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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Sorry but why would you be shouting at anyone and swearing at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing "

I feel you. I was in the queue for the supermarket and the person in front was walking a bit slow because they had a trolley. No problem. But the fucking whamen behind me seemed determined to walk at her own pace up into my ass. I gave her a death stare that seemed to solve it.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Sorry, but even covid isn't an excuse for bad manners or rudeness,a bit of politeness would have been better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And the reason I go late is because we can’t get a delivery for love nor money and the other half is in the at risk group

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing

I feel you. I was in the queue for the supermarket and the person in front was walking a bit slow because they had a trolley. No problem. But the fucking whamen behind me seemed determined to walk at her own pace up into my ass. I gave her a death stare that seemed to solve it. "

Whamen!!!

skrattar du, förlorar du?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you don’t think it’s bad manners for her to ignore the government advise at my expense bet you would not be happy if you caught the virus over someone’s action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear god. What a time to be alive.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"So you don’t think it’s bad manners for her to ignore the government advise at my expense bet you would not be happy if you caught the virus over someone’s action"

Don’t blame you - some people feel they are allowed to do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about asking her to wait/give you space, politely? Just because we are having to live in this madness, it doesn't mean being rude is justifiable. Being on lockdown and not being able to see your loved ones or your friends is hard enough without others being rude. We are all in it together, why not try and make it a little bit easier on everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Chill.out bro

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing

I feel you. I was in the queue for the supermarket and the person in front was walking a bit slow because they had a trolley. No problem. But the fucking whamen behind me seemed determined to walk at her own pace up into my ass. I gave her a death stare that seemed to solve it.

Whamen!!!

skrattar du, förlorar du?

"

The comments aren't going well because he didn't respect a wahmen

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"How about asking her to wait/give you space, politely? Just because we are having to live in this madness, it doesn't mean being rude is justifiable. Being on lockdown and not being able to see your loved ones or your friends is hard enough without others being rude. We are all in it together, why not try and make it a little bit easier on everyone? "

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

So u basically putting it on a forum to let us know u swore at someone cos they didbt respect yr space... u basically saying cos she was rude it then justified u being rude as well?? Terrific.. cheers for the info mate.. we shall all clap for you on thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Chill.out bro"

Agreed, i think the problem is though, everyones anxiety levels are through the roof resulting in people over reacting ... both the person rushing round the shop trying to get out quicker not thinking about who they are bashing into and the person being bashed who flips

There will be the odd *hole just being their usual mannerless self, but most probably just need to take a breather calm down and think about how else they could approach the situation ... stressing about it all sure isnt making us any healthier

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"Sorry, but even covid isn't an excuse for bad manners or rudeness,a bit of politeness would have been better. "

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I bet you wouldn't be so verbal if it had been a big muscular guy, instead of an old woman.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Bloody hell, it's becoming like night of the living dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that behaviour.

I also never understand why people post about it in forums. People aren't going to applaud poor behaviour, and the woman in question isn't going to see it.

Calm down and move on.

We're all doing the best that we can.

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By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

Yes the old woman was in the wrong but no need to be so disrespectful and rude.

And why brag about it on here?

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "
Take a step back.

Why did you need to share this?

Yes, I guess you felt disturbed, and scared, and angry.

What made you imagine we needed to know about it?

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


" and the woman in question isn't going to see it.

Calm down and move on.

We're all doing the best that we can. "
it would be feckin funny if she did see it

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Hands up, step back, say sorry youre too close.

Maybe she had early dementia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing

I feel you. I was in the queue for the supermarket and the person in front was walking a bit slow because they had a trolley. No problem. But the fucking whamen behind me seemed determined to walk at her own pace up into my ass. I gave her a death stare that seemed to solve it. "

In fairness, based on the profile picture, a lot of people would probably like to go up that arse at their own pace

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Did the OP stop for one minute to think that the person didnt understand... and even if they did.. there is no excuse for being so rude.

This doesn't even shock me at present. In some people this is bringing out the best .. in others ... definitely the worst.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


" and the woman in question isn't going to see it.

Calm down and move on.

We're all doing the best that we can. it would be feckin funny if she did see it "

'you're not going to believe what just happened, some young whippersnapper was taking ages fondling the avocados and I needed me tomatoes to make Fred's fry up in the morning, I tried to scoot round him and he told me to fuck off, I ought to wash his mouth out with soap'

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Take a taser with you next time !

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By *havenbabe01Couple
over a year ago

bedfordshire

thats if you can buy any soap lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"thats if you can buy any soap lol"
not had issues for at least 3 weeks for soap here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWIW the 99.9% of people I met in supermarkets don't follow the advice, including staff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands up, step back, say sorry youre too close.

Maybe she had early dementia? "

That was my initial thought...I’ve see a fair few older confused people in the supermarkets not sure on what they are supposed to be doing with the queuing, social distancing etc. Maybe it would have been better to tell them politely first and then if they were just being ignorant and rude give it them both barrels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but why would you be shouting at anyone and swearing at them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am horrified that anyone would speak to anyone like this and then be proud of it?! God help us all of this is what we have become.

