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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7

there still won't b a vaccine? Will people still meet?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

No

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes, lots of people will meet. Some people never stopped meeting in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I won’t meet.

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7

what if it took couple years ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it"

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???"

Then no meets for a couple of years. I would rather go without than risk my life or the life of the person I met.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

No meeting for me, although its always good to get to know people in other ways

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Morons will be morons regardless of advice, safety, helping the country or themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t meet. "

We won't either Bab's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose everyone will make a decision on their personal risks and these around them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality."

I agree to this for sure. Normality for me is not having sex very often so it'll not really effect me to wait on a vaccine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose everyone will make a decision on their personal risks and these around them? "

*based

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to Nepal and become a monk. Got couple months of practice in already.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Morons will be morons regardless of advice, safety, helping the country or themselves."

Exactly! Relaxing the lockdown isn't giving people free fun of the country again, it's to create small social bubbles with loved ones. But as. Per usual some will exploit it. Others never adhered to lockdown in the first place

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality."

I ahree Lorna. I will do what I need to do but I won’t expose myself to what I perceive as unnecessary risk. We will all need to find our own way with this I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morons will be morons regardless of advice, safety, helping the country or themselves.

Exactly! Relaxing the lockdown isn't giving people free fun of the country again, it's to create small social bubbles with loved ones. But as. Per usual some will exploit it. Others never adhered to lockdown in the first place "

That's true. But we dont know the terms of how it will be eased yet of if at all. I'm sure Monday wont be a green light for things going back to normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality.

I ahree Lorna. I will do what I need to do but I won’t expose myself to what I perceive as unnecessary risk. We will all need to find our own way with this I think "

I definitely think that's going to be the case.

We are really missing socials bot we have come to terms with the fact this is something we will not be able to do for sometime yet. It's just not worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at some people and think, "for real that's the sperm that won? This is one of those moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss my road trips, the lakes, the mountains, the hills.

Wish I can do all that again - that’s something I’m struggling with.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I look at some people and think, "for real that's the sperm that won? This is one of those moment! "

I’m a beautiful sperm and egg, I am

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Morons will be morons regardless of advice, safety, helping the country or themselves.

Exactly! Relaxing the lockdown isn't giving people free fun of the country again, it's to create small social bubbles with loved ones. But as. Per usual some will exploit it. Others never adhered to lockdown in the first place

That's true. But we dont know the terms of how it will be eased yet of if at all. I'm sure Monday wont be a green light for things going back to normal. "
If wales is anything to go by then nothing much has changed here at all tips are opening we can go out for walks more often that’s about it..

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

It’s gonna be fuck fest

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I won't be "meeting" as such but I will see a very dear one, risks and lifting depending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s gonna be fuck fest"

That is a dirty word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at some people and think, "for real that's the sperm that won? This is one of those moment!

I’m a beautiful sperm and egg, I am "

Agree. High and best quality!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"It’s gonna be fuck fest

That is a dirty word! "

I like talking dirty

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7

Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ???

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7

With no vaccine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There won't be a vaccine for a long time. We will have to adapt to live with the additional risk that C19 poses

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

For some people the risk of Covid is a lot higher than for others so everyone will evaluate their own circumstances and decide how to move forwards from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There won't be a vaccine for a long time. We will have to adapt to live with the additional risk that C19 poses"

This.

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"For some people the risk of Covid is a lot higher than for others so everyone will evaluate their own circumstances and decide how to move forwards from there. "

That's what I think ....if ur at more risk u have more 2 worry about ...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

All of these are unknowns at the moment, so answering your OP it would have to be no to meeting at the moment

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ??? "

I haven’t been to the hairdressers since last July so I’m not bothered about that. Having my hair cut is one of my least favourite things ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

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Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ???

I haven’t been to the hairdressers since last July so I’m not bothered about that. Having my hair cut is one of my least favourite things ever! "

Yes I go to the hairdresser my fringe is so long I'm looking like a sheep dog

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"what if it took couple years ???"

