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By *62newbies OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ulverston

However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree and had already resigned ourselves to waiting until next spring or so. It’s very frustrating but not much of a convenience when compared with the possible alternative.

Again, we are sure you’re right about people wanting to meet anyway. We have seen an influx of “meet now” messages this week - eek.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Lots are meeting already and taking the risks . Lets hope their selfish actions dont kill people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots are meeting already and taking the risks . Lets hope their selfish actions dont kill people"

Yes, quite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People do their own risk assessments all the time for things to life. Earlier in this disease, younger men were seen to be the highest breakers of the lockdown rules. Expect that to be reflected sexually too.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone. "

It is very difficult for us singles living alone. I haven’t met my FWB since February and I’ve had my birthday last week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down..

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By *aulaxd500TV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan

Couples who don't live together should already be allowed to meet, so a single FB/fwb.

It's bad for mental health not too.

I can't see how that is any riskier than areas where lots of people mix.

The biggest hypocrisy for me is with schools, 15 households mixing indoors for 5 hours is ok, but you can't go into a friend's house for a cuppa? If schools reopen fully in September the mixing of households increases exponentially.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down.. "

Agreed. It’s not just about sex. We have a biological need for touch and it will get to a point where the impact on mental health will outweigh the risks from the virus. People who live alone would start to need this and break the rules eventually, we are literally fighting human nature. It is easy to label these people as selfish if you don’t live alone and are able to have this fundamental human need met.

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By *entleman_spyMan
over a year ago

nearby

The way things seem to be going I expect things to be pretty much back to normal by mid to late August possibly September - things are improving everyday besides what the fear mongering media would like people to believe lock down has been eased to the extent people have been meeting in groups at beaches and in parks for over two weeks now, the new infections still decline - slower yes but declining all the same. The areas which had the highest numbers at the peak now have the lowest rates. It’s improving every day ! Bring on the autumn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down..

Agreed. It’s not just about sex. We have a biological need for touch and it will get to a point where the impact on mental health will outweigh the risks from the virus. People who live alone would start to need this and break the rules eventually, we are literally fighting human nature. It is easy to label these people as selfish if you don’t live alone and are able to have this fundamental human need met. "

Exactly, there's a reason why criminals go to jail, isolation is punishment, and even then the isolation is nothing compared to this, they still allowed to have their family visit and hug them

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down..

Agreed. It’s not just about sex. We have a biological need for touch and it will get to a point where the impact on mental health will outweigh the risks from the virus. People who live alone would start to need this and break the rules eventually, we are literally fighting human nature. It is easy to label these people as selfish if you don’t live alone and are able to have this fundamental human need met. "

This completely. It's not about sex its about touch.. companionship.. so we will be allowed to mix this year. Or allowed or not people will.

It is easy to judge people selfish but sorry it's just a basic need and actually could do more good than harm.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

You're entitled to your opinion.

We have ours and it's different.

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By *arknessRisingMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's a waiting game , I too miss the clubs but until this is under control I cant see meets/clubs reopening and I doubt there will be a vaccine for years and if somehow, by some miracle new infections drop to zero I can see them quietly dropping efforts to find one

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"It's a waiting game , I too miss the clubs but until this is under control I cant see meets/clubs reopening and I doubt there will be a vaccine for years and if somehow, by some miracle new infections drop to zero I can see them quietly dropping efforts to find one"
they are struggling to test the one they are trying out because of lack of infections x

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

if your a cpl then yea u can probably put off meets until nxt year if your single on the other hand well them singles aint gona put up with no physical contact forever.they will take the risk.granted some wont but most will.cant c anyone letting a law stop them having sex if they want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your a cpl then yea u can probably put off meets until nxt year if your single on the other hand well them singles aint gona put up with no physical contact forever.they will take the risk.granted some wont but most will.cant c anyone letting a law stop them having sex if they want to"

Phone in one hand while watching porn...I guess you will know what the other hands for uh

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

If anyone actually thinks that meetings aren't happening "in the real world" they maybe suffering from corona of the brain, and need to stop watching puppetmedia fearmongering television ASAP

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By *ixenhixCouple
over a year ago

colchester


"If anyone actually thinks that meetings aren't happening "in the real world" they maybe suffering from corona of the brain, and need to stop watching puppetmedia fearmongering television ASAP "

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"If anyone actually thinks that meetings aren't happening "in the real world" they maybe suffering from corona of the brain, and need to stop watching puppetmedia fearmongering television ASAP "

I don't agree anyone is suffering from corona of the brain as you put it.

We are all aware that some people have been meeting regardless, and some people have pointed that out on this thread.

Your television statement is irrelevant, nobody needs a television to know whether people meet or don't meet.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

I firmly believe that ALL restrictions will be gone before the end of July.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect

I firmly believe that ALL restrictions will be gone before the end of July.

Cal"
Yes need to get the economy moving and stop people cracking up.

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

What are the government going to do.....hire 10 million Reg Hollis's for door to door sex patrol duty

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect

I firmly believe that ALL restrictions will be gone before the end of July.

CalYes need to get the economy moving and stop people cracking up. "

Yes, and that's why the restrictions are being relax every three weeks, and more relaxations will come as time goes on.

I believe that when hospitality opens up on 3rd July they will relax the rules further so people can meet up.

If restaurants and hotels are opening up, then people will be expected to go for a meal , and or travel with their partners and stay overnight in a hotel.