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

That's ridiculous behaviour and you deserved a slap for speaking to someone like that who was just trying to go about her day.

The rules here in Germany are working well and it's all just common sense. People walk past each other in supermarket aisles etc but maintain distance mostly.

She didnt come into your space coughing or spitting at you, take a breath and be a little more tolerant.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Hands up, step back, say sorry youre too close.

Maybe she had early dementia?

That was my initial thought...I’ve see a fair few older confused people in the supermarkets not sure on what they are supposed to be doing with the queuing, social distancing etc. Maybe it would have been better to tell them politely first and then if they were just being ignorant and rude give it them both barrels! "
now that I would do, politeness first, then 'fire with fire 'if they were just being rude etc.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I should think the shop assistants were glaring at you for behaving like that. Poor woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was a weird thing to start a thread about.

I agree with the general consensus.

People ignoring the social distancing guidelines isn't great.

Swearing at elderly ladies also isn't great.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

Good god OP get a grip and a sense of normality about it all!!

Think about the poor people who work in retail to serve us all at this current hard time, I myself work in retail but we aren’t essential so are currently closed but I worry about our customers that we see on a daily basis and hope that they’re ok, so an older person stretched across you to pick up something that was essential to them, you don’t know that if she hadn’t got that item and taken it home to her potentially abusive partner what might have happened to her? Let’s not be selfish here and ‘be kind, stay home and stay safe’ where we can eh? Let’s not just think about ourselves but of others who quite frankly are struggling with it all, that older lady that you talk about might have been in the wrong but let’s face it there’s more to life right now than ripping someone’s head off when they might have bigger things to worry about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a elderly lady I would break her legs last week ooooooo shoot me down!!

She had been rude to Tesco staff more than once, she hadn’t followed signs in store and moaned she had to walk every isle and only wanted 2 items. She then walked to the front of the que to pay and when staff directed her to the back she ended up moving behind me, she then moved her trolly so it hit the back of my legs. When I turned around almost expecting a sorry (stupidly) she moved forward and the trolly hit me again the wheel catching the back of my ankle. She then began to moan at me about walking up the isles and said I won’t be coming to Tesco if this carries on

So accidentally my mouth and brain hit a bump as I said ‘it’s ok love you won’t be able to walk up and down the isles again, because if you hit me with your trolly again I will break your fucking legs’

The guy on the till snorted laughing and the checkout manager had to walk away for laughing.

My point is......not all old people care or think how they affect others when out, we are scared so I totally get the OPs reaction

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Abusing the elderly - Fabs new kiss pass fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done, OP

Do you feel proud of what you've done?

Bet your parents would be if they knew you swore at older person..

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Why swear

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Have some respect for the elderly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you can't get fucked get even seems to be what fabbers have resorted to

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hmmmm.... looks like this ain't going down too well for the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of compassion goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you forget to bring your zombie knife?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Hands up, step back, say sorry youre too close.

Maybe she had early dementia? "

I'd wondered the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Wow how horrid , as it was an elderly woman and probably had her own issues why not just back away and behave responsibly?? I am amazed you were not thrown out...

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

This has happened to me more than once. I've just politely reminded them that we need to be 2m apart and then when they move I've thanked them. You get a much better response if you're polite.

None of us know what battles others are fighting right now. Why be so nasty ffs?

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Have some respect for the elderly "

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Hope you are proud of yourself!! Shouting 'F off' at an old woman, who maybe confused, scared and not fully understanding the situation. Maybe use this time to work on dealing with situations a little more assertively rather than full on aggression. One day you may pick on the wrong person and it will end very badly for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told a elderly lady I would break her legs last week ooooooo shoot me down!!

She had been rude to Tesco staff more than once, she hadn’t followed signs in store and moaned she had to walk every isle and only wanted 2 items. She then walked to the front of the que to pay and when staff directed her to the back she ended up moving behind me, she then moved her trolly so it hit the back of my legs. When I turned around almost expecting a sorry (stupidly) she moved forward and the trolly hit me again the wheel catching the back of my ankle. She then began to moan at me about walking up the isles and said I won’t be coming to Tesco if this carries on

So accidentally my mouth and brain hit a bump as I said ‘it’s ok love you won’t be able to walk up and down the isles again, because if you hit me with your trolly again I will break your fucking legs’

The guy on the till snorted laughing and the checkout manager had to walk away for laughing.

My point is......not all old people care or think how they affect others when out, we are scared so I totally get the OPs reaction "

I did chuckle at this. And I also agree with OP's point.

Having a swear at someone shouldn't be as triggering for people as someone willinging putting OP's life, and their loved one's lives at risk.