Then I will remain fuckless!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still won't be meeting or going out more than I do now (except for work) until new registered cases drop down to a comfortable level. For me that would be 1-2 per week.

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!"

Its a cruel world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will need to make this very personal decision for themselves depending on so many different factors. For some, who have been totally alone during lockdown I can understand their need to have human contact and feel needed/wanted again. I’m not going to judge anyone on this.

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ???

I haven’t been to the hairdressers since last July so I’m not bothered about that. Having my hair cut is one of my least favourite things ever! "

Pmsl last july

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ???

I haven’t been to the hairdressers since last July so I’m not bothered about that. Having my hair cut is one of my least favourite things ever!

Pmsl last july"

Yep. It’s worse than going to the dentist in my opinion

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Nope

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward. "

It would, we are relying on the scientists working their butts off at the moment, in the labs around the world to find some answers.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Relaxing the lockdown won't mean a change back to normal.

Social distancing rules and recommendations will remain in place

It will be a test to see if people can be responsible

They will still need to control any spread

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"People will need to make this very personal decision for themselves depending on so many different factors. For some, who have been totally alone during lockdown I can understand their need to have human contact and feel needed/wanted again. I’m not going to judge anyone on this. "

Exactly like swinging each 2 there own . I people want 2 meet its there choice

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward.

It would, we are relying on the scientists working their butts off at the moment, in the labs around the world to find some answers. "

And Boris lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Ladies what about going hairdressers?? N things like that would u got if they said u could ???

I haven’t been to the hairdressers since last July so I’m not bothered about that. Having my hair cut is one of my least favourite things ever!

Pmsl last july

Yep. It’s worse than going to the dentist in my opinion "

Ooh Babs at last someone else who hates the hairdressers. I haven’t been for 18 months and my hairdresser is used to me, so cuts as quick as possible, I hate my head and hair being touched

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!"

The most likely is that it will not be eradicated and there will not be an effective vaccine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???"

It will take a couple of years, what difference does the timescale make ??

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"there still won't b a vaccine? Will people still meet?"

Unfortunately, we are surrounded by arrogant, ignorant and selfish people who will risk lives to fuck for three minutes before cumming in a dramatic fashion...

I'm patient. I can wait plus life is precious.

Lockdown isn't being lifted in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started it, I'm safe.....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward. "

Only hope then 2 teir society

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Meeting will be the least of our problems.

How do we negotiate travel/commuting on public transport?

What is shopping going to look like? The work environment? Schools?

Ordinary socializing?

A meet you have some control over, some autonomy.

I find the thought of being "forced" back out into the outside world when this virus is still an unknown quantity much more concerning.

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"what if it took couple years ???

It will take a couple of years, what difference does the timescale make ??"

Won't b much point ov a swinging site if it takes a couple ov years

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward.

It would, we are relying on the scientists working their butts off at the moment, in the labs around the world to find some answers.

And Boris lol"

Well Boris has got nothing to do with the science and finding the way forward.

He is just the figurehead that needs to listen to his advisors, they are the ones presenting evidence and options based on this. He, of course, along with his cabinet need to decide which is the best option to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!

The most likely is that it will not be eradicated and there will not be an effective vaccine

"

I agree. People will slowly be allowed out to get infected to manage the flow of dying people going into hospital so the NHS doesn't get overwhelmed.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!

The most likely is that it will not be eradicated and there will not be an effective vaccine

I agree. People will slowly be allowed out to get infected to manage the flow of dying people going into hospital so the NHS doesn't get overwhelmed. "

Before this there were significant deaths every year due to seasonal flu ... this will continue, just Covid19 will be another cause

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward.

It would, we are relying on the scientists working their butts off at the moment, in the labs around the world to find some answers.

And Boris lol

Well Boris has got nothing to do with the science and finding the way forward.

