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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now"

Have you tried meditation?

Being able to 'take yourself away' can help in such times..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused"

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now"

If I send you the key...will it help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought "

I’ve got a few meditation and story apps I use now and again but mainly for sleep, have a look at those !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now

Have you tried meditation?

Being able to 'take yourself away' can help in such times.. "

yes i have an audio meditation cd that i have been using a lot but iv over used it when i first listened to it it was really good but not so good now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now

If I send you the key...will it help "

haha thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought

I’ve got a few meditation and story apps I use now and again but mainly for sleep, have a look at those ! "

hi what are the story apps please where do you get them

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought "

So you have no land to work on? I don't like gardening but it is therapeutic.

Are you able to volunteer?

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

There was a spelling error so I deleted my first post!

YouTube has a lot of meditations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought

So you have no land to work on? I don't like gardening but it is therapeutic.

Are you able to volunteer? "

i have no garden where i am as im in the yard of the company i worked for with the limousines

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must say I've struggled as I'm not really one to sit around too much.

What I've done is household jobs, one every couple or 3 days. Just little jobs that have been put off due to life. But, I've found it really helps to keep me focused

i live in a campervan so limited on what i can do lol have repainted it all thought

So you have no land to work on? I don't like gardening but it is therapeutic.

Are you able to volunteer? "

i was a little slow on the volunteering they have everyone they need worse thing with been in a city

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There was a spelling error so I deleted my first post!

YouTube has a lot of meditations "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is struggling, spare a thought for cancer patients. A recommended three month lockdown and having life saving chemo suspended...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is struggling, spare a thought for cancer patients. A recommended three month lockdown and having life saving chemo suspended... "

My Dad has stage 4 terminal prostrate cancer he's already had a year longer than expected. All his treatment has been suspended as him going into a hospital is a far greater risk, his consultant said covid19 would finish him off.

He has also been told as he as oxygen at home if his health declines further he will be better off staying at home for the end as he wouldn't get a ventilator / oxygen treatment at hospital anyway and at least my mum can be with him at home to hold his hand. I'm a key worker as as much as I'm desperate to see him for what could be the final time I know I can't.

KJ x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now"
I'm struggling too despite trying to keep busy... I was hoping even though I knew it was unlikely that next week I'd be able to go see friends... and knowing it's unlikely to even be this month.. now I'm really finding it getting to me.

Also I'm now struggling to keep my addiction in check too. Ive taken to having a big glass of wine each evening to prevent me nipping out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If anyone is struggling, spare a thought for cancer patients. A recommended three month lockdown and having life saving chemo suspended... "

my mate is terminally ill with cancer and hasnt got long left but can't go see him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"struggling today all the things that were keeping me entertained have got boring but most alarming of all even the porn sites arent helping relieve the boredom i reall cant cope now I'm struggling too despite trying to keep busy... I was hoping even though I knew it was unlikely that next week I'd be able to go see friends... and knowing it's unlikely to even be this month.. now I'm really finding it getting to me.

Also I'm now struggling to keep my addiction in check too. Ive taken to having a big glass of wine each evening to prevent me nipping out x "

i think thats what has made me worse the prospect of it going on longer

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity


"If anyone is struggling, spare a thought for cancer patients. A recommended three month lockdown and having life saving chemo suspended...

my mate is terminally ill with cancer and hasnt got long left but can't go see him "

Can you contact him via video link to talk to him. I know it’s not the same , but it’s something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If anyone is struggling, spare a thought for cancer patients. A recommended three month lockdown and having life saving chemo suspended...

my mate is terminally ill with cancer and hasnt got long left but can't go see him

Can you contact him via video link to talk to him. I know it’s not the same , but it’s something. "

no i cant he doesnt even have smart phone he has old type nokia but its never on its really upsetting he was a really big bloke and the last time i saw him he was like a needle so god knows what hes like now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are allowed & should go out for a walk/exercise/shop. Hear of so many afraid to go out.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I had a week like that and posted on twitter and loads reached out and ended up doing a good 5km time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a week like that and posted on twitter and loads reached out and ended up doing a good 5km time "

Great! Must have felt good. I do worry about those cooped up going spare. You are allowed to go out and sensibily self isolate at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on a ap called Twitch all day listening to live DJ sets, currently spoony is doing a set it’s been awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been on a ap called Twitch all day listening to live DJ sets, currently spoony is doing a set it’s been awesome. "

that sounds good i did go raving when i was younger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are allowed & should go out for a walk/exercise/shop. Hear of so many afraid to go out. "

yeah i do walk to the shop and back and thats up an hill so im knackered when i get back my health has gone down hill pretty quick

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm enjoying the time for the qualities that it has, to be more relaxed, to take things at a healthy pace, much more than I'm using it to find entertainment. It's better to be appreciative of what I have and the quality of the time I'm experiencing.

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