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"Missing VA Tempsford especially, my all time fave venue. I hope all clubs survive. " Not.my local but have spent great times there on theme nights and festival | |||
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex" Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules | |||
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules " What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. | |||
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. " I think it should include everybody xx | |||
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. " Good point. So I might change that comment and say no new.faces or those who cant be vouched for | |||
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"Or my ultimate fantasy would be whilst observing safety measures by invitation to a night at a Club where 2 men from the same household could perform in front of a mixed crowd sitting 2 metres apart. Oh the possibilities are endless if you embrace them - from 2 metres apart of course! " Liky | |||
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"Apparently the Gatehouse in Bolton was doing times that were purely social, why can't Clubs do the same, but with no clothes or lingerie, whilst 2 metres apart - so erotic!! And very safe sex Yeah I'm thinking something similar. Regulars only. As we all know those who arnt can get a little carried away or push rules What do you class as regular? We go every 6 weeks roughly. That would rule us out. " Those.who dont push or just get pissed | |||
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"More inclined towards social, rather than sexual interaction? Both carry risks but we can usually be a little further apart when not enjoying the flesh. Staggered hours and fewer people attending at any point? Increases costs for the poor clubs . Could it be attractive enough for punters and profitable enough for the owners? Could the oft discussed in the forum wank clubs prevail? Solitary wanking or couples doing as they wished, potentially with some exhibitionists putting on free displays. Lots of bodily fluids to contend with. People patitioned from each other, glass screens etc, could deliver very close distancing but no actual touching. Window cleaners needed etc. Could become like working men's clubs, with interaction thats very different and possibly getting more frequent attendance. " I agree, it could be a whole new kind of interesting xx | |||
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"Amidst all this pain and angst we need to get together and put these suggestions to the Clubs themselves to see if we can help save them. I would be happy to give time to collating suggestions off the forum to do this. What does anybody think xx" There have been TONS of threads about the future of clubs. Those of us who are prepared to fight to stay open have been watching the forum comments and suggestions xx | |||
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"Amidst all this pain and angst we need to get together and put these suggestions to the Clubs themselves to see if we can help save them. I would be happy to give time to collating suggestions off the forum to do this. What does anybody think xx There have been TONS of threads about the future of clubs. Those of us who are prepared to fight to stay open have been watching the forum comments and suggestions xx" Brilliant because the Clubs are the life blood of the the Free Spirited xxx | |||
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open..." Sadly, I think you are spot on ! There will be no end to social distancing until a vaccine is found and widely administered. That’s if a vaccine is found . | |||
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open... Sadly, I think you are spot on ! There will be no end to social distancing until a vaccine is found and widely administered. That’s if a vaccine is found . " In that case, book me on the next available flight to Cyprus and I'll go sell sunbeds on the beach | |||
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in." Many clubs would not surivive without that. | |||
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in.Many clubs would not surivive without that." During "these times" they must and will remain closed. Likely to be the very last allowed to re-open. If there is a 5 stage plan for easing lockdown they will be about stage 17.... | |||
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in.Many clubs would not surivive without that. During "these times" they must and will remain closed. Likely to be the very last allowed to re-open. If there is a 5 stage plan for easing lockdown they will be about stage 17...." ive seen some clubs say they are looking into own partner only night's with social distance watching problem with any hastily put together laws they are always countless loopholes which businesses have always exploited this will be no different | |||
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open..." Absolutely this. There are too many people saying they won't meet till it's safe . But we aren't going to get the all clear on this for years. | |||
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"Just how do we envisage .. adapting with social distancing in our clubs. Could maybe they be naked spas only Anything to keep em afloat " In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ... | |||
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"Just how do we envisage .. adapting with social distancing in our clubs. Could maybe they be naked spas only Anything to keep em afloat In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ..." I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. | |||
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" In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ... I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. " Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day. | |||
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" In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ... I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day. " Yes but people are at home bored. Once we are back working things will change. I am certainly not renewing my membership. No point. | |||
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" In fact it might be more apt to ask if fab itself will survive this ... I would be interested to know how many people have stopped paying to use the site. Maybe more than you think. The chat rooms are pretty busy every day. Yes but people are at home bored. Once we are back working things will change. I am certainly not renewing my membership. No point. " My inbox has never been busier lol! I'm happily chatting with people and making plans for when the restrictions are relaxed! You can have over a year's worth of site supporter membership in here, for the cost of one night as a single guy in a club, and I know which gives the best value | |||
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"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here. I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus. People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side." I'm basing my opinion on the sheer number of people who say they aren't meeting till the virus has gone and there's a vaccine. Neither will happen this year hence my low confidence in clubs surviving . | |||
