FabSwingers.com forum: Guys wanting to meet

By *adame 2Swords OP Woman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I'm sure I'm not the only one, but I get a lot of guys saying they'd like to meet post Covid. When I question them, they actually mean post-lockdown. No in either case, but I think they are confused over what is Covid and lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm not the only one, but I get a lot of guys saying they'd like to meet post Covid. When I question them, they actually mean post-lockdown. No in either case, but I think they are confused over what is Covid and lockdown."

I am sure there are many people confused by this or just throwing caution to the wind and are meeting

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's probably just the latest version of people trying to interpret rules to suit their own agenda, or they are complete dimwits.

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By *eglieanCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Loads every day mainly single fellas, but couples as well. Straight and direct asking to meet. Latest one a few mins back ,, bodybuilder, good looking, 10 inch cock,,his words,, what world does he live in? Does he think because of that he can't pass covid on? A lot of the ads are from people in lockdown areas in Midlands, right,, that's increases your chances then?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Lots wanting to meet right now too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you take everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

Otherwise if profiles say 'Looking For.. Men'... then they will assume that's what it means.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you take everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

Otherwise if profiles say 'Looking For.. Men'... then they will assume that's what it means. "

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots wanting to meet right now too."

Yes

Ive had loads

They are the extra stupid ones

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Just this second had one asking for a meet where I live we are the 5th worst area in the country I can't believe where thier brains are oh yes I forgot in thier pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS."

...so animal is out, how about mineral or vegetable..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots wanting to meet right now too.

Yes

Ive had loads

They are the extra stupid ones"

We are getting loads of couples and women asking to meet too but need to stay safe and resist temptation atm

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I am sure there are many people confused by this or just throwing caution to the wind and are meeting "

Not sure what's confusing..

Covid-19 is here to stay..

Lockdown currently will lift Dec 2

But we will have another in January and likely continue with the cycle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you take everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches and reduces mail.

Otherwise if profiles say 'Looking For.. Men'... then they will assume that's what it means.

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS."

My shite personality means I don't need to use any mail filters at all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS.

...so animal is out, how about mineral or vegetable..?

Don't think vegetables or minerals can transmit Covid, although if you believe the non mainstream media apparently fruit can

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

It's not just men doing it.

Block and report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS.

...so animal is out, how about mineral or vegetable..?

Don't think vegetables or minerals can transmit Covid, although if you believe the non mainstream media apparently fruit can

Captain Carrot reporting for duty ma'am...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Alternatively, my message filters are set to "no" right now. No men, no women, no couples, no TV/TS.

...so animal is out, how about mineral or vegetable..?

Don't think vegetables or minerals can transmit Covid, although if you believe the non mainstream media apparently fruit can

Captain Carrot reporting for duty ma'am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all us guys want to break restrictions. I would rather wait than catch covid x

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By *uriouslatexTV/TS
over a year ago

Suffolk

I've had people asking to meet before this lockdown, and even sent me extracts of the gov website which said tier 1 & 2 areas could still meet - therefore was ok

I kindly reminded them, and sent them a link, of the social distancing bit which was on the same link. Unfortunately people choose what to read rather then understand the rules.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

not just guys looking for meets my updates page today has had half a dozen couples loiking for this weekend and one femake looking for guys for gangbang party when lockdown ends

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Had a few asking for meets today, and others asking for in a few week when lockdown is over...... Eeerrrr no cos I'd rather not catch it thanks, know someone who's just had it and he's tried everything to stay away from ppl and still got it, and he is a healthy male and he was in a bad way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not just guys looking for meets my updates page today has had half a dozen couples loiking for this weekend and one femake looking for guys for gangbang party when lockdown ends"

Precisely... And it's human nature to be selfish and only natural that some are less risk-averse. Others just don't think Covid is a big deal.

Put all of these together and it's not particularly surprising that people are still meeting!

As an individual, do what you can to mitigate your risk, avoid those seeking to meet and don't concern yourself with what others are doing.

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By *issy and GingeCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Yeah we have been sent messages about meeting up but mainly single guys.

Missy’s shielding so it’s a def no for us.

It’s a miserable situation, until is safe enough for the clubs to open I doubt many will be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might wanna meet up in a park and have a 2metre social distance workout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is anyone looking to meet during this time doesn't take their health nor the other person's seriously. So the question I ask myself any others, Would you have met someone who didn't take their health or yours seriously before this virus appeared?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They might wanna meet up in a park and have a 2metre social distance workout. "

Then I say go for a walk in the park and meet some other walkers. Say hi to them for me.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

A few of my single friends have met for dates and had sex with the guys! Not swingers, regular dating sites... so people are being very dismissive of the guidance/social distancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a request to meet next week... My profile quite clearly states I am NOT MEETING.