Clubs are less likely to open in July as I don't think that mass gatherings will be allowed that soon, but they will open sometime later.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Dan Savage has been giving some good advice about this on Savage Lovecast, as obviously there aren’t the same restrictions in America. Sex with lots of randos is pretty much out and then otherwise you have to think carefully about bringing people into your ‘pod’. The more people the greater the risk.

This is where it’ll probably actually be easier for people living alone, if either me or my FB show symptoms we both self isolate. That gets trickier if I’m part of a couple or live with others and if one person from the group shows symptoms, everyone has to self isolate

But it is not really about ‘meets’, it’s about the need for human connection

After the HIV crisis stigma just sent people underground and meant that there was an increase in unsafe practices. It would also be like trying to eradicate drug use through prohibition- impossible and it just makes things worse and unsafe

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By *oyle desiring dickWoman
over a year ago

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The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared"

This ruling is causing a huge increase in mental health issues. You have couples that for whatever reasons cant cohabit and they are being ripped apart. Some managed to move in at the start ( I initially did this but then realised damn... I dont like having anyone here) but for many.. this is now too long... and then there is the singles who are being forced to have zero physical contact.

To be fair I can not see the social distancing staying for too much longer... in a shop.. public places possibly... but I've seen loads of people hugging family this week. Something I'd not seen much of till recently .

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect

I firmly believe that ALL restrictions will be gone before the end of July.

Cal"

So mass gatherings will be allowed ie football, concerts etc by the end of July?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared"

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance "

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

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By *oyle desiring dickWoman
over a year ago

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"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance "

I dont mean just sex. I mean any sort of intimacy.

It really will be of huge detriment to people.

I couldn't give a monkey's about some random shag from a stranger but someone I care for. Holding them.... that's what will impact most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/"

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

I dont mean just sex. I mean any sort of intimacy.

It really will be of huge detriment to people.

I couldn't give a monkey's about some random shag from a stranger but someone I care for. Holding them.... that's what will impact most "
yes lack of physical human contact has terrible effects on the mental and physical health. A hug.. sex.. any form of physical contact helps... silly thing is.. lack of it has been shown to lower immune systems

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By *oyle desiring dickWoman
over a year ago

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"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

I dont mean just sex. I mean any sort of intimacy.

It really will be of huge detriment to people.

I couldn't give a monkey's about some random shag from a stranger but someone I care for. Holding them.... that's what will impact most yes lack of physical human contact has terrible effects on the mental and physical health. A hug.. sex.. any form of physical contact helps... silly thing is.. lack of it has been shown to lower immune systems "

I know

All this hand sanitizing and washing will reduce immune systems and prevent people from building up healthy immune systems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone. "

As a guy with no siblings and friends all over the place I can confirm that it is almost impossible!

The mental anguish of only conversing over the pho e has been difficult

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences "

That’s your opinion, but it is contrary to the body of empirical evidence.

It’s not necessarily about the strength of a particular relationship either, or maintaining a relationship. E.g. it is particularly profound among older adults, and these are the ones who are more likely to receive minimal amounts of touch, especially during covid times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences

That’s your opinion, but it is contrary to the body of empirical evidence.

It’s not necessarily about the strength of a particular relationship either, or maintaining a relationship. E.g. it is particularly profound among older adults, and these are the ones who are more likely to receive minimal amounts of touch, especially during covid times. "

Is there empirical evidence where touch is the only variable being measured?

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By *oyle desiring dickWoman
over a year ago

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"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences

That’s your opinion, but it is contrary to the body of empirical evidence.

It’s not necessarily about the strength of a particular relationship either, or maintaining a relationship. E.g. it is particularly profound among older adults, and these are the ones who are more likely to receive minimal amounts of touch, especially during covid times.

Is there empirical evidence where touch is the only variable being measured?"

Most likely... go and research it.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences

That’s your opinion, but it is contrary to the body of empirical evidence.

It’s not necessarily about the strength of a particular relationship either, or maintaining a relationship. E.g. it is particularly profound among older adults, and these are the ones who are more likely to receive minimal amounts of touch, especially during covid times.

Is there empirical evidence where touch is the only variable being measured?"

Look up Harlow’s monkeys. Although obviously due ethical reasons this isn’t something that can be manipulated as an independent variable in recent research, so research tends to be correlational. To be fair, correlation doesn’t equal causation, but there is a lot of consensus touch deprivation is well established.

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over a year ago


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

I dont mean just sex. I mean any sort of intimacy.

It really will be of huge detriment to people.

I couldn't give a monkey's about some random shag from a stranger but someone I care for. Holding them.... that's what will impact most yes lack of physical human contact has terrible effects on the mental and physical health. A hug.. sex.. any form of physical contact helps... silly thing is.. lack of it has been shown to lower immune systems

I know

All this hand sanitizing and washing will reduce immune systems and prevent people from building up healthy immune systems.

"

Yes and unfortunately its causing a major relapse in my normally well managed OCD.

The effects of this are far reaching.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"The logic I fail to see is how people can work less than 2m apart yet cant indulge with a Fwb sexually?

The mental shit living on your own and having zero connection to the outside world will massively impact some people.

There has to be a reason behind this making sex illegal but unsure what.

It cant be just health.... the other reasoning has all been financially geared

I think if it's just having no sex that is impacting on someone's mental health, the issues go beyond those caused by lockdown. There are still lots of ways to feel connected, especially now we can meet with others, albeit at a distance

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for touch. Touch deprivation is well documented. Granted that the following isn’t from a peer reviewed source, but is written by a therapist

https://psychcentral.com/blog/covid-19-and-touch-deprivation/

If relationships are solid and emotionally intimate, I'm not convinced that being deprived of touch alone would have long lasting devastating consequences

That’s your opinion, but it is contrary to the body of empirical evidence.

