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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just share them whatever they are with no judgements...say it how it is for you...

We’re sad and worried for the world today

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Can relate to that, worrying times..

One day at a time, look after those we can..

It will pass..

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Just share them whatever they are with no judgements...say it how it is for you...

We’re sad and worried for the world today "

Frustrated and stir crazy.

Confused by rules that are inconsistent and that don't make sense and by the lack of movement of the whole situation.

Isolated from friends and family. Thankfully we are eachothers best friends so being together 24/7 is actually a benefit. But we miss people. Just going for a meal or a flirty chat in a club. It's not even playing we are missing. It's the open friendships and flirting. It's just not the same without being face to face. The nuances of conversation are lost when video calling or messaging. Think that's what we miss most. The chemistry between people you get on with when face to face.

But we will be patient. Good things are worth waiting for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We hear you...

Such tough times

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Worn down by it all. Missing cuddles with our granddaughter, missing family and friends. More concerned this wave than the 1st. It's all bloody exhausting

Sending hugs to everyone x

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By *osebud6688Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Really fed up. As a single person not seeing my friends is the worst and not being able to bubble with anyone due to my living situation is tough. I’m jealous of all the couples who live together right now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feels endless and somehow more scary...hugs reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really fed up. As a single person not seeing my friends is the worst and not being able to bubble with anyone due to my living situation is tough. I’m jealous of all the couples who live together right now x "

Totally understandable...feels cruel...

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Frustrated and annoyed with people who cannot social distance from each other, this is the perfect chance to do it and its only for 2 weeks and the infections would take a massive dive, but nooooo entitlement comes first

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Throughout I have been missing a lot of social interaction and more often than not been jealous of couples living together. I got to a point a few weeks ago where I can’t even think about that

But recently I’ve been feeling panicked by the new strain, worrying about my mum, imagining myself getting too sick to be able to take care of my cat, etc. So being lonely feels like the least of it recently. I’m lucky that I have a support bubble with a friend though so I’m in a fairly privileged position there. Though I’m also wondering if they might end up removing support bubbles

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mostly I'm just exhausted.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Frustrated with people who don't think about the rest of us when breaking / bending the rules just because they are ikkle rebels who won't ever do as someone says. It isn't about their Citizen smith impression, it is about peoples lives.

We will never get out of this if we don't all follow lock down and get these numbers down.

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Worried, fed up,anxious.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Exasperated, annoyed, concerned, worn out

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke

I cried at Jungle Book the other day lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, shielding, lonely, and now that we're starting 2021 with a lockdown of unknown length, feeling quite hopeless.

The vaccine is a chink of light but I'm scared this inept govt is going to cock this up, too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I cried at Jungle Book the other day lol. "

That sounds reasonable in normal times

I cried at a KFC advert when they reopened...not that I wanted KFC but because it said "we missed you" at the end

Mr Ruggers just passes the tissues now without even looking at me as he knows what is going to set me off

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Single, shielding, lonely, and now that we're starting 2021 with a lockdown of unknown length, feeling quite hopeless.

The vaccine is a chink of light but I'm scared this inept govt is going to cock this up, too. "

I think this lockdown is defo worse for a variety of reasons, even though it should be shorter.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke

"I cried at Jungle Book the other day lol.

That sounds reasonable in normal times

I cried at a KFC advert when they reopened...not that I wanted KFC but because it said "we missed you" at the end

Mr Ruggers just passes the tissues now without even looking at me as he knows what is going to set me off

Lol. I'm not really a crier - kinda stick my chin out and get on with stuff kinda girl - but lately I've been tipping towards the edge of tears for the silliest things.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I live alone and have no family so I've been on my own the whole time.

First couple of months felt odd but easy enough - I'm home working so stay occupied.

The 'crunch' for me was during the xmas break - I hadn't realised that two weeks with no contact would have quite the impact it did.

Although this 'lockdown' is no different from the previous one for me, I've been struggling to sleep, have no appetite and feel exhausted.

Pretty much running on caffeine and stubbornness at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustrated with the lock down.

