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By *exy Pretty Feet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are quick to judge

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Very true this.

And yet, when it’s said that obesity has played a huge part in deaths due to covid in the UK, the pitchforks come out.

Responsibility is not just staying home. Responsibility also means keeping as healthy and fit as you can to have the best chances of recovering if you catch the virus regardless of all the “staying home” and “strict measures” (as some people have claimed).

I was obese for many years, so I know what I’m talking about.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

This rings so true. And people are so quick to judge.

Worst thing about this pandemic to be fair..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most of things would be allowable under the guidelines, I don't see an issue with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the fact that your own life is going badly give you the right to endanger other people's lives? Covid is not a human being that can be reasoned with - it's a cold, unsympathetic, remorseless killer. Fully understanding that will aid in its eradication.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does the fact that your own life is going badly give you the right to endanger other people's lives? Covid is not a human being that can be reasoned with - it's a cold, unsympathetic, remorseless killer. Fully understanding that will aid in its eradication."
no actually all of those things would mean you could do what's said. I've just had to help someone arrange to travel 150miles to be with a family member who needs support. It falls under the mental health exclusion from the lack of travelling.

We have actually managed to get them picked up in a car to save them going on public transport which would have been more risky.

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By *icboobs26Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Good post and reminder that some people are suffering more than others in this situation.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

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Irrevilent rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

Copied and posted ????Irrevilent rubbish"

Why is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

Copied and posted ????Irrevilent rubbish"

It's not rubbish at all, it's one of the best posts on the virus forum for a very long time.

There are far too many self righteous judgemental people posting on here at the moment.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Bumbling buffoon travels from London to Glasgow to look at a vaccination centre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

Copied and posted ????Irrevilent rubbish

It's not rubbish at all, it's one of the best posts on the virus forum for a very long time.

There are far too many self righteous judgemental people posting on here at the moment.

"

Yes there is the inconsistencies in people's posts.

I've seen people on one post bashing one group of people and then on another defending somebody else is right to do something else.

There are exemptions to every rule because everyone has their own circumstances and thats fine but what I have a problem with is people who say it's OK to do this because I have this reason but it is not OK for that person to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the curtain twitching i can't stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumbling buffoon travels from London to Glasgow to look at a vaccination centre. "

Now he really should have stayed at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

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there is nothing on that list not allowed except the guy driving for an hour (unless he was driving in circles i would assume 30 mins each way took him more further than local/ 5 miles depending on each regions rules) , and the only one in the list that is allowable now but wasn’t in lockdown 1 is the support bubble friend

it is possible to have empathy and acknowledge people have personal circumstances and also acknowledge that mobility data proves that we don’t have the same level of compliance with the spirit of lockdown that we had before (i don’t mean compliance with the letter of the law i mean compliance with being asked to stay home wherever possible)

they are not mutually exclusive concepts and focussing on only one while pretending the other doesn’t exist helps nobody and brings about no solutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

Copied and posted ????"

I said similar to this on a thread a while back. Just because your circumstances and situation enable you to act a certain way it does not mean that everyone else's does. Too much finger pointing and selfishness disguised as selflessness.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Alas many can't or won't see what is really happening behind closed doors and they see some people outside and then they go outside just because they are, others will chunter behind their nets, Doris down the road is absolutely petrified to even open her door as she is now agoraphobic from shielding for a year, the vulnerable kids o the street that cannot escape their prison, the sad thing is some have lost our sense of community in this pandemic, a every man for himself time when we should be thinking about others

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Bumbling buffoon travels from London to Glasgow to look at a vaccination centre. "

Now THIS is absolute rubbish.

Nicola Sturgeon today said even she didn't believe the travel was necessary and bojo's advisors are now rustling up a statement for him to justify why the travel was absolutely necessary!!

The man makes a mockery of his own lockdown rules!!

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By *igh wide and handsomeMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

Yep,there all covidiots and are definitely to blame for this global pandemic!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Alas many can't or won't see what is really happening behind closed doors and they see some people outside and then they go outside just because they are, others will chunter behind their nets, Doris down the road is absolutely petrified to even open her door as she is now agoraphobic from shielding for a year, the vulnerable kids o the street that cannot escape their prison, the sad thing is some have lost our sense of community in this pandemic, a every man for himself time when we should be thinking about others "

Unfortunately so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

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I said similar to this on a thread a while back. Just because your circumstances and situation enable you to act a certain way it does not mean that everyone else's does. Too much finger pointing and selfishness disguised as selflessness. "

This is a very accurate description of a lot of people on this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That boy is playing out during lockdown again! Well he's got learning difficulties and many other problems you can't see, he can't be kept indoors for his own safety and for the mental wellbeing of his mother and himself he needs that time outside.

See that man who drove a hour for a pit stop coffee. Not essential? Disgusting rule breaker? He just lost his mother and just needed to take a hour out when he cannot see a single friend or family member in his darkest hour.

That woman who's taken her kids in the supermarket 4 squealing kids she can't control all under 5! Is she trying to risk her kids? What is she thinking? That woman is a single mother and no other choice as able people have taken all the home delivery slots and her husband left them for dust 6 months ago..

Those 2 in the park again! They're not in the same house! The woman on the right tried to take her own life this year and the one on the left is the only face she's seen this year and that face is the one stopping her try again to leave this earth..

He's out working, he's not an essential worker! He should be home? That man is a self employed single dad. He can't claim, he doesn't qualify for the government help schemes. He has no choice to continue his work to keep his roof and feed his child.

"That woman's out all the time, never in the house, I'm going to report her" That woman finds every excuse to leave the house to escape her abusive boyfriend who's started beating her senseless after sinking into a vicious circle of drinking after loosing his job due to lockdown.

A few examples of many that could be!

Everybody's story is different, everybody's circumstances are different. Nobody knows what battles someone is facing on a daily basis, the struggles people face behind closed doors. So don't judge what you see, don't assume to know or understand why.

Be kind, be humble and mind your own business ??

Copied and posted ????Irrevilent rubbish"

Really ?

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