FabSwingers.com forum: Dont get any reply of any sort on here

By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

I mean i know am not 10:10 an 100 inchs big an dont have the girth of a elephant but every person i message deletes it instantly ??????? Im not nasty in the messages an try to be polite an friendly what am i doing wrong have i put something i shouldnt of on my profile i mean im quite genuine an friendly ???????

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

What were your expectations of the site?

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Your user name

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Not sure really was hoping to meet someone for something regular an to get to know a few (females) not sure what i was looking for really just new experiences an a bit of fun an stuff

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Is my username bad i take it ??

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Not really, I think it's hilarious but then someone with the name like topshagdonkeydick I'd delete so some may be put off I guess. I wouldn't change it tho

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Not really, I think it's hilarious but then someone with the name like topshagdonkeydick I'd delete so some may be put off I guess. I wouldn't change it tho

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thank you

love the harley quinn outfit btw

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Thanks. Your profile looks OK to me & good pics but you've only been on here for a week! Things don't happen over night for most of us. It's most likely the ladies you're messaging are just looking for something/someone else & you don't match what they're after. I wouldn't take deleted messages personally, just bear with it & keep on.

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By *ifty_million_sperm_later OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Thanks. Your profile looks OK to me & good pics but you've only been on here for a week! Things don't happen over night for most of us. It's most likely the ladies you're messaging are just looking for something/someone else & you don't match what they're after. I wouldn't take deleted messages personally, just bear with it & keep on.

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appreciate that thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your username would put us off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The name puts me (Vamp) off....hubby, however, says you should have done a play on Tomb Raider...you can probably guess.

Also, from my humble opinion, the pics are not bad, but, some do, to me, look a bit ‘thug/chav’.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally the username and Snapchat filters would put me off, but that's just me. Also you've only been here a week, so give it some time! You've made the effort to write a decent profile so kudos for that.

It's worth going to a club night or a social, get yourself some verifications.

I'd probably suggest not referring to women as 'females' though - we're not plants or animals

Good luck!

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By *rc8840Man
over a year ago

crawley

Yes same here im always polite and never rude but get deleted pretty much each time, its so frushtrating.

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By *eviant7740Man
over a year ago

Mid Devon

Go to some clubs. Gets some verifications.. Then you’ll stand more of a chance.. providing those verifications speak well of you of course..

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

This site isn't the be all and end all. As others have said, go to clubs/socials, get yourself seen and known. And things may happen..

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