He is just the figurehead that needs to listen to his advisors, they are the ones presenting evidence and options based on this. He, of course, along with his cabinet need to decide which is the best option to take.

"

I agree but 2 sum people what Boris says is law ??? So do have 2 wait 4 him 2 say it

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!

The most likely is that it will not be eradicated and there will not be an effective vaccine

I agree. People will slowly be allowed out to get infected to manage the flow of dying people going into hospital so the NHS doesn't get overwhelmed. "

That sounds about right

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By *nit OP   Man
over a year ago

ng7


"what if it took couple years ???

Then I will remain fuckless!!

The most likely is that it will not be eradicated and there will not be an effective vaccine

I agree. People will slowly be allowed out to get infected to manage the flow of dying people going into hospital so the NHS doesn't get overwhelmed.

Before this there were significant deaths every year due to seasonal flu ... this will continue, just Covid19 will be another cause"

Exactly

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Not necessarily a vaccine, maybe an antibody test before then to confirm you’ve had it or not.

Even if that shows I have antibodies, I would want assurances I’m still not carrying the virus and the possibility I could infect others.

Reliable antibodies test would be a great step forward.

It would, we are relying on the scientists working their butts off at the moment, in the labs around the world to find some answers.

And Boris lol

Well Boris has got nothing to do with the science and finding the way forward.

He is just the figurehead that needs to listen to his advisors, they are the ones presenting evidence and options based on this. He, of course, along with his cabinet need to decide which is the best option to take.

I agree but 2 sum people what Boris says is law ??? So do have 2 wait 4 him 2 say it "

Law ? Law saying it’s ok to meet ? Like all of the rules in place people interpret them how they choose to suit them.

I very much doubt there will be a law or Boris will say in a press briefing ‘oh and a final point, yes you can now fuck, so swingers get swinging’

Each individual will make that choice on how their life is led going forwards, with the information available to them.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

If the suspicions on mutations already occurring in the virus and getting the virus does not give forward immunity, then wishing for a one hit vaccine is simply pr fluff. Think TB and dropping nationwide bcg. Cost efficiency. And a virus can replicate (and mutate) a lot faster than bacteria.

Not a big fan of a cavalier approach to health, but those who decide to meet up, after a lengthy period of quarantine seems fair enough (yes - given they observed it at all). Judging for that may be consigning yourself to a permanent radical change, not necesarily balanced by reality.

At some point, at some level of risk life goes on. Waiting for answer might be a looong game.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Not until theres a vaccine or at the very least they have a cure to get you over Covid if you catch it

The issue is a vaccine is a very long way away and at some point with all just have to bite the bullet and go back to life in some sort of sense of normality."

Not really, there will be a “new normality” for some people, and that normality would exclude swinging.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

I wonder how many people who have posted that they wont meet anyone etc until a vaccine is here smoke ?

Smoking kills nearly 80 thousand a year in the uk and according to a bmc study 67 % of smokers die from a related cause.

I think many need to get some perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely won't be putting my life on hold for a "possible" vaccine.

I get a flu jab every year due to being high risk - it doesn't actually stop me getting flu so for me I would much rather focus on living my life and being happy than holing myself away for god knows how many months/years.

I don't have faith in vaccines at all and I've suffered at the hands of what is classed as "golden medical treatments" so for me it's all pointless to worry about.

Cannot wait for freedom again, I fully intend to meet and date again and I don't see it worrying me. I'll either get it or I won't, life is too short as it is I just want to enjoy every day

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

all lockdown was about was to slow the spread a bit so the nhs could cope.virus isnt going anywhere fast and thousands will still die of it just not all at once.my guess is by the time they cone up with a vaccine over half the country would of already had it.furlough until end of june if u not back in work by then well ya firm prob aint gona open again.had e mail from my work yesterday and its looking like its on its arse going forward

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Nope I won't be meeting.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I definitely won't be putting my life on hold for a "possible" vaccine.

