a full erection for 5 years

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By *londebiguyMan
28 weeks ago

Southport

Maybe starting a regular exercise regime might help to distress you.

Or a change of diet if you feel that could be a good thing.

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By *ovetoedgeMan
28 weeks ago

Dunstable

"Maybe starting a regular exercise regime might help to distress you.

Or a change of diet if you feel that could be a good thing."

Agreed with that, exercise was good for me, weight loss helps too. Patience as you get older as well lol.

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By *iguy1130Man
28 weeks ago

Caerphilly borough

I had same problem..doctor prescribed sildenafil..same as viagra..

no problems now..just take 1 about an hour or so before sex

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By *ervent X KissMan
28 weeks ago

Portsmouth

All of this are what the GP will ask of you first so this is great advice.

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By *anJenny 181Couple
28 weeks ago

Preston

OP we had a fella with the exact same problem & he seemed gutted and down, he gave Jenny a good time when he was hard & was great with his tongue and fingers.

We met him some time after this and he was as hard as rock on this occasion

Don't beat yourself up and 100% talk to your GP about this.

We all go through limp moments you get to my age and you have to book an appointment for an erection

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By *enuineguy76Man
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

Iv plenty of blue pills ; all I need is 1/3 of a tablet and it gets me extra hard and works a treat.

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By *rucking-HellMan
25 weeks ago

Northampton

It could just be age. Testosterone decreases a certain percentage year on year from your 20s.

Same thing happened to me when I hit about 40. I'm 45 now, and it's only getting worse as time goes on. I only have sex about once a year just to remind myself I'm still human, and even that is sometimes flat and mechanical. I can only speak for myself here, but aside from using Viagra, I learnt to accept it and direct my energies to other areas of life, otherwise the anxiety and depression would only increase, and further compound the problem.

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
25 weeks ago

colchester

Thanks all, still need to get myself to docs. Working on fitness and trying to sort head out. Have let life get the better of me and stress about everything. Need sum fun in my life

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By *avidagainMan
25 weeks ago

st.leonards on sea

"Yer think I knew was the answer just embarrassed about it, started to exercise this week in hope that it's sorts my head out a bit. Struggling with life for sum reason at moment and all getting ontop of me. Thanks for advice everybody."

best wishes to you i remember my doc was brilliant and also my local sexual health clinic put me in touch with terrence higgins trust had councelling lots of guys here dont have anyone to chat to about how we feel and concerns etc sometimes it is nice to have an ear x

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By *avidagainMan
25 weeks ago

st.leonards on sea

"Lots saying see a GP but that is harder (no pun intended) then said I have tried but it's just not going to happen any time soon."

hi sexual health clinic at station plaza hastings have helped me a lot over the years if not easy to see your doc if you would like a cuppa and a chat let us know

david

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
25 weeks ago

SW Scotland

"Thanks all, still need to get myself to docs. Working on fitness and trying to sort head out. Have let life get the better of me and stress about everything. Need sum fun in my life"

Well done making positive changes already ! First thing I’d advise anyone to do is cut out alcohol/smoking and processed foods/try and have foods with plenty of healthy fats in them too

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By *he one 23Man
25 weeks ago

Sheffield

I had Prostate cancer 6yr ago I had a prostatectomy tried everything nothing worked but at last i was given hope by being put on the waiting list to have a prosthetic penis fitted so there is always something they can do .

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By *ohn 66Man
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

All of the advice about seeing your GP is exactly the right thing to do.

If I could add a bit of humour to a serious subject, many years ago (late 80s?) in a novelty shop I saw a tube promising "100% Guaranteed Erection Cream".

The instructions were:

1) apply a liberal amount of cream to the penis,

2) somehow persuade Joanna Lumley to rub it in well.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

Lifestyle changes can help to a degree (good quality sleep, regular exercise, healthy balanced diet with whole foods, reducing alcohol, staying well hydrated, managing stress levels) but definitely see your GP if your symptoms are ongoing or getting you down. Your GP may want to do a blood test to check your testosterone levels (and other biomarkers). Certainly see your GP before taking any blue pills (or testosterone boosters) from elsewhere.

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By *orny PTMan
25 weeks ago

Peterborough

Blood test for T-levels is a must, the help is out there. Ask for a full check up if you can.

The andropause, is just as important to men as the menopause is to women, just less written about in the papers and all that.

