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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a couple, how did you get into swinging? Who's idea was it? If it was the males idea, how did you convince the wife? Looking for ideas/ways to get the wife to get involved without it seeming like forcing her (which I would never do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started out as single female and met my partner at a club. A friend introduced me to the idea of it initially and then it grew from there.

I can see from your profile that you’ve been here for some months and had some meets. I’m assuming she knows you’re on this, as you’re hoping to include her. That’s a great first step, perhaps let her browse the forums, it might answer some questions she didn’t even know she had or even give her some ideas. If I hadn’t found fab I probably wouldn’t have known where to start.

But as you know, it’s not for everybody and it might never be her thing.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Is the female playmate you may bring along to meets your wife or someone else ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's not for everyone, just wondered how to bring it up to her really, and if couples started together, how the idea came around and who suggested it/how the suggested it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the female playmate you may bring along to meets your wife or someone else ?"
would be someone else, an old fb

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I met my partner at a swingers party so neither of us had to convince the other !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it sounds like she’s ok with an open relationship.

The reason I’m assuming she knows you’re on this site meeting people is that it’s almost impossible to have a healthy swinging relationship without trust and good communication. Or at least in my experience.

Literally just have to start talking about it, might get shut down, might not Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out by daring each to go on a nudist beach abroad. But we've always had that touch of kink from the very early years of our marriage. One thing led to another and we progressed to being voyeuristic (watching or being watched) and then one day we were brave enough to join another couple in their antics. And that was that...... We were hooked lol. Secret is though don't ever push someone...let them decide what and when something happens. Hopefully before long you both will be singing from the same hymn sheet and sharing your fantasies. (Some may happen and some may not ... Just be understanding, compromise at times but just be patient with each and respect each others boundaries.

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