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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you go on a picnic date from a dating site!? Before you went on one from here. Is the only difference the mindset and honesty towards sexual preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger people are ignoring the concerns.

My youngest (20) met her latest BF via Tinder during the pandemic and they are now in full relationship swing, but she and he have had he importance of the hygiene and the two families explained to them and have signed up to strict washing of hands and distancing routines.

Honestly, I wouldn't out of fear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

difference for me is fab is about sexual pleasure, if you already have a partner at home or toy drawer or a hand you have an alternative option for that pleasure

dating is about companionship , yes there can be a sexual element to it but first and foremost its not just about getting laid

im much more willing to take a risk to end up in a relationship than for the sake of an orgasm

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"difference for me is fab is about sexual pleasure, if you already have a partner at home or toy drawer or a hand you have an alternative option for that pleasure

dating is about companionship , yes there can be a sexual element to it but first and foremost its not just about getting laid

im much more willing to take a risk to end up in a relationship than for the sake of an orgasm "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course but many couples on here met on here and a lot of people use it as open minded dating. Like they do on a popular fetish site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many fabbers say rightly this is not (just if at all) a sex site/hook up site.. This is about people's lives not just an orgasm.

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D"

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes id agree with those who take this scene and the fetish scene seriously. Rather than just the fuck and goers lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with. "

Now this is probably the most profound post I've seen in the virus forum since it began....why, because it's common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with.

Now this is probably the most profound post I've seen in the virus forum since it began....why, because it's common sense. "

Just a positive generalisation.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Younger people are ignoring the concerns.

My youngest (20) met her latest BF via Tinder during the pandemic and they are now in full relationship swing, but she and he have had he importance of the hygiene and the two families explained to them and have signed up to strict washing of hands and distancing routines.

Honestly, I wouldn't out of fear."

Gosh I feel so sorry for them having such interfering families......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is best if we all comes to term to be asexual for the forthcoming future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People have always broken the rules for love and lust tho which is why I know quite a few people who have started relationships in this time even tho.. Under the guidance.. Its seen as wrong or un advised

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech


"I think it is best if we all comes to term to be asexual for the forthcoming future."

Not a chance. We have some excellent and sensible friends, who in turn introduce us to their trusted friends.

Not one cough, sneeze or high temperature from anyone we have encountered because of our ability to use a bit of common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This 'common sense' thing.

Is it a new thing, as it seems over the last 4/5months we /us the general public have not been allowed to use it.. !!

Just saying...

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech


"This 'common sense' thing.

Is it a new thing, as it seems over the last 4/5months we /us the general public have not been allowed to use it.. !!

Just saying... "

It seems to be a dying art these days. There's too many fuckwits who have made it necessary to be told that it's not safe to put a fork in plug socket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just thought it an age thing and id forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have always broken the rules for love and lust tho which is why I know quite a few people who have started relationships in this time even tho.. Under the guidance.. Its seen as wrong or un advised "

again for me its the distinction between love and lust

as someone who had been home alone the full of lockdown i have alot of understanding for people who cautiously go against the guidance to try form a connection with someone ... single lockdown is a lonely place ... and i dont mean horny, i genuinely mean lonely

i have much less sympathy for people who want to break it for a shag

i know everyone has had a hard lockdown but i do get the impression people with a family / partner/ even a child at home just dont seem to get the concept of how difficult being home entirely alone is ... no human touch of any kind in 4 months is not a nice place to be and contrary to popular belief thats why bubbles were introduced ... not so everyone could start shagging again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg .. ive just had

I am home alone do you wana come over got to laugh ..

Block and report..

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"Younger people are ignoring the concerns.

My youngest (20) met her latest BF via Tinder during the pandemic and they are now in full relationship swing, but she and he have had he importance of the hygiene and the two families explained to them and have signed up to strict washing of hands and distancing routines.

Honestly, I wouldn't out of fear."
I think the older we get the more fear we have

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech


"i just thought it an age thing and id forgotten"

Us oldies are keeping the fight alive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't be meeting anyone off here, not even for a picnic.

