FabSwingers.com forum: What are some of the things you've learned about since joining this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tribute pic- Today i was asked twice now if someone could do a tribute pic of me...now here I thought I knew many things until one of the sexy lads was so nice to enlighten me lol

I also learned that a guy can actually pee with a hard on lol its fascinating!

People can be bat shit crazy!!!

Some people don't know the concept of too many cock pix

I learned I have been inspired to write more from some of the sexy banter I have

I learned that I'm alot more kinky than I once thought I was

I've learned that the slightest gesture like replying to someone's message can make their day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-I learn more and more every day the importance of having PATIENCE!!! This cannot be rushed!

-I've learned that most women seem to be Bi-curious. (Going by what I see on here)

-I've found out that with me personally, I must have a strong connection and good chemistry with any potential partner

-Looks are somewhat important, but they are NOT everything!

-I think some people only think they want this lifestyle, but when it comes down to it, they actually do NOT.

-You need to be extremely careful in choosing partners for a wide variety of reasons. There are loads of game players out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have learned that a lot of people just want instant gratification.

We have learned that a lot of people can't or won't take the time to learn about potential playmates.

We have learned that we have quite an exhibitionist streak in us.

But the biggest thing we've learned is, this place is like a school playground, you can't take it too seriously. And if you can't find anyone to play with, you can always take your ball and go home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have learned that a lot of people just want instant gratification.

We have learned that a lot of people can't or won't take the time to learn about potential playmates.

We have learned that we have quite an exhibitionist streak in us.

But the biggest thing we've learned is, this place is like a school playground, you can't take it too seriously. And if you can't find anyone to play with, you can always take your ball and go home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've also learned that one persons ignorance can ruin it for others!! And it's not always fair but it happens!

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By *b586Couple
over a year ago

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I was surprised at how many Bi men/ bi couples there are.

Everyone is not here for the same thing.

Discreet = "I'm married " ( attached)

You get out what you put in - want a quality meet? Take the time to use all the available tools of the site ,start with a well written profile.

Keep pictures current. Sexy, fun and flirty. If you have face pics, look like your having fun. Smile guys!

Sometimes we message people who view our profile, wink or send a friend request if we are interested. Part of using the tool available to us.

Traveling to meet new friends is fun. Vacation time!

Many open minded people seem to be very closed minded.

Take a chance - if it's a no nothing lost. If it's a yes it could be great!

Be picky, it's totally worth it. Don't settle.

Part of the fun IS finding a new limit.

Though when people say they want their limits pushed its not always just the sexual ones that come up. Communication is important to keep feelings in check and stay on the same page.

Don't ever feel obligated. If something is not right or you are uncomfortable,it's ok to say no or end the meet.

The Block button is my friend.

Don't say you are 10 yrs younger then your age , we can tell in your pictures.

We have found that the people we met looked exactly like their pictures or way better.

We look at your pictures, then profile ,before we reply. So do most people. So do up your profile. And have great pics!

K&B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how many Bi men/ bi couples there are.

Everyone is not here for the same thing.

Discreet = "I'm married " ( attached)

You get out what you put in - want a quality meet? Take the time to use all the available tools of the site ,start with a well written profile.

Keep pictures current. Sexy, fun and flirty. If you have face pics, look like your having fun. Smile guys!

Sometimes we message people who view our profile, wink or send a friend request if we are interested. Part of using the tool available to us.

Traveling to meet new friends is fun. Vacation time!

Many open minded people seem to be very closed minded.

Take a chance - if it's a no nothing lost. If it's a yes it could be great!

Be picky, it's totally worth it. Don't settle.

Part of the fun IS finding a new limit.

Though when people say they want their limits pushed its not always just the sexual ones that come up. Communication is important to keep feelings in check and stay on the same page.

Don't ever feel obligated. If something is not right or you are uncomfortable,it's ok to say no or end the meet.

The Block button is my friend.

Don't say you are 10 yrs younger then your age , we can tell in your pictures.

We have found that the people we met looked exactly like their pictures or way better.

We look at your pictures, then profile ,before we reply. So do most people. So do up your profile. And have great pics!

K&B"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how many Bi men/ bi couples there are.

Everyone is not here for the same thing.

Discreet = "I'm married " ( attached)

You get out what you put in - want a quality meet? Take the time to use all the available tools of the site ,start with a well written profile.

Keep pictures current. Sexy, fun and flirty. If you have face pics, look like your having fun. Smile guys!

Sometimes we message people who view our profile, wink or send a friend request if we are interested. Part of using the tool available to us.

Traveling to meet new friends is fun. Vacation time!

Many open minded people seem to be very closed minded.

Take a chance - if it's a no nothing lost. If it's a yes it could be great!

Be picky, it's totally worth it. Don't settle.

Part of the fun IS finding a new limit.

Though when people say they want their limits pushed its not always just the sexual ones that come up. Communication is important to keep feelings in check and stay on the same page.

Don't ever feel obligated. If something is not right or you are uncomfortable,it's ok to say no or end the meet.

The Block button is my friend.

Don't say you are 10 yrs younger then your age , we can tell in your pictures.

We have found that the people we met looked exactly like their pictures or way better.

We look at your pictures, then profile ,before we reply. So do most people. So do up your profile. And have great pics!

K&B"

Agree with 99% of what you wrote

It always surprises me how many people ask me where I'm from, or what I'm looking for, what my turn on and turn off are because all of those thing are on our profile!!!!

Most times I will read a profile even before I view pics... Bottom line I always read the profile and I will comment on it in some way in the message letting them know that i have.

if more people did this, getting on well with people would be so much easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Actually agree with 100% lol

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