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"No, not until a time when social distancing is relaxed somewhat, people start going back to work and I know whether or not I may have had the virus or not, lots of different things to consider before I start meeting again." I think the op was meaning I'd the social distancing was relaxed... | |||
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"No, not until a time when social distancing is relaxed somewhat, people start going back to work and I know whether or not I may have had the virus or not, lots of different things to consider before I start meeting again. I think the op was meaning I'd the social distancing was relaxed..." I don’t expect social distancing will be relaxed in a significant way any time soon and if we do get to the end of this three week stretch and it is then I would still be holding off to see how things go for a while. | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? " Yes! My play time with a particular sub are about the mental side than physical.... Had no form of kink since December... | |||
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"No, not until a time when social distancing is relaxed somewhat, people start going back to work and I know whether or not I may have had the virus or not, lots of different things to consider before I start meeting again. I think the op was meaning I'd the social distancing was relaxed... I don’t expect social distancing will be relaxed in a significant way any time soon and if we do get to the end of this three week stretch and it is then I would still be holding off to see how things go for a while. " I'm expecting them the relax some areas next big announcement. About mixing with other households or partners able to meet up.x as it's been one of the big parts warned about the impending psychological struggles the nation will have. As one of the biggest issues was families having to stay at two separate houses or non cohabiting couples being able to see each other.. this is being considered. | |||
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"Definitely not. My life is more important than a fuck. "  Yes definitely I agree | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? Yes! My play time with a particular sub are about the mental side than physical.... Had no form of kink since December... " Feel sorry for you  | |||
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"No, not until a time when social distancing is relaxed somewhat, people start going back to work and I know whether or not I may have had the virus or not, lots of different things to consider before I start meeting again. I think the op was meaning I'd the social distancing was relaxed... I don’t expect social distancing will be relaxed in a significant way any time soon and if we do get to the end of this three week stretch and it is then I would still be holding off to see how things go for a while. " I agree about social distancing. But surely we cant leave in social distancing / not meeting up in general / goin out till we find vaccination. People will stay put as we are told now but we wont be able to stay like that for long period ... | |||
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"yes why not" Are you not at all concerned that a play partner, fb etc may not want to be fully truthful as what they thought they had a couple of days ago was 'minimal' in relation to how others have described the virus's impact? | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? " No | |||
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"yes why not Are you not at all concerned that a play partner, fb etc may not want to be fully truthful as what they thought they had a couple of days ago was 'minimal' in relation to how others have described the virus's impact? " no | |||
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"yes why not Are you not at all concerned that a play partner, fb etc may not want to be fully truthful as what they thought they had a couple of days ago was 'minimal' in relation to how others have described the virus's impact? no" Thanks | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? Yes! My play time with a particular sub are about the mental side than physical.... Had no form of kink since December... Feel sorry for you "So shit hun, honestly. Especially when you see others on the same street you live. Having who they want in their houses... | |||
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"No, not until a time when social distancing is relaxed somewhat, people start going back to work and I know whether or not I may have had the virus or not, lots of different things to consider before I start meeting again. I think the op was meaning I'd the social distancing was relaxed... I don’t expect social distancing will be relaxed in a significant way any time soon and if we do get to the end of this three week stretch and it is then I would still be holding off to see how things go for a while. I agree about social distancing. But surely we cant leave in social distancing / not meeting up in general / goin out till we find vaccination. People will stay put as we are told now but we wont be able to stay like that for long period ..." I don't think the restrictions that we currently have will last much more than another couple of weeks and things will be relaxed gradually but there will still be some element of social distancing for months to come. | |||
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"I see we got few yes few no. If no when in your mind is safe to meet ?? When there will be vaccination which can be in year time ?? When the virus will disappear ?? ( is that actually possible ?? ) " The virus is here forever. I don’t need to meet so it isn’t something that features in my life. I think it is far too early to be changing anything so for now I will stay as I am. | |||
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"I see we got few yes few no. If no when in your mind is safe to meet ?? When there will be vaccination which can be in year time ?? When the virus will disappear ?? ( is that actually possible ?? ) The virus is here forever. I don’t need to meet so it isn’t something that features in my life. I think it is far too early to be changing anything so for now I will stay as I am. " Same here Babs. Seeing my family Is more important at the | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? Yes! My play time with a particular sub are about the mental side than physical.... Had no form of kink since December... Feel sorry for you "Stop creeping ..she still isn't gonna a fuck you | |||
