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By *ornishcouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helston

We get a few messages and i'm interested to hear others opinions on this.. If you are not interested in someone eg they are not your type. What's the best way to let them down.. A quick message saying I'm not interested or just not message them again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We added the words “If no response, please take that as a polite ‘No thank you’” into our profile.

We say the same if we message, or wink, and get no response.

Alternatively, “Many thanks for your interest. However, you are not what we are looking for. Good luck, happy swinging” is what we sometimes send.

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By *ly-FoxMan
over a year ago

mobile

personally, I prefer a "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" and I reply in the same way. if they carry on, then it's a BLOCK.

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By *ornishcouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helston


"personally, I prefer a "thanks but you're not what I'm looking for" and I reply in the same way. if they carry on, then it's a BLOCK. "

Ah that's great actually because I don't want to knock anyone's confidence but at at the end of the day you have to be attracted.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

classic psychology approach / management stuff works well

positive ...negative ..positive

ie thanks for the pm, but sorry not for us, good luck and happy swinging!

aka shit sandwich approach

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By *ornishcouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helston


"classic psychology approach / management stuff works well

positive ...negative ..positive

ie thanks for the pm, but sorry not for us, good luck and happy swinging!

aka shit sandwich approach "

Love it!

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