Flying headbutts (with correct PPE of course) for anyone getting in my space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mad Max scenario comes to mind in these times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So u basically putting it on a forum to let us know u swore at someone cos they didbt respect yr space... u basically saying cos she was rude it then justified u being rude as well?? Terrific.. cheers for the info mate.. we shall all clap for you on thursday"

Well said pal.. brilliant u got the point across. If ones a fool just makes the other just as bad .. il clap on thursday too.

What supermarket was open late night for customers. Thought most were on till 10pm only

Another made up story for the forums to keep people entertained jog on...

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By *BWarksCouple
over a year ago

warwick

[Removed by poster at 22/04/20 06:07:34]

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I think I would have just stepped out of her way or moved quickly away. I defo wouldnt have reacted like that. And I am in the at risk group so my reaction should be extra cautious.

I go to the food shops with my mask on...no choice as Im effectively a single mother right now.

MsD

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not good disrespecting an old lady, she may have had dementia or something. Always respect your elders and you will go far!

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By *he shaggersCouple
over a year ago

vancouver island


"So you don’t think it’s bad manners for her to ignore the government advise at my expense bet you would not be happy if you caught the virus over someone’s action"

Maybe she was a bit senile????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is true , it don’t paint you in a good light ,

1) why would you treat a person older than you like this ?

2) why brag about it on a swinging site ?

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford

This horrible virus is having an effect on everyone of us , we can all get wrapped up in feelings and emotions of what is happening to US. Never forget that each and every one of us has a "story" and nobody knows if they are good or bad . My mum has later stage dementia and after I see her I sometimes act uncharacteristically, not intentionally but because my mind is somewhere else at that moment.

Everyone please be considerate at this awful time because you don't know how the next person is coping , some people are really struggling and it's not just about you .

We are all in this together,

Stay safe and look after each other.

Xx

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Not brave, not clever, not funny.

Worrying for you, clearly.

Overreaction, definitely.

Would your response have been different if it was a six foot four bloke, built like a brick outhouse, most likely.

People are scared, confused, unsure. The lady was elderly, you don't know her mental state.

Not cool.

Basic rule of humanity, don't be a cunt.

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

Not brave, not clever, not funny.

Worrying for you, clearly.

Overreaction, definitely.

Would your response have been different if it was a six foot four bloke, built like a brick outhouse, most likely.

People are scared, confused, unsure. The lady was elderly, you don't know her mental state.

Not cool.

Basic rule of humanity, don't be a cunt. "

Well said

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

She most probably thought, you would buy it all,

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

Not brave, not clever, not funny.

Worrying for you, clearly.

Overreaction, definitely.

Would your response have been different if it was a six foot four bloke, built like a brick outhouse, most likely.

People are scared, confused, unsure. The lady was elderly, you don't know her mental state.

Not cool.

Basic rule of humanity, don't be a cunt.

Well said "
very well said

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

i was in a small supermarket and they wer telling u to follow the arrows the man in front of me was but two big fellows came the other way and said to him away mate fucking 2 metr distanceing he sai go the right way u fucking idiots and turned round to me and apolagised for hes swearing I said good on u

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes this is why i hate going to supermarkets. Air con buildings are not great either. I'm still pro everyone wears masks to feel safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don’t think it’s bad manners for her to ignore the government advise at my expense bet you would not be happy if you caught the virus over someone’s action

Maybe she was a bit senile???? "

Maybe she was a cunt

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"So you don’t think it’s bad manners for her to ignore the government advise at my expense bet you would not be happy if you caught the virus over someone’s action"

Two wrongs do not make a right.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

While I do think it's an overreaction and could have been dealt with better, I too am becoming increasingly frustrated with people not even trying to follow social distancing in the supermarket despite the 101 signs. As a healthcare worker I'm trying so hard to stay 2m away from people, mostly for their own safety yet people seem to make it impossible. Most people aren't obeying the one way systems at all. There was even a couple on my last supermarket trip that I crossed in every single aisle going the wrong way! If they're going down every aisle anyway why not follow the signs!? I can understand more the frustration having to walk down an aisle you don't need in order to go back up an aisle you do but is an extra minute really so much to help keep people safe? At work we've been taking it in turns to do a joint lunch run and even when it's been my turn to do that and I'm in the shop in my disposable scrubs I've still had people almost pressed up against me at times. It's endlessly frustrating. I saw a picture lately of a man who had attached pool noodles to a hat to help keep people 2m away. I'm considering making one myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've asked people to move away or reminded them about social distancing but there are ways of doing that without screaming fuck off at people.

Also when im shopping im more concerned about the amount of people that have touched things than 1 person briefly invading my space

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

The fact that you even mention she was an old woman makes your behaviour even more disgusting. You could have told her to give you your space in a nice way. I don't think you attitude and behaviour have anything to do with covid-19,this is just the kind of person you are

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho"

I hope an elderly person runs over your toes with their scooter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

We just think your a rude ignorant person . Just a simple excuse me 2 meters please would have done .

Yes we are all worried at the moment but manners cost nothing ..

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

One of the mums at my kids school works in the pharmacy I go to and when I was picking up a prescription last week she stood right by me and tucked the tag into my dress and patted me on the back (which was bare because I have a low backed dress on)

It happened so fast it literally didn’t realise what was happening right away.