I'm essentially an only parent to my daughter and currently living in an area that has seen a big jump in Covid cases so I have to be careful. If I can't have my sister in my house, I'm not having some randomer from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No women want to meet me, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had loads of meet requests!

Which proves two things too us..

1 a lot of people don't give two shits about the pandemic!

And 2, nobody reads our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep having guys tell me they have had a covid test so they are safe to meet. Like it'll change my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep having guys tell me they have had a covid test so they are safe to meet. Like it'll change my mind "

Goes to show what lengths of nonsensical mind games many will go to in order to meet doesn't it. Displays some elementary lack of basic knowledge. The mot test is only as good as the time it's taken.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

People had alot more understanding in the first lockdown,Since we came out of that lockdown I hid my profile after a week,as I was constantly asked to meet and go to secret parties

I did have not meeting all over my profile,nobody bothered to read it,I've been told covid isn't real to I've been tested and are covid free,I got bored having to explain myself

I've now been hidden for months,its loads better I can read and join in on forums,chat to friends and don't get numerous meet requests,it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some guys asking to meet and when I've said no thanks to them they say it's only for a coffee. I just say that I'm sorry I'm not doing it! It's crazy that they just don't care.

What's even more concerning is that the club in Glasgow, CJ's was open on Thursday afternoon for a TV/TS event which I just think was crazy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People had alot more understanding in the first lockdown,Since we came out of that lockdown I hid my profile after a week,as I was constantly asked to meet and go to secret parties

I did have not meeting all over my profile,nobody bothered to read it,I've been told covid isn't real to I've been tested and are covid free,I got bored having to explain myself

I've now been hidden for months,its loads better I can read and join in on forums,chat to friends and don't get numerous meet requests,it works for me

I've got my filters set to no one can message me first. Lol

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Lots of guys, couples too, get confused about the actual meaning of meeting.

Many will run for the hills once Covid, lockdown, plague, alien attack or any other excuse for not meeting becomes a distant memory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few of my single friends have met for dates and had sex with the guys! Not swingers, regular dating sites... so people are being very dismissive of the guidance/social distancing "
I have had quite a few females on dating sites want to meet and to be honest as a single guy living alone if I wasn't so busy and actually had some time to meet them I would have probably gone on a date with a couple of them

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have had single people and couples asking us to meet them now, along with a couple of party invites, we just give a polite answer that we’re not meeting for the foreseeable future.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

"People had alot more understanding in the first lockdown,Since we came out of that lockdown I hid my profile after a week,as I was constantly asked to meet and go to secret parties

I did have not meeting all over my profile,nobody bothered to read it,I've been told covid isn't real to I've been tested and are covid free,I got bored having to explain myself

I've now been hidden for months,its loads better I can read and join in on forums,chat to friends and don't get numerous meet requests,it works for me

I've got my filters set to no one can message me first. Lol"

Trouble with that guys that have messaged in past,can still message,I did try that before

it didn't work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid this virus is going to be with us for years not just a few months like a lot of people think. I would give up the notion of meeting with anyone this year, next year and possibly even the year after that! Plus, the government will want to make the most of being able to control the population for as long as they have reasonable excuse under the umberella of the COVID pandemic rules and emergency laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women still meeting on here as well as my local status updates show so not just those horrible single guys!

And it seems that any new meet verifications that guys put up are recent yet if it's a woman then they're just retrospective veris from ages ago right?

So yup, male, female, couples. Being a dickhead isn't only restricted to blokes.

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By *usybee73Man
over a year ago

in the sticks

"Lots of women still meeting on here as well as my local status updates show so not just those horrible single guys!

And it seems that any new meet verifications that guys put up are recent yet if it's a woman then they're just retrospective veris from ages ago right?

So yup, male, female, couples. Being a dickhead isn't only restricted to blokes.

Quite so

But its a swingers site so single men are fodder, expendable, ten to a penny etc

Surprised none of the liberals on the forum hasn't labelled it sexcist

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"I'm afraid this virus is going to be with us for years not just a few months like a lot of people think. I would give up the notion of meeting with anyone this year, next year and possibly even the year after that! Plus, the government will want to make the most of being able to control the population for as long as they have reasonable excuse under the umberella of the COVID pandemic rules and emergency laws."

I wouldn’t disagree with the first part of your post.

