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By *ertslady84 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Why do people still do it! Sorry in a grumpy mood today as have heard of so many people ignoring the lockdown rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think with the wrong head. We report and block them because god knows what else they would chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people still do it! Sorry in a grumpy mood today as have heard of so many people ignoring the lockdown rules "

Suppose they think "the odd meet won't do ant harm"

Im seing a lot less on the beach and cliff tops here., so good news that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had two couples asking to meet tonight.

Should be ashamed of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x"

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Report those asking to meet at this time please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report those asking to meet at this time please "

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight. "

Shocking.. I'd report n block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reported a couple who asked to meet and said they have had a few meets this week. They are still on here and sounds like they are still meeting!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight. "

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets.

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By *aulo9424Man
over a year ago

hull

My daughter is a front line nurse i worry constantlyfor her and all other nurses doctors throughout the UK and i have seen meets posted more worringly parks full down South. Hull has the lowest rate in the country but we arent getting complacent

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd be interested to know what is happening to the people that are still sending messages asking to meet. I reported one earlier, and fab did the auto block between us, but they're still on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets."

If your referring to me, one couple live locally. And the other I’ve met before a while ago.

I work for the NHS as well.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets.

If your referring to me, one couple live locally. And the other I’ve met before a while ago.

I work for the NHS as well. "

That’s good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I'd be interested to know what is happening to the people that are still sending messages asking to meet. I reported one earlier, and fab did the auto block between us, but they're still on here. "

Ah! Wondered what that block was and also noticed he's still on here also. We copied and pasted the message into the report so no idea what happens process wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets.

If your referring to me, one couple live locally. And the other I’ve met before a while ago.

I work for the NHS as well.

That’s good.

"

I do have veris but I don’t display them.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"We reported a couple who asked to meet and said they have had a few meets this week. They are still on here and sounds like they are still meeting!!"

Same i reported 4 men yesterday and they still active... People who went in mass for a jolly today and people wanting to meet this weekend should be fined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still getting requests for meets, no happening x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'd be interested to know what is happening to the people that are still sending messages asking to meet. I reported one earlier, and fab did the auto block between us, but they're still on here.

Ah! Wondered what that block was and also noticed he's still on here also. We copied and pasted the message into the report so no idea what happens process wise. "

If you report somebody under certain categories, fab blocks you from each other I guess to prevent any issues, but I'd like to know are they getting a warning or something? Otherwise it's pointless. They can keep messaging other people, and I could have just blocked them myself.

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just got one. A couple asking to meet me tonight! Fuming.

Told them was irresponsible and a disgrace they were looking to meet against government advice when thousands of people are dying.

Message I received back was ok keep in touch maybe meet another time.....

Eh no absolutely not. Reported and blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets.

If your referring to me, one couple live locally. And the other I’ve met before a while ago.

I work for the NHS as well.

That’s good.

I do have veris but I don’t display them. "

I agree with you.. Your not trip advisor..

Or argos review... Lol.

NHS worker too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be interested to know what is happening to the people that are still sending messages asking to meet. I reported one earlier, and fab did the auto block between us, but they're still on here. "

I get them daily and notice they're still on the site I even had someone yesterday offering to pay to meet me Likeee.. Are people really missing the point at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must have had 8 to 10 asking once over must meet up..

My replies are getting less polite.

No... once over family/relatives/friends time priority.... Sadly my life revolves around me not them.. Grr I'm ranting with you... Sorry op

Hope your evening was more relaxed x

The people who messaged me wanted to meet tonight.

For interest, how does someone with no verifications suddenly get people desperate for meets.

If your referring to me, one couple live locally. And the other I’ve met before a while ago.

I work for the NHS as well.

That’s good.

I do have veris but I don’t display them.

I agree with you.. Your not trip advisor..

Or argos review... Lol.

NHS worker too x

"

I don’t display them because I was seeing a woman I met on here. Now she is stalking me lol. She views my profile around 5-10 times a day. I haven’t blocked her because I like the thought of her getting wound up. And if I blocked her she would probably calm down and forget about everything X

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I’ve reported several guys asking to meet. Two have been kicked off the site. But disappointed that others haven’t. Fab know they are trying to meet and will given the chance, so why not just boot them? Makes no sense that two have been and two haven’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had one asking me to meet , reported let’s see if he gets booted off this site , how many people died today due to covid 19 yet they still want to meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had 5 offers today alone to meet and break the lockdown. People need to take this shit serious

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’ve reported several guys asking to meet. Two have been kicked off the site. But disappointed that others haven’t. Fab know they are trying to meet and will given the chance, so why not just boot them? Makes no sense that two have been and two haven’t. "

I'm thinking the ones not kicked off yet have stopped asking and possibly changed their ways. Guessing there's a system in place that kicks off those who prove persistent, too many strikes for example. Question is how many reports deems them persistent, how many strikes? That's my two pennies on how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve reported several guys asking to meet. Two have been kicked off the site. But disappointed that others haven’t. Fab know they are trying to meet and will given the chance, so why not just boot them? Makes no sense that two have been and two haven’t.