It’s not necessarily about the strength of a particular relationship either, or maintaining a relationship. E.g. it is particularly profound among older adults, and these are the ones who are more likely to receive minimal amounts of touch, especially during covid times.

Is there empirical evidence where touch is the only variable being measured?

Most likely... go and research it.

"

I have a PhD in this area so I’m nerding out haha

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect

I firmly believe that ALL restrictions will be gone before the end of July.

Cal

So mass gatherings will be allowed ie football, concerts etc by the end of July?! "

"So mass gatherings will be allowed ie football, concerts etc by the end of July?!"

I'm with you on this, I don't believe ALL restrictions would have gone by end of July as the previous poster said.

Hopefully meets will take place by then, but Mass gatherings are unlikely to happen until sometime later than July.

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen


"People do their own risk assessments all the time for things to life. Earlier in this disease, younger men were seen to be the highest breakers of the lockdown rules. Expect that to be reflected sexually too. "

Unless these men are gay it's not going to work! People will meet in time if they want to illegal or not it's human nature.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus "
as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone. "

Pretty much this. I am single and I'm already at the point where I need that interaction of just a hug. So much so that it's really getting me down now . I can't wait to be able to get one from those closest too me. There is no way I can wait until next year

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex. "

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area "

Supposing that prior to coronavirus, someone hasn't been affected by any kind of skin hunger-is 3 months without going to have a profound effect?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area "

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

Supposing that prior to coronavirus, someone hasn't been affected by any kind of skin hunger-is 3 months without going to have a profound effect?"
yes.. it really will. Not all but I cant imagine these poor people stuck totally alone. I have a housefull since lockdown and did initially have a vanilla fwb move in... I still get to see my kids.. and I actually enjoy the alone time when I nip out. Or like this weekend when my oldest went out to meet mates.. omg it was bliss..

Funny enough I thought it would be much harder to keep my sexual addiction in check but the fact I have no option was awful at first but I've mostly got a handle on that now... but I miss the social and very tactile interactions with my friends... and actually having seen them recently made me feel worse than not seeing them. To be so close but not be able to have a hug.. it was awful.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex. "

... I prioritise (as a single person) my family and friends over meets with random fab-era for sex. Let’s not romantisise it .. people meeting when conditions are dodgy will be meeting anyone that will have them .... not my kind of ‘physical touch’ if you’re 10th that week.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development. "

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone.

Pretty much this. I am single and I'm already at the point where I need that interaction of just a hug. So much so that it's really getting me down now . I can't wait to be able to get one from those closest too me. There is no way I can wait until next year "
and you’ll find that from an NSA meet? Really? Don’t you have friends family? People that love you and want to be with you in a non sexual physical sense? People that you trust? I wouldn’t trust a fan male one hit wonder with my health that’s a certainty.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

Supposing that prior to coronavirus, someone hasn't been affected by any kind of skin hunger-is 3 months without going to have a profound effect? yes.. it really will. Not all but I cant imagine these poor people stuck totally alone. I have a housefull since lockdown and did initially have a vanilla fwb move in... I still get to see my kids.. and I actually enjoy the alone time when I nip out. Or like this weekend when my oldest went out to meet mates.. omg it was bliss..

Funny enough I thought it would be much harder to keep my sexual addiction in check but the fact I have no option was awful at first but I've mostly got a handle on that now... but I miss the social and very tactile interactions with my friends... and actually having seen them recently made me feel worse than not seeing them. To be so close but not be able to have a hug.. it was awful. "

It is awful not to hug friends isn’t it I almost wish I’d not seen my family as this part is the worst ... I feel you (well I can’t but you know what I mean)

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex.

... I prioritise (as a single person) my family and friends over meets with random fab-era for sex. Let’s not romantisise it .. people meeting when conditions are dodgy will be meeting anyone that will have them .... not my kind of ‘physical touch’ if you’re 10th that week. "
I think everyone on here prioritises there family and friends first.. although 99.9% of my friends are on here or swingers... and I disagree with your final statement. As there are a lot of people that are saying they want to meet their regular meets. I'm going without currently because my sexual contact usually comes from club meets only. Although I do have a club buddy and a fwb ( one of my few non fab friends)

Not sure why being 10th that day matters though... but then I normally only do group play.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex.

... I prioritise (as a single person) my family and friends over meets with random fab-era for sex. Let’s not romantisise it .. people meeting when conditions are dodgy will be meeting anyone that will have them .... not my kind of ‘physical touch’ if you’re 10th that week. I think everyone on here prioritises there family and friends first.. although 99.9% of my friends are on here or swingers... and I disagree with your final statement. As there are a lot of people that are saying they want to meet their regular meets. I'm going without currently because my sexual contact usually comes from club meets only. Although I do have a club buddy and a fwb ( one of my few non fab friends)

Not sure why being 10th that day matters though... but then I normally only do group play."

... I guess I mean that the people less cautious about these things will be being less cautious in every part of their lives. If physical distancing isn’t a big deal then they’re more than likely have been more exposed. A regular FWB is totally different if you know and trust them but then you wouldn’t need fab meet adverts for that to happen would you? The 10the person would have of course mean you are mixing with 11 possibly infections people rather than 1. For me it’s not worth it for sex. I find it a little disturbing that people’s only form of human contact is from meets on a swinging site. I don’t mean friends originally met on fab as I assume they’re moved to a different platform .. I mean new unknown nsa.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person "

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family "

That’s really awful xxxxx

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex.