I still don’t understand why she felt it was okay to do that? Maybe because she knew me? But then again she knows me well enough to know my child type one diabetic and vulnerable

Very weird.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sorry no. I agree politness

But how many times do people need to be told

I agree in this case swearing was appropriate. WHY DO PEOPLE BE SO SELFISH SOCIAL DIISTANCE NO EXCUSE

So the woman rude by not following social distance she should banned from shop.

Only excuse if the old lady had dementia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the mums at my kids school works in the pharmacy I go to and when I was picking up a prescription last week she stood right by me and tucked the tag into my dress and patted me on the back (which was bare because I have a low backed dress on)

It happened so fast it literally didn’t realise what was happening right away.

I still don’t understand why she felt it was okay to do that? Maybe because she knew me? But then again she knows me well enough to know my child type one diabetic and vulnerable

Very weird."

As long as you didn't turn round and lick your tag you'll probably be okay

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

We just think your a rude ignorant person . Just a simple excuse me 2 meters please would have done .

Yes we are all worried at the moment but manners cost nothing .. "

So how many times do people need to be told before you think appropriate

This is not a game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry no. I agree politness

But how many times do people need to be told

I agree in this case swearing was appropriate. WHY DO PEOPLE BE SO SELFISH SOCIAL DIISTANCE NO EXCUSE

So the woman rude by not following social distance she should banned from shop.

Only excuse if the old lady had dementia"

It was a loutish over reaction

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

We just think your a rude ignorant person . Just a simple excuse me 2 meters please would have done .

Yes we are all worried at the moment but manners cost nothing .. "

We think you are selfish siding with no social distancing. You should apologise accusing lady being rude or don't think her safety matters your either selfish or thick

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Sorry no. I agree politness

But how many times do people need to be told

I agree in this case swearing was appropriate. WHY DO PEOPLE BE SO SELFISH SOCIAL DIISTANCE NO EXCUSE

So the woman rude by not following social distance she should banned from shop.

Only excuse if the old lady had dementia

It was a loutish over reaction "

No it wasn't so answer questions how many times have people been told to social distance. This protecting lives.

So if it was your family at risk woukd u be polite.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"One of the mums at my kids school works in the pharmacy I go to and when I was picking up a prescription last week she stood right by me and tucked the tag into my dress and patted me on the back (which was bare because I have a low backed dress on)

It happened so fast it literally didn’t realise what was happening right away.

I still don’t understand why she felt it was okay to do that? Maybe because she knew me? But then again she knows me well enough to know my child type one diabetic and vulnerable

Very weird.

As long as you didn't turn round and lick your tag you'll probably be okay "

Ah damn

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho

I hope an elderly person runs over your toes with their scooter "

Working with elderly I've had alot worse than that. Trust me, the belief that all elderly folk are sweet old gran and grandads is a total myth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry no. I agree politness

But how many times do people need to be told

I agree in this case swearing was appropriate. WHY DO PEOPLE BE SO SELFISH SOCIAL DIISTANCE NO EXCUSE

So the woman rude by not following social distance she should banned from shop.

Only excuse if the old lady had dementia

It was a loutish over reaction

No it wasn't so answer questions how many times have people been told to social distance. This protecting lives.

So if it was your family at risk woukd u be polite. "

If someone got a bit too close to me in the supermarket I wouldn't get irrational and think death was imminent

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

You need to read and realise it puts people at risk

Or you happy people put at risk

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Sorry, but even covid isn't an excuse for bad manners or rudeness,a bit of politeness would have been better. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to read and realise it puts people at risk

Or you happy people put at risk "

You need to gain a sense of perspective

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yes

People are dying

And more than normal before you give that lame excuse

So what would you have done

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

What an amusing and educational story xx

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho

I hope an elderly person runs over your toes with their scooter

Working with elderly I've had alot worse than that. Trust me, the belief that all elderly folk are sweet old gran and grandads is a total myth."

That doesn't mean you have to be rude to them especially in a situation like this

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

1more new death is to many?

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

What a nasty thing to say.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yes, she should thank you!!!!

Im sure you would have

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Said

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

I take my elderly mother shopping, she often wanders off looking for items, it’s just an age thing some are suffering from memory loss and tend to forget what’s going on.

I can only imagine it was not intentional,

Shout and abusing an elderly person is just not right.

Was said lady coughing and sneezing all over the place.

I think you could have handled this situation a little bit more diplomatically.

It’s difficult at the best of times to observe the social distancing guidelines in supermarkets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First of all I want to put the record straight the lady in question was about my age and yes I do consider myself old

Another point she was not senile she was tapping away on her smartphone

I totally regret my actions and feel deeply ashamed it was a heat of the moment thing we have most likely all had one in our lifetime

It proves that I am a Pratt that I even thought of posting this on here 2nd regret of the day

Yes I deserve a good kicking so carry on kicking me even though u can’t make me feel worse than I do

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

If read my post I said only exception if someone had dementia

Also elderly at risk so not best for them to put in that position If possible

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Fkydecpl you have nothing to be ashamed of

You were following the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho

I hope an elderly person runs over your toes with their scooter

Working with elderly I've had alot worse than that. Trust me, the belief that all elderly folk are sweet old gran and grandads is a total myth."

