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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes it is very sad as many will suffer. Hopefully food and presents will get delivered to these families by some charities but there will be no soup kitchens open for the homeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be remiss of the government not to allow some kind of arrangement, especially if some kind of family gatherings are allowed

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I hope that they all still continue to get a special treat and support.

I give Christmas type foods to a foodbank beforehand, as this could help them to distribute to people who would benefit. Some vegetables, stuffing, Christmas puddings/desserts, gravy, cakes etc. There's probably time to get stuff now and to donate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blondie gives out Christmas hampers to people that are put forward by friends, she doesn't spend a lot, maybe £30, but what does happen is that other people see her post (fb) and offer donations etc, last year she gave Christmas Dinner to 6 single/single parent families.

These are people as mentioned in the OP by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)"

Ah that's good news

It's not just the actual events through. Often people need transport, mobility assistance etc. I fear the elderly and infirm will be too frightened to be in close proximity to strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope that they all still continue to get a special treat and support.

I give Christmas type foods to a foodbank beforehand, as this could help them to distribute to people who would benefit. Some vegetables, stuffing, Christmas puddings/desserts, gravy, cakes etc. There's probably time to get stuff now and to donate. "

I give every week to the food bank, every shopping trip. But it's a drop in the ocean unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blondie gives out Christmas hampers to people that are put forward by friends, she doesn't spend a lot, maybe £30, but what does happen is that other people see her post (fb) and offer donations etc, last year she gave Christmas Dinner to 6 single/single parent families.

These are people as mentioned in the OP by the way."

That's lovely.

I'm going to see what I can do via Facebook now.

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By *areass2017Man
over a year ago

east coast


"My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since "

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How old are your neighbours Children? If there was a way of a few of us sending some bits up I’m sure they’d be more than a few happy to help? Maybe some vouchers for some shopping as well?

I saw somewhere the other day where someone had advertised some second hand games with free postage for this exact type of thing?

I’d love to help given the chance?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)

Ah that's good news

It's not just the actual events through. Often people need transport, mobility assistance etc. I fear the elderly and infirm will be too frightened to be in close proximity to strangers."

We're on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blondie gives out Christmas hampers to people that are put forward by friends, she doesn't spend a lot, maybe £30, but what does happen is that other people see her post (fb) and offer donations etc, last year she gave Christmas Dinner to 6 single/single parent families.

These are people as mentioned in the OP by the way.

That's lovely.

I'm going to see what I can do via Facebook now."

Brilliant, its amazing how many people will offer to help, and its amazing how much you can get for a few pounds, normally substitute turkey for chicken, but they get everything else you'd expect for a Christmas dinner, aswell as a tub of sweets and of course Christmas crackers.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since .

How old are your neighbours Children? If there was a way of a few of us sending some bits up I’m sure they’d be more than a few happy to help? Maybe some vouchers for some shopping as well?

I saw somewhere the other day where someone had advertised some second hand games with free postage for this exact type of thing?

I’d love to help given the chance? "

Awww thank you.

I think the way forward on this is to find families locally and organise something.

Maybe contact your local radio station to see if they know of any places organising anything locally.

I think the issue with my neighbour is more loneliness and isolation

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By *areass2017Man
over a year ago

east coast

After seeing the guy offering the games out the other day and also paying the postage I’m definitely going to do something similar....been a tough year for a lot of kids

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since .

How old are your neighbours Children? If there was a way of a few of us sending some bits up I’m sure they’d be more than a few happy to help? Maybe some vouchers for some shopping as well?

I saw somewhere the other day where someone had advertised some second hand games with free postage for this exact type of thing?

I’d love to help given the chance?

Awww thank you.

I think the way forward on this is to find families locally and organise something.

Maybe contact your local radio station to see if they know of any places organising anything locally.

I think the issue with my neighbour is more loneliness and isolation "

There's a radio station thing in Manchester for kids. Mission Christmas.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since .

How old are your neighbours Children? If there was a way of a few of us sending some bits up I’m sure they’d be more than a few happy to help? Maybe some vouchers for some shopping as well?

I saw somewhere the other day where someone had advertised some second hand games with free postage for this exact type of thing?

I’d love to help given the chance?

Awww thank you.

I think the way forward on this is to find families locally and organise something.

Maybe contact your local radio station to see if they know of any places organising anything locally.

I think the issue with my neighbour is more loneliness and isolation

There's a radio station thing in Manchester for kids. Mission Christmas."