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"I might meet with one or two trusted friends. Can't see myself meeting strangers for probably some months, will depend largely on what happens with the vaccine. For me, casual sex just isn't really worth the risk. " I'm really unsure as to where "trust" comes into this, this isn't like STDs where you can get to know a person and get a feeling of whether or not they're responsible with their sexual health, someone you "trust" can catch this at work or shopping the day before you have sex with them without knowing it or doing anything irresponsible. If people think avoiding casual sex is going to protect them from this, are they avoiding all contact with other people? Not hugging friends or family? Not going anywhere that's going to get crowded? Not going on public transport? For how long? | |||
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"It is a very tough call this .. well for anyone single it is ! let be honest marrieds/ partnerships they have at least some physical contact each day sexual or otherwise .. single people have none at all and worryingly are not predicted to have much chance of that in the future either ! .. the strange thing is that there will be some who will run the risk and meet and it may cost them their lives but it is arguably far better than a fairly sanitised lack of human contact and affection kind of existence .. so in my case yes it may come to that and I would be doing something unwise maybe ? I would accept the consequences though if they came .. A reality check is needed . people can not be expected to be isolated and alone for another 6 or even 12 months .. My feelings are that a life without being able to have some form of 'living it' i.e human contact , hugs, embraces, physical touch etc is not living properly .. even a basig 'hug' is now not permitted unless you are partnered with someone .. Imagine how that must feel if you are currently single and not allowed to do that ? or even shake hands with a friend ? I argue a life without being able to feel alive is not a life at all ! and so is not anything you want to really preserve in anyway .. no point in it is there .. I predict one way or another most singles wont make it through the other side of this if they can not have human contact Most , like me if it comes to it will accept the consequences of breaking whatever rules people try to enforce on us. when we are allowed to leave our homes and rejoin the world again will we really want to be a part of what this new world looks like ? I have my doubts . :/ " I should probably just kill myself now then. | |||
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"I'll meet when I choose to meet, which will be when I feel I can assess and minimise the risk. I'm not going to rely on the government to tell me when I can have sex." | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification! "Yes. Unless they and everyone they live with, and you and everyone you live with have not been out at all in the last two weeks at least. Going out anywhere means you might have picked it up, it has a long incubation period, and asymptomatic transmission happens. You don't know you don't have the virus. | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification!
Yes. Unless they and everyone they live with, and you and everyone you live with have not been out at all in the last two weeks at least. Going out anywhere means you might have picked it up, it has a long incubation period, and asymptomatic transmission happens.
You don't know you don't have the virus."Thanks for you help. We are currently residing in a country where lockdown means what it says on the tin. | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification!
Yes. Unless they and everyone they live with, and you and everyone you live with have not been out at all in the last two weeks at least. Going out anywhere means you might have picked it up, it has a long incubation period, and asymptomatic transmission happens.
You don't know you don't have the virus.
Thanks for you help. We are currently residing in a country where lockdown means what it says on the tin."I'm treating this almost entirely like lockdown (2-3 exercise trips a week, 1-2 grocery or medicine trips a week, all socially distant) and I treat myself as a danger to others. Just in case. | |||
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"I saw my 81 year old mum today. We maintained social distancing. At the end of our chat she asked if I would shake her hand. She was so missing physical contact. " | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification!
Yes. Unless they and everyone they live with, and you and everyone you live with have not been out at all in the last two weeks at least. Going out anywhere means you might have picked it up, it has a long incubation period, and asymptomatic transmission happens.
You don't know you don't have the virus.
Thanks for you help. We are currently residing in a country where lockdown means what it says on the tin.
I'm treating this almost entirely like lockdown (2-3 exercise trips a week, 1-2 grocery or medicine trips a week, all socially distant) and I treat myself as a danger to others. Just in case."I don't drive, I live alone, I can only buy what I can carry, so no, I have not been in total lockdown, I am working from home but I combine my exercise and shopping every 2 days! So when do you deem I will be safe to meet? The answer is 'who knows' at this moment in time! Would you feel safe to meet me knowing all of that? I would guess no, even though I have no current symptoms! | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification!
Yes. Unless they and everyone they live with, and you and everyone you live with have not been out at all in the last two weeks at least. Going out anywhere means you might have picked it up, it has a long incubation period, and asymptomatic transmission happens.
You don't know you don't have the virus.
Thanks for you help. We are currently residing in a country where lockdown means what it says on the tin.
I'm treating this almost entirely like lockdown (2-3 exercise trips a week, 1-2 grocery or medicine trips a week, all socially distant) and I treat myself as a danger to others. Just in case.