Totally! My Nan is in a care home, the stuff I’ve seen in there makes a pub brawl look tame!

I was verbally abused by an elderly lady walking ahead of me to the end of a queue! I’d slowed my pace down, walked behind her at a good distance but she turned on me in the most awful way when we got to the end, thinking i was going to jump the queue. Vile lady and attitude! But I still didn’t yell in her face as that would have made me look a c%#t in front of everyone else and why would I want to do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell. Some people need to get a grip. It’s a virus. Just because someone is close to you doesn’t mean it’s going to leap across like a flea looking for a new host. It also doesn’t have legs to walk around your skin.

Keep washing your hands and not touching your face.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"First of all I want to put the record straight the lady in question was about my age and yes I do consider myself old

Another point she was not senile she was tapping away on her smartphone

I totally regret my actions and feel deeply ashamed it was a heat of the moment thing we have most likely all had one in our lifetime

It proves that I am a Pratt that I even thought of posting this on here 2nd regret of the day

Yes I deserve a good kicking so carry on kicking me even though u can’t make me feel worse than I do"

No you don’t deserve a good kicking this virus and lock down is putting a strain on everyone in different ways at the moment.

Apologies for my response no offence meant,

Stay safe.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Washing hands doesn't stop it if you breath in their breath

It spreads in air

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Love games I do understand its difficult with elderly parents hope your mum doing OK

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sad we have young people deliberately coughing on elderly and emergency workers

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

If my dad was still alive, and he found out, I swore at an old lady,for any reason, I would have expected a beating. A simple "excuse me, will you keep your distance" would probably suffice.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Love games I do understand its difficult with elderly parents hope your mum doing OK "

Thank you, have a wonderful day.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"First of all I want to put the record straight the lady in question was about my age and yes I do consider myself old

Another point she was not senile she was tapping away on her smartphone

I totally regret my actions and feel deeply ashamed it was a heat of the moment thing we have most likely all had one in our lifetime

It proves that I am a Pratt that I even thought of posting this on here 2nd regret of the day

Yes I deserve a good kicking so carry on kicking me even though u can’t make me feel worse than I do"

Fair play for holding your hand up and saying you got it wrong.

You feel crap, a little remorse isn't a bad thing.

Every day we learn something new about ourselves and other people.

Move on. You can't change what happened, just remember it in future. All of life's a lesson.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

You to

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds


"First of all I want to put the record straight the lady in question was about my age and yes I do consider myself old

Another point she was not senile she was tapping away on her smartphone

I totally regret my actions and feel deeply ashamed it was a heat of the moment thing we have most likely all had one in our lifetime

It proves that I am a Pratt that I even thought of posting this on here 2nd regret of the day

Yes I deserve a good kicking so carry on kicking me even though u can’t make me feel worse than I do

Fair play for holding your hand up and saying you got it wrong.

You feel crap, a little remorse isn't a bad thing.

Every day we learn something new about ourselves and other people.

Move on. You can't change what happened, just remember it in future. All of life's a lesson.

"

So it's their e fault lady invaded their social distance may be should have paid aikd for the rude ladies shopping

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Fkydecpl mail me please"

Their profile is hidden for a reason.

Single men are blocked for a reason.

Using a forum thread to get around either is poor form.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The profile is hidden because we are not meeting at the moment and have enough people we are chatting 2

The single Male block is pretty obvious

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"The profile is hidden because we are not meeting at the moment and have enough people we are chatting 2

The single Male block is pretty obvious "

Some of us got that.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer"

Because you come across as a bit deranged?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How about asking her to wait/give you space, politely? Just because we are having to live in this madness, it doesn't mean being rude is justifiable. Being on lockdown and not being able to see your loved ones or your friends is hard enough without others being rude. We are all in it together, why not try and make it a little bit easier on everyone? "

Exactly!

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Working in a supermarket at the moment is very stressful for all the team .Yes we are constantly getting people who just don't get it and we have to be abruptly polite and directional .. 100s of times daily. Ive had people swear at me and generally be rude as i have asked them to follow the lay out . Wait for numbers to drop of customers to a safe level etc

When they pay we ask for card ..

And get a gob full when they refuse and want to pay cash.

Each time i support my team .

The elderly and unwell people we understand .

But the arrogant and selfish and dam right rude get told to behave..

