FabSwingers.com forum: Has fab had its day

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Due to this virus has swinging had its day and this was the nail in the coffin

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

No, it’s just a blip. People will be raring to go when it’s safer to do so.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?"

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying"

Good point well made

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Due to this virus has swinging had its day and this was the nail in the coffin "

Not really. I think our lifestyle has taken a bit of a beating but it's not terminal.

It may take a while yet but as long as there are sexually motivated people there will be swingers.

Maybe slightly more cautious ones but we will still be around.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Definitely it hasn’t had its day

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Hell no! That’s like saying has in person shopping or pubs had its day.

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By *lirt and funCouple
over a year ago

ilford

Not at all!! Can you imagine what fun there will to be had once this is all done with x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Just taking a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it will take a fair bit of time for it to return to the levels it was at, for instance we love the club scene but we like many others won't be charging through the doors just because they are allowed to open, we'll decide when we think it's safe to return and that is definitely no time soon.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Due to this virus has swinging had its day and this was the nail in the coffin "

Not at all! My ‘Little Black Book’ is filling nicely with opportunities for when the restrictions are lifted

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I think not. We will all be bouncing back in the best possible way some day.x

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I don’t think swinging has had it’s day but I do think there maybe less adult venues to attend as the majority have been closed for the best part of the year and as there are some that only meet at clubs these swingers may come off the scene however there maybe new swingers joining so the number will still be there it’s maybe a case of where they choose to meet home or hotel if the adult venue has closed down.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

There is a theory (can’t remember who put it forward) that we will in fact see the opposite effect.

Following WWI and Spanish Flu the west experienced a hedonistic explosion during the mid 1920s as people finally let off steam after so much suffering (saying that I suspect this was mostly a middle and upper class thing).

The theory says the same will happen once Covid is under control and we are back on the road to economic recovery - ironically the mid 20s again!

Let’s just hope it doesn’t lead to another market crash like 1929!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

"I don’t think swinging has had it’s day but I do think there maybe less adult venues to attend as the majority have been closed for the best part of the year and as there are some that only meet at clubs these swingers may come off the scene however there maybe new swingers joining so the number will still be there it’s maybe a case of where they choose to meet home or hotel if the adult venue has closed down."
Agree with that be fewer clubs , along with fewer pubs and fewer Restaurants but that off topic

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I hope the scene bounces back quickly.... For us I think it will be more.difficult.to get back into the 'swing' of it the longer things are closed down.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying"

Never said it was.

But people thought it would stop the gay scene . And it didn’t hence my post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think private parties with pick up first, paperwork will slow the opening of clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it could very easily change many things long term and we must strive to maintain the society we need to live in. Human contact must return ASAP, carefully managed if needs be

good things could come of it.. will men wash their hands more often after a piss.. you never know lol

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

The flu never stopped anyone before.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Like with every generation they will be differing expectations but this has been around during the whole of history including times of plague and persecution. It will survive, we all just have to our best to survive too, so Keep Safe and follow rules until they change.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Hell no! That’s like saying has in person shopping or pubs had its day. "

Perhaps that’s finished as well?

The future - stay at home watching Netflix, get food , drink & everything else delivered.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"it could very easily change many things long term and we must strive to maintain the society we need to live in. Human contact must return ASAP, carefully managed if needs be

good things could come of it.. will men wash their hands more often after a piss.. you never know lol

Hmmmm have you been meeting a rough crew? I was saw inside a female toilet wasn't what I expected either pot and kettle

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By *alisburycplCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Hope not.

Just bought an apartment in Cap D’adge!

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Gone down hill but hopefully will pick up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it could very easily change many things long term and we must strive to maintain the society we need to live in. Human contact must return ASAP, carefully managed if needs be

good things could come of it.. will men wash their hands more often after a piss.. you never know lol

Hmmmm have you been meeting a rough crew? I was saw inside a female toilet wasn't what I expected either pot and kettle

Quite true,in public toilets I have been in women very often didn't wash their hands after using the toilet..

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

"it could very easily change many things long term and we must strive to maintain the society we need to live in. Human contact must return ASAP, carefully managed if needs be

good things could come of it.. will men wash their hands more often after a piss.. you never know lol

Hmmmm have you been meeting a rough crew? I was saw inside a female toilet wasn't what I expected either pot and kettle

Quite true,in public toilets I have been in women very often didn't wash their hands after using the toilet.."

Asia has the best public toilets . The sinks are outside the mains areas . So you don’t have to touch the doors after washing your hands. As let’s face it your more likely to catch something touching a door than your own willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol depends where your willy has been

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By *ust some cock suckerMan
over a year ago

Preston

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying

Never said it was.

But people thought it would stop the gay scene . And it didn’t hence my post.

Seeing that HIV was prominently found in young gay men then yes your point is correct that it did little to "stop the gay scene" even when full blown AIDS started to be heavily reported.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"Due to this virus has swinging had its day and this was the nail in the coffin "
No

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Wow not a chance

Get your name down on the party lists

Watch this space when we can all play

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?"

No but it changed behaviour dramatically.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I hope the government is stockpiling condoms for when we are allowed out again

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

No but it changed behaviour dramatically. "

I agree the gay scene changed after aids for sure.. I think the old fab scene is surely done for?

Though there will be a newer one that emerges for sure just think things might be a little different than before.. Not really sure in what way though :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it will but I do think it will have an impact on the club scene within swinging for a least another year or 2.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Fab might not have had its day but I reckon going to the barbers probably has.

Men must have got so used to either using clippers at home or leaving it to grow long that the need to go and pay for it (haircut, not sex) will become forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look back at the roaring 20’s and you have your answer. After the Spanish Flu, which killed more than WW1, society bounced back and people just wanted to have fun. My guess is that once we are allowed to meet up again there will be a lot of parties and good times for all of us. The question will be can we all keep up after this long break? Only one way to find out, and that will be fun.

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By *lamourpussyCouple
over a year ago

Cirencester

No. It might take another year or more but things will get better

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Due to this virus has swinging had its day and this was the nail in the coffin "

No.

Just a blip, things will be back to normal at some point.

Though sadly, some clubs won't weather the storm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying"
what!!!!!!!head blown .....I thought you had to be gay or an African child to catch it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. A tiny blip in the timeline of liverated sex

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No. It's just put the brake on swinging fun for a while, this isn't the end. Trust us.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"No

Did hiv stop the gay scene. ?

Um....HIV is not just a gay thing.....just saying"

No but when it first got identified it was termed the gay flu as it was affecting young gay men more.

But like how this was 'the Chinese virus' initially as that's where the majority of the infection was until it spread to other countries and was given a name.

The point of the comment was (I believe) that a deadly virus doesn't end human activity, we adapt to it and carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we must find better ways to adapt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. It's just put the brake on swinging fun for a while, this isn't the end. Trust us."

Life goes on - it's temporary.

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

It's a virus.(like flu)

It will be seasonal.(like flu)

It will mutate like all viruses.(like flu)

It will effect the vulnerable more.(like flu)

It will NEVER be safe to meet anyone again...as it's not flu apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to begin with we will see a hell of a lot less lurkers and wanking zombies. And a hell of a lot more liberated females.

Better eat you're weetabix

(just not with beans haha)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think to begin with we will see a hell of a lot less lurkers and wanking zombies. And a hell of a lot more liberated females.

Better eat you're weetabix

(just not with beans haha) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The flu never stopped anyone before."

It's abit worse than the flu though don't you think

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