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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views." Not to play no.. What about you op? | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. Not to play no.. What about you op?" Think the verifications show the answer! | |||
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"Yes we would. The first lockdown we took very seriously. Little was known about Covid and it felt like a genuine attempt to control the virus, emtpy roads, everyone who could be at home was. This lockdown is just a joke, with kids back at school and most people still working its pointless. " Oh dear ! | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views." No. I'm assuming you mean "Meeting" as in "Swinging". Again No. I'd extrapolate that further and also include "Meeting" in every possible definition of the social sense. Again No. | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. Not to play no.. What about you op? Think the verifications show the answer! " Playing devils advocate they could be social meets.. Anyone who has met and played in this time should at least leave the site, the site being a business won't cut their revenue so in some ways warnings and guidelines are a bit pointless.. | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views." Back in july, maybe Now .. NO | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views." I have been ignoring the government advice from even before they gave advice for the first time. I will meet people when i believe it's safe to meet people. Which is not now, hasn't been since February, and is highly unlikely to be soon. I'm unhappy and depressed with the situation, but i have family members who might well die if i caught it and passed it along to them. I won't be waiting for an all clear signal from bojo though, I'll assess the evidence on my own and be out and about again when it really is safe. | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. I have been ignoring the government advice from even before they gave advice for the first time. I will meet people when i believe it's safe to meet people. Which is not now, hasn't been since February, and is highly unlikely to be soon. I'm unhappy and depressed with the situation, but i have family members who might well die if i caught it and passed it along to them. I won't be waiting for an all clear signal from bojo though, I'll assess the evidence on my own and be out and about again when it really is safe." I'm interested to know what advice you are going by that allows you to make that decision? | |||
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"Possibly,yes,not definitely,but possibly. Definitely no one from the forums though Far too judgmental " I am quickly learning about your last point! | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. I have been ignoring the government advice from even before they gave advice for the first time. I will meet people when i believe it's safe to meet people. Which is not now, hasn't been since February, and is highly unlikely to be soon. I'm unhappy and depressed with the situation, but i have family members who might well die if i caught it and passed it along to them. I won't be waiting for an all clear signal from bojo though, I'll assess the evidence on my own and be out and about again when it really is safe. I'm interested to know what advice you are going by that allows you to make that decision? " I look at the cases and deaths figures most days on worldmeter and other sites, for the uk/eu/usa/india etc, and look at the week by week trends. I compare the new cases curve against the new deaths curve to get a feel of how one is tracking the other - this helps me cancel out to some extent any effects of testing over/under sampling, and over/under attributing deaths to covid. I look at cases/deaths per million population rather than just straight figures, but also at how densely populated my area is to get some kind of rough feel for how fast it might spread and how likely it might be that i get close to any person carrying the virus. I'm no microbiology expert but i do have a halfway decent working knowledge of how DNA/RNA works, viral replication, cellular mechanics, the immune system, disease vectors. I have a good way with mathematics that helps me estimate the trends. And I don't have any specific financial or political pressures to bias me in either direction. Especially no desperate need for popularity pushing me to tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear (unlike many in government constantly chasing public support). On balance i probability still won't meet until well after the government drops their restrictions. | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. I have been ignoring the government advice from even before they gave advice for the first time. I will meet people when i believe it's safe to meet people. Which is not now, hasn't been since February, and is highly unlikely to be soon. I'm unhappy and depressed with the situation, but i have family members who might well die if i caught it and passed it along to them. I won't be waiting for an all clear signal from bojo though, I'll assess the evidence on my own and be out and about again when it really is safe. I'm interested to know what advice you are going by that allows you to make that decision? I look at the cases and deaths figures most days on worldmeter and other sites, for the uk/eu/usa/india etc, and look at the week by week trends. I compare the new cases curve against the new deaths curve to get a feel of how one is tracking the other - this