... I prioritise (as a single person) my family and friends over meets with random fab-era for sex. Let’s not romantisise it .. people meeting when conditions are dodgy will be meeting anyone that will have them .... not my kind of ‘physical touch’ if you’re 10th that week. I think everyone on here prioritises there family and friends first.. although 99.9% of my friends are on here or swingers... and I disagree with your final statement. As there are a lot of people that are saying they want to meet their regular meets. I'm going without currently because my sexual contact usually comes from club meets only. Although I do have a club buddy and a fwb ( one of my few non fab friends)

Not sure why being 10th that day matters though... but then I normally only do group play.

... I guess I mean that the people less cautious about these things will be being less cautious in every part of their lives. If physical distancing isn’t a big deal then they’re more than likely have been more exposed. A regular FWB is totally different if you know and trust them but then you wouldn’t need fab meet adverts for that to happen would you? The 10the person would have of course mean you are mixing with 11 possibly infections people rather than 1. For me it’s not worth it for sex. I find it a little disturbing that people’s only form of human contact is from meets on a swinging site. I don’t mean friends originally met on fab as I assume they’re moved to a different platform .. I mean new unknown nsa. "

Good Point

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family

That’s really awful xxxxx "

For the record, I didn't mean me, I have more family than I know what to do with and I have some wickedly awesome friends

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family

That’s really awful xxxxx

For the record, I didn't mean me, I have more family than I know what to do with and I have some wickedly awesome friends "

Haha I did check your profile and assumed it wasn’t you - good job I did as I was going to offer to be your friend and look a right tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone.

Pretty much this. I am single and I'm already at the point where I need that interaction of just a hug. So much so that it's really getting me down now . I can't wait to be able to get one from those closest too me. There is no way I can wait until next year and you’ll find that from an NSA meet? Really? Don’t you have friends family? People that love you and want to be with you in a non sexual physical sense? People that you trust? I wouldn’t trust a fan male one hit wonder with my health that’s a certainty."

I'm not saying I'd look for a radom I've had the same friend with benefits for years. I hope to see him

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"It’s not about sex, it’s about a biological need for physical touch. There was a study carried out by Spitz in the 1940s where babies were separated into two groups, both raised in a sterile environment but one group without physical contact. After 4 months almost half of the babies without touch died and they stopped the experiment

Anyone that thinks that touch isn’t important isn’t familiar with the studies in this area

That’s not exactly what happened in Spitz’s research. He didn’t experiment on children but observed children under different conditions, with different levels of contact and compared their development.

Touch is massively important a hug from my kids or my family or my friends absolutely! NSA sex? Nah I’ll live without until I can be sure my sexual appetite won’t put my loved ones at risk. If the only human touch people get is from a site like this that makes me very very sad for that person

Some people aren't lucky enough to have friends and family

That’s really awful xxxxx

For the record, I didn't mean me, I have more family than I know what to do with and I have some wickedly awesome friends

Haha I did check your profile and assumed it wasn’t you - good job I did as I was going to offer to be your friend and look a right tit "

Friends are always welcome, especially more swinger friends!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I was quite hopeful for aug September till I heard there could still be 8000 new cases a day!

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

So the governments viewpoint is important ? Does anyone seriously take what is ‘allowed’ and make it part of their life? ..... for those that use this as a filter, we are, we believe socially responsible, sensible people.... but if people expressing views is a filter, crack on! Filter, block.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone.

Pretty much this. I am single and I'm already at the point where I need that interaction of just a hug. So much so that it's really getting me down now . I can't wait to be able to get one from those closest too me. There is no way I can wait until next year and you’ll find that from an NSA meet? Really? Don’t you have friends family? People that love you and want to be with you in a non sexual physical sense? People that you trust? I wouldn’t trust a fan male one hit wonder with my health that’s a certainty."

Okay so here you are considering whether people should have nsa meets, not whether close contact will be allowed soon. Once close contact with anyone is allowed, then meets will be allowed too. I personally would not want us to be in a situation where some close contact is allowed but there are laws governing who that should be with. This would indeed be a step too far

I imagine that once close contact is allowed there will be the same advice as surrounding meeting people outside now- avoid meeting people from multiple households in quick succession

I personally will not be using this site as I do during normal times any time in the near future. But as soon as I can meet my fb, then it’s on. Other people will find new meets on here or might use the site to find a covid fwb. Hopefully the majority will use good judgement and won’t meet 10 people in a week, but some will.

But having laws dictating the nature of the close contact we have, and who exactly we can have that with, no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down..

Agreed. It’s not just about sex. We have a biological need for touch and it will get to a point where the impact on mental health will outweigh the risks from the virus. People who live alone would start to need this and break the rules eventually, we are literally fighting human nature. It is easy to label these people as selfish if you don’t live alone and are able to have this fundamental human need met. "

This exactly !

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Most people won't stand for not being able to hug their children, grandparents ect.

There comes a time when we are all going to have Make a choice about risk and The need for human contact. Yes at the moment it is too soon but unless we get a vaccine in the next couple of months which looks unlikely. I think people will pretty much take the view it's worth the risk.

Personally when it comes to meeting people from here, for me that will not happen until I feel it's safe enough it doesn't matter how long that takes. However I am not single it must be very difficult for people are single and live alone.