And im seriously considering arriving on next shift as Mistress Tina complete with crop and whip ! Lol

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By *unonly10Man
over a year ago

liverpool

This forum makes me feel better thought i was the only person who had told someone to back the fuck up in the supermarket.sooner people get the social distancing sooner we get out of this mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing

I feel you. I was in the queue for the supermarket and the person in front was walking a bit slow because they had a trolley. No problem. But the fucking whamen behind me seemed determined to walk at her own pace up into my ass. I gave her a death stare that seemed to solve it. "

I would have happily stayed 2M behind you all day and looked at your ass lol

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley


"Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer"

I'm not a politician. Just a bloke who doesn't swear at the elderly for any reason.

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

No need for use of profanities .

Polite firmness and explanation usually wins the day . If i or any of my team are sworn at i tell people you will apologise or leave immediately!

We are Not paid to take abuse !

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Forgot to add unless in the heat of passion then a fucking good fuck is fucking amazing !

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Why do people have to be ignorant and rude ...beyond me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

O.P. Your behaviour wasn't necessary.

You were rude beyond belief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

The other week I queued over 40 minutes to get into Tescos then another 10 minutes to go up one of the one way aisles "all marked out in 2 meter boxes on the floor" because an old lady was taking her time to choose something while in the marked out box in front of me which was no issue at all, only for another person to come up the aisle once I managed to move forward, not queue in the box behind and just walk past me virtually brushing shoulders to get just in front of me.

I didn't swear at her but I let her know I'd waited 10 minutes to get to where I was and the lines on the floor are for social distancing and she'd just come tramming up without a care for anyone else.

It did piss me off but you can make your feelings known without verbally abusing people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This forum makes me feel better thought i was the only person who had told someone to back the fuck up in the supermarket.sooner people get the social distancing sooner we get out of this mess."

Back the fuck up ? Has this taken the place of 'excuse me' or 'can we keep social distance please?'

Like a few people i've witnessed you seem to think that social distancing gives you the right to use show your fear through verbal abuse to others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those of you still kicking me I fully agree with you hence the last post

Like I say totally ashamed of myself not proud at all

All heat of the moment and something I will live to regret

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Previous post added lol

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

When I go to supermarket I wear mask fitted with two carbon filters and an acrylic face shield which are very deterrent.

Other people think that I'm infected and they don't come close to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry can’t seem to attach it so if you want to read my admittance of being a total Pratt you will have to scroll up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"For those of you still kicking me I fully agree with you hence the last post

Like I say totally ashamed of myself not proud at all

All heat of the moment and something I will live to regret

"

Sorry I hadn't seen that. I'll go n peek.

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"For those of you still kicking me I fully agree with you hence the last post

Like I say totally ashamed of myself not proud at all

All heat of the moment and something I will live to regret

"

Unfortunately posting about it sometime later, gloating, wasn't really heat of the moment ?

It just didn't go the way you hoped maybe ?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No was a genuine apology

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"When I go to supermarket I wear mask fitted with two carbon filters and an acrylic face shield which are very deterrent.

Other people think that I'm infected and they don't come close to me "

Yesterday as I reached to a top shelf. Someone stood right next to me and said with a giggle, 'I'm gonna push you out of the way now.' ..... It was a shop assistant who wanted to put a few things on the top of the shelf.

I'll leave it to you all to imagine, or guess, or say what my reaction was.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

Ralph Wiggum tells better stories.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho"

I have nooooo idea why but I laughed so much at the honesty of this statement.

I think we need to respect that elderly people MAY be slower in thought and movement but other than that I prefer the company of people who don't treat the elderly like lost children.

I see it every day and im beginning to have it done to me.

In thought i'm ruder than the O.P. to people who patronise age. In deed I keep my self respect and soldier on ......

I'm still laughing.

Respect PEOPLE per se.... be aware of every need including emotional/mental states which are invisible.

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By *ingo69Man
over a year ago

north staffs ,south cheshire borderr


"Because they have not respected my space and gone against all advise on social distancing "

Perhaps a field full of cows maybe more suitable but that's a nudder story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess we are all about ready to explode into various expletives. I apologise in advance for when I am released from my gilded cage. Honestly I have hardly seen a soul for 6 weeks. I might have forgotten how to behave in another 2 weeks and be like groot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear god. What a time to be alive. "

Quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That moment when you post something on a FAB forum and then immediately realise:

1) it was irrelevant and nobody cares

2) you’ve acted in a manner that goes against everything we teach our children

3) your behaviour was totally regrettable

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

I Hope you feel proud of yourself, for probably shattering that ladies confidence, at a time when what she needed was someone to literally out their arm around her. Have a think about what that means.

Have a great life and try to do something or say something positive for someone today.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Shocking behaviour op.

Could have held up your hand and in a stern voice not shouting asking her to stop and respect social distance and wait for you to finish getting what you want then thank her for being understanding and patience.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I bet he thrives on road rage too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a similar experience but the other way round sort of?