helps me cancel out to some extent any effects of testing over/under sampling, and over/under attributing deaths to covid. I look at cases/deaths per million population rather than just straight figures, but also at how densely populated my area is to get some kind of rough feel for how fast it might spread and how likely it might be that i get close to any person carrying the virus. I'm no microbiology expert but i do have a halfway decent working knowledge of how DNA/RNA works, viral replication, cellular mechanics, the immune system, disease vectors. I have a good way with mathematics that helps me estimate the trends. And I don't have any specific financial or political pressures to bias me in either direction. Especially no desperate need for popularity pushing me to tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear (unlike many in government constantly chasing public support). On balance i probability still won't meet until well after the government drops their restrictions." You stated you havent followed government advice yet you say you probably wont meet until well after they drop their restrictions? So following them to a certain extent! | |||
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"Nope. The government are still trying to keep an economy going at the same time as advising the MINIMUM we can do to keep as safe as reasonably possible. I'll take their minimum and raise it to my own standards. We have a duty of care to ourselves AND to others regardless of whether we know them or not. It's called a conscience. Do you cross a road coz you put all your faith and trust in a flashing green man or do you still look both ways just in case?" Exactly this. Whilst I appreciate that I am married so I am still having sex, the answer would be the same if I was single. I enjoy sex but not at the expense of my health or that of others. | |||
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"This thing isn’t going away anytime soon , so what is everyone going to sit in a bubble forever? I have had it and so have most of my family, am sat here with anxiety over a future that’s being fucked about with and out my hands! I cannot meet at minute because I am at sea, but when opportunities arise they will be taken. Not trying to offend anyone these are my thoughts and my partners " I think many many people have anxiety at the moment. I was frightened every day I went to work, because of the public that didn't follow the guidelines and rules. I have anxiety over going back after this furlough, at least last lockdown people were following the rules far more than they are this time round. It's not good for mental health that's for certain. People don't need to remain hidden from the world forever but basic consideration and care taken, like both parties properly self isolating for 2 weeks (no shopping, no nipping to the chippy) | |||
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"This thing isn’t going away anytime soon , so what is everyone going to sit in a bubble forever? I have had it and so have most of my family, am sat here with anxiety over a future that’s being fucked about with and out my hands! I cannot meet at minute because I am at sea, but when opportunities arise they will be taken. Not trying to offend anyone these are my thoughts and my partners " I can live without sex. I can live without in person contact. I could not live with myself if I spread a novel disease to another person and risked their long term disability or death. | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views." No, not just for myself but also for other people! I would feel bad about passing it to others who could die | |||
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"Nhs nurse.. ive had enough. Seriously had enough. My face is on fire wearing ppe all day. Im not meeting.. just wish there was an injection of common sense or logic" Exactly, I’m in social care, we were ok through the first wave, second wave so far has been a total and utter shitstorm. Too many funerals. No way on earth would I meet any time soon x | |||
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"I haven't hugged my parents or adult children since March so why would I have sex with a stranger ?" That says it all doesn’t it, great reply! ???? | |||
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"Possibly,yes,not definitely,but possibly. Definitely no one from the forums though Far too judgmental " We all have our own opinions, that doesn’t make us judgemental it makes for democracy | |||
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"Nhs nurse.. ive had enough. Seriously had enough. My face is on fire wearing ppe all day. Im not meeting.. just wish there was an injection of common sense or logic" Thank you for your hard work, I know claps and me saying thank you doesn't cut it. The authentic way for the people of this country to say thank you is by staying the fuck at home. That would actually help you. I'm sorry they're too inconsiderate to do so. | |||
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"Nope. The government are still trying to keep an economy going at the same time as advising the MINIMUM we can do to keep as safe as reasonably possible. I'll take their minimum and raise it to my own standards. We have a duty of care to ourselves AND to others regardless of whether we know them or not. It's called a conscience. Do you cross a road coz you put all your faith and trust in a flashing green man or do you still look both ways just in case?" | |||
