FabSwingers.com forum: Meets after lockdown

By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Will you feel comfortable meeting after lockdown or will it change the way we go about things ,we are all saying ,,,can't wait for lockdown to be lifted then we are going to have 1 massive party and fuck the days away ,but in reality,,will we

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Won't be attending clubs for a while but one on one meets with 1 or 2 regular meets once it's legal possibly depending on the risks at the time

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Yes I think the club scene might take a bit longer to reopen and get some kind of normality back ,I agree about the 1-1 Meets

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't think "we are all saying" anything of the sort. Some seem to be planning to immediately return to meeting once lockdown meaures are decreased, but many have stated quite clearly that they won't be. As with all things there will be different opinions & approaches.

Personally I don't think I will be meeting for a long time.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Same here. Thinking we won't be doing much, we had got a lot quieter on here, not really sure if we will carry on or as they say sail into the sunset together. Would be easy choice for us both, this was just a bit of fun, not a need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had been planning meeting someone when lockdown rules say it's possible, but as time has gone on I've realised it's just not worth it.

My life is more important than a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely going to see my partner as soon as the lockdown is relaxed. We used to spend every weekend together before this madness began...

Other meets- probably not straight away, and only the ones that were already regular before the lockdown.

Clubs- in due course.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

The regular couple i see will definitely be the 1st on the list.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Will you feel comfortable meeting after lockdown or will it change the way we go about things ,we are all saying ,,,can't wait for lockdown to be lifted then we are going to have 1 massive party and fuck the days away ,but in reality,,will we "
I'm sadly going to have to wait a while as I just do club meets... but day they reopen I will be in them. May have to arrange a private group session if clubs stay shut for ages

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By *ulia2013Couple
over a year ago

Yeovil

It depends on evidence about risk. Different types of meet will present different risks. For example, if you were going to have another meet with someone you had regularly met before in hotels, i would assess that as low risk, taking into account all factors such as hotel availability, social distancing guidance and the immunity status of those involved. On the other hand, clubs will be off the scale of risk assessment for a very considerable time. However, i think that in reality it will be a long time before ordinary people go back to pre-virus conduct!

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

It's certainly going to be different, but then you also have the people meeting as we speak and I think by them doing that it will only prolong this lockdown , but yes 1-1 Meets and becoming a regular might be the way in the future

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Social distancing will still be in place for quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think people will meet, but maybe with the ones they've known a while and met before on a regular basis.... If it doesn't bother some, then good luck to them, it's their life x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Social distancing will still be in place for quite a while. "

If some rhetoric is to be followed then social distancing must remain forever

The rhetoric goes if you do not social distance you will spread cov-Sars2

And by doing so you will risk lives

Fair point totally agree

However exactly the same point DOES apply and DID apply to the other viruses in the world but specifically the influenza ones

If the rhetoric is

Maintain social distancing save lives save the NHS

It MUST by logical default be EQUALLY necessary and applied to influenza

It is an ABSOLUTE FACT that assuming SARS has gone not maintaining social distancing WILL cause more deaths AND put severe pressure upon world health systems

Of course after this thing has blown over no one will care again

I think we will discover most of the lines drawn are arbitrary

We wont care about needless deaths in other countries or needless deaths of homeless

I am genuinely curious when it will be socially acceptable for me to search for a life companion

I'm very very much for the lockdown

However I dont like the absolutist critical no give mantra

I hope for and would aim for most people most of the time

Which after about 4 months a couple of waves a couple of locdowns I expect for a couple or 5 years

I feel we will have to live with this live with another cause of death amongst many and take reasonable responsibility for protecting our health as well as others but not to the permanent loss of our humanity

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Social distancing will still be in place for quite a while.

If some rhetoric is to be followed then social distancing must remain forever

The rhetoric goes if you do not social distance you will spread cov-Sars2

And by doing so you will risk lives

Fair point totally agree

However exactly the same point DOES apply and DID apply to the other viruses in the world but specifically the influenza ones

If the rhetoric is

Maintain social distancing save lives save the NHS

It MUST by logical default be EQUALLY necessary and applied to influenza

It is an ABSOLUTE FACT that assuming SARS has gone not maintaining social distancing WILL cause more deaths AND put severe pressure upon world health systems

Of course after this thing has blown over no one will care again

I think we will discover most of the lines drawn are arbitrary

We wont care about needless deaths in other countries or needless deaths of homeless

I am genuinely curious when it will be socially acceptable for me to search for a life companion

I'm very very much for the lockdown

However I dont like the absolutist critical no give mantra

I hope for and would aim for most people most of the time

Which after about 4 months a couple of waves a couple of locdowns I expect for a couple or 5 years

The difference is with influenza is that there is a best guess vaccine for the masses, of sorts and there isn’t anything for this virus.