Happily following the arrows making my way up and down the isles, gets to the garden sprays and stops to look for some ant stuff that is pet and wild life friendly they had none, so i went to move on, A lady had appeared in front of me already closer than 2 metres, i took one step forward still in a world of ant sprays and all i heard was a shriek of 2 METERS! I did calmly say you have stood in front of me and i need to go around you. You could of gone back and down the other isle or say excuse me, she replied? I could see she was a bit of a cat lady ( nothing wrong with that the mrs is a bit of a cat lady) so i just walked off and mumbled, why JHC there may of been a F in there too, all i heard in reply was Don't swear ! i didn't think i had?

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over a year ago


"Had a similar experience but the other way round sort of?

Happily following the arrows making my way up and down the isles, gets to the garden sprays and stops to look for some ant stuff that is pet and wild life friendly they had none, so i went to move on, A lady had appeared in front of me already closer than 2 metres, i took one step forward still in a world of ant sprays and all i heard was a shriek of 2 METERS! I did calmly say you have stood in front of me and i need to go around you. You could of gone back and down the other isle or say excuse me, she replied? I could see she was a bit of a cat lady ( nothing wrong with that the mrs is a bit of a cat lady) so i just walked off and mumbled, why JHC there may of been a F in there too, all i heard in reply was Don't swear ! i didn't think i had? "

Don't be insulting when you're telling a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to add unless in the heat of passion then a fucking good fuck is fucking amazing !

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Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shocking behaviour op.

Could have held up your hand and in a stern voice not shouting asking her to stop and respect social distance and wait for you to finish getting what you want then thank her for being understanding and patience.

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This is why I won’t let my Dad go shopping as I’d be worried that this would happen to him , he just wouldn’t “get” the social distancing aspect.

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

eh yeah your well within your wrights 2m 24hour a day 7 days a week dont be embarrassed about what u did

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

People just forget I think, I’ve had it happen to me. I did say something but without the expletives. Some can’t even follow the arrows on the floor of the supermarket.

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"How about asking her to wait/give you space, politely? Just because we are having to live in this madness, it doesn't mean being rude is justifiable. Being on lockdown and not being able to see your loved ones or your friends is hard enough without others being rude. We are all in it together, why not try and make it a little bit easier on everyone? "

heat of moment an wen u see then running towards u u do swear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the last few supportive comments

I am ashamed am a Pratt am old and no doubt ugly to boot xxxxxxx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"That moment when you post something on a FAB forum and then immediately realise:

1) it was irrelevant and nobody cares

2) you’ve acted in a manner that goes against everything we teach our children

3) your behaviour was totally regrettable

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

I Hope you feel proud of yourself, for probably shattering that ladies confidence, at a time when what she needed was someone to literally out their arm around her. Have a think about what that means.

Have a great life and try to do something or say something positive for someone today. "

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

You may want to take that back, they did apologise see above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That moment when you post something on a FAB forum and then immediately realise:

1) it was irrelevant and nobody cares

2) you’ve acted in a manner that goes against everything we teach our children

3) your behaviour was totally regrettable

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

I Hope you feel proud of yourself, for probably shattering that ladies confidence, at a time when what she needed was someone to literally out their arm around her. Have a think about what that means.

Have a great life and try to do something or say something positive for someone today.

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

You may want to take that back, they did apologise see above. "

Thanks for highlighting this to me and great for him, but I actually meant apologise to the lady, not to the forum. Nevertheless consider it withdrawn.

And I probably should I have said “human enough”, rather than “man enough”, so as not to genderise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Believe me if I could apologise to the lady I would but unless I see her again doubt I will ever be able to put that right

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"That moment when you post something on a FAB forum and then immediately realise:

1) it was irrelevant and nobody cares

2) you’ve acted in a manner that goes against everything we teach our children

3) your behaviour was totally regrettable

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

I Hope you feel proud of yourself, for probably shattering that ladies confidence, at a time when what she needed was someone to literally out their arm around her. Have a think about what that means.

Have a great life and try to do something or say something positive for someone today.

4) you’re not man enough to apologise for it

You may want to take that back, they did apologise see above.

Thanks for highlighting this to me and great for him, but I actually meant apologise to the lady, not to the forum. Nevertheless consider it withdrawn.

And I probably should I have said “human enough”, rather than “man enough”, so as not to genderise. "

I think if they’re showing contrition on here, they’re more than likely to apologise to the lady affected by their rudeness as well.

Agree totally with your other points though, about their initial reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't beat yourself up op, things happen.

Complete opposite last week tho. An NHS worker was rushing to get her lunch from Asda last week and came very close to me because I couldn't decide what I wanted, I actually said sorry as it was me holding her up. Noticed everyone let her go to the front of the self scan queue too. Difficult times but we need to carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me if I could apologise to the lady I would but unless I see her again doubt I will ever be able to put that right"

Fair play to you, OP.

These are tough times and we are all doing our best - sometimes we all fall a little short (just ask my children!).

Good day to you and stay safe - keep calm and carry on, as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe me if I could apologise to the lady I would but unless I see her again doubt I will ever be able to put that right"

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford

So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind .

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over a year ago


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind ."

I think the OP realised they were out of line once they had time to reflect on it.

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind .

I think the OP realised they were out of line once they had time to reflect on it."

