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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the best and least painful way to ease into anal sex for a beginner to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend over, and use lube.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I'm considering it too! It's on my bucket list... I love a finger and small toy in there whilst fucking, so thinking next step up X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the best and least painful way to ease into anal sex for a beginner to it?"

I wiuld use your finger first the Try different size bit plugs so you can ease into it. And always use lube. If done right it's fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully he's not girthy. Go super super slow like fucking sloth slow and when he thinks he's at the right speed... Cut that speed in half lol. He has to understand that it won't quite be pleasure you're feeling until ten minutes later. Up to that point you're just trying to figure yourself out. Use more lube than you know what to do with, have a couple of bottles on hand. Seriously, lube and slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try laying on your side with him slowly from behind. The more relaxed the easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the woman you have to RELAX, and dont tighten ass cheeks per entry...dont have to use alot of lube if done right.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reaaaaaalllllyyyyyy Ssssslllooooooowwwww. Think Glacial speed.

Make sure she's totally cleaned out.(duh). You'd think this is obvious but apparently not.

Give her a few orgasms first. A dozen should do it.lol. Get her very relaxed. Lots of foreplay. Hopefully he's not girthy as one poster said. If he is work up to it with toys and plugs.

Communication critical. It's gonna hurt a bit, but she needs to feel in control of how much.

Condoms make it tougher. If she's not lubed enough the condom can grab her skin, making it pinch, and tougher to relax.

When the time is right go as slow as possible. If you slam it home shell never let you touch it again.

There are 3 sphincter muscles in the body. The anal sphincter is the strongest . From what I've read, the inner muscle is voluntary and the outer one is not. So when you (the guy)go to lean in, have her bear down like she's pushing out. It sounds odd, and indelicate, but it opens the voluntary muscles to ease entry.

Good luck. You can never have too much lube

And yes. I am very much love a lady's arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much what people have said above, take it slow, start small and work up to it. And plenty of lube. I loved it with my ex.

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