I get a flu jab every year due to being high risk - it doesn't actually stop me getting flu so for me I would much rather focus on living my life and being happy than holing myself away for god knows how many months/years.

I don't have faith in vaccines at all and I've suffered at the hands of what is classed as "golden medical treatments" so for me it's all pointless to worry about.

Cannot wait for freedom again, I fully intend to meet and date again and I don't see it worrying me. I'll either get it or I won't, life is too short as it is I just want to enjoy every day"

Yep I think the majority of people feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, lots of people will meet. Some people never stopped meeting in the first place. "

That is true. See a few of my neighbours having family/friends over all the time. Cars are parked bumper to bumper out there.

As for the rest of us following guidelines things will be in phases till there is a vaccine. Large gatherings in close proximity is a no no for a very long time... breeding ground for the virus!

Some people still don't get it because they think as long as it don't hurt them it's all good. I used to work in a jobcentre, doctors out of hours emergency special unit so been in regular contact and know how dire things are throughout the UK with finance and health. Know gym go'ers in many different locations.

Even though I am close to my 40s now (shurrup, focus ) my metabolic age is in my 20s. Oxygen level is 100% never smoked. No health conditions and no medication. So I could do the 'normal' activities some continue to do, but that don't mean nothing.

Healthy people are suffering from the virus, people of all ages, height, weight are dying. Your body will react differently to the virus... you can't be sure if you will have no symptoms or end up in intensive care.

And even if you have no symptoms, healthy people are spreading the virus. Vast majority of population will be fine, but those that have died and lost loved ones it is devastating.

As for me, I have been digging in my garden for weeks... those that know me know gardening is not my thing at all. Unprecedented times means had to get a shovel! Thought it would be a good idea to maintain physical fitness... my word... the Earth is messing with me! Those feckin green aliens known as grass just got a mind of their own... grrr-ing. Sometimes I dig up a patch move on and few hours later the aliens are back!

Been a while since I did a lengthy post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???

Then no meets for a couple of years. I would rather go without than risk my life or the life of the person I met. "

So you won’t have any human contact with anyone for 2 years? You don’t have to have sex to catch the virus

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Yes, lots of people will meet. Some people never stopped meeting in the first place.

That is true. See a few of my neighbours having family/friends over all the time. Cars are parked bumper to bumper out there.

As for the rest of us following guidelines things will be in phases till there is a vaccine. Large gatherings in close proximity is a no no for a very long time... breeding ground for the virus!

Some people still don't get it because they think as long as it don't hurt them it's all good. I used to work in a jobcentre, doctors out of hours emergency special unit so been in regular contact and know how dire things are throughout the UK with finance and health. Know gym go'ers in many different locations.

Even though I am close to my 40s now (shurrup, focus ) my metabolic age is in my 20s. Oxygen level is 100% never smoked. No health conditions and no medication. So I could do the 'normal' activities some continue to do, but that don't mean nothing.

Healthy people are suffering from the virus, people of all ages, height, weight are dying. Your body will react differently to the virus... you can't be sure if you will have no symptoms or end up in intensive care.

And even if you have no symptoms, healthy people are spreading the virus. Vast majority of population will be fine, but those that have died and lost loved ones it is devastating.

As for me, I have been digging in my garden for weeks... those that know me know gardening is not my thing at all. Unprecedented times means had to get a shovel! Thought it would be a good idea to maintain physical fitness... my word... the Earth is messing with me! Those feckin green aliens known as grass just got a mind of their own... grrr-ing. Sometimes I dig up a patch move on and few hours later the aliens are back!