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By *foot6wiganerMan
25 weeks ago

Wigan

Testosterone booster supplements? Tongkat Ali, shilijit

Thank me later

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By *and63Man
24 weeks ago

Brighton

Could be many things - but with age your head gets less sensitive - nothing wrong in it - but drink water - Practice with a wank etc but the GP can run tests if you’re worried .

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I know it’s a bit out there , but try a plunge pool . The endorphins released by this are immense. Make you feel alive and invigorated . Get your head in the right place and everything else will follow .

Don’t stress too much about it .

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By *aimerMan
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

I started fasting and it add so many benefits to health Bern doing it 10 years feel good less stress and all insulin levels good still boxing to .

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By *1966Man
22 weeks ago

horsham

"Thought about that but did have a problem with heart years ago that didn't ever really get to the bottom of so bit worried about just taking it. Thanks for kind words people does mean alot"

Go get your blood pressure sorted and speak to a GP.

Seek proffessional advice and listen.

This happened to me 2 years ago and it was horrible so i sorted it.

2 years later i have no problems at all and do a fine impression of a Unicorn.

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By *reddie DerbysMan
22 weeks ago

matlock

I’ve had it for years I’ve put it down to being type 1 diabetic plus getting older / stress / depression. It doesn’t get used anyway so no mither.

GP I’m sure would sort u out though

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By *r ThickWi11yMan
22 weeks ago

Warrington

Please don’t take medical advice and I’m not offering any but as a 46 year old guy I was doing ok. I then went on a bit of a health kick, exercise, eating healthy etc. laid off the beers and whisky and suddenly after I’d lost a fair bit of weight, I woke up one morning with a glorious morning wood.

Didn’t realise that I hadn’t seen the old morning glory for a few years… confidence now restored. Getting healthy isn’t easy and takes a lot of work but oh my days, it is worth it!

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By *wosmilersCouple
22 weeks ago

Heathrowish

1. Don't expect expert advice on here.

2. Get yourself checked out medically.

3. Consider your own mind. Seek qualified help if you need some mindfulness tips/assistance.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
22 weeks ago

Rochester, Kent

I had the same stuff going on once. I realised that as soon as I was in a ‘romantic’ scenario and the thought flashed through my head that it might soften… it did.

So the key to it was realising that there’s nothing going on except my stupid head.

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By *orthwestbikerxxMan
22 weeks ago

lancs

"Thought about that but did have a problem with heart years ago that didn't ever really get to the bottom of so bit worried about just taking it. Thanks for kind words people does mean alot

If you've had heart problems defo see a Dr before taking the blue pill off any online vendor.

Talk to a Dr. "
lowers you're blood pressure by opening up blood vessels

I have high b p and safe use viagra I struggle at times find viagra helpfull 99 % if time

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By *anillaboyMan
22 weeks ago

london

You are not alone buddy, I lost my penetrative appetite couple of years ago in the same time with my erection. I mean I still have election but not in the right moment.

When I saw a specialist she told me is because of my stress, tired, working nights for about 10 years double shift and not the last she said that being a submissive guy plays a part here.

I am embarrassed my self same like you, is not easy to find people that not into penetrative sex but head up see a specialist.

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
22 weeks ago

colchester

Thanks all for advice and making me feel like I'm not alone. Think most of my trouble is in my head as struggle with mental health. I'm talking to somone about that and it's really helping my mind. Started to exercise daily and eat healthier as well doing g everything I can but still have that less of a man thought in back of my head but these thi gs take time. Thanks again

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By *urplebadger69Couple
22 weeks ago

Colchester

"Thanks all for advice and making me feel like I'm not alone. Think most of my trouble is in my head as struggle with mental health. I'm talking to somone about that and it's really helping my mind. Started to exercise daily and eat healthier as well doing g everything I can but still have that less of a man thought in back of my head but these thi gs take time. Thanks again"

I've had a similar problem. I now take 2.5mg of tadalafil daily. Found that it's really helped physically and mentally. It's a very low dose so doesn't affect other meds I take. Just given me a slight boost.

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By *rioxxxMan
22 weeks ago

edinburgh

Get active see doc but get active , don’t eat shit good cut down alcohol . Excersise deal with stress causes but see doc

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By *he one 23Man
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

At last I had my op to fit a prosthetic penis implant one week in sore as f-ck .it will be worth all the pain .

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By *andG2024Couple
21 weeks ago

Atherstone

I feel your pain can go from hard to soft in 30 seconds particularly if stressed blue pill can help

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By *erversewatcherMan
21 weeks ago

lazy

"At last I had my op to fit a prosthetic penis implant one week in sore as f-ck .it will be worth all the pain ."