Pretty much this. I am single and I'm already at the point where I need that interaction of just a hug. So much so that it's really getting me down now . I can't wait to be able to get one from those closest too me. There is no way I can wait until next year and you’ll find that from an NSA meet? Really? Don’t you have friends family? People that love you and want to be with you in a non sexual physical sense? People that you trust? I wouldn’t trust a fan male one hit wonder with my health that’s a certainty."

I wouldn't trust a Fab one hit wonder either (some of the females are as crazy as some of the men) but this situation really sucks. I think all/most of my physical affection in the last couple of years has been through Fab or people I have known and stayed in touch with via Fab. Right now it is zero with no real prospect of it changing for months, perhaps not this year, and part of me is dying and taking me back to places I have been in the past I don't want to visit again. Right now at home with teenage kids who don't hug Dad as they are teenage kids and soon to be ex-wife from whom I was separated but now stuck together for a little longer. Certainly no hugs from her - on the contrary makes me realise what I miss even more. Even if meet friends and family it is 2 meters apart. No easy answers to this depressing clusterfuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree nothing is going to happen this year . Hopefully the clubs can ride it out till 2021 .

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I've wrote this year off for that sort of thing. Roll on 2021

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"We agree nothing is going to happen this year . Hopefully the clubs can ride it out till 2021 . "

If the existing clubs don't others will open and take their place. More worried about some individuals being able to ride it out until 2021.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

If you don't want to meet that's fine

Those that want to probably will

We will see what opportunities there are as restrictions are lifted,nothing to do with fear or others scaremongering.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Think we have to judge it on your own circumstances ,we now know who’s at most risk from Covid personally we do not feel at risk from the virus as we are 99 .9 per cent sure we had it and we both are not in the high risk group

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

NEWSFLASH! folks are meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

Where is the fact on this, or is it just an assumption based on fake news?

The government can't keep people away from each other for that long as it smacks of 1984 and a dictatorship ruling population growth. Humans need interaction. They can not prevent relationships between people, its not natural.

People will break the rules knowing that they will not receive a criminal record (it's only rules). Try telling a fresh new under-twenties couple not to meet and see what happens?

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen


"I was quite hopeful for aug September till I heard there could still be 8000 new cases a day! "

The more of us who actually get it and recover the better, don't sit indoors waiting for a vaccine because it's not happening for a while!

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By *ess37Woman
over a year ago

Nantwich

If all goes well and statistical predictions are right, UK should see 0 deaths by end of July / beginning of August so hopefully these predictions are correct and we will go wild from August : ) : )

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Can someone please just give me a straight answer to my question please CAN WE MEET UP WITH A FRIEND NOW AND THEN HAVE SOME SEXY FUN WITH EACH OTHER???

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Can someone please just give me a straight answer to my question please CAN WE MEET UP WITH A FRIEND NOW AND THEN HAVE SOME SEXY FUN WITH EACH OTHER???"

No

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

That's my bloody luck then

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That's my bloody luck then "

Did you not understand the 2m social distancing guideline?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If all goes well and statistical predictions are right, UK should see 0 deaths by end of July / beginning of August so hopefully these predictions are correct and we will go wild from August : ) : ) "

Oh I hope so!

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"The risks to mental health let alone civil society could possibly be greater than not allowing people to meet the government is doing its maths....and will allow meeeting..already domestic murders have risen in many areas. The press are just playing them down..

Agreed. It’s not just about sex. We have a biological need for touch and it will get to a point where the impact on mental health will outweigh the risks from the virus. People who live alone would start to need this and break the rules eventually, we are literally fighting human nature. It is easy to label these people as selfish if you don’t live alone and are able to have this fundamental human need met. "

Agreed

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By *otwifeandmrCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

There are a lot of people who just don't understand risk.....

Now does that comment make us pro meet against the rules or not to meet - for the rules???

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've wrote this year off for that sort of thing. Roll on 2021"

Me too. April 2021 is my target date but not counting on it for a sure thing.

Saw an incredibly hot lady in the Tesco que recently but thought jut switched off.

My biggest fear is loss of condfidence with a new person. Being slightly autistic, going to clubs were a big asset to building my confidence meeting new people and relaxing in a social setting.

It's easy and hard for me.

I may just stop doing nsa meets and going to swing clubs.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Good god ... seriously sex is sex I’m sure it won’t kill anyone to go without. I know for absolute certainly a few years Celibacy won’t kills you it’s purely selfish to claim ‘mental health ‘ or ‘physical intimacy’ ..... Jesus as already pointed out its not just about sex.. and it's not selfish to claim its mental health either... lack of physical touch is very damaging to many of us..

We are finding that people with no previous mental health issues struggling at present..and by far the biggest problem people seem to be calling up with is the lack of physical contact with others when living alone... suicides are up..

So maybe for you no contact is no big deal... but for majority of people it is. And it is damaging to physical as well as mental health.

And I for one wont be waiting years as a single person to be having sex. "

It's interesting that this lack of touch and contact is perhaps a bigger issue in this country now that we have a much greater amount of people who live alone, compared to years past.

Many would have had work life interacting with others, before the lockdown. We have a large number of single people now. Lots of factors that aren't great when people are isolated and without touch. Video conferencing doesn't cut it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yaaaaaaaay, it's on, the negativity has been relieved for a large group of people.

This is also a good excuse for single parents to kick the kids out into the big wide World on their 18th birthday. After all we now need the bubble house free.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


" I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) "

Specsavers ?

Or maybe go for a drive to check your eyesight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So from Saturday you can pick a single person to join your bubble and you don’t need to socially distance, but only one and you can’t change that bubble. So Prof Ferguson should be ok with his three way relationship. Lucky bugger.