Been a while since I did a lengthy post "

You’re doing alright! Agree about the strange interpretation of ‘social distancing’; I’ve seen it here too. Any relaxation of (ha ha!) ‘lockdown’ would be stupid, but the signals already given will lead that way anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to some VERY over due time with a lady that means the absolute world to me. X

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Once they ease the lockdown so you can see small groups of family and friends it becomes impossible to police so people will definitely start meeting again not all but some will

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By *entleman_spyMan
over a year ago

nearby

Most definitely will ! It’s all about personal risk management - and contrary to what many people believe around here the chances of most people even having to be admitted to hospital is low - death lower still. Let’s face it people here meet strangers for bareback sex, it’s just balancing personal risks.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

After spending lockdown totally alone I’m looking forward to some human contact again and as soon as it’s allowed, there’s one guy that I fully intend to get close to. I won’t be ‘meeting’ in the same way I did during normal times and I expect that I’ll be careful and selective about who I see, whether there is sex and closer contact involved or not

I suppose that those people who are demonising others for choosing to meet won’t be hugging anyone in their family or getting haircuts until there is a vaccine, then

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Haven't decided what to do to be fair but don't want to isolate for ever if we are honest

Vaccine could be years off an then may only reduce the risk of death unless there's underlying issues you don't know about

Flu jab does the same reduces risks but people still die from it

Most fit and healthy people have survived the virus and the survival rate is still very high

Think we all look on the worse side of things and focus on the death rate which agree has been too many but we need to take a look at the survival rate and all make our own decisions

We was looking forward to our hol in Aug but really can't see it happening to be fair plus do we really wanna sit in a tin can of recirculated air for 4 hours only to get there an be told that restrictions are in place or worse still catch it somewhere we don't have a great NHS system

Hope everyone stays well and makes the choices that suit them

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By *ornykinkycouple84Couple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We may have private meets when boris says we're allowed but as for clubs, no way not till things are alot better either vaccine or the virus has essentially burnt itself out if that's even possible, at least with private meets if you do catch you have an idea where from and everyone involved can take appropriate steps isolate etc

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By *indy1971TV/TS
over a year ago

Brynmawr

Even if they decide to reduce certain lockdown measures , social distancing will still be here

So until there is a vaccine then it’s no from me

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"After spending lockdown totally alone I’m looking forward to some human contact again and as soon as it’s allowed, there’s one guy that I fully intend to get close to. I won’t be ‘meeting’ in the same way I did during normal times and I expect that I’ll be careful and selective about who I see, whether there is sex and closer contact involved or not

I suppose that those people who are demonising others for choosing to meet won’t be hugging anyone in their family or getting haircuts until there is a vaccine, then "

“....... I won’t be ‘meeting’ in the same way I did during normal times and I expect that I’ll be careful and selective about who I see”

That sounds like a good balance, and that’s how some other people plan proceed after lockdown.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We probably have August in mind for a meet we have planned with a couple hoping hotels etc. Are open by then

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Plans may change;

but I think I'll stay at home until the end of May, with occasional visits to the bank and corner shop.

I work from home in any case, and working to gain more work, though won't pay the bills but moving in any case.

I think I'll treat meeting in checking out their contacts and behaviour, and I never meet anyone with a cold, because I catch it and puts me out for a week. But a dollop of sanitiser, mandatory bath/shower and probably no kissing. Not much more I can do. In any case only one I actually want to meet.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

The level of arrogance in this thread is indicative of our overall society.

Individualism at its peak.

Depressing and scary.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Will continue to isolate myself as best I can I think.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"The level of arrogance in this thread is indicative of our overall society.

Individualism at its peak.

Depressing and scary."

Very informative

Now how and when are you going to introduce human contact into your life

And dont say when it's safe or when boris says so

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"The level of arrogance in this thread is indicative of our overall society.

Individualism at its peak.

Depressing and scary.

Very informative

Now how and when are you going to introduce human contact into your life

And dont say when it's safe or when boris says so

"

Boris can sod off

He is literally clueless

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"The level of arrogance in this thread is indicative of our overall society.

Individualism at its peak.

Depressing and scary.

Very informative

Now how and when are you going to introduce human contact into your life

And dont say when it's safe or when boris says so

"

Hundreds of people are dying every day.

