FabSwingers.com forum: How are you all coping mentally with the isolation?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

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By *assy211279Woman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere Cornwall

I don't cope at all and I have dogs ,cats birds and loads to feed, clean up after and get exercised. I am on 6 acres and have a lot to fit in. I Also care for my parents. I hate all this. I need to see people discuss things and find solutions. I don't have time to do anything like you to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't cope at all and I have dogs ,cats birds and loads to feed, clean up after and get exercised. I am on 6 acres and have a lot to fit in. I Also care for my parents. I hate all this. I need to see people discuss things and find solutions. I don't have time to do anything like you to help "
I see and yes, you seem to have lots to do as well with the 6 acres there.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Going slightly mad but many say I am mad anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert."

There's always a smart ass! And I must say your's is a particularly smart ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert."

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing very well.

We are seeing very high demand in the weapons sector.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I'm doing fucking fine for God's sake!

Jesus why the fuck does every one keep asking me that?

grrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always kept to ourselves anyway so it's been no difference from that respect other than not being able to go out, we at least had the choice before.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coping very well with isolation in fact I'm loving it, it's the 13 hour night shifts on the front line thats scary so if your at home feeling bored just be thankful. I'm sure there's lots of people on here in the same situation we all just put our game face on and do our best. Lot of chatter in the news about people playing God the only people playing God are the idiots still trying to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)"

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By *eddy and legsCouple
over a year ago

the wetlands

"I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

Zuerst musst du selbst Englisch lernen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)

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Das ist gut. Ich verstehe ein bisschen.

Der Kopf

Der Arm

Das Bein

Die Hand

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)"

There's no kangaroos in Austria? What about the availability of Wiener Schnitzel in Melbourne?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Riding the waves. Sometimes I feel resilient and sometimes stretched and sore.

I find being alone hard. I'm separated from lovers and unsure when I'll see them, which feels very hard.

I'm lucky in the way that my kids dad lives very nearby and we can still share care of our children.

I'm grateful for my garden.

My dad may have to have major surgery next week which is very worrying. We won't be able to see him.

My heart aches for those who are suffering greatly because of this.

My friend lives in Delhi and you have no idea of the plight of those homeless street children and poor families who need to search for food but risk being clubbed by police.

Mostly, here, our privileged existence means we will be just fine, we have to dig deep that's all.

Mental health is an issue for our vulnerable and for some, separation is heart breaking.. my elderly neighbour who can no longer visit his wife of 65 years in the nursing home. She will most likely die soon. So sad.

I'm volunteering in the community to help out. And to give my self some purpose as all my work has been cancelled!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)

There's no kangaroos in Austria? What about the availability of Wiener Schnitzel in Melbourne?"

You can buy T-shirts in Germany with "no kangaroos in Austria" superimposed on an Australian "watch for kangaroos" road sign. Apparently made for American tourists who didn't know and mostly bought by Australians.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert.

ein wenig. Ich bin halb Österreicher

Es gibt keine Kängurus in Österreich

(I think that's the plural. Lol)

There's no kangaroos in Austria? What about the availability of Wiener Schnitzel in Melbourne?

Err... Austria. Fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good easy to follow advice and stay inside and help the nhs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been up and down , started of really positive, then hit really down and am finding it hard , I’m at work , which is a pain to be honest, I just want human company and freedom , getting out every day for a walk but even that Is boring , and I need my hair cutting , which is getting me down

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah, this is taking a psychological toll on me. I'm heavily focused on self care and pulling myself out of the pit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a little up and down. Had a bit of a wobble weds night. But coping OK since then.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

We have each other to keep company, we have our moments were we have a little tantrum and through our rattle out of the pram. But generally we are enjoying the experience. In a few months time we will look back on this event and hopefully remember all the positive aspects of our confinement.

I feel empathy for those of you that are confined on your own and socially isolating.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

I cried last night and I can't even say why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

I cried last night and I can't even say why.

We're going through a global trauma. It's psychologically challenging. Be kind to yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

I cried last night and I can't even say why.

We're going through a global trauma. It's psychologically challenging. Be kind to yourself xx"
That is right and we are all in together on this one too x.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m doing alright. Exercising as much as I can at home. Very busy with work and I feel a little nervous professionally over the fact we have not peaked yet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Loving it cos i am a loner. I have my dogs for company and my days off are mine. Usually i spend a day off with my mum who lives 20miles away and another day off out with my daughter. Although i miss them both having some time alone without clock watching is pretty perfect and gives me time to recharge my batteries before going back to my nightshift job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t need to have worked 12 12hour shifts in the last 2 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep expecting to wake up from this crazy dream.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"I keep expecting to wake up from this crazy dream."

My favourite time of the day is the half awake/asleep part before I remember its all very real. I'm travelling a lot in my dreams, been in New York, Chicago and Berlin recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am doing fine, the key is to keep busy and to both exercise the mind and the body. I am reading, drawing, learning myself german and training at home to mention few things that I do

I hate to break it to you but watching loads of porn does not count as teaching yourself German

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over a year ago

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By *eavy-Metal-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both of us are trying to keep active with painting, doing crafts and specially in my case gaming. Got all my consoles connected and being completing some old games I haven't played in years. Also both of us have been listening and watching a few podcasts on subjects we both interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing gta online as finished main game three ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a nightmare really, in the house with two young children the youngest of which has additional needs, so can’t do any home learning with the older one as she’s still young enough to need help and encouragement

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Riding the waves. Sometimes I feel resilient and sometimes stretched and sore.