That makes it ok then does it ?. Seemed quite proud of it in the original post to me .

Hilarious !!!!

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Being both classed as elderly and of late disabled I hopefully understand both sides here? Going back to before this current situation I remember deliberately avoiding the shops pre Xmas due to manic shoppers. The problem is if I get knocked over I'm incapable of getting up unassisted. And for some reason just before Xmas ladies become manic and I was worried about being knocked over by the panzer divisions of overloaded trolleys being driven around like they were invading Poland with no thought for others.

You've no idea how disconcerting this can be until you've been in this situation....

I'm so glad atm that my daughter is doing my shopping for me.

I'd go down and stay there under current circumstances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind .

I think the OP realised they were out of line once they had time to reflect on it.

That makes it ok then does it ?. Seemed quite proud of it in the original post to me .

Hilarious !!!!"

I'm not defending their behaviour. But you may not have read the whole thread is all.

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind .

I think the OP realised they were out of line once they had time to reflect on it.

That makes it ok then does it ?. Seemed quite proud of it in the original post to me .

Hilarious !!!!

I'm not defending their behaviour. But you may not have read the whole thread is all. "

I have read it all thoroughly and yes the guy apologised simply because he got hammered by the majority of posters on here . And quite rightly so .Maybe you didnt read the original post properly.

Bullying or verbally abusing a woman for whatever reason is totally unacceptable and I also agree that the lady in question should have been more considerate but nobody knows her "story" ( read my earlier post)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile is hidden because we are not meeting at the moment and have enough people we are chatting 2

The single Male block is pretty obvious "

Have you blocked old ladies

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Have some respect for the elderly

Some elderly are just horrible bastards tho"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr Take a step back.

Why did you need to share this?

Yes, I guess you felt disturbed, and scared, and angry.

What made you imagine we needed to know about it?"

I don't think the OP was bragging about it as there's nothing to brag about in telling someone to "Fuck off."

I think it more the case that they were having a rant, in time-honoured fashion.

The original misdemeanor is all the more remarkable due to it being an old biddy carrying it out; aside from her being theoretically more at risk than the OP from the COVID the stereotype of old people taking all the time in the world to do things such as shop exists for a reason; it is normally the younger adults amongst us who see a grocery shop as "get in, shop rapid, get out and enjoy our precious free time".

It is possible that she may have been suffering from dementia or at the very least confused by this crazy world of today. It is also possible that she was just an uncaring thoughtless meff.

But whilst that doubt exists I'd certainly refrain from telling her to fuck off as it achieves nothing; if she's confused she won't know what she's being told to fuck off for, if she's just a meff then she's likely to pay it little heed.

What I would be inclined to do is use my trolley as a barrier if possible to repel any impulsive sorts steaming towards me; they can't walk through it! And alert the shop assistants of course, though it seems the OP actually did that.

B

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind ."

Anyone abusing anyone verbally is wrong, regardless of gender.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

By jon2016aFind posts by jon2016a Man

3 days ago

Nottingham.

Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By jon2016aFind posts by jon2016a Man

3 days ago

Nottingham.

Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer"

Can you rephrase the question?

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands


"

By jon2016aFind posts by jon2016a Man

3 days ago

Nottingham.

Fab James I woukd normal agree

But are you all politicians in here

No one answer question

How many times do you need to be told before you agree it selfish a thousand 10 thousand please can someone answer

Can you rephrase the question?"

Was there a question there ?

Another couple of posts and it's full and closed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr "

You will be an old woman one day & maybe you will get shouted at . Manners cost nothing whatever the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was in a big supermarket late tonight

Only about 12 people in there so empty

As I was picking up something a old women came hurting towards me to get something from where I was. Think the whole shop heard me shout f*** off you stupid woman the nearest shop assistant glared at her and the women glared at me daggers gggrrr

You will be an old woman one day & maybe you will get shouted at . Manners cost nothing whatever the situation "

Nearly as old as this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you are the male half of the couple are you ??

This makes it even more cowardly , any man that abuses a woman verbally or otherwise needs to have a long hard look at himself . Despicable bully comes to mind .

I think the OP realised they were out of line once they had time to reflect on it.

That makes it ok then does it ?. Seemed quite proud of it in the original post to me .

Hilarious !!!!

I'm not defending their behaviour. But you may not have read the whole thread is all.

I have read it all thoroughly and yes the guy apologised simply because he got hammered by the majority of posters on here . And quite rightly so .Maybe you didnt read the original post properly.

Bullying or verbally abusing a woman for whatever reason is totally unacceptable and I also agree that the lady in question should have been more considerate but nobody knows her "story" ( read my earlier post)"

Patent nonsense indeed. Sometimes it would be acceptable to verbally abuse someone. If the old lady had covid19 and the op got infected. Would that make you happy? I’m sure the people condemning op”s behaviour would welcome someone invading their personal space in the current situation. Old woman or not. Surely she could of waited a few seconds or asked if they could let her grab something?

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