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"So my question is, if there was currently no lockdown but simply government advice not to meet, would you ?? Just curious about peoples views. I have been ignoring the government advice from even before they gave advice for the first time. I will meet people when i believe it's safe to meet people. Which is not now, hasn't been since February, and is highly unlikely to be soon. I'm unhappy and depressed with the situation, but i have family members who might well die if i caught it and passed it along to them. I won't be waiting for an all clear signal from bojo though, I'll assess the evidence on my own and be out and about again when it really is safe. I'm interested to know what advice you are going by that allows you to make that decision? I look at the cases and deaths figures most days on worldmeter and other sites, for the uk/eu/usa/india etc, and look at the week by week trends. I compare the new cases curve against the new deaths curve to get a feel of how one is tracking the other - this helps me cancel out to some extent any effects of testing over/under sampling, and over/under attributing deaths to covid. I look at cases/deaths per million population rather than just straight figures, but also at how densely populated my area is to get some kind of rough feel for how fast it might spread and how likely it might be that i get close to any person carrying the virus. I'm no microbiology expert but i do have a halfway decent working knowledge of how DNA/RNA works, viral replication, cellular mechanics, the immune system, disease vectors. I have a good way with mathematics that helps me estimate the trends. And I don't have any specific financial or political pressures to bias me in either direction. Especially no desperate need for popularity pushing me to tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear (unlike many in government constantly chasing public support). On balance i probability still won't meet until well after the government drops their restrictions. You stated you havent followed government advice yet you say you probably wont meet until well after they drop their restrictions? So following them to a certain extent! " Well no, I'm making my own restrictions, and generally being much stricter with myself than the government regs. I voluntarily started isolating myself several weeks before bojo finally realised there was a problem... | |||
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"If we didn't, we'd end up like American where nearly quarter of a million people have died from it so far " Deaths per million population, we're actually doing a lot worse than the states... | |||
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"listen to yourselves, how you’ve all been easily manipulated to vilify and discriminate anyone who doesn’t cower down to nonsensical guidelines. It’s less deadly than the flu or any other virus and your prepared to let the country and peoples livelihoods collapse because your TV told you it was for the greater good and to keep nana safe. Your same people who will turn a blind eye, when people who question or refuse to be vaccinated start being rounded up into trains by 21st century SS officers. " https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/heartbreak-despair-covid-heroism-inside-19314519 | |||
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"listen to yourselves, how you’ve all been easily manipulated to vilify and discriminate anyone who doesn’t cower down to nonsensical guidelines. It’s less deadly than the flu or any other virus and your prepared to let the country and peoples livelihoods collapse because your TV told you it was for the greater good and to keep nana safe. Your same people who will turn a blind eye, when people who question or refuse to be vaccinated start being rounded up into trains by 21st century SS officers. " All hail the saviour | |||
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"listen to yourselves, how you’ve all been easily manipulated to vilify and discriminate anyone who doesn’t cower down to nonsensical guidelines. It’s less deadly than the flu or any other virus and your prepared to let the country and peoples livelihoods collapse because your TV told you it was for the greater good and to keep nana safe. Your same people who will turn a blind eye, when people who question or refuse to be vaccinated start being rounded up into trains by 21st century SS officers. " I listen. I hear people who are community minded and recognise the dangers of a pandemic, sometimes in spite of what government says. I see people doing their best to bring this under control so we *can* rebuild. I also see people caught up in lies and prepared to throw the Third Reich around when they don't get what they want. | |||
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"listen to yourselves, how you’ve all been easily manipulated to vilify and discriminate anyone who doesn’t cower down to nonsensical guidelines. It’s less deadly than the flu or any other virus and your prepared to let the country and peoples livelihoods collapse because your TV told you it was for the greater good and to keep nana safe. Your same people who will turn a blind eye, when people who question or refuse to be vaccinated start being rounded up into trains by 21st century SS officers. https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/heartbreak-despair-covid-heroism-inside-19314519" "There is another glum look from the staff when I ask about his chances of survival - they've seen too much this year to expect anything other than the worst. They find it hard to believe that some people believe this virus has gone away - or that it isn't as serious as suggested. I'm told about the taxi driver who died with his 10-year-old son watching through the nearby door, hands pressed helplessly against the glass." -For people who haven't read the article in the link. | |||