I find being alone hard. I'm separated from lovers and unsure when I'll see them, which feels very hard.

I'm lucky in the way that my kids dad lives very nearby and we can still share care of our children.

I'm grateful for my garden.

My dad may have to have major surgery next week which is very worrying. We won't be able to see him.

My heart aches for those who are suffering greatly because of this.

My friend lives in Delhi and you have no idea of the plight of those homeless street children and poor families who need to search for food but risk being clubbed by police.

Mostly, here, our privileged existence means we will be just fine, we have to dig deep that's all.

I'm volunteering in the community to help out. And to give my self some purpose as all my work has been cancelled!

Big big hugs to you, Freya from us both.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm coping fine but I'm not implying that other people should be too, it's devastatingly hard for loads of people.

I do worry about our children and my parents though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm coping fine but I'm not implying that other people should be too, it's devastatingly hard for loads of people.

I do worry about our children and my parents though.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning I remembered my colouring books and pencils for mindfulness. Definitely helps to settle the mind. I have drawn a rainbow and thank you note for the bin men tomorrow.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm still.following my usual routine with the exception of not travelling to the office as I've been working remotely for the last three weeks.

Dinner and coffee breaks remain the same and I cook myself a meal in the evenings and do the normal household chores.

Only real difference is that the most I've had to wear is a T shirt for a video conference call.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Fine I’m still out working continuing Pilates classes on line .... following some good series ... missing my motor sport but planning for when I can travel again .., still hoping I can get to Vegas in Sept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well today Ive written a pretty logical theory predicting a date for the zombie apocalypse...so it's turned me in to a prophet or I'm losing my mind lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

One day at a time. I'm pretty much use to spending time on my own so not much has changed.

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By *quirt1810Woman
over a year ago

Boston

I struggled to stay at home by myself at the nest of times this is killing me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I feel like I'm turning a corner psychologically. It's taken some work

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm fine here, lots to catch up with around the house.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

No problems here,is there fred. No Kev your doing fine. Fred is my pet ladybird.we have great chats all day. So Im still sane lol.No I ok really honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Just the inconvenience of not being able to go out and do stuff.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

There's a thing whereby a nurse has asked for people to crochet or knit matching hearts, one to go with the deceased and the other is being sent to the nok as they can't be with their loved ones as they die..

I can't do either but Lynn does etc and wondered if anyone isolating or struggling with the lockdown might find this a way of helping to pass the time..?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m practically a recluse anyway so doesn’t bother me. I now have a valid reason not to go anywhere.

But my children are missing their other grandparents due to them self isolating (both over 70 and health issues) and my eldest is missing his friends. We are kept busy with School work and there is always a bit of gardening or tidying to do.

We are very lucky to have a large garden and i’m very thankful for that right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine. But then I'm self employed and work from home anyway, so aside from not having the school run, not much has changed

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm off my trolley.

Off the wagon.

Not off on a holiday.

The future's so bright

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don’t like being cooped up inside, if they said it will be 12 more weeks think the tears would come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So moving to hear the heartache and humour. Distraction (too much Fab ??) and work helps but not seeing family and witnessing the tragedy of others brings tears...wine helps though trying to have no alcohol days...bottom line is it’s shite all round. Luv to all x

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

I still get to go out to work and see my cancer patients and colleagues... So get brief bits of relief but stayed in all weekend. I'm pretty okay on my own and don't have this need to "sunbathe" or picnic in the park unlike some really selfish people. Only what's essential right now.

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By *itonmyfacebookMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"Wie viel Deutsch kannst du verstehen? Ich habe Deutsch in der Schule studiert."

I know verstehen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who lives alone and likes to be alone a lot of the time its not as big an ordeal for me as it is for some.

Not being able to just pop to the shop, garden centre, etc is a bit of a bind but the worse aspect is the unrelenting gloom and doom from the government and media.

I understand why thats so because as soon as hope is given a large minority will just swing straight back into the old routine.

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By *itonmyfacebookMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

S***. And I'm not isolation/lockdown

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Forums has helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not isolation affecting me it’s knowing too much!.

Ex nhs the majority of my friends are medical, my head is a mash today.

I’m scared, I never normally fazed by illness as I in some respect can control it.

But this clearly I can’t.

I’m a key worker, my parents are with me and both under medical advice to self isolate, I’m scared of taking it to work or bringing it home.

Much as I’m protecting myself as much as I can I can’t control others.

I was stupid and watched contagion today too which has made me 100 times worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not isolation affecting me it’s knowing too much!.

Ex nhs the majority of my friends are medical, my head is a mash today.

I’m scared, I never normally fazed by illness as I in some respect can control it.

But this clearly I can’t.

I’m a key worker, my parents are with me and both under medical advice to self isolate, I’m scared of taking it to work or bringing it home.

Much as I’m protecting myself as much as I can I can’t control others.

I was stupid and watched contagion today too which has made me 100 times worse. "

The well known antidote to Contagion is the Lonely Goat Herd from the Sound Of Music.

Really feel for you on the physcologial front of sharing with your parents and all that entails for a frontline worker at the moment.

I would guess they are very proud and are glad to be able to be their for you despite the situation.

Dial up the goat herd, can't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How is it going so far during the lockdown? I am doing fine. I am keeping busy with studying and exercising

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"How is it going so far during the lockdown? I am doing fine. I am keeping busy with studying and exercising

Haven't noticed a great difference to be honest. Shopping is stranger, roads are quieter. Thats about it.

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