FabSwingers.com forum: Who are you locked down with?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

My wife supports SEN children in school, so yes a break in their routine can cause problems. Some of the children’s parents ring her and she will often chat to the child. Depends on the age of your children, there are resources available online which may help or phone your school for advice

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife supports SEN children in school, so yes a break in their routine can cause problems. Some of the children’s parents ring her and she will often chat to the child. Depends on the age of your children, there are resources available online which may help or phone your school for advice

Trust me I know it all..I'm.a SEN governor also but living it.is different..especially when you have work, homeschooling and all the normal house chores to do as well as trying to get hold of supplies etc.. I'm drained..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now. "

And how are you feeling?

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve been lucky my Mr has been staying since lockdown- my 4 kiddos have been back and forth between myself and their dad. Really missing friends and my nephew now!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now. "

How are you finding the solitude, Devon? I couldn't imagine being on my own for so long. We're at home together with our 3yo daughter and 17yo son. Son is OK but obviously missing his girlfriend and mates, so he's had ups and downs, but overall he's been great. We're trying to work FT with the 3yo under our feet but managing thus far. We have each other, for which I am very grateful.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now.

And how are you feeling?"

I’m okay thank you. And you? I miss freedom and obviously living near the sea and not being allowed to go for a swim is a little rubbish, especially with lovely weather.

Trying to keep a routine which I find helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve been lucky my Mr has been staying since lockdown- my 4 kiddos have been back and forth between myself and their dad. Really missing friends and my nephew now!"

My ex won't have them because his "partner" is in the high risk group..

Yeah I'm missing friends and even just the school runs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now.

And how are you feeling?

I’m okay thank you. And you? I miss freedom and obviously living near the sea and not being allowed to go for a swim is a little rubbish, especially with lovely weather.

Trying to keep a routine which I find helps. "

Sounds lovely actually.. I'm quite happy in my own company now.. my life is so noisy! Love some peace

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Big hugs, OP.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Can any family help out, even if it is just to give you a break for a few hours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now.

for which I am very grateful. "

Yep I'm jealous lol...sounds like you're doing well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can any family help out, even if it is just to give you a break for a few hours?"

Unfortunately not! I'm pretty much on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sending hugs. Sounds incredibly tough.. and yet you are still going and all is there to remember is that this is just temporary.. and they will soon get the support they need and so will you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me and my 4 daughters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big hugs, OP. "

Thanks! X

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Very grateful to have just moved in with my other half before lockdown kicked in. He's not so grateful to be stuck with my six snakes who he's terrified of!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just me and my 4 daughters "

Wow girls? Kudos to you..

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Locked down by myself in a little farmhouse in the wilds of Cornwall (I take a winter let from September to May for work).

Apart from supermarket journeys haven’t seen another soul for 4+ weeks now.

As I say. I’m okay. I lived and worked overseas on my own for 15 years in some very challenging environments so being under curfew isn’t a great hardship. I miss having friends over for a meal/drink but routine helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very grateful to have just moved in with my other half before lockdown kicked in. He's not so grateful to be stuck with my six snakes who he's terrified of!"

Oh hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cat.

Worse than any woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The cat.

Worse than any woman"

God yes...

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"

I feel this my son has regressed so much in this short space of time & his attachment issues are so high it’s hard to even have a shower alone now.

It’s great being with him but your so right, going to the park, shops visit family seeing friends, these simple things help us get through usually. Xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My mum, my two children (10 and 8) the youngest has ASD and he’s loving being home if i’m honest, and my pooch - who is also loving us all being home.

My mum is still working (in care industry) so three out of five days she is out of the house a bit.

I’m just grateful we have a garden and that the weather has been good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my partner and two kids both young plus mrs is still working missing my older kids who we havent seen since this started just video calls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X

I feel this my son has regressed so much in this short space of time & his attachment issues are so high it’s hard to even have a shower alone now.

It’s great being with him but your so right, going to the park, shops visit family seeing friends, these simple things help us get through usually. Xx"

Yes!!! I love the time together but at the same time its exhausting!! My youngest literally doesn't stop moving.. he's trashing the place behind me.. arghh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum, my two children (10 and 8) the youngest has ASD and he’s loving being home if i’m honest, and my pooch - who is also loving us all being home.

My mum is still working (in care industry) so three out of five days she is out of the house a bit.

I’m just grateful we have a garden and that the weather has been good.

Yeah my sons love being home..but just want to be on their ipads all the time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my partner and two kids both young plus mrs is still working missing my older kids who we havent seen since this started just video calls

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Can any family help out, even if it is just to give you a break for a few hours?

Unfortunately not! I'm pretty much on my own"

Keep strong, if my could help; she would!