Tried to message you but can’t, can I ask what you have had done?

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By *oberto7Man
21 weeks ago

Greenock

Know the feeling m8 ! Minds goes soft after 40mins

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By *ocheelad84Man
21 weeks ago

Perth

Talk to the bathroom mirror Just say:

It's NOT my wife a few times

works for me, best of luck

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By *quirrelMan
21 weeks ago

East Manchester

Been through the same problem a few years back.

See your GP and get a referral to the local hospital, they'll give you a complete health check and you'll get an expert diagnosis of what your current physical health is. Then if there's nothing wrong with you physically you'll know that it's a psychological problem which is the cause of your lack of stamina.

Mine was a reduction in the production of testosterone which is easily remedied, a bonus is that I get Viagra/sildenafil on prescription, and I get it free too

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By *over not a fighter69Man
21 weeks ago

greenock

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By *orny PTMan
21 weeks ago

Peterborough

"GP and probably a blue pill, but should bring back your confidence.

Don't be concerned

The blue pill is a quick fix, but getting to see a specialist on the NHS can take up to 15 months round here, seeing as there is only one person covering the whole trust! Not good!

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I hope you’re ok xx mental health effects everything doesn’t it. You’ll get there I’m sure x

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By *pandjMan
21 weeks ago

Sparkford

Looking at your dick pics it seems you have a long and tight foreskin?

Mine looked similar to yours and as I got older would go back over my glans during penetration. It also meant that I'd get sore masturbating and when being played with. The resulting confidence issues made things even worse.

This all led to ED issues and I tried tadalfil plus lube which masked the issues to an extent. Ended up getting circumcised last year and my erection quality is a lot better. Only need meds when a kid free weekend is planned but I miss the gym pump they would give me as a nice side effect.

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By *dam and slutCouple
21 weeks ago

Manchester

Probably low testosterone.. It happens to all men, gets lower with age. Have chat with the doctor or buy a kit that measures your testosterone level.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
21 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Blue pills or a brown finger!

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By *ndigoukMan
21 weeks ago

liverpool

Also an idea to get a blood test for your b12 and folates, that can cause depression and low mood. And tons of other things

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By *r PantyMan
21 weeks ago

Morpeth

Have you tried a splint ?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Become a TV?

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By *iking_WitchWoman
21 weeks ago

Hinckley

Please don't take any medical advice/pills/supplements from the Internet. Always see your GP.

I do think you've probably diagnosed your problem. Tired ans stressed does not make for a well penis. Then I'm sure you get inside your own head and put extra pressure on yourself.

Avoid porn and ONS for a while and sleep with someone patient and understanding for the time being.Be kind to yourself Xx

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By *edbath 5Man
21 weeks ago

london

You will be surprised how many of us suffer.

Nothing to be ashamed of. Women get dry we don’t get as hard. There’s help out there for everyone. Don’t panic. That will make it worse.

Lovely cock btw.

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By *hoirCouple
21 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

My first step would be to address your diet and then I would go to the GP

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By *hysoserious2012Man
21 weeks ago

meath louth border

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By *hysoserious2012Man
21 weeks ago

meath louth border

Stop the cola

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By *tesset69TV/TS
21 weeks ago

N.Down

Hot Tip and Cheap.

Olive Oil - two teaspoons last thing at night or first in the morning.

Must b extra virgin nd good quality and in a dark bottle nd stored properly.

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
21 weeks ago

Find me..

Same, I blame the COVID vaccines !

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By *enrydarrenMan
21 weeks ago

Harrow Weald

Do pelvic floor exercises

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By *ungle VIP 1 OP Man
20 weeks ago

colchester

Today I'm joining the gym, trying to improve the mind body and sole. Hopefully the start of new me with the fight against stress,anxiety and depression

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By *octor WhenMan
20 weeks ago

GLASGOW

Definitely go and see your GP. It could be a few things, general health, mental health, maybe your testosterone is low.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Today I'm joining the gym, trying to improve the mind body and sole. Hopefully the start of new me with the fight against stress,anxiety and depression "

I looked and see you smoke. Try to quit .

Do whatever distresses you . For me is massage, whether I receive or give one.

(Don't call me though , find a lady masseuse).

