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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How is everyone going about minding their mental health during lockdown? Are you finding it harder or better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This weeks been the most difficult tbh, I deal as best I can and try to not let my anxiety issues surface. But right now especially with all thats going on but there are days where MH beats me and I hate that it does and I cant stop it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh it’s ok. Up and down days. The last few days have been down.

What about yours Mr?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh it’s ok. Up and down days. The last few days have been down.

What about yours Mr?"

Mrs**....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This weeks been the most difficult tbh, I deal as best I can and try to not let my anxiety issues surface. But right now especially with all thats going on but there are days where MH beats me and I hate that it does and I cant stop it x "

You are doing well! It’s ok not to be ok some days! Keep going and soon we will be out of this situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This weeks been the most difficult tbh, I deal as best I can and try to not let my anxiety issues surface. But right now especially with all thats going on but there are days where MH beats me and I hate that it does and I cant stop it x

You are doing well! It’s ok not to be ok some days! Keep going and soon we will be out of this situation! "

I just feel so guilty when I have my bad down days especially with all thats going on.

Are you ok OP? XX

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

The lockdown hasn't effected my mental health in the slightest. Other factors are a different matter though.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

It’s hard. Really, really hard. I want to be off my anti-d’s by the end of the year so hanging in there for as long a single can

J x

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By *arleyfatboy2019Couple
over a year ago

Devon

I suffered quite badly for a while. But trust me you will come out the other end . Still have an occasional wobble but I’m determined that it’s not going to rule my life. Everyone stay strong. Don’t let this virus beat you ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn’t bothered me much at all. Its gotten easier once settled into the new routine, the first week has a bit strange as it was all new.

Personally I don’t think it’s even that bad, it’s not exactly a hard lockdown. Exercising outside is permitted, shopping isn’t exactly madness anymore now people have pulled their heads out their arse stripping the shelves bare and fighting for a bag of pasta.

The restriction on family is the hardest part for me, but we still have FaceTime to actually see each other.

It’s the small business owners who I feel for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hasn’t bothered me much at all. Its gotten easier once settled into the new routine, the first week has a bit strange as it was all new.

Personally I don’t think it’s even that bad, it’s not exactly a hard lockdown. Exercising outside is permitted, shopping isn’t exactly madness anymore now people have pulled their heads out their arse stripping the shelves bare and fighting for a bag of pasta.

The restriction on family is the hardest part for me, but we still have FaceTime to actually see each other.

It’s the small business owners who I feel for. "

Yah that's true. It's hard to see the small places staying open after all this.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Riding the waves. I'm used to my own company but it seems harder at times because of the lack of choice. I miss contact and touch. Some days are harder than others.

Today I let massive ploppy tears roll. Felt better for the release.

There's still lots to be grateful for.

Soon, those of us without adult contact are going to need to be hugged. My parents need to hold their grandchildren. Roll on that day x

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

Missing contact and touch here too. Getting to see my wife but with little touch and no kisses let alone sex is so frustrating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to have my dog put to sleep last Monday. Up to that point I was coping ok with Furlough / Lockdown, but losing my dog has really and truly screwed me over big style and it's getting worse, not better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a serioys episode of depression/stress 10 years ago.

Precribed meds...and, luckily it seems, good therapy. Binned my meds off dead after a few months as most are more harm than good

Since then learned how to manage things myself so hasn't affected me mentally really. I do mis clise contact with friends...one in particular....but I do feel for others who are coping less well...

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

There are good day's and bad day's but know some who are not coping very well which is concerning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my tablets and psychiatrist so am fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit tbh. I was going gym 6 days a week an group therapy once a week an felt I was getting somewhere. Now I just gone back into my little bubble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the happiest and safest I've felt for nearly three decades, so I'm loving it

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

I lost it completely yesterday

I’ve been working from home for 4 weeks and been coping ok with a very stressful job (I work in accounts). I’ve been dealing with a newly promoted Manager and the last straw was a wrongly worded email (not the 1st) that just broke me!

