FabSwingers.com forum: Party

By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

its very hard as I've had to miss two birthdays but its not worth the risk and I'm pretty sure its not allowed.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Up to 30 people allowed, and wouldn't miss it for the world if it was me, unless I had serious health issues, the risk is tiny,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd probably attend although might limit my time there, subject to how things were. If there's a lot of space being kept between people it would be safer and with an outdors setting it should be much safer than indoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can go to a pub with up to 30 people in the garden then I don't see any reason why not (not saying you go to pubs btw) as long as you stick to guidelines, its my son's 18th birthday in two weeks, I will be popping by, won't stay long but wouldn't miss it.

Danish x

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Are we invited then?

Will there be jelly and ice cream?

I would definitely go if I were you. Outside activities carry minimal risk and feel good events like this are definitely good for everyone

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Unless your in the high risk group definitely go

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"

Depends on the weather. No issues with small gatherings outside but would not wish to sit in the pouring rain.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"

Absolutely, why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Bit short notice for us to get to Rotherham,but appreciate the invite

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"
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I would go for a while, you won't get that first birthday party back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Bit short notice for us to get to Rotherham,but appreciate the invite

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"
close family yes enjoy

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

It’s not all close family

There will be about 6 households with people there I don’t know anything about

I also work with customers every day in a shop so would hate to take anything with me

I want to go but I’m worried

Xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It’s not all close family

There will be about 6 households with people there I don’t know anything about

I also work with customers every day in a shop so would hate to take anything with me

I want to go but I’m worried

Xxx"

Hmmm...that's different then. Can you visit her before other guests arrive? X

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

No cos I’m working while 2 which is when party starts

Xxx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I'd go

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No cos I’m working while 2 which is when party starts

Xxx"

Oh dear, it's a tricky one...it may be difficult to social distance..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go. I'm very high risk (got the letter) but I'd still go.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"
Help me out here.

There are NHS advice lines.

There are local authority advice lines.

There are government websites.

You, on the other hand, are asking for advice about a complex public health issue on a swingers website.

You might want to ask yourself a few hard questions.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

It maybe a swingers site but the forums about the virus are for people who want to chat about it or ask for advice

Thanx for,your input

Chat forums are for allsorts of subjects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

I have grandsons and was one of my grandsons birthday in April.... i went but didn't stay long and i am high risk. I would go if only for half an hour. As previous said, first birthday. If you feel uncomfortable just tell them, at least you can show your face. Good luck. Xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"It maybe a swingers site but the forums about the virus are for people who want to chat about it or ask for advice

Thanx for,your input

Chat forums are for allsorts of subjects"

You know what bother's me more than anything?

It's not that we live in interesting times and things are sketchy for everyone. It's that during all of this, some individuals just wanna piss on others for the sake of it.

Why should it matter what the venue or forum is? Who cares if this is a swingers site? A question was asked and it hurts no one to answer with their opinion rather than try to shut it down.

Personally speaking, from observation alone, Fab's forums have become increasingly hostile as of late. I get everyone is scared. I get everyone wants to be safe. I get we all need some common sense.

But for crying out loud, it's not what you say people, it's how you say it.

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Thank you for that

I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response

There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here

All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies

Party has been and gone now

Xxxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thank you for that

I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response

There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here

All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies

Party has been and gone now

Xxxx"

Unfortunately there are always those with a snotty response, best ignored...the forums are to spark discussion as well as get people's opinions on different things. Those opinions will differ, but people don't need to be rude to others. X

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

I agree luv

Xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I agree luv

Xxx"
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xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that hard really, covid is still out there and numbers are still rising, feeling bad about missing is fine. But how bad will you feel if someone at the party gets sick due to being there. If your worried about it then I would say don't go. Have all the people you don't know, who are going, stayed safe and isolated? At the end of the day it's only a party and there will be loads more to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just realised it was yesterday!

Did you go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It maybe a swingers site but the forums about the virus are for people who want to chat about it or ask for advice

Thanx for,your input

Chat forums are for allsorts of subjects

You know what bother's me more than anything?