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"Take it you mean swinging meets not general family and friends meets. For us no to all, haven't found this or any lockdown too much of an issue. If washing my mitts, wearing a piece of paper over my face and keeping a meter or two away from people can save lives I'm fine with that. If its found washing hands, facemasks, distancing has all been a waste of time, I won't see it as an inconvenience. " Yes. Risk/ benefit. A bit of inconvenience, dermatitis, and loneliness for me is well worth it: the evidence suggests that doing that as a collective will bring this crisis to an end. | |||
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"I dont usually post on these forums but whilst I agree with this not being a lockdown this time around as a lot of people have said with people still working, kids going to school etc. I personally think it is stupid and irresponsible to meet people you do not know especially for any kind of sexual activity, but I also dont think we've ever really had a full lockdown at all, not to the levels of some European countries where you simply couldn't go out without a legitimate reason but then this was enforced proactively by law. Anyway that's my opinion." No, we certainly haven't had a full lockdown. For pity's sake. | |||
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" No, we certainly haven't had a full lockdown. For pity's sake." Maybe if we had we might be in a different place now, but we will never know. | |||
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" No, we certainly haven't had a full lockdown. For pity's sake. Maybe if we had we might be in a different place now, but we will never know." I suspect we might be. Comparable numbers in Victoria in our summer to the whole of the UK, and they've suppressed that shit. I'd certainly rather have had a month or two of utter misery than indefinite partial misery. | |||
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"I dont usually post on these forums but whilst I agree with this not being a lockdown this time around as a lot of people have said with people still working, kids going to school etc. I personally think it is stupid and irresponsible to meet people you do not know especially for any kind of sexual activity, but I also dont think we've ever really had a full lockdown at all, not to the levels of some European countries where you simply couldn't go out without a legitimate reason but then this was enforced proactively by law. Anyway that's my opinion." True our lockdown was nothing compared to the likes of Spain, France, Italy etc. Yet here we are all in the same boat. | |||
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"I dont usually post on these forums but whilst I agree with this not being a lockdown this time around as a lot of people have said with people still working, kids going to school etc. I personally think it is stupid and irresponsible to meet people you do not know especially for any kind of sexual activity, but I also dont think we've ever really had a full lockdown at all, not to the levels of some European countries where you simply couldn't go out without a legitimate reason but then this was enforced proactively by law. Anyway that's my opinion. True our lockdown was nothing compared to the likes of Spain, France, Italy etc. Yet here we are all in the same boat." In August, rounding down, the state of Victoria in Australia had 700ish cases a day, considered a disaster. It more or less coincided with the UK posting similar numbers. Per head of population, 700 cases in Victoria is about 14 cases per 100000 people. 700 cases in the UK is about 1 per 100k people. (I'm not taking into account that the vast majority of cases in Victoria were in metropolitan Melbourne, with population density comparable to British cities before anyone talks about cattle ranches in Western Australia which are wholly irrelevant) Victoria locked down hard. I'll give the UK a handicap because apparently we need it. In the last 22 days Victoria has had 0/100k new cases of Covid. In the last day (rounding UK population up, rounding infection rate down - twice) the UK has had 29/100k of its population get positive tests. Hope this helps. | |||
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"If only the uk population was based just around the coast." If only I already addressed this point | |||
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"If only the uk population was based just around the coast. If only I already addressed this point " So instead of comparing us to other European countries were lockdown has had limited effect you compare us to an Australian city. | |||
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"If only the uk population was based just around the coast. If only I already addressed this point So instead of comparing us to other European countries were lockdown has had limited effect you compare us to an Australian city." I compare a culturally similar city with similar resources per head of population and similar strategies available to it. With similar numbers at a point in August so we can see a difference in strategies. Comparing systems that are all failing in various ways doesn't teach us much, unless your argument is "we're amazing and it can't be helped". It can be helped. | |||
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