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D"

If you are already in a bubble with someone, say a relative, then I thought it was against the guidelines to kiss or hold hands with anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it is... Just imagine being told you can't physically fall in love.. I can't imagine being single this summer

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with. "

Let me understand this correctly.... because lifestylers take increased risks by indulging in non-monogamous sex they are better equipped to identify the risks to themselves and others and control the risks?

Secondly, was everyone surprised when, unanimously, everyone agreed “I wouldn’t be meeting anyone if I felt off!”? Oh to be the one to say “you know what I’m a bit hot and sweaty, taking my clothes off with others will only help!”

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with.

Let me understand this correctly.... because lifestylers take increased risks by indulging in non-monogamous sex they are better equipped to identify the risks to themselves and others and control the risks?

Secondly, was everyone surprised when, unanimously, everyone agreed “I wouldn’t be meeting anyone if I felt off!”? Oh to be the one to say “you know what I’m a bit hot and sweaty, taking my clothes off with others will only help!”"

Lifestylers recognise risk, evaluate risk and take every precaution before engaging in these activities. Trust is paramount, and this is where we are different from tinder and badoo.

I trust my friends implicitly, and because of this we can safely meet and have done for nearly two months. Guess what.... no symptoms or virus from anyone. This wasnt down to being lucky either, it was because we are sensible enough to know better than than some horny chancer who just wants a cheap shag.

As for getting hot and sweaty, didn't the media say we were going to get a second wave from all the sunbathers on the beach 3 months ago ? Still waiting for that.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Interesting chat on radio 5. About dating in these times. And on how initial meets are done and how to progress in these time with first kisses and hand holding. Made me think how a lot of singles and poly couples like us are looking to date as well as group sex orgy on fab. Discuss. Is there that much difference between Milla dating and us more kinky lot... Is it just immediate sex or the possibility of it.. Lol that happens in the mainstream too

D

This discussion came up at our party on Saturday, the outcome being unanimously that people in our lifestyle are generally the most tuned in the dangers of virus transmission, thus giving us all an edge on the chancers in vanilla land.

If we're feeling a bit off colour (post and pre covid) then we would give it a miss. This seemed to be the consensus of everyone else, not just because we might feel like shit, but also because we don't want anyone else getting ill from being selfish.

Lifestylers are definitely the safest people to mix with.

Let me understand this correctly.... because lifestylers take increased risks by indulging in non-monogamous sex they are better equipped to identify the risks to themselves and others and control the risks?

Secondly, was everyone surprised when, unanimously, everyone agreed “I wouldn’t be meeting anyone if I felt off!”? Oh to be the one to say “you know what I’m a bit hot and sweaty, taking my clothes off with others will only help!”

Lifestylers recognise risk, evaluate risk and take every precaution before engaging in these activities. Trust is paramount, and this is where we are different from tinder and badoo.

I trust my friends implicitly, and because of this we can safely meet and have done for nearly two months. Guess what.... no symptoms or virus from anyone. This wasnt down to being lucky either, it was because we are sensible enough to know better than than some horny chancer who just wants a cheap shag.

As for getting hot and sweaty, didn't the media say we were going to get a second wave from all the sunbathers on the beach 3 months ago ? Still waiting for that. "

The getting hot and sweaty part was potentially feverish.... my point was no one in the group is going to stand out and say you ‘know what I don’t care about others’ they’re going to agree that of course they wouldn’t put others at risk.

As for lifestylers recognise risk ,... most people recognise risk. Sex with others increases the risk of transmission of many things and to suggest that lifestylers are somehow more attuned and in a better position to control transmission is preposterous! I have no issues with what you or others are doing but I wholeheartedly disagree with your mindset that you are set apart from the ‘horny chancer’!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" As for lifestylers recognise risk ,... most people recognise risk. Sex with others increases the risk of transmission of many things and to suggest that lifestylers are somehow more attuned and in a better position to control transmission is preposterous! I have no issues with what you or others are doing but I wholeheartedly disagree with your mindset that you are set apart from the ‘horny chancer’! "

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