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"Glory hole only clubs are the answer, made from plexiglass if you want to see and be seen. Wear a condom for extra safety." May as well wear a glove on your left hand and have a wank then | |||
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"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here. I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus. People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side." Some people will not move on from this virus anytime soon. People moved on from the HIV virus after a while, but that’s because of two main reasons. 1. HIV is preventable. You can take Prep and or use a condom, so you can still meet people for sex and don’t get HIV if you take the necessary precautions. 2. If you do contract HIV, there are drugs available which can keep you alive so you don’t have to die prematurely. None of the conditions above apply to this new virus ( at least not yet) Until a vaccine or drug is found to prevent it and / or a cure is found to stop you from dying, then some people will rightly excercise some caution. And that caution will be ongoing for a few years, not just a few weeks or months. | |||
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"The doom and gloom lot are out in force on here. I remember all gays will be dead in 2 year's if no cure for aids is found, remember that? No didn’t think people would, be the same with this virus. People move on that's how life works, so start looking on the bright side. Some people will not move on from this virus anytime soon. People moved on from the HIV virus after a while, but that’s because of two main reasons. 1. HIV is preventable. You can take Prep and or use a condom, so you can still meet people for sex and don’t get HIV if you take the necessary precautions. 2. If you do contract HIV, there are drugs available which can keep you alive so you don’t have to die prematurely. None of the conditions above apply to this new virus ( at least not yet) Until a vaccine or drug is found to prevent it and / or a cure is found to stop you from dying, then some people will rightly excercise some caution. And that caution will be ongoing for a few years, not just a few weeks or months. " Well that's taken panic mode to a new level, if you really think this virus is in the same league as HIV then there is little hope. | |||
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"It kills much quicker and easier to catch" It kills a tiny percent of people who get it.what percent did/does aids kill ? | |||
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"They have no future.. all will close and 5-10 years later new ones will open... Absolutely this. There are too many people saying they won't meet till it's safe . But we aren't going to get the all clear on this for years. " We agree . Very sad situation | |||
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"It kills much quicker and easier to catch It kills a tiny percent of people who get it.what percent did/does aids kill ?" This virus is not in the same league as aids. This is worse. And that’s why some people have moved on from aids, but sadly will not move on from this one in a hurry. | |||
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"It kills much quicker and easier to catch It kills a tiny percent of people who get it.what percent did/does aids kill ? This virus is not in the same league as aids. This is worse. And that’s why some people have moved on from aids, but sadly will not move on from this one in a hurry. " Well if it was a choice of the tiny risk of dying with covid19 or living with HIV/aids every day of my life it would take me a nano second to decide. | |||
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"I think that they have to lower the entrance fee for the men as during these times you wont spend that much to get in." We personally can't see the need to drop single guy prices as couples and single fem only nights are always busier and as there are 50 single guys to every 1 single fem it would just encourage more single guys to attend making it an uncomfortable cockfest where couples n single fems not looking for guys would have to endure a night of cock zombies following there every move Prices should remain the same couples tend to book hotel close to club so can both drink so spend as much as the single guy who drives n doesn't drink cause it might affect performance | |||
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"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year" Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?! | |||
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"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?!" Same place as other virus we will get immune to it or a vaccine will be given to reduce its effects like the flu jab Remember some of us have had to carry on working during all this should we of just stopped going to work an let the country fall into ruins | |||
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"We too are optimistic for clubs to return to normal once this is over And can't see the difference of having a social night at a club to having a night out in a bar so hopefully some restrictions will be lifted this year Once this is 'over' where is the virus going?! Same place as other virus we will get immune to it or a vaccine will be given to reduce its effects like the flu jab Remember some of us have had to carry on working during all this should we of just stopped going to work an let the country fall into ruins " The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different?" Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year." The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus. " OMG of course 75% of the people that died of covid19 have had the flu jab. Because over 65s and people with underlying health problems get the flu jab every year for free. You couldn't make it up if you tried. Excuse me while I go find a wall to bang my head against. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year." Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine " A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab." Indeed But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab. Indeed But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine" Sorry I am failing to see what point you were making initially. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year.The ONS are now saying 75% of people who died have had the flu vaccine, scientists are looking into it because the jab is a strain of covid virus. OMG of course 75% of the people that died of covid19 have had the flu jab. Because over 65s and people with underlying health problems get the flu jab every year for free. You couldn't make it up if you tried. Excuse me while I go find a wall to bang my head against. " Indeed, this makes for a wall-head-banging moment. | |||
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" The flu jab doesnt stop thousands of people catching it and dying every year tho What make you think covid19 will be any different? Of course the flu jab saves thousands of people every year. Of course it saves thousands a year, but there are also thousands that die despite having had the vaccine A hell of a lot more would die of flu without the jab. Indeed But thousands still die every year despite the vaccine" The point is a lot more would have died if a vaccine was not available. Not sure why you are having difficulty understanding this. | |||
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