Hugs to you and your children

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just me and my 2 kids. Have good and bad days. It can be mentally draining been a lone parent which I’m used to. It’s just the 24/7 worry and trying to keep them entertained. Definitely missing friends and adult company x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just me and my 2 kids. Have good and bad days. It can be mentally draining been a lone parent which I’m used to. It’s just the 24/7 worry and trying to keep them entertained. Definitely missing friends and adult company x"

I hear ya girl x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can any family help out, even if it is just to give you a break for a few hours?

Unfortunately not! I'm pretty much on my own

Keep strong, if my could help; she would!

Hugs to you and your children

Thanks muchly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just me and my 4 daughters

Wow girls? Kudos to you.."
they are spending the odd day with there mum so I am getting a little down time but it's hard keeping them amused

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am in lockdown with a my 27yr old son,a golden retriever and a cockapoo. We are managing ok and i am still working which means i see others. I am luckier than most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just me and my 4 daughters

Wow girls? Kudos to you..they are spending the odd day with there mum so I am getting a little down time but it's hard keeping them amused "

I bet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am in lockdown with a my 27yr old son,a golden retriever and a cockapoo. We are managing ok and i am still working which means i see others. I am luckier than most."

Its hard for everyone.. well done for still working hard x

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Just myself and my 19 year old at home, he has ADHD and Aspergers along with other mental and learning difficulties. He has been OK but he is struggling as you say it's the routine. He is so use to his 3 days at college and 3 days of going to his mma gym. He has set up a little workout area in the communal garden and only goes out there when no one else is there, he is also going out running every few days. Most of the time he is locked away in his bedroom on xbox. I'm am just keeping an eye on him and will use MST to manage any triggers or behaviour changes.

But mostly feel like I am at home alone as he just likes to keep to himself.

Hope you manage to find a temporary routine fix xx

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

In lockdown with my wife, which is OK as we’ve been retired for 7 years, so spend lots of time together anyway. That said, what we miss is contact with grandchildren as we have helped out a lot and have them stay over quite often. At such young ages, they can’t understand why they can’t come and visit. We’ve even offered to swap,houses with one of our children, so his kids can have more space and a large garden to run around in, but they aren’t keen. FaceTime with them isn’t the same as real contact.

As for sex, well that’s another matter entirely. But not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just myself and my 19 year old at home, he has ADHD and Aspergers along with other mental and learning difficulties. He has been OK but he is struggling as you say it's the routine. He is so use to his 3 days at college and 3 days of going to his mma gym. He has set up a little workout area in the communal garden and only goes out there when no one else is there, he is also going out running every few days. Most of the time he is locked away in his bedroom on xbox. I'm am just keeping an eye on him and will use MST to manage any triggers or behaviour changes.

But mostly feel like I am at home alone as he just likes to keep to himself.

Hope you manage to find a temporary routine fix xx"

My sons are 11 and 8 so they're still lacking the school routine..

But yes they're always staring at a screen if I don't entertain them which is exhausting because they dont play like other kids..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

We are doing ok at the moment but with an extra 3 weeks added on, which we all were prepared for, I think boredom might kick in. Mine are 19, 16 & 14. They are sleeping a lot but just really want to see their friends especially my daughter (youngest one).

I'm so glad they don't need too much help with school work and just get on with it most times. We told them they need a daily routine which included a bit of school work, exercise and going out once a day for a walk or bike ride. We are lucky that we have a big garden.

Keep telling yourself it's temporary! Hugs to all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are doing ok at the moment but with an extra 3 weeks added on, which we all were prepared for, I think boredom might kick in. Mine are 19, 16 & 14. They are sleeping a lot but just really want to see their friends especially my daughter (youngest one).

Keep telling yourself it's temporary! Hugs to all

that's all that's getting me through, and wine.. lol

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X

I feel this my son has regressed so much in this short space of time & his attachment issues are so high it’s hard to even have a shower alone now.

It’s great being with him but your so right, going to the park, shops visit family seeing friends, these simple things help us get through usually. Xx

Yes!!! I love the time together but at the same time its exhausting!! My youngest literally doesn't stop moving.. he's trashing the place behind me.. arghh"

OMG yes all the time is too much time haha x

Trash days are good, all toys out everywhere & anywhere. I allow it once in a while then a big clean up, gives me sumthing to do xx

Stay sane & safe hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the only human at home, but I have the 6 cats to keep me from sanity

They are Umaam and Nkosi, Chaka, Babiaan, Taita and Dave. They're all behaving themselves (as much as cats do) but Dave keeps getting into fights with the local wildlife - she took on a raccoon the other week and I had to stitch her up and make her wear a lampshade. She's recovering well, but keen to get out again.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm the only human at home, but I have the 6 cats to keep me from sanity

You had to stitch her up??