So some very limited tiresome allowed lol

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker! "

And the rest of the circumstances are ?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ?"
you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen one or two advertising for meets during lockdown. Not good.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ? you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online. "

Send it to the mods and they will deal with it.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ? you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online.

Send it to the mods and they will deal with it."
Already did a week ago but she's been appearing regularly online still. I've taken a screenshot of her screenshot of veris too but nobody has contacted me about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen one or two advertising for meets during lockdown. Not good."

I have seen loads, meets are happening all the time

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ? you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online.

Send it to the mods and they will deal with it.Already did a week ago but she's been appearing regularly online still. I've taken a screenshot of her screenshot of veris too but nobody has contacted me about it. "

You seem obsessed with her? The mods will deal with it.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"I've seen one or two advertising for meets during lockdown. Not good.

I have seen loads, meets are happening all the time "

Usually arranged through social media, telephone or text messaging, bypassing Fab altogether.

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By *arknessRisingMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm not convinced that the virus will ever be 100% Eliminated

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ? you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online.

Send it to the mods and they will deal with it.Already did a week ago but she's been appearing regularly online still. I've taken a screenshot of her screenshot of veris too but nobody has contacted me about it.

You seem obsessed with her? The mods will deal with it. "
Hardly. I mentioned the new example, someone asked me about the previous example with the screen shots. I merely responded to your suggestion that the mods would act upon reporting which isn't the case here.

I think the climate of feeling has shifted since Cummings. The consensus was that if you broke lock down rules you were an idiot and selfish. Now the stance has softened from people being brazen to people being indifferent.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Didn't want to start yet another thread to post this. But I have witnessed two brazen examples of total disregard for any risks now. Just now a fem stated which nights she was free for meets and which nights she was working as a key worker!

And the rest of the circumstances are ? you mean the other example? Well according to a screenshot to me from one woman, fab veris for meets can still be left during lockdown, they're simply not published for the time being. This woman had at least four different meets with four different men over the past two months. Again, she admitted to being a key worker. This woman sent me the screen shot then blocked me. I can't work out her agenda but thought fab moderators might like to know but she is still online.

Send it to the mods and they will deal with it.Already did a week ago but she's been appearing regularly online still. I've taken a screenshot of her screenshot of veris too but nobody has contacted me about it.

You seem obsessed with her? The mods will deal with it. Hardly. I mentioned the new example, someone asked me about the previous example with the screen shots. I merely responded to your suggestion that the mods would act upon reporting which isn't the case here.

I think the climate of feeling has shifted since Cummings. The consensus was that if you broke lock down rules you were an idiot and selfish. Now the stance has softened from people being brazen to people being indifferent. "

People think that taking risks is ok. It’s not. Report her again to the mods if you are this upset about her that you mention her on a thread and the job she does.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

You shouldn't get yourself worked up, these probably thousands meeting up every day and you'll not stop them.

Carry on with your life and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can meet who ever we want just do it stop letting the government control your lives haha

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"We can meet who ever we want just do it stop letting the government control your lives haha "

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm getting meet requests every day and have done from the start of lockdown, had 4 today already,it seems that a lot of men don't realise how serious this virus can be , I certainly won't be meeting anyone for sex until it's much safer to do so , I have stopped reporting these guys couple of months ago cos seemingly nothing is done about it

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

The doom & gloom agency strikes again ....:

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

NEWSFLASH, Gov can't stop folks from meeting in private dwellings, and it certainly can't be policed, folks need to stop watching puppetmedia TV, and take a look around you to what actually happens in the "real world not the media world, they are far removed from reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, people being able to do whatever they like behind closed doors has been enshrined in common law for centuries.

Government can only control what you do in a public place, i.e. when you leave your home. Hence, all new guidelines have been focussed on reasons for leaving home.

Everyone will have their own breaking point or risk management level. Mine will be Corvid Alert level 3 ( July ).

If you are physically well - no symptoms - you take your temperature everyday - then cannot see problem between two consenting and healthy adults.

Support Bubbles will be used as a loophole for sure by horny peeps ...

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

If someone who is a Fab member contacts you by text or phone to ask about a meet would you report them to admin?

Asking for a friend

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year."

Bubbles start from tomorrow

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"True, people being able to do whatever they like behind closed doors has been enshrined in common law for centuries.

Government can only control what you do in a public place, i.e. when you leave your home. Hence, all new guidelines have been focussed on reasons for leaving home.

Everyone will have their own breaking point or risk management level. Mine will be Corvid Alert level 3 ( July ).

If you are physically well - no symptoms - you take your temperature everyday - then cannot see problem between two consenting and healthy adults.

Support Bubbles will be used as a loophole for sure by horny peeps ...

"

As Hancock said today -approx 80% of infections are asymptomatic so it's not so simple

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By *ixenhixCouple
over a year ago

colchester


"NEWSFLASH, Gov can't stop folks from meeting in private dwellings, and it certainly can't be policed, folks need to stop watching puppetmedia TV, and take a look around you to what actually happens in the "real world not the media world, they are far removed from reality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it says alot about the people who are trying to meet up already. I certainly won't be wanting to meet up with them in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Bubbles start from tomorrow "

Yes but only for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those currently tying to meet it says a great deal about them and the risk they are willing to take with those around them.

Having just come out of hospital today (not covid related) I can tell you it was very scary.

I couldn’t have anyone with me and was in a health crisis (not mental health). I was told by someone in full ppe something could happen to me at anytime and if needed they would contact my next of kin but I couldn’t have any visitors even if my condition worsened.