However, in this government’s priorities, controlling the population is far behind milking every last million out of covid for them and their chums.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

I'm amazed at how many 'meet now' posts there are. It seems especially prevalent amongst guys in our area but there are lots of couples and singles around the UK too. I was shocked when I saw one yesterday from a person in Hull which as far as I have heard is at the centre of a really high outbreak. Sheer lunacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly ive just had this conversation...they get so cranky when you say no certainly sorts the genuine ones out !

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By *isandhers691127Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Good time to get the block button working. Wouldn't dream of meeting during the second wave of a pandemic. Anyone who does it not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of individuals on here asking us to meet that day or that week. Kinda frustrating when everyone else is helping by following the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good time to get the block button working. Wouldn't dream of meeting during the second wave of a pandemic. Anyone who does it not for us. "

Too right with the block button!

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

some are desperate

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"It's probably just the latest version of people trying to interpret rules to suit their own agenda, or they are complete dimwits.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm surprised so many of the op's men have so much patience. It's often a 'Meet now' demand that seems to recur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i point out lockdown most reply with ‘i can keep a secret’

Ive had the virus, i certainly dont want another dose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had single people and couples asking us to meet them now, along with a couple of party invites, we just give a polite answer that we’re not meeting for the foreseeable future. "

I was invited to a party inbetween lockdowns. I asked him how he planned to keep social distancing between attendees and he replied that if I was that worried I should get myself to a gym as they have strict measures in place...

Why invite me then if you don't fancy me?!

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By *igh wide and handsomeMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

Not sure why there's any surprise, some men would still meet if there'd been a nuclear war, and going out meant certain death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure there are many people confused by this or just throwing caution to the wind and are meeting "
. I’m pretty sure that’s the case. You only need to remember how many people were meeting in busy pubs and restaurants before lockdown restarted. Plenty of people don’t feel threatened by it and if they don’t have vulnerable people in their lives actually want to carry on life as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure why there's any surprise, some men would still meet if there'd been a nuclear war, and going out meant certain death."

And women

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Not sure why there's any surprise, some men would still meet if there'd been a nuclear war, and going out meant certain death.

And women"

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By *igh wide and handsomeMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

"Not sure why there's any surprise, some men would still meet if there'd been a nuclear war, and going out meant certain death.

And women

You know which ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep having guys tell me they have had a covid test so they are safe to meet. Like it'll change my mind "

Quite agree!

The way I look at is this - If someone gave you a box of malteasers, and told you one of them was laced with a deadly poison... How many would you eat before thinking you're pushing you're luck?

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By *igh wide and handsomeMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

"I keep having guys tell me they have had a covid test so they are safe to meet. Like it'll change my mind

Quite agree!

The way I look at is this - If someone gave you a box of malteasers, and told you one of them was laced with a deadly poison... How many would you eat before thinking you're pushing you're luck?"

Mmmmmmmm, malteasers.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Just reply back, yes can't wait to meet you, I'm laying on the bed naked waiting for you to arrive.

Suddenly, they will respond about work calling and the are so important they have to respond to an intentional incident or their nan is ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep having guys tell me they have had a covid test so they are safe to meet. Like it'll change my mind

Quite agree!

The way I look at is this - If someone gave you a box of malteasers, and told you one of them was laced with a deadly poison... How many would you eat before thinking you're pushing you're luck?

Mmmmmmmm, malteasers."
exactly this

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

It's not just guys - I've seen numerous staus updates and main text of both couples and single female profiles referring to meeting 'post-lockdown'...

....one couple have been doing a 'countdown', with "two weeks to go", "one week to go" - and in my local updates today, there are currently: "Lockdown is almost over", "Hurry up December! I feel I have a lot of naughtiness to catch up on!

", "fuck my pussy senseless on the 5th,"...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's not just guys - I've seen numerous staus updates and main text of both couples and single female profiles referring to meeting 'post-lockdown'...

", "fuck my pussy senseless on the 5th,"...

Oh indeed.

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I’ve not sought out a meet since Feb and have no intention to do so until things are more back to normal.

But surely it’s easiest just to ignore requests to meet, rather than to respond and invite further argument / persuasion?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"It's not just guys - I've seen numerous staus updates and main text of both couples and single female profiles referring to meeting 'post-lockdown'...

", "fuck my pussy senseless on the 5th,"...

So it matches the rest of them?

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Exactly! Its not rocket science!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Get asked several times a day to meet now but just politely decline x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Not sure why there's any surprise, some men would still meet if there'd been a nuclear war, and going out meant certain death."

If there had been I certainly would be going out lmao! Who would want to survive a nuclear war?? X

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I wouldn't ask to meet intimately. I might ask to meet within social distancing. I certainly wont meet in the present climate

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