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I live alone in a top floor flat that has a courtyard, there's 3 separate blocks. Sometimes we go outside and have a chinwag, but generally we just yell at each other out of the window

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Myself and my two dachshunds.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

That is tough OP. Kids need routine, esp with special needs

I am here with my 10 and 11 yr old kids. They cant go to their dad as I had breast cancer in 2017 and therefore high risk. Their dad isnt happy with me AT ALL over it and completely fails to see the big picture or support me.

MrD came over to me a few days ago as he had been self isolating and hasnt even seen his own kids in over a month now. Good to have his company and bedroom shenanigans

MsD

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

My 2 daughters (5&7)

3 bull dogs

2 cats

And my boyfriend who works around the clock

It’s not been too bad really. I’m very fortunate to have a reasonable garden.

Hugs to you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh, bless you.

I dont have kids but have mates in a similar position. So totally understand.

Having a routine for yourself and the children is very helpful.

Take care and be strong. We should be out of this soonish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me and my 7 year old daughter. It’s getting harder by the hour to be honest. We went into lockdown 2 weeks before everyone else as I had symptoms. Today is a hard day as it’s raining here so can’t even get out. Sending you lots of hugs OP I’ve worked with learning disabilities for 12 years so know it is an extra hard time for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents. One 71 the other 68. Loosing the plot a little but I’m glad I’m there as I’m doing the shopping for them and making sure they don’t just go out. They think they know better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww bless. It's hard when you dont have that adult chat and banter.. as much as you love your kids it doesn't give you the level of conversation you get from someone on the same level

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm at home with my husband, stepson and his girlfriend.

However, they are all going out to work so I get plenty of peace and quiet working from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cat haha

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

hubs and 4 daughters. already had drama because we had to obviously cancel the little ones unicorn birthday party and we have the last ones 2nd birthday next week. they are getting bored now and the fighting between them all has increased. loads of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the do dog and then kids Friday till monday so best of both worlds but missing friends and family like crazy

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm at home with my husband, stepson and his girlfriend.

However, they are all going out to work so I get plenty of peace and quiet working from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky and grateful to have eachother to get through this. Don't suffer alone sure there are heaps of people going through what you are and plenty that would be happy to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all on my own... Family are 300 miles away.... Hate facetime. Right now

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Me and my pussy cat Dylan

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"My parents. One 71 the other 68. Loosing the plot a little but I’m glad I’m there as I’m doing the shopping for them and making sure they don’t just go out. They think they know better.

My dad is 80 and informed me this morning that he was coming to visit at the weekend. Obviously I've told him not to, but I can't stop him turning up!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Skyward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, myself and I.

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Me and my wife so all good here apart from the social aspect.

Lockdown puts a strain on us all but pulling through x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and me only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"

Oh my word, that sounds tough. A friend of ours runs a special needs for adults service and he was telling us how changing routines and being denied things previously available is causing great upset. No wonder you miss work.

We are at home together, “shielding”, so no trips out anywhere at all. It’s way weird.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"My parents. One 71 the other 68. Loosing the plot a little but I’m glad I’m there as I’m doing the shopping for them and making sure they don’t just go out. They think they know better.

My dad is 80 and informed me this morning that he was coming to visit at the weekend. Obviously I've told him not to, but I can't stop him turning up!

Contact the police in your dads area and tell them to stop him

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my wife so all good here apart from the social aspect.

Lockdown puts a strain on us all but pulling through x "

I would be begging for it to never end

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Sorry to hear about your struggles I'm stuck on my own well me and the dog

Have family and friends who keep InTouch

If you're ever bored and looking just for general chit chat give a message big air hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"

Luckily we have each other and our kids...hang in there girl, you’re all safe and sound and there are plenty of us to reach out to of you need a rant or a chat x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"My parents. One 71 the other 68. Loosing the plot a little but I’m glad I’m there as I’m doing the shopping for them and making sure they don’t just go out. They think they know better.

My dad is 80 and informed me this morning that he was coming to visit at the weekend. Obviously I've told him not to, but I can't stop him turning up!

Contact the police in your dads area and tell them to stop him

You’re welcome

He already got stopped and questioned once on his way to fecking Tesco. I've tried to set up online delivery but a) no new customers being accepted and b) he refuses. I don't know what he needs, he won't let me set it up in his name, his account etc so insists on going to Tesco twice a week ffs.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Well, there's me and then my shadow. My dog has gone over rainbow bridge. I see my kids on video chat.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"My parents. One 71 the other 68. Loosing the plot a little but I’m glad I’m there as I’m doing the shopping for them and making sure they don’t just go out. They think they know better.

My dad is 80 and informed me this morning that he was coming to visit at the weekend. Obviously I've told him not to, but I can't stop him turning up!

Contact the police in your dads area and tell them to stop him

You’re welcome

Crikey... sounds difficult

My parents - very easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner who I had split from.I moved back in with him from Germany due to him having health issues and him needing help.

