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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

We are meeting again, don't think covids going away any time soon. Think we are just going to have to get on with meeting as most restrictions have been lifted in Wales now. Anybody still waiting just in case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covid is the last reason I don’t meet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've developed a raging case of misanthropy, so I'm not meeting

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm not meeting, but it's nothing to do with Covid....I've been to several group socials and clubs recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a 6 month break from fab and had no sex for over 2 years but hoping to change that soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've developed a raging case of misanthropy, so I'm not meeting"

Developed? I thought you were born with it as a natural defense mechanism.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've developed a raging case of misanthropy, so I'm not meeting

Developed? I thought you were born with it as a natural defense mechanism. "

It waxes and wanes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its just about managing your own risk, the same as it was pre covid.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid. "

I have to say harsh but fair lol

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though "

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there. "

Well I don't go in there so wouldn't know

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there.

Well I don't go in there so wouldn't know "

Yes it's wonko this and wonko that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there.

Well I don't go in there so wouldn't know

Yes it's wonko this and wonko that. "

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We technically are meeting. We’ve been back to clubs quite a lot but we don’t have a lot of free time so haven’t had a meet since last year.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there.

Well I don't go in there so wouldn't know

Yes it's wonko this and wonko that.

Bollocks "

Yes they've mentioned your bollocks.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

No-one would want to meet me.

I would happily meet for a coffee right now, as my neighbours are being annoying and I need to get out for a while.

Even my real-life friends are all too busy

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"We technically are meeting. We’ve been back to clubs quite a lot but we don’t have a lot of free time so haven’t had a meet since last year."

Finding time is the trickiest part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid. "

Even though an attributional bias can explain some dickish behaviour, it can’t explain it all.

Sometimes, people are just dicks…so covid or no covid still going to be select and not meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We technically are meeting. We’ve been back to clubs quite a lot but we don’t have a lot of free time so haven’t had a meet since last year.

Finding time is the trickiest part. "

We’ve got a bit of time off over the summer so hopefully we can have a bit of fun then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not waiting because of any covid related reasons anymore but having not met anyone for two years we’ve lost our enthusiasm.

Hopefully we’ll find it again.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would but no one wants to meet me.

Probably the safest option though

No what I Heard on the Scottish site, says differently on there.

Well I don't go in there so wouldn't know

Yes it's wonko this and wonko that.

Bollocks

Yes they've mentioned your bollocks."

Considering no one has ever seen them

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"We technically are meeting. We’ve been back to clubs quite a lot but we don’t have a lot of free time so haven’t had a meet since last year.

Finding time is the trickiest part.

We’ve got a bit of time off over the summer so hopefully we can have a bit of fun then."

Yes it's hard to juggle thing's especially with families, that's why we never do meet nows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel meh about meeting (other than socials). It's not worth the hassle.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'll be honest ,I just can't be arsed anymore mostly .

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By *elightful 2Couple
over a year ago

No longer in the UK.

We was fairly active before Covid and just can't seem to get our mojo back, we're fine together but we've both lost interest in meeting others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don't really care about getting a meet.

Just another Internet site that proves the media driven bias in society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid.

I have to say harsh but fair lol"

And true lol

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow .......

Do what feels good for you but we been out and about months we see it as having one life go live it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a coffee?

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By *ice But Very NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We haven't changed our not meeting profile status but tbh no one reads it anyway. Mostly the trains for us not meeting have already been covered- people are dicks, we don't have time and can't be arsed it would be nice to make some local play friends but not in any rush.

Mr

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"I've developed a raging case of misanthropy, so I'm not meeting"

Could be a bit of a problem.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Covid is the last reason I don’t meet."

Me too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Anyone fancy a coffee? "

Sure

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"We was fairly active before Covid and just can't seem to get our mojo back, we're fine together but we've both lost interest in meeting others."

We've had that feeling too.

For us it's more just can't be arsed, maybe too much use of forums during Covid, hardly used them before.

Hoping a holiday in Cap D'Agde will light the blue touch paper.

Just a bit of time needs to pass in a normalish environment.

Fingers crossed.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Anyone fancy a coffee? "

What have you got?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're only meeting socially (sporadically) because frankly arranging anything more with almost no childcare options is, well, impossible!

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’re meeting socially, at some point got to get on with life. Taken all jabs and precautions but now ready to swap some spit

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Well - I’m meeting.

I have, however, found that lockdown/covid has completely changed my swinging style.

When the clubs were shut down I mourned them and couldn’t wait to go back.

Now they’re open again I’ve been around half a dozen times since last July - compared to around once a week pre-lockdown. I only play in clubs if I go there with a playmate - I’ve now zero interest in playing with someone I don’t know.

My only interest is in a few regular playmates who stimulate my mind as well as my body.

I probably have sex 1-2 times per month these days.

My vagina fucking hates me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well - I’m meeting.

I have, however, found that lockdown/covid has completely changed my swinging style.

When the clubs were shut down I mourned them and couldn’t wait to go back.

Now they’re open again I’ve been around half a dozen times since last July - compared to around once a week pre-lockdown. I only play in clubs if I go there with a playmate - I’ve now zero interest in playing with someone I don’t know.

My only interest is in a few regular playmates who stimulate my mind as well as my body.

I probably have sex 1-2 times per month these days.

My vagina fucking hates me!!

"

Hahahaha this tickled me

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

I'm not meeting but nothing to do with covid. In my case it's due to family issues and views that being a swinger makes me a bad person and not suitable to look after my granddaughter. So had to take a forced leave of absence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really meeting but it's not because of Covid. I just prefer to meet at the club now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're trying to. But so many time wasters, dreamers and wannabes it becomes a bit of a slog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid.

I have to say harsh but fair lol

And true lol "

Im an arse. Does that count shortish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting but nothing to do with covid. In my case it's due to family issues and views that being a swinger makes me a bad person and not suitable to look after my granddaughter. So had to take a forced leave of absence. "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting because people are dicks. Covid has nothing to do with it, people were dicks pre-covid.

I have to say harsh but fair lol

And true lol

Im an arse. Does that count shortish"

Only you can answer that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just started meeting

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Wouldn’t mind meeting but I’m happy just to go for a drink with a good looking woman just so I can get out the Manchester social was great for that and hoping the next one will be the same

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I started social'ing last April, and meeting from May.

Had all my jabs, really not worried.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have to get on with things now I think we are meeting and travelling around ..

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Covid or no covid we still not meeting new ppl

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