I'm not resuming a 'normal life' until the scientists,whose findings are published, show the number of fatalities associated with covid-19 drop to a safe level.

I've lost too many loved ones.

Life is far too precious.

Also, you do you.

I will protect my loved ones till Kingdom come, should needs be.

Good luck to you.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Meets are not important in the grand scheme of things surely?

I can wait until the new normal dictates human contact is possible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Humans aren't very good at risk evaluation, so will continue to do this poorly. Obviously needs fuel what's assessed. As time goes on, we'll have a greater clarity on the situation, whether infections are decreasing or not. As likely an increasing amount of social interactions will take place as businesses and social possibilities open up, it's likely that more people will perceive diminishing differences between what they are doing and the prospect of having meets. Sex is a natural part of life, so won't be eliminated for that long. With huge numbers of single people isolated, they will, inch by inch, get ever closer to meeting up. Some people are naturally greater risk takers, so will be influencing others to partake. Give it a year and I think the majority will have met someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???

Then no meets for a couple of years. I would rather go without than risk my life or the life of the person I met. "
if it's takes as long as aids vaccine then, you're never meet again might as well cancel your profile .

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Plans are already being taken to get everyone back at work

Shops will soon be opening so will cafes within restrictions

People won't or don't want to rush out and have sex with others but people do need to get back to socialising even if that's only with family and loved ones isolation is just as damaging to the health as the virus especially to the elderly who have been isolated alone during these times

Once Boris puts in his phase plans many will have to return to work or risk losing homes or jobs due to no subsidiary from the government

We are all adults who are able to make up our minds during these terrible times

Wonder how many of the remain in isolation would be saying so if all the key workers had said the same at the beginning of it all and not bothered to risk their own health so we could be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what if it took couple years ???

Then no meets for a couple of years. I would rather go without than risk my life or the life of the person I met. if it's takes as long as aids vaccine then, you're never meet again might as well cancel your profile . "

Why? Am I not allowed to still use the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People had bareback sex before all this. It's a virus that people can catch from close contact if the person is infected. No difference.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"all lockdown was about was to slow the spread a bit so the nhs could cope.virus isnt going anywhere fast and thousands will still die of it just not all at once.my guess is by the time they cone up with a vaccine over half the country would of already had it.furlough until end of june if u not back in work by then well ya firm prob aint gona open again.had e mail from my work yesterday and its looking like its on its arse going forward"

I think the NHS is fucked anyway. Like you , I will probably be out of work next month as will probably thousands of not millions . With out tax payers there is no NHS. And this is within weeks from now. The virus however is around for years now.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"there still won't b a vaccine? Will people still meet?"

I'm more concerned about hugging and kissing my children and grandchildren safely (I'm in a high risk group) than getting my groove on with strangers.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I'll meet when I choose to meet, based on how I can assess and minimise risk.

I'm not relying on the government to tell me when I can have sex, vaccine or no vaccine

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Fab meets are way down my list of priorities right now and will be for a long time. There are way more important things in life that I am missing & looking forward to being able to do once it is safe to do so, like kissing M & spending time with him, being able to see & hug my eldest daughter, reconnecting with family and friends. I will do whatever I can to keep the people I love safe.

K

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

We won't be meeting been thinking of stopping it anyway.hollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We won't be meeting been thinking of stopping it anyway.hollie "

If we can’t meet for a coffee, a restaurant meal or a trip to the pictures, we certainly can’t meet for anything involving intimacy. I’m staying in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the suspicions on mutations already occurring in the virus and getting the virus does not give forward immunity, then wishing for a one hit vaccine is simply pr fluff. Think TB and dropping nationwide bcg. Cost efficiency. And a virus can replicate (and mutate) a lot faster than bacteria.

Not a big fan of a cavalier approach to health, but those who decide to meet up, after a lengthy period of quarantine seems fair enough (yes - given they observed it at all). Judging for that may be consigning yourself to a permanent radical change, not necesarily balanced by reality.