I might still kill him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the only human at home, but I have the 6 cats to keep me from sanity

You had to stitch her up??

Yes, it was quite a big wound but cats heal amazingly fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby and two teenage boys one who should be doing his GCSE'S and the other who has ASD and ADHD and I'm struggling to get to do his school work xx

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Hubby and our dog. Luckily we're happy being together 24/7 although the restrictions are tougher now the weather is improving. I'm working from home so lots of video conference meetings.

Big hugs to those of you who are struggling xx

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone. But I still go to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on my own since this all started, I live in a flat which is depressing.. so I'm struggling.. I put a court order in to see my little girls but that's been delayed also..

It will all be over soon and we will all be better for it, might make us appreciate the little things more... stay strong OP your doing a good job

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"

I’m with my son and daughter. Son has autism. Meltdowns each day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"
I'm on my own in a strange place and the only person ive spoken to in person at length for weeks sadly died yesterday and not corona related but I'm ok, i very much sympathise with your situation though

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Here all on my own and ha e been for over a month now.

Yeah, it's not great being so isolated, but there's nothing I can do about it other than accept it for what it is and get on with stuff.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Im alone.. Anyone can message me its good to chat.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

All by myseeeeellllllffff (typed whilst singing) haha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"

My daughter is in a similar position. She recently separated from her partner and is stuck at home with two young children, the eldest 4, has special needs.

Her ex was helping but is in the vulnerable group and is in isolation alone.

I keep in touch with skype and my other son in law does her shopping and leaves it outside.

It's just been me and my partner. We haven't wanted to kill each other yet but I miss seeing friends and family and the routine of work. I'm getting 100% of my salary so I'm sure I can survive this temporary restriction.

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By *.pjm101Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm in Northampton.. Locked down with my 2 distinctly unsexy lodgers... But even they are starting to look attractive now... ??

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Me . Myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody.

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By *arfarawayWoman
over a year ago

peterborough

Just me

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Just myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in lockdown with my awesome man.

I'm really not coping with the lockdown but he's so awesome and patient with me.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I'm in lockdown with my partner, my 2 step sons, 29 and 18 both with ASD and our crazy dog. Janine is a key worker so still working 3 nights a week. I am working from home. It's not been too bad overall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my myself and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me Myself & I

I’ve never been so bored and fed up in all my life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me Myself & I

I’ve never been so bored and fed up in all my life lol "
see its all location location location oh i do like to be beside the seaside

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Bored as fuck

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By *umbetMan
over a year ago

grimsby

on my own was ok to start with as managed to keep busy but now shopping once a week at least get some conversation while waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So since this lockdown..I've been home with my 2 sons who have special needs. I haven't seen another adult and I'm slightly going mad.. this is bloody hard work.

I'd prefer being at work to be honest.. normally it's fine.. I can socialise, meet people, take them out etc.. but this is just arghhhh..

They're both regressing as they're out of routine and if I'm on here alot it's just because I want someone to talk to at the moment..

Anyway anyone else struggling or are you all lucky to have support? X"
. Me and my mate he’s a key worker and his big dick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have my wife our daughter a Beagle and a cat for company so luckily not feeling lonely. Feel for all those on their own. Saddest thing for us our elder daughter is pregnant with our first grandchild and we haven’t seen here in a month now she’s feeling very emotional and missing us all a lot.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It’s just me and the dog here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my two girls for half the week but that’s all. At least it gives me something to pick up off the floor. #floordrobes

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

Me and kids 17 and 14

Out to work most days as key worker, but I'll be glad when this is over as missing some adult contact

Rob

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By *ustKeepSwinging999Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

We're both solo

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

Alone and nothing new to me

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale

I live with my demonic, unstable and totally irrational friend. It’s utter hell! Every waking hour we bitch and fight over the state of the lockdown, the government, mainstream media, social media and the economy. More recently we are tearing each other to pieces with the credibility of being isolated at all and I truly fear the darkest thoughts will take over and lead to us seriously harming each other, if not worse .......

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Just the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with my son who is doing all the shopping.paying the bills and picking up my blood pressure medication every month.i have a pregnant daughter,and three granddaughters who live just down from me,but i havent seen them since lockdown luckily her partner is there to look after them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Have my wife our daughter a Beagle and a cat for company so luckily not feeling lonely. Feel for all those on their own. Saddest thing for us our elder daughter is pregnant with our first grandchild and we haven’t seen here in a month now she’s feeling very emotional and missing us all a lot. "

My youngest and her husband had the virus, but being in their 20s it wasn't severe. They live 10 minutes away and not being able to see them has been hard.

I took family and friends for granted before this. Not being able to see those closest to you has been really hard going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My child.

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