I'm thinking the ones not kicked off yet have stopped asking and possibly changed their ways. Guessing there's a system in place that kicks off those who prove persistent, too many strikes for example. Question is how many reports deems them persistent, how many strikes? That's my two pennies on how it works."

There should be zero tolerance for this behaviour. Example; I work in a hospital. I arrange a meet and catch the virus. I go into work and start infecting the Doctors and nurses.

Some people are incredibly selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who still consider meeting during this horrific time should seriously need to re-evaluate their life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how long people will wait till they say sod it I'm meeting now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how long people will wait till they say sod it I'm meeting now?"

Maybe when someone invents full body condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully those that are get banned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully those that are get banned!"
think after 8 to 10 weeks of sitting in some may say enough now. Just saying because we could be like this for the next 20 weeks .

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I’ve reported several guys asking to meet. Two have been kicked off the site. But disappointed that others haven’t. Fab know they are trying to meet and will given the chance, so why not just boot them? Makes no sense that two have been and two haven’t.

I'm thinking the ones not kicked off yet have stopped asking and possibly changed their ways. Guessing there's a system in place that kicks off those who prove persistent, too many strikes for example. Question is how many reports deems them persistent, how many strikes? That's my two pennies on how it works.

There should be zero tolerance for this behaviour. Example; I work in a hospital. I arrange a meet and catch the virus. I go into work and start infecting the Doctors and nurses.

Some people are incredibly selfish. "

Preaching to the converted.

Like you we're zero tolerance on this, just looking at it from an admin point of view:

Report recieved, you cannot see the said message so you auto close the account but what if that was a false report but your policy is to ban regardless. A good move? Way to avoid that is to see if there is a pattern in the reporting of profiles. If they're asking one chances are they'll be asking others which should see a pattern in profiles being reported. Then you ban em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve reported several guys asking to meet. Two have been kicked off the site. But disappointed that others haven’t. Fab know they are trying to meet and will given the chance, so why not just boot them? Makes no sense that two have been and two haven’t.

I'm thinking the ones not kicked off yet have stopped asking and possibly changed their ways. Guessing there's a system in place that kicks off those who prove persistent, too many strikes for example. Question is how many reports deems them persistent, how many strikes? That's my two pennies on how it works.

There should be zero tolerance for this behaviour. Example; I work in a hospital. I arrange a meet and catch the virus. I go into work and start infecting the Doctors and nurses.

Some people are incredibly selfish.

Preaching to the converted.

Like you we're zero tolerance on this, just looking at it from an admin point of view:

Report recieved, you cannot see the said message so you auto close the account but what if that was a false report but your policy is to ban regardless. A good move? Way to avoid that is to see if there is a pattern in the reporting of profiles. If they're asking one chances are they'll be asking others which should see a pattern in profiles being reported. Then you ban em."

Makes sense. If people were banned straight away, you could report someone for a petty reason. There would be no one left on fab lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have to ban anyone just block them.

I'm not happy with people reporting on here or to the police, that's how a lot of dictatorship states started up. I know it not going to happen here but it still turning people on each other, and we will have to live with each other after this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had two couples asking to meet tonight.

Should be ashamed of themselves. "

And your calling yourself fruitloop... think it might be those couples that are fruitloopy ...

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Probably the same people who are going out in groups and disregarding the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had two couples asking to meet tonight.

Should be ashamed of themselves.

And your calling yourself fruitloop... think it might be those couples that are fruitloopy ... "

Ok. I’ll have to think about that. I never considered a name could be a reflection of someone’s personality. So you base your opinions of people by their username?

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Why do people still do it! Sorry in a grumpy mood today as have heard of so many people ignoring the lockdown rules "

Alas some guys are just not capable of thinking with the brain in their head? This post doesn't surprise me but more saddens? Unfortunately it shows what idiots some guys are and they wonder why they can't get a meet?

Sad b×##%*+@s?

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