I’ve had to take a week off with work related stress which is making me feel more shite for leaving my colleagues to pick up my work but I just can’t turn on my laptop for fear of seeing another email from them.

I’ve never felt like this and hoping it’s a short term and I bounce back to deal with a job I love

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead


"I had to have my dog put to sleep last Monday. Up to that point I was coping ok with Furlough / Lockdown, but losing my dog has really and truly screwed me over big style and it's getting worse, not better."

Oh, dear, I'm sorry to hear that, sympathise.

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead


"but I just can’t turn on my laptop for fear of seeing another email from them."

Oh, dear, that's awful. Sorry to hear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really struggling. Renal Transplant so cant leave the house. Kids cant visit.. have struggled with PTSD.. managed to get an appointment via skype/zoom on thursday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Riding the waves. I'm used to my own company but it seems harder at times because of the lack of choice. I miss contact and touch. Some days are harder than others.

Today I let massive ploppy tears roll. Felt better for the release.

There's still lots to be grateful for.

Soon, those of us without adult contact are going to need to be hugged. My parents need to hold their grandchildren. Roll on that day x "

Hopefully it's very soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really struggling. Renal Transplant so cant leave the house. Kids cant visit.. have struggled with PTSD.. managed to get an appointment via skype/zoom on thursday."

Hope your appointment goes well on Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is everyone going about minding their mental health during lockdown? Are you finding it harder or better ?"

Much better due to not having to be anywhere or see anyone.

I know I am lucky and probably in a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having lots of bad days , still working full time plus lots of overtime , I need something to look forward too but as my next holiday has been cancelled, and I don’t know when to rebook it for , I have nothing to look forward too , that probably don’t sound like much to stress over but to me I Work for my holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to have my dog put to sleep last Monday. Up to that point I was coping ok with Furlough / Lockdown, but losing my dog has really and truly screwed me over big style and it's getting worse, not better."

I'm so sorry.

Dog person here who completely gets it ((((hugs))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things are bad here. I can feel myself declining at a disturbingly fast rate and I am not really sure what to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Things are bad here. I can feel myself declining at a disturbingly fast rate and I am not really sure what to do. "

Talk to someone. Pick up the phone to a friend or family member

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having lots of bad days , still working full time plus lots of overtime , I need something to look forward too but as my next holiday has been cancelled, and I don’t know when to rebook it for , I have nothing to look forward too , that probably don’t sound like much to stress over but to me I Work for my holidays "

Hopefully you get your holiday soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very low at first then once furloughed and the weather was great i was ok apart from missing seeing family. I keep alternating but im back at work next week so thats good. Im more worried about my husband, he seems very low

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was very low at first then once furloughed and the weather was great i was ok apart from missing seeing family. I keep alternating but im back at work next week so thats good. Im more worried about my husband, he seems very low "

Hope he is okay x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"How is everyone going about minding their mental health during lockdown? Are you finding it harder or better ?"

It's all very strange x

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon


"How is everyone going about minding their mental health during lockdown? Are you finding it harder or better ?"
well my mental outlet has been curtailed here in Ireland,I'm finding it hard,very hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it depends on what mental issues you are suffering from.

Personaly i suffer from OCD in the form of anxiety of germs/hiv/drug users im struggling.

My therapy concentrates on facing these fears and realising how the thoughts arn't rational. But now its just conferming that they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very low at first then once furloughed and the weather was great i was ok apart from missing seeing family. I keep alternating but im back at work next week so thats good. Im more worried about my husband, he seems very low

Hope he is okay x"

He's got a new hobby so he's ok now

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Was ok to start with even though I was furloughed, but after a short time (which surprised me) I started feeling down, and a bit weepy. Am lucky in that I got the callback re work, so now I have less time to dwell on things and I find myself being more optimistic

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Have struggled a lot tbh .. this whole situation has brought back some real problems that I thought were counselling sessions/ meds done! This week realising that anyone who is single/lives alone is basically not going to get any closeness, human contact for at least another year and a half has pushed me right over the edge and have worried about it constantly .. a sad state of affairs when wanking is about all you are going to be able to do for the foreseeable isn't it !