Everyone I came into contact with had full ppe, I got upset at one point and the nurse said she wished she could hug me for reassurance but she couldn’t she couldn’t even hold my hand.

Having worked in the nhs I’m used to sickness and compassion I felt for the staff. They can’t just sit holding your hand or put their arm around you like in normal circumstances.

They are on their chin straps pulling extra hours, they have lost work mates missed out seeing family.

They have also been told to prepare for the next wave which is imminent.

People need to think before meeting it really is selfish.

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By *BWarksCouple
over a year ago

warwick

There seem to be a lot of very overly paranoid people about ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seem to be a lot of very overly paranoid people about ..."

Do you know anyone who has died?

My friend lost her life due to complications of COVID. The infection damaged her lungs, spleen, kidneys and liver, and she died of kidney failure, which is a horrible way to go. She was 25 years old and had a young daughter.

When people say 'Oh, it's a hoax' or 'Oh, it's just paranoia'... it seems disrespectful to people who have died, and those who have lost loved ones, and those of us who are high risk.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"There seem to be a lot of very overly paranoid people about ...

Do you know anyone who has died?

My friend lost her life due to complications of COVID. The infection damaged her lungs, spleen, kidneys and liver, and she died of kidney failure, which is a horrible way to go. She was 25 years old and had a young daughter.

When people say 'Oh, it's a hoax' or 'Oh, it's just paranoia'... it seems disrespectful to people who have died, and those who have lost loved ones, and those of us who are high risk. "
Agree. My aunt was infected and my mum's friend died from the coronavirus quite early on in the pandemic. Some reasons for breaking the rules are more understandable than others. Breaking the rules to fuck is hard to accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of two people not freinds but freinds of freinds and one a freind of a work colleague who have committed suicide during lock down, both have been put down to mental health due to lockdown 12 weeks is along time if your a single person living alone it's a lot of time with nothing but your thoughts so the sooner people can start dating and meeting up on sites like this the better.

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening. "

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown. "

If the R rate does not start climbing again after all the protest taking place, then don’t you think it’s time to reduce the social distancing measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown.

If the R rate does not start climbing again after all the protest taking place, then don’t you think it’s time to reduce the social distancing measures."

They have already.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown.

If the R rate does not start climbing again after all the protest taking place, then don’t you think it’s time to reduce the social distancing measures.

They have already. "

Apologies was more referring to the two meter rule.

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale

Ffs ..... the pandemic likely to be causing more harm in the long run is the ‘doom and gloom’ virus. Wtf are the negatives on? What do you actually want out of life, is it you need everyone to be as depressed and dysfunctional as yourselves???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown.

If the R rate does not start climbing again after all the protest taking place, then don’t you think it’s time to reduce the social distancing measures.

They have already.

Apologies was more referring to the two meter rule."

I think for now its better to be safe than sorry.

If keeping 2 meters apart helps businesses start operating again its something we are going to have to live with for a bit longer.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"There is no evidence anywhere of a second wave, total fearmongering to mind control folks into a state of jello, in fact its actually mutating and weakening.

We have no evidence of either.

We are dealing with a relative unknown.

If the R rate does not start climbing again after all the protest taking place, then don’t you think it’s time to reduce the social distancing measures.

They have already.

Apologies was more referring to the two meter rule.

I think for now its better to be safe than sorry.

If keeping 2 meters apart helps businesses start operating again its something we are going to have to live with for a bit longer. "
I may be confused... But there is an argument for decreasing the distance from 2m to 1.5 or even 1 as other countries have done. Venues operating with 2m distancing means capacity is restricted so operating at a loss.

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By *uyfrombristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Lots are meeting already and taking the risks . Lets hope their selfish actions dont kill people"

Ridiculously sanctimonious post. I bet the second the 'government' says it's okay you'll be back to meeting, regardless of the science behind it.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Lots are meeting already and taking the risks . Lets hope their selfish actions dont kill people

Ridiculously sanctimonious post. I bet the second the 'government' says it's okay you'll be back to meeting, regardless of the science behind it."
Isn't it better to act or be guided by something, even if it is a questionable government, than to act in self-interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 cases of ebola in Congo in February 2020.

We got flu happening from Sept..

There will be 2nd strain or variation of covid happening again

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"4 cases of ebola in Congo in February 2020.

We got flu happening from Sept..

There will be 2nd strain or variation of covid happening again"
usually virus mutations weaken thankfully

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

At the end of the day everyone is entitled to an opinion, the reality is most folks couldn't care.

People will be meeting and it will continue to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However I cut it or think about it, I cannot see the government allowing anyone from another household meeting another person(s) from another household and not maintain 2m social distancing for at least the rest of this year.

Soma social outdoor meet with social distancing is already allowed, but being able to touch and play I think will be out for the rest of the year

Some however will

Play a numbers game and take a risk I suspect "

Bubble rules now allow this as long as one of you is a single adult household....

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"4 cases of ebola in Congo in February 2020.

We got flu happening from Sept..

There will be 2nd strain or variation of covid happening again"

Agree. It ain't over yet. Just when you'll think it's safe someting will pop up.

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By *ilancsguyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

The real question is what if Covid19 is here for good?

Not trying to be all doom and gloom but its a virus, viruses mutate, change & evolve. Even if there is a vacine in the Autumn will that work if we get Covid20 or Covid21.

Also NOT saying f@#k it and everyone should meet either. However at what point do people have to start to live their lives again if theres no vacine? 6mths, a year, 2years?