At some point, at some level of risk life goes on. Waiting for answer might be a looong game."

I agree with this xx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I suppose everyone will make a decision on their personal risks and these around them? "

I tend to agree and some may decide a meet is as safe as doing the essential shopping at Tesco / b & q etc

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard


"People will need to make this very personal decision for themselves depending on so many different factors. For some, who have been totally alone during lockdown I can understand their need to have human contact and feel needed/wanted again. I’m not going to judge anyone on this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It irritates me that people call this situation a lockdown, it isnt, if we were in lockdown we couldn't leave our homes like the Spanish did, our government have gone half assed into this as usual and the general public are running around doing whatever they want, especially if the weathers good.

The fines for breaking restrictions should have been £1000.

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By *ngelikatvleedsTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

People already are ... you only have to do a search and there’s lots of people looking to meet today....

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

All I want to do is visit my grandaughter so it would be so hard to self distance even if the results are loosened up a bit

My son and wife both work still so wouldn’t want to risk anything from them or pass anything on but my little baby cuddles are sooooooo missed

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I will meet my fwb

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yes I will be meeting ... because even if there was a vaccine I won’t be having it !!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"The level of arrogance in this thread is indicative of our overall society.

Individualism at its peak.

Depressing and scary.

Very informative

Now how and when are you going to introduce human contact into your life

And dont say when it's safe or when boris says so

Hundreds of people are dying every day.

I'm not resuming a 'normal life' until the scientists,whose findings are published, show the number of fatalities associated with covid-19 drop to a safe level.

I've lost too many loved ones.

Life is far too precious.

Also, you do you.

I will protect my loved ones till Kingdom come, should needs be.

Good luck to you. "

I did suggest not saying "when its safe"

If that's truly the case then you will not meet again most likely for evermore

I absolutely do not condone or suggest meeting at the moment

However for those wanting

"Safety"

The next week or two might be the "safest"(relative term) we will encounter for years

Its currently been pushed back statistically atm the chances of contact are (relatively low)

However as soon as we have public transport running in any capacity let alone any other relaxing (seeing relatives for example ) the infection rate will increase

After a week the statistics of catching the nasty will be higher than today

And that will always be the case when the fatality level has dropped to your very fake complacent"safe" level there will be a window but that is all until the death rate goes up

If you genuinely want to protect any loved ones you must either

Keep them indoors without any contact including shopping until nowhere in the world has the virus or we have all got immunity

It was hardly safe for your loved ones before most just ignored the risks to enjoy life

It will now be less safe for evermore the only way to protect loved ones is keep them indoors forever , and no one who goes out into danger world must come into any contact with them

It will come down in the end not to safety but perceived safety

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By *atttttteyCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"what if it took couple years ???

It will take a couple of years, what difference does the timescale make ??"

Because by then the infection rate will be low and more people will be dying of the flu???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you really trust a vaccine that's been rushed together with no history to it, no long term case studies and no known long term effects?!

Your probably safer without a vaccine!

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By *atttttteyCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"It irritates me that people call this situation a lockdown, it isnt, if we were in lockdown we couldn't leave our homes like the Spanish did, our government have gone half assed into this as usual and the general public are running around doing whatever they want, especially if the weathers good.

The fines for breaking restrictions should have been £1000."

Tbf though, this is here to stay. They said from day one that it isn’t going away. They’ve played it bang on. The nhs has managed to cope. Nobody knows if there is ever going to be a vaccine, unfortunately it’s not Hollywood.

WHO is now saying that New Zealand eradicated it to quick. So they are going to have to quarantine people for severs years coming into the country.

In this modern day and age, in this country, it’s cripple the economy. Guess what, no nhs then. Guess what, more people will die of cancer, flu sepsis etc.

So let the idiots break quarantine, unfortunately it’s the constant flow of cases the nhs needs

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