Its national. All Bauer radio stations do it. But people have to be on charity lists to receive I think.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My neighbour is a single parent on a low income, with no family. I was chatting to her earlier and she mentioned that usually on Christmas day, her and the children go to an event organised by a charity. They provide a Christmas dinner, a small gift for the children, play games, have a Father Christmas visit etc.

She said it's a saviour for her, because she struggles to afford many treats for the children, and otherwise she would be alone.

It struck me that this year the charities aren't going to be able to do this.

Nor the Christmas get-togethers the council, charities and churches organise for the elderly to have dinner together.

It's been in my mind since .

How old are your neighbours Children? If there was a way of a few of us sending some bits up I’m sure they’d be more than a few happy to help? Maybe some vouchers for some shopping as well?

I saw somewhere the other day where someone had advertised some second hand games with free postage for this exact type of thing?

I’d love to help given the chance?

Awww thank you.

I think the way forward on this is to find families locally and organise something.

Maybe contact your local radio station to see if they know of any places organising anything locally.

I think the issue with my neighbour is more loneliness and isolation

There's a radio station thing in Manchester for kids. Mission Christmas.

Its national. All Bauer radio stations do it. But people have to be on charity lists to receive I think. "

I didn't know. But that's good.

Yes, hard to know what to do for those who aren't on the list for whatever reason. My focus is on my own charity, mostly.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I spent a lot of time getting old people to christmas dinners and tea parties last year for a charity sadly not this year.

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By *macktheponyMan
over a year ago

wellington

You see people moaning on here about not being able to meet for sex but this thread just puts things in to place there are alot more people worse off over christmas and children. Lets hope sumthing is done for them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You see people moaning on here about not being able to meet for sex but this thread just puts things in to place there are alot more people worse off over christmas and children. Lets hope sumthing is done for them "

One of the people I'm helping has been out of the house twice since February. Hospital and a doctor's appointment. She was so grateful for the doctor's appointment. You'd think she'd been to Disney World

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By *macktheponyMan
over a year ago

wellington

I think we forget about people like that. And you see people going on thinking they have had it bad

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think we forget about people like that. And you see people going on thinking they have had it bad"

Quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I volunteer for a Christmas Day charity. There'll be very limited capacity for some families to have dinner in the venue. We'll do a "home delivery" for those who want it, and will provide food and gift hampers for everyone who'd normally be with us. Not the same, but we're trying not to leave anyone without a meal or kids without gifts.

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By *macktheponyMan
over a year ago

wellington

Yeah. Hope the people you are helping have a lovely christmas and you. Nice to see stories like this on fab christmas is for everyone to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)"

Our council does a big toy appeal every year working in partnership with the salvation army and other charities. The appeal is going ahead this year and toys and Xmas Dinners are going to be taken to door steps if needed.

I think its a case of looking at the new rules from 2nd Dec and working out the best plan.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)

Our council does a big toy appeal every year working in partnership with the salvation army and other charities. The appeal is going ahead this year and toys and Xmas Dinners are going to be taken to door steps if needed.

I think its a case of looking at the new rules from 2nd Dec and working out the best plan.

KJ"

Ours does too usually, buy not this year. Radio Merseyside does too, but again not this year

Thank you to everyone on this thread who has replied, and for sparing a thought for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The charity I work with is working out how to modify their usual festive get togethers to be socially distanced, ventilated, and within the rule of 6 (several tiny gatherings rather than one big one)

Our council does a big toy appeal every year working in partnership with the salvation army and other charities. The appeal is going ahead this year and toys and Xmas Dinners are going to be taken to door steps if needed.

I think its a case of looking at the new rules from 2nd Dec and working out the best plan.

KJ

Ours does too usually, buy not this year. Radio Merseyside does too, but again not this year

Thank you to everyone on this thread who has replied, and for sparing a thought for others."

Our council has been split since March those who are working on the front lines and doing everything they can to provide some level of services and the other half have stayed working from home since March.l regardless of the diminished effect that had on their services.

It boiled down to the views on covid held by department heads tbh.

My team and department have worked to deliver face to face services to vunerable groups right throughout both lockdowns but covid has now ripped right through our teams. I missed my 1st child's birth a few weeks ago due to isolating which I've accepted as he came home healthy to us but now 2 of our staff are in hospital with one of them fighting for their life.

Did we do the right thing working through?

Yes we made a difference to many vunerable people, helped people who lost jobs get back into work quickly and we were the only contact and life line for many of our residents. However those teams who stayed at home from March onwards feel very much vindicated now and that our teams made the wrong call.

KJ

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