This is not just meets on here - its everything, all the shut down parts of the economy etc.

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

When viruses mutate they weaken, it's already happening. Everything will be open by Christmas including discos.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"When viruses mutate they weaken, it's already happening. Everything will be open by Christmas including discos. "

I can wait for the meeting G20 and Cobra meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops. "

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops. "

If you're referring to furlough payments etc. they do NOT finish at the end of August. If you're happy to let the sacrifices made, not only in loss of life, but in other ways go to waste then I sincerely hope nothing more happens..

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to "

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc. "

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

"

Not everyone can go back to work!

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

"

Your entitled to your opinion as am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Your entitled to your opinion as am I. "

Exactly.

Its a shame not everyone can give an option without getting their kickers in a twist.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc. "

All the work has just been undone over the course of the last two weekends.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Oh to live a life without empathy

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Your entitled to your opinion as am I.

Exactly.

Its a shame not everyone can give an option without getting their kickers in a twist. "

I never wear them hon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh to live a life without empathy "

The voice of reason as always.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Oh to live a life without empathy

The voice of reason as always. "

Haha, when was I ever the voice of reason?

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

"

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

"

So people on furlough who can't go back to work are selfish pricks?

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

So people on furlough who can't go back to work are selfish pricks? "

I’d say 50% are taking the piss if they not back in Monday

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

So people on furlough who can't go back to work are selfish pricks?

I’d say 50% are taking the piss if they not back in Monday "

Where did you get that number from?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

From her calculator eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had just started out when lockdown hit. We went to a club in America when on business and then came back and thought getting on fab would be a great way to meet people.

The covid hit and it all stopped. We can’t wait for the chance to meet others. We however will

wait for when it’s right but chomping at the bit to get our freak on with some other sexy couples or singles.

Just a little more delayed than planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

So people on furlough who can't go back to work are selfish pricks?

I’d say 50% are taking the piss if they not back in Monday

Where did you get that number from?"

Green arrow.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Most will be up and running by the end of August, that's when the money stops.

The money should stop now from Monday everyone should be back at work and get the country moving the protesters need to get back to work to

... and undo all the work done so far to stem the flow of infection etc.

What planet are you on have you seen the idiots running around in London

Screaming and spitting on people injuring people and destroying property

Get a grip

I think it’s a bit late for that now get them all back to work that’s if the great unwashed have ever work a day in there life ffs

Not everyone can go back to work!

And some don’t want to go back to work as they getting paid to putting a nice arse dint in the sofa

And when they do go back and the company folds they will all blame every other person but them selves selfish pricks most of em iv been self employed for over 35 years iv seen it with my own eyes

So people on furlough who can't go back to work are selfish pricks?

I’d say 50% are taking the piss if they not back in Monday

Where did you get that number from?

Green arrow. "

Been there, started feeling abit negative so I stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If all goes well and statistical predictions are right, UK should see 0 deaths by end of July / beginning of August so hopefully these predictions are correct and we will go wild from August : ) : ) "

6 weeks on and not looking likely will be able to go "wild" anytime soon, but let's see how it looks like in August

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"If all goes well and statistical predictions are right, UK should see 0 deaths by end of July / beginning of August so hopefully these predictions are correct and we will go wild from August : ) : )

6 weeks on and not looking likely will be able to go "wild" anytime soon, but let's see how it looks like in August "

Last I recall was that m, after huge decline from the earlier major catastrophic levels of springtime, numbers were lower but fairly stable.

We obviously need them to be far lower, before winter predicted big increases.

As far casual sex, we need levels lower too and not to be increased by all of the relaxed restrictions.

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

If we haven't cracked this by autumn we will have a second, more catastrophic wave in the winter.

The introduction of masks in shops, and potentially offices and public places indicates that the government are desperately trying to get control of the situation before the weather turns (coronaviruses are far more prevalent in cold weather) The next 8 weeks will be make or break for the swinging scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots are meeting already and taking the risks . Lets hope their selfish actions dont kill people"

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Can’t see meets happening in 2020"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets happening all day everyday, you really think people aren't meeting for sex? Like really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s meeting most met during lockdown if you can’t beat them join them! Been blown out of proportion this covid-19 anyway

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

meets are happening right now lol my updates page has got half a dozen statuses on it right now looking for meets and there not even cryptic ones.example of one status. looking for two hung guys to come use my slut.free from midnight lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless these men are gay it's not going to work! People will meet in time if they want to illegal or not it's human nature."

Unless these men are gay??? Seriously????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting for sex now is the same as arse fucking in a gay sauna in the 1980s without a condom. Good luck idiots.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Meeting for sex now is the same as arse fucking in a gay sauna in the 1980s without a condom. Good luck idiots. "

By your logic the chances are still low then

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Meeting for sex now is the same as arse fucking in a gay sauna in the 1980s without a condom. Good luck idiots. "

Are you trying to compare Covid19 to HIV and Aids in gay men?

You do understand the differences dont you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of the "selfish" people meeting again.

There socials in pubs, which makes me just a "irresponsible" as the millions of other in there, and the millions going to the beach forthe day and going on holiday.

Just because at some point we will probably fuck doesn't make difference.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'm one of the "selfish" people meeting again.

There socials in pubs, which makes me just a "irresponsible" as the millions of other in there, and the millions going to the beach forthe day and going on holiday.

Just because at some point we will probably fuck doesn't make difference. "

Your correct. You manage you own life.

Its obvious the ones meeting are ignoring the doom mongers and making thier own decisions.

People making thier own decisions.

Who'd have thought it

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