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By *itygamesMan
20 weeks ago

beetroot juice or numan.com

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By *londebiguyMan
20 weeks ago

Southport

"Today I'm joining the gym, trying to improve the mind body and sole. Hopefully the start of new me with the fight against stress,anxiety and depression

I looked and see you smoke. Try to quit .

Do whatever distresses you . For me is massage, whether I receive or give one.

(Don't call me though , find a lady masseuse)."

Why can't you masssge men?

Training is to massage both make and female.

It does not need to be the opposite sex.

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By *ML49Man
20 weeks ago

Burnley

Check your testosterone levels as a drop in that can lead to a drop in your mood etc

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By *shford Guy71Man
20 weeks ago

sunbury

I've always found exercise is a great stress reliever. I cycle and run, but as long as you're doing something to raise your heart rate, then it can be very beneficial. As others have said,speak with your GP first. Especially if starting a new exercise regime as you've mentioned previous heart problems.

Talking to someone helps as well. Good luck. As can be seen on here, there are plenty of us who are willing to listen.

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By *trong7Man
20 weeks ago

Kildare

Watermelon.I have been eating for years and now 65yo and still get very hard.I will take a while before you feel the benefits and of course always Viagra with medical advice.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
20 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Just come back from a raunch holiday in the States and found that lots fo people are taking weekly and bi weekly testosterone shots to increase their libido and staying power.

I was a big hesitant when offered one, a jab in the derrière but did find that I could go on for ages fucking 5 women hard at one party.

Never heard about this before but my mates wife did the injection on me herself

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Just come back from a raunch holiday in the States and found that lots fo people are taking weekly and bi weekly testosterone shots to increase their libido and staying power.

I was a big hesitant when offered one, a jab in the derrière but did find that I could go on for ages fucking 5 women hard at one party.

Never heard about this before but my mates wife did the injection on me herself"

It makes a difference in your age presumably .

However it's best for anyone younger to avoid or delay resorting to supplemental testosterone because your own produced testosterone will be hindered. Your testicles will shrink a bit as well.

When you stop injecting , it'll take a while before your testosterone secretion resumes.

Luckily some of us can still fuck 5+ women to orgasm. What will happen when we become your age, who knows...

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Today I'm joining the gym, trying to improve the mind body and sole. Hopefully the start of new me with the fight against stress,anxiety and depression

I looked and see you smoke. Try to quit .

Do whatever distresses you . For me is massage, whether I receive or give one.

(Don't call me though , find a lady masseuse).

Why can't you masssge men?

Training is to massage both make and female.

It does not need to be the opposite sex."

I'm not here to sell my services. It's against the rules in any event. I'm here for fun, hence I choose my meets.

You may be surprised but many women (not related to fab at all) prefer to be massaged by male masseuse. Some cite cross energy, some prefer larger hands and power, some simply want to feel excited (without doing anything sexual)

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By *arren the doggerMan
19 weeks ago

willenhall

"Today I'm joining the gym, trying to improve the mind body and sole. Hopefully the start of new me with the fight against stress,anxiety and depression

I looked and see you smoke. Try to quit .

Do whatever distresses you . For me is massage, whether I receive or give one.

(Don't call me though , find a lady masseuse).

Why can't you masssge men?

Training is to massage both make and female.

It does not need to be the opposite sex.

I'm not here to sell my services. It's against the rules in any event. I'm here for fun, hence I choose my meets.

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By *eepingWarm1Man
19 weeks ago

pembury

I’m sure part of the advice by the doctors will be to eventually stop smoking entirely.

Having said that, hope everything settles down and you feel more balanced soon.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
19 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

"Just come back from a raunch holiday in the States and found that lots fo people are taking weekly and bi weekly testosterone shots to increase their libido and staying power.

I was a big hesitant when offered one, a jab in the derrière but did find that I could go on for ages fucking 5 women hard at one party.

Never heard about this before but my mates wife did the injection on me herself

It makes a difference in your age presumably .

However it's best for anyone younger to avoid or delay resorting to supplemental testosterone because your own produced testosterone will be hindered. Your testicles will shrink a bit as well.

When you stop injecting , it'll take a while before your testosterone secretion resumes.

Luckily some of us can still fuck 5+ women to orgasm. What will happen when we become your age, who knows..."

Thats amazing and lucky for you!

Been in this lifestyle for 40 years and literally penetrated hundreds of women but only 2 I've remembered have come just from fucking.