For me this virus isn’t that different to anything else - I’m scared of germs so keep my distance wherever and whenever I hear of anything remotely germ like.

It terms of getting back out and pursuing relationships of whatever sort, I feel the risk will just be there for us to live with.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Interesting read

Different people

Different views ,I've had a test done this morning, I'll receive answer by txt before end of day ,I have no symptoms, but who really knows what's living or ticking in your body ,like a post from above said it's going to be a way of life and will always be around

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Test result back within 24 hours ?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Will be very nervous and social to begin with see how it goes

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Yes just over 24 hrs I got a txt and email saying it's come back negative

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"Yes just over 24 hrs I got a txt and email saying it's come back negative "

Will you get tested again tomorrow ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random testing only has very limited use in my view, if you test positive then you've probably been infectious for a while so infected others, if it's negative then you could easily get infected hours afterwards then infect others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our was 48 hours I thought they all took 48 hours .

Our we both positive that was 2 weeks ago today.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Basically saying as a key worker tested negative I can go back to work ,tottaly agree I could get infected anytime and not show any symptoms and still spread it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see a massive party immediately after lockdown as it will likely be getting phased out and a lot will be only too conscious of the dangers of the possible "second peak" what it will mean and will have precautions in their heads.

Though it WILL probably happen and go into overdrive at some point in the future, either when case numbers have dwindled away to very little to none OR vaccination is ongoing, whichever comes first.

If it's the latter, then there may well be parties where attendees have to show some kind of the much touted "immunity pass" either through having had the disease or being vaccinated and if so then this sort of event would probably where those on the guest list go shagging bananas to make up for lost time tbf...

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Totally agree making up for lost time ,,party time walk in close the door and id like to think I'll be the last man standing to attention lol

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I'm not going to rely on the government to dictate to me when I can or can't meet someone or have sex.

I'll make that choice myself based on perception of risk and ability to mitigate it. Common sense in other words.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

As soon as the club reopens I'll be back there every week.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Chams it is the keely

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Chams it is the keely "

Definitely, I can't bloody wait.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I already have with my friend"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me for my sins

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

"Same here. Thinking we won't be doing much, we had got a lot quieter on here, not really sure if we will carry on or as they say sail into the sunset together. Would be easy choice for us both, this was just a bit of fun, not a need. "
been thinking same thing. Hollie

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"As soon as the club reopens I'll be back there every week. "
me too. I soooooo need a chill in the tub x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Was thinking about this that the club scene may have an interesting dynamic, the more adventurous, confident, promiscuous attending straight away and the not so sure , worriers etc not going

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

My gang fuck fantasies will probably fall flat and turn into one bloke with a two inch willy turning up..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"My gang fuck fantasies will probably fall flat and turn into one bloke with a two inch willy turning up.."

That’s why it’s called a fantasy

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

In reality id like to say ,, oh yes can't bloody wait to get hot and steamy again whether it's a club or 1-1 and hoping the latter 1 is first and all night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t see myself meeting for a long time, even then it would only be with trusted people.

Clubs / parties are not even on my radar.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Yes roxi 1 -1 with selected people might be the way forward ,club scene might take longer to get back to the norm

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By *exysinnersCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere in the South West

Totally depends on the moment.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

"Totally depends on the moment. "

Very true

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We've both worked throughout this is high risk areas and have abided by all of the lockdown rules as expected. When the rules are lifted and we are permitted contact with others we will absolutely be open to meets.

Our view is that we all have to learn to live with this virus as best as we can. We are all adults and provided we are abiding by the laws we should all be able to take responsibility for our own actions.

By that we mean only meeting if you have no symptoms and nobody in your household has symptoms. We fully understand people can be asymptomatic but the only way to avoid that completely is to not come in to contact with anyone ever and there has to be a balance between living and existing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said. Great comment. I agree with you.

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By *andystick72 OP Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Great views on it to be fair, but will it come to a point where we will be checking temputures first,and if the party has already started when you get there what chance of you got checking temputures, 90% will be overheating anyway

Condoms end thermo

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