I don't drive, I live alone, I can only buy what I can carry, so no, I have not been in total lockdown, I am working from home but I combine my exercise and shopping every 2 days! So when do you deem I will be safe to meet?
The answer is 'who knows' at this moment in time!
Would you feel safe to meet me knowing all of that? I would guess no, even though I have no current symptoms! "No. I wouldn't. If you're going out at all anywhere you're a risk. At some stage we're going to have to take that risk, but that's not now. | |||
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"Lockdown with 2-3 exercise breaks a week is not lockdown. Hence UK suffers." Hence almost. I'm taking less than I'm "allowed". There's a mental health balance here. I live in an apartment with no outside space. | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? " Aw long as they maintain the 2 meter distance!  | |||
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"Not a random no but there is someone I'm desperate to see. We will soon as possible " Is it me?  | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? " I haven't seen my children, grandchildren, siblings, friends in months...I'd be looking to see if it's safe to meet them over arranging to meet some random for sex! | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? I haven't seen my children, grandchildren, siblings, friends in months...I'd be looking to see if it's safe to meet them over arranging to meet some random for sex!" | |||
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"Is there a problem playing with old friends who have also been in lock down for weeks, where everybody involved KNOWS that the other people don't have the virus? Isn't it meeting new people that's fraught with danger? Just asking for clarification! "Obviously this is just one data point, but might let you see the issue: I was potentially exposed to CV via a colleague who went to a conference in which someone tested positive. Both my colleague and I went into isolation. This was first week of March. Before any lockdown. Schools still open. Workplaces still full etc. He never had any symptoms. I had bit of a sore throat, but then my daughter had come home from school with a bit of a cough so put it down to that. All that time I had been sleeping downstairs away from my wife. We had been taking precautions as I’m asthmatic and so at risk. My wife, who uses a mobility scooter due to disability, went to the supermarket twice. Took precautions. Used hand sanitiser etc. She came down with (suspected) CV19. She had a fever, cough, shortness of breath. The fever lasted nearly two weeks. Now four weeks later she is still short of breath doing the smallest task. I am still sleeping downstairs. So we were fully aware. We were taking it seriously. We had acted early on. We had taken precautions. And yet still, my wife managed to catch it. We still don’t know how, but could just have been someone she passed in the supermarket (no explicit social distancing in effect then). Or a door handle she touched or a shopping basket. So all I’m saying, is please be careful. You don’t *know* if someone has it as they don’t know themselves necessarily. Not until we have accessible and regular testing. And even then there is still a risk. -Matt | |||
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"I heard yesterday that one idea for an exit strategy is to select 4 people that you are allowed to see, so in theory one of those could be an FB" Does it have the be a closed group? Ie does each of the 4 people in your list have the all have the same people? As if not, that sounds pretty useless in preventing spread. -Matt | |||
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"I heard yesterday that one idea for an exit strategy is to select 4 people that you are allowed to see, so in theory one of those could be an FB Does it have the be a closed group? Ie does each of the 4 people in your list have the all have the same people? As if not, that sounds pretty useless in preventing spread. -Matt" I don't understand this either. Multiple 4 people venn diagrams. I suppose it's better than thousands together at a rock concert. | |||
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"No because it takes time for me to want to meet a person anyway, and as yet there's none on the cards" Another ward you are fussy lady lol  | |||
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"Definitely not. My life is more important than a fuck. " Agreed!! | |||
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"I heard yesterday that one idea for an exit strategy is to select 4 people that you are allowed to see, so in theory one of those could be an FB Does it have the be a closed group? Ie does each of the 4 people in your list have the all have the same people? As if not, that sounds pretty useless in preventing spread. -Matt I don't understand this either. Multiple 4 people venn diagrams. I suppose it's better than thousands together at a rock concert." I don't know to be honest, was literally just something I'd heard was being touted | |||
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"I heard yesterday that one idea for an exit strategy is to select 4 people that you are allowed to see, so in theory one of those could be an FB Does it have the be a closed group? Ie does each of the 4 people in your list have the all have the same people? As if not, that sounds pretty useless in preventing spread. -Matt" Well at least you would be avoiding Kevin Bacon though (if its only 4) | |||
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"Would you start meeting straight away if they would lift lock down on monday ?? And if so why ?? Yes! My play time with a particular sub are about the mental side than physical.... Had no form of kink since December... Feel sorry for you
Stop creeping ..she still isn't gonna a fuck you "Thanks Dad, you sorted that out.... | |||
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