My missus and everyone one else has needed a toy or other to get off,

Still. fucking 5 women in one afternoon, at my age, despite them not cumming has chuffed me off.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
19 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Just come back from a raunch holiday in the States and found that lots fo people are taking weekly and bi weekly testosterone shots to increase their libido and staying power.

I was a big hesitant when offered one, a jab in the derrière but did find that I could go on for ages fucking 5 women hard at one party.

Never heard about this before but my mates wife did the injection on me herself

It makes a difference in your age presumably .

However it's best for anyone younger to avoid or delay resorting to supplemental testosterone because your own produced testosterone will be hindered. Your testicles will shrink a bit as well.

When you stop injecting , it'll take a while before your testosterone secretion resumes.

Luckily some of us can still fuck 5+ women to orgasm. What will happen when we become your age, who knows...

Thats amazing and lucky for you!

Been in this lifestyle for 40 years and literally penetrated hundreds of women but only 2 I've remembered have come just from fucking.

My missus and everyone one else has needed a toy or other to get off,

Still. fucking 5 women in one afternoon, at my age, despite them not cumming has chuffed me off.

Absolutely, it's impressive!

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By *_the_impalerMan
19 weeks ago

canterbury

Please be careful

Taking a medication you haven’t been prescribed is rarely good

Of course you most likely stop and find that you were worse than when you started due to your body stopping making testosterone itself as your getting it from outside the body

My advice as someone with a little knowledge and medical know how is

Get a blood test see what you are deficient in as it’s not the testosterone that makes you horny it’s the lutinising hormone (sorry about the spelling) or LH that makes guys horny along with DHEA. Both these if low can be supplemented very easily and without injections.

I did just this and an all in one supplement once a day gave me rock hard erections every morning and whenever I felt in the mood also the recovery between orgasms is a lot shorter

A follow up blood test showed that both this we’re now the top end of normal so no need for injections just for a libido until I am alot older and my body naturally stops making it

If anyone wants to know more message me I have the company I used and I really can fault them

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
19 weeks ago

SouthEast

"Please be careful

Taking a medication you haven’t been prescribed is rarely good

Of course you most likely stop and find that you were worse than when you started due to your body stopping making testosterone itself as your getting it from outside the body

My advice as someone with a little knowledge and medical know how is

I did just this and an all in one supplement once a day gave me rock hard erections every morning and whenever I felt in the mood also the recovery between orgasms is a lot shorter

A follow up blood test showed that both this we’re now the top end of normal so no need for injections just for a libido until I am alot older and my body naturally stops making it

If anyone wants to know more message me I have the company I used and I really can fault them "

Some good info...

No harm in posting links here imo.

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By *urious2try888Man
19 weeks ago

durham

Go to your Gp and get a blood test for diabetes.

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By *ushDickMan
18 weeks ago

West Bromwich

I find that High Protein foods and drinks & a positive state of mind works good. I had a similar situation in my mid 30's taking recreational drugs & Stress.Changed my lifestyle a bit.Still have a drink and smoke tobacco now and then..Try some proper Online Dr Silandenfel from Superdrug not snidey Blues from China or India or Viapro from Holland and Barrett. Happy Days ??..

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By *enfleetMaleMan
18 weeks ago

Hadleigh

I take blue pills now when I'm in need of some confidence 100mg last me 24 hours. Find it difficult to finish when I've taken them though.

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By *enegadeMMan
18 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Can’t go wrong with seeing a professional who can guide you through things…. But trying to keep the basics we’ll bea good starter

Healthy eating

Healthy lifestyle

Exercise

Lower stress if you can… yoga/meditation

More sleep

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By *ullyMan
18 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Shame You have blocked all men from replying personally to you, As I have experience in this myself. Genuine and real experience.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
18 weeks ago

SouthEast

Shame You have blocked all men from replying personally to you, As I have experience in this myself. Genuine and real experience."

Why not share here?

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By *isntacrowdMan
18 weeks ago

Devonshire

Shame You have blocked all men from replying personally to you, As I have experience in this myself. Genuine and real experience.

Why not share here?"

Yes seconded please share this with the rest of the forum

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By *_the_impalerMan
18 weeks ago

canterbury

Sorry for my bad grammar and spelling I should have proof read my post first !

I have had a few messaged and the couple who have visited the company I used have reported feeling more confident and expect to have some great results

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By *phlee43Man
17 weeks ago

Gloucester

Any one up for a dirty story

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By *ucka39Man
17 weeks ago

Newcastle

Banana's rich in fiber and you'll find out the rest once eaten regularly

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