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Just say your expecting a visit from your health carer Kyle Walker staying his mental heath “made” him do it for his own mental health.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How is everyone going about minding their mental health during lockdown? Are you finding it harder or better ?

It's all very strange x"

Extremely strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard to begin extremely hard i should say nearly finished me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting difficult now

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I don't have the stresses of getting up mega early. I don't have the stress of the commute. I don't have the stress of maintaining work mode all day. I don't have the stress of dealing with naughty kids. I don't have the stress of exams this year.

So comparatively, it's not too bad isolating.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

If I stay off here it’s a lot better

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I was mad as a hatter before lockdown, time to reflect on things has made me sane.

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being stuck in the house for 8 weeks now is taking its toll (I'm shielding). If I didn't have work to keep me occupied and give the day some shape I think I'd have cracked. My coping strategies when I feel down have been taken away.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik"

How do you know it’s just a few weeks?

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By *andlcoupleCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Mr has found it hard this weekend. Why I do not know.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


"Have struggled a lot tbh .. this whole situation has brought back some real problems that I thought were counselling sessions/ meds done! This week realising that anyone who is single/lives alone is basically not going to get any closeness, human contact for at least another year and a half has pushed me right over the edge and have worried about it constantly .. a sad state of affairs when wanking is about all you are going to be able to do for the foreseeable isn't it ! "

i live alone and have followed the rules since this started as its only been a cpl of months im not that botherd or stressing to much.would like to my mum even if its just a chat through the window but she lives 150 miles away and i dont drive so not happening anytime soon.personaly i cant see the majority keeping up this distancing for another 12. to 18 months espesially single peeps living alone.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Mental health is the tricky aspect I know people who are suffering due to the lockdown and need a return to something more like normal and I know people who are panicking about things returning to normal its very complex issue

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By *ake_holeMan
over a year ago

London

One thing I found useful was to stay off stuff like twitter and facebook as well as keeping away from the news and things discussing it. I usually try to stay informed but it really took its toll on me. More than I wanted it to.

Once I just found a way to escape from it I felt a lot calmer and more in control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been hard. My anxiety is bad - I have health problems and so am terrified of getting sick and dying. I have become almost agoraphobic... leaving the house to go shopping triggers panic attacks every time. I also suffer from PTSD and stress-related psychosis which is starting to get hard to control. Some days I have been suicidal.

The biggest problem for me is that I was going out socialising at least a few times a week, meeting people, going to groups and classes, and that played a huge part in keeping my mental health stable. Now I don't have that, and video/phone calls just don't help, I need to be around people face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing OK most days but to be totally honest some of the threads on here really depress me as some people seem so unreasonable. I am a pragmatist I think so what I'm doing is trying not to read the ones that are so down and grumpy, I try not to take the troll's bait and have largely stopped replying as it's more futile than trying to stop the spread of the virus.

I'm doing my own thing and sticking to the rules, it's all one can do really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik"

I don't find it funny at all. It is hard though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik

I don't find it funny at all. It is hard though. "

I know someone who vividly remembers the end of WW2 and she says she finds this psychologically harder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik

I don't find it funny at all. It is hard though.

I know someone who vividly remembers the end of WW2 and she says she finds this psychologically harder."

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Makes me laugh anyone would think its like WW2 sorry to tell you it's not and a few weeks lock down is a mere inconvenience Not a major disaster like so many make out it is... Nik"

Speaking to relatives who lived through the war and have said there are some elements of this virus which is far more scary than what they went through then..

Uncertainty, isolation etc..

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