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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been here for 9 weeks and still no meet, which i find very comical

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

try reading these guides

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Why exactly is it comical? Only because people are on here, doesn't mean they will just drop their pants for anyone who asks.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Why exactly is it comical? Only because people are on here, doesn't mean they will just drop their pants for anyone who asks."

Exactly so, but some single guys come on here thinking that everyone WILL drop their pants if they ask.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Why exactly is it comical? Only because people are on here, doesn't mean they will just drop their pants for anyone who asks.

Exactly so, but some single guys come on here thinking that everyone WILL drop their pants if they ask."

Well they soon learn differently dont they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a quick shag you want .... go on pof.

Men to women ratio on here is very high.

9 weeks is nothing.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

There's advice on my profile OP, also look at other existing threads on the same subject. Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And do something about that profile and the way you word things.... bit rubbish tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you find it comical?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not gonna lie, I wasn't expecting that at all. Just thought I would have had a meet that's all

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Not gonna lie, I wasn't expecting that at all. Just thought I would have had a meet that's all "

In all honesty, your profile isn't very good and that is what people look at before they meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really, what way can i improve it if oyu don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of links here. Try these.

Unfortunately some come on here expecting to just get a meet as you say. But it takes effort time good photos and a good bio.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree with needing good photos and bio.

I have seen women with zero details or pics verified within an hour of posting for a shag.

Plus men with one line profiles and a couple of 'average' body pics.

If they have an attribute that is desirable E.g. Over 6 foot or hung they will catch the eye.

Getting a foot in the door is hard if you are only an average male.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I know very average males over 50 who are getting meets on a weekly basis, amd they are never short of offers. A guy who is willing to put in effort and is very aware of how to act well in situations often gets much further on here than a guy with a 6 pack a big cock and a shitty, entitled attitude.

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By *ipin CiderMan
over a year ago

Warick & London

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By *ipin CiderMan
over a year ago

Warick & London

Seriously 9 weeks it would probably take us all a lot longer to get a “shag” in a non swinger life.

I’ve been lucky to meet some great people on here and had some amazing times but this isn’t a full time place for me. It’s a place to live out fantasies with likeminded people and that is what I use it as only.

If you want a meet on here put the effort in, simple as that, as single males we are one of many... and we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea for any message reply or wink you will have 100 or 1000 deleted or read and no reply messages. It is that simple.

Interact with people on forums it helps, I write stories as it’s what I enjoy and people will interact with you.... eventually.

Hope it helps OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not gonna lie, i've seen that so. I'm always amazed @ how quick some women get verified in like 5 mins of joining lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks a lot for the advice, much appreciated.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Not gonna lie, i've seen that so. I'm always amazed @ how quick some women get verified in like 5 mins of joining lol "

When people get verified quickly after joining it is often because they have been on fab before so they already know people on here who can verify them.

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By *aturedisgracefully!!Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Thanks a lot for the advice, much appreciated. "

Have you taken any of the advice given yet?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks a lot for the advice, much appreciated.

Have you taken any of the advice given yet?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just do haha, even when i send my pics, people that receive say its fake lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so very much for your advice, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes i have, and looking to put maximum effort ehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ohhh i seee, thanks that makes hella sense. I was comfuzzled haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks a lot for the response, much appreciated. I would take on your advice

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks a lot for the response, much appreciated. I would take on your advice "

Can you use the reply and quote button so we know who you are responding to please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks a lot for the response, much appreciated. I would take on your advice

Can you use the reply and quote button so we know who you are responding to please. "

Ohh i see i'm so sorry, didn't know that's how it worked

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

How are you doing OP? At least you are seeing things with a good sense of humour. Good luck to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a name like Young Bull people are expecting to see a big cock on your profile and not private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try reading these guides

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684"

If someone like to read small prints in insurance contracts he will probably have fun

It goes easier too.

Imagine a few friends making a party and wanting to earn some money by the way, but they are not your friends.

If you go to this party, nobody is interested in you, at best in your money. Nobody talks to you no matter how friendly you are to people.

There is the possibility to give some money to support the party, okay so you pay for it. But the result remains the same, no one is interested in you because it is actually a private party, closed society.

Simple ....

Btw , it could of course happen that someone says hallo ..but thats improbable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are you doing OP? At least you are seeing things with a good sense of humour. Good luck to you x"

Haha exactly, i've got too much going on in mt life to stress over minor things hehe. And its not going too bad thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a name like Young Bull people are expecting to see a big cock on your profile and not private pics."

I didn't think of that, i just thought of a name haha. Thought it had a nice ring to it hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"try reading these guides

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684

If someone like to read small prints in insurance contracts he will probably have fun

It goes easier too.

Imagine a few friends making a party and wanting to earn some money by the way, but they are not your friends.

If you go to this party, nobody is interested in you, at best in your money. Nobody talks to you no matter how friendly you are to people.

There is the possibility to give some money to support the party, okay so you pay for it. But the result remains the same, no one is interested in you because it is actually a private party, closed society.

Simple ....

Btw , it could of course happen that someone says hallo ..but thats improbable"

Wow never thought of it in that light, loads of smart intel there. Thanks a lot, much appreciated

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How are you doing OP? At least you are seeing things with a good sense of humour. Good luck to you x

Haha exactly, i've got too much going on in mt life to stress over minor things hehe. And its not going too bad thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you doing OP? At least you are seeing things with a good sense of humour. Good luck to you x

Haha exactly, i've got too much going on in mt life to stress over minor things hehe. And its not going too bad thanks "

Hmmm not meeting is a great statement, you just here to advice .. I've to let that sink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are you doing OP? At least you are seeing things with a good sense of humour. Good luck to you x

Haha exactly, i've got too much going on in mt life to stress over minor things hehe. And its not going too bad thanks

Hmmm not meeting is a great statement, you just here to advice .. I've to let that sink "

hehe thanks hun x

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