It's not that we live in interesting times and things are sketchy for everyone. It's that during all of this, some individuals just wanna piss on others for the sake of it.

Why should it matter what the venue or forum is? Who cares if this is a swingers site? A question was asked and it hurts no one to answer with their opinion rather than try to shut it down.

Personally speaking, from observation alone, Fab's forums have become increasingly hostile as of late. I get everyone is scared. I get everyone wants to be safe. I get we all need some common sense.

But for crying out loud, it's not what you say people, it's how you say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for that

I know I asked a simple question but wasn’t expecting a snotty response

There are loads of advice lines but sometimes it’s quicker to get an answer from here

All the sensible answers ha e been read and thank you so much for your replies

Party has been and gone now

Xxxx"

Did you go?

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there

No way could they have distanced

Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids

To risky

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there

No way could they have distanced

Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids

To risky"

Sounds like the right decision, I wouldn't have gone, with that amount of people. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there

No way could they have distanced

Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids

To risky"

Wise choice, (in my opinion) you can always go around today or tomorrow!

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

I will see her soon enough

Just don’t wanna miss those first steps

Xxxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I will see her soon enough

Just don’t wanna miss those first steps

Xxxx"

It's very hard at the moment, isn't it. My nephew, whom I'm very close to, has just become a new daddy. Baby was in hospital for a week with an infection, I'm desperate to meet her, but have a heavy cold, so won't go near her until I am better....I get daily photos of her though

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Aw bless

It won’t be long for you I’m sure

Xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Aw bless

It won’t be long for you I’m sure

Xxx"
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No, it wont! He's thinking of doing a drive by, so I can at least peer through the window at her! I will wear a mask when I do see her. They are being careful and limiting the amount of people that are able to see her at the moment.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"OP, My 2 pennies worth is to ask yourself the question "would I regret not going?" Covid should be taken seriously, but it shouldn't dictate how you live your life. As others have said, this will be the only time he turns 1. Go, but take precautions as necessary. The positive benefits to your well-being having gone, will outweigh any potential risks. In my opinion."

It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"My grand daughters 1st birthday on Saturday and a party in the garden with quite a few households there

Would you attend

Not sure if it’s worth the risk or even if it’s allowed

Xxxxx"

Go, take all the precautions you feel you need to but you would feel bad if you don't and I'm sure they would miss granny not being involved in that first birthday party

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above

Oops, dammit

Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above

Oops, dammit

Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above

Oops, dammit

Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon

*note to self, read whole thread before answering original question

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It was yesterday ,OP didn't, you will see why, above

Oops, dammit

Sorry Op, hope you get to see them soon

*note to self, read whole thread before answering original question

it was a good post

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Thank you for all your comments

No comment to the rude person who messaged me privately

I’ll not even get into that one

Did t realise I was whining

Pmsl

Not my style

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thank you for all your comments

No comment to the rude person who messaged me privately

I’ll not even get into that one

Did t realise I was whining

Pmsl

Not my style"

Knowing you personally, for many years,you are definitely not a whiner. You are a lovely kind lady, just considering others, it's a pity more people don't have your caring attitude

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Awww thanks honey

Love ya always

Always takes one to spoil things but luckily I’m not the type to take it to heart

Xxxxxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Awww thanks honey

Love ya always

Always takes one to spoil things but luckily I’m not the type to take it to heart

Xxxxxx"
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No, you're not one to take it to heart, I agree. Love ya too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there

No way could they have distanced

Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids

To risky"

Hope they are all ok and no-one brought anything nasty to the party. X

I wouldn't have gone either.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No I didn’t go because there was about 60 people there

No way could they have distanced

Plus bouncy castle and loads of kids

To risky

Hope they are all ok and no-one brought anything nasty to the party. X

I wouldn't have gone either. "

Me neither, in the circumstances, too many people

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By *unlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Well obviously all the people who attended took a risk

Just hope everyone is ok

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Well obviously all the people who attended took a risk

Just hope everyone is ok"
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I hope so too x

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