But thankful also that no family members have been lost to this. Few have had it and been sick but on the mend.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well I'm a terminal overthinker, so emotion wise pretty much all of them X10.

But mainly fear and anxiety and anger.

Dear for my family especially my kid's anxiety because who isn't.

Anger at people who are not taking all of this seriously enough especially my employer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So much pain, frustration, loneliness...tears are natural so let them flow...

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Sometimes guilty for feeling fortunate and grateful for the life I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drained .... fed up and sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The survivor guilt can feel shit...everyone is suffering one way or another and is entitled to feel...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sad at what is happening with things getting worse instead of better. Annoyed that my life is getting controlled and i am now unable to live it how i want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heavy and sad inside this morning

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Confused sad and a little bit hopeless at the state of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

incredibly sad for the people who have been totally alone.... some effects are immeasurable or understood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exhausted and mentally drained, can’t see an end to this. Also extremely pissed people can’t follow rules of lockdown ....

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By *ames_LondonMan
over a year ago

Southgate

I am struggling. The lock down stops the only things I do that are good for my mental health so the only thing I can do is work. I am sick of people telling me to go for a walk. I am concerned there is no end in sight and the sceptic in me is worried the vaccine will have limited effect.

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By *ightmyfireMan
over a year ago

beccles

Very worried generally about pandemic and what that means for the future..it almost feels like waiting to be shot. Knowing most people are likely to get it but dont know when or how bad it will be.

I also feel very guilty to knowing I'm in a better position generally than some people , so I shouldn't feel sad and anxious, but I camt help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Grieving

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Actually fucked off!

My mum had to move out of the house she had lived in since the late 60's, due to the tier I lived in I couldn't help her move.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Concerned with friends and family.

Extroverted friends not coping well.

Family because 2 very old parents.

Personally aok. I'm fortunate to be able to manage lockdown well and it hasn't affected me mentally at all. (Very introverted).

My biggest concern is the USA (I'm a news junkie) and what's happening over there politically. There's no vaccination for that. That worries me more than Covid, tbh.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Grieving "

I'm so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grieving "

I'm very sorry. X

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Worried about a family with covid (thankfully not needing hospitalization), and trying to get through it by a bit of light humour on other posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just share them whatever they are with no judgements...say it how it is for you...

We’re sad and worried for the world today "

Sad at times, angry more than I would like to be but mainly some kind of detached feeling that I am finding difficult to even describe, feels like something quite instinctive, a will to survive maybe. Unsure if that makes any sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grieving "

Never good, hope it becomes more manageable

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Depressed, lonely, bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry at the covidiots who aren’t taking it seriously and the strains being put on the health service.The idiots on here still looking to meet. Really angry that my first Grandchild is due February and I may not get to see or hold her for months because of Covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my partner.

I don't see an end to our current long distance relationship, because I can't see a point any time in the near future when flying will be safe.

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By *rs-sensual-meWoman
over a year ago

gwynedd

Hurting. Angry. A little lost

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's an emotional roller coaster for me with more dips than good bits. I'm worried sick about my children's future but trying not to overthink it. I'm anxious about going to work. But I'm grateful that I still have a job and that my immediate family are healthy.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"I miss my partner.

I don't see an end to our current long distance relationship, because I can't see a point any time in the near future when flying will be safe.

I think you could be right miss traveling.

Feel like it will be like painting the 7 bridge, you think it's done but it's time to start at the beginning again.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"It's an emotional roller coaster for me with more dips than good bits. I'm worried sick about my children's future but trying not to overthink it. I'm anxious about going to work. But I'm grateful that I still have a job and that my immediate family are healthy."

Kids feel for the 16 to 21 age I know what I was up to best time of my life. They are the ones missing out on so much. At least I can think back to times past. But for that age it's got to be hard

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By *endulum 20Couple
over a year ago

sandy

anger fear mentally drained

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Melancholy and sick of constant anxious pain in chest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just want it to be over. I am so tired of feeling anxious all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time to revive this give us the chance to ventilate...less overwhelmed...just